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RomanceRe: This Girl Has Changed by Smilleydr(op): 10:20am On Mar 05, 2025
Love800:
Okay.
Then try spending on her to show you care, if that is the case. Maybe she is looking at you like a stingy human being. That's alright.

The best relationship to have is friends with benefits. No sexual emotional connect. Just real love and helping each other with nothing attach. Both of you will grow amazing but individually without any feelings and emotional problems and still like eachother. You can still do sex, but its just for fun and not for serious hooks!

I nor dey do girlfriend again. Its too complicated and too much money spending!
the thing be say to spend no b problem but nowadays if I spend money for woman I dey feel like say Dem dey see me as Taataa and may be probably you don't love me you just love my money, that s why I just stop to dey spend unnecessary money

Befoer I dey always spend money for woman by gift but at the end one tell me say what av you even done for me, na that time my brain open.
RomanceRe: This Girl Has Changed by Smilleydr(op): 10:03am On Mar 05, 2025
pansophist:
Most likely because your sexual performance was horrible.

But on a sidenote, the relationship has a faulty beginning, so do not expect it to end right.

You said you guys went to lash in a hotel, which presupposes that you do not have your own house. Thats a bad flex from your part. Dont you have a house?

You probably have her strictly for lashing, and she knows that. No girl wants to be booty-call.

Your shield as a man is in self-actualisation. It will make you not worry if anyone, be it a man or a woman walk out of your life, because you know you have something to offer.

You know that it is their loss, and you are operating from a position of strength, not weakness. You will know that your kind is hard to find, and if they did not realise it now, they will realise it later.

Your worry stem from a place of weakness, lack, and neediness.

Work on that first, and you will notice that the case will most likely reverse. It will be women who are worried you aint responding, not you
I don't even unstd all your Grammer here, but I know you are makin sense

Thank you!!!
RomanceRe: This Girl Has Changed by Smilleydr(op): 9:59am On Mar 05, 2025
Love800:
I don't mean to insult you. Sorry for dat. What am trying to say is that you just allowed her in your life too sudden and in a non-dignify way. Forget about all these things they say about girls, concerning money. Try to bring out the best in her. Improve her. Not just with money but in the wisdom you have when talking with her, your message you pass across, your productive style of living. Let her see that you love her beyond sex.
That is what i mean by no emotional connect and being a nuisance to her, instead of value!

Thanks so much.
Goodmorning!
am also sorry I withdraw my words, the fact s that we av being talking verywell av we also talk about life be we didn't stay the same place

I just come around to do something, and I need inviting her, not me using money to etiles her, where s the money self, beside I didn't really spend like that, my observation to her changing to me self, s may be I didn't spend to her expectation.
Music/RadioRe: 'I Have No Regrets!' – Kenyan Lady Praises Burna Boy After Electrifying Concert by Smilleydr(m): 7:53am On Mar 05, 2025
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool Burna boy stage performance no be here o !!!


U see Burna boy, Rema, D banj. if those people perform for u ehh.

Anyways na today I no say malaria fit make preek no stand.

I have been sick since yesterday but I manage JAZZ in ASHAWO house this morning by 5am.

Time don reach to NACK. Naso my PREEK flat like Hausa plate.


Nothing way this girl no do to make my PREEK stand attention but too no avail. PREEK no gree respect em self. Kai

LITE UP my WEED in peace

WTF MAN!
una dey try shaa 5am in the morning, una no get work, una no dey think haba sex sex sex
RomanceRe: This Is The Best Kept Secret For Men Only. by Smilleydr(m): 7:48am On Mar 05, 2025
nonny1212:
You can never go wrong with Original Samsu Oil. Always the best. 0816..427...2477
nooo thank you brother, I don't need your oil, am very strong and agile to perform my duty post,

Most of those guys wey no dey perform well na masturbation won wound them, I don be in that position befoer, we b say masturbation won wound me if I see pussy like this after one round I no go fit go again

But now I thank God am save.
RomanceRe: What Is That One Thing That Made You Realize You Can't Settle With Her by Smilleydr(m): 7:46am On Mar 05, 2025
Lousy and too much of posting on social media

Some of those girls never see morning food chop, but they will look for a video where a guy take Dem out and still post it.
RomanceRe: This Is The Best Kept Secret For Men Only. by Smilleydr(m): 7:31am On Mar 05, 2025
nonny1212:
Pls say what you know. Samsu oil cured my PE. Thats why i decided to help by being a distributor. It is the best out there. It works like magic.

Maybe you are one of those that took drugs for PE and it ruined you. Dont come here and preach false gosple if you know nothing about samsu.
I think the oil will be more okay than takin a substance in your body
RomanceRe: This Girl Has Changed by Smilleydr(op): 7:21am On Mar 05, 2025
Love800:
You are a nuisance to her. No emotional connect!
Oni je eyan, Omo adanu, Omo irole aye, na your papa be nuisance.
RomanceRe: It's Barely A Week And This Is Happening.. by Smilleydr(m): 4:55am On Mar 05, 2025
Make una help me ooo, everylady I av sex with are already disvirgin, abeg who dey disvirgin them

Does it mean we no get virgin for this life again
RomanceRe: Gf Too Tight by Smilleydr(m): 4:33am On Mar 05, 2025
Suicideboy:
every time we try to have séx it doesnt go in. i tried with just my finger and one finger was tight, two fingers was incredibly painful for her.
is there anything that can be done? we want to have kids some day but this is going to be extremely difficult
try romance her verywell, let her get wet or better still use condom for her, may be she get dry pussy.
FamilyRe: How Do I Divorce And Get My Kids Back by Smilleydr(m): 4:30am On Mar 05, 2025
NaijaCowFarm:
Serve her divorce papers and stop using your friend to cover your face. Nobody knows you on NL.
oh oh I tired oooo
RomanceThis Girl Has Changed by Smilleydr(op): 10:23pm On Mar 04, 2025
There s this girl we have been charting calling since last three month now

We finally met last weekend and I took her out order for what she like, after we went to a hotel and we lash like twice and she told me she s tired because I still want to go once more

My surprised s since that day we depart, although we still talk on phone but I can see some changes, this girl doesn't call me nor chart me like befier I don't know what happened.
RomanceRe: Have You Ever Had An Great Regret In Life For Having Pre-marital Sex? by Smilleydr(m): 5:08pm On Mar 04, 2025
scoory:
Thank goodness for prostitution.
I can't imagine a world where I have to be a serious boyfriend to get laid, talk less of getting married.

Na frustration go kill anybody wey dey shame for me.
AMEN!!!
PhonesRe: Shine With Destiny Etiko: Pay Your Bills With Ease by Smilleydr(m): 11:33am On Mar 04, 2025
PARADIZEPRIEST:
Thought you are giving ppl loans to lighten the payment of their bill? huh Moniepoint is paying my bills anyway on flex areanfement grin cheesy
trow more light
RomanceRe: Giving Life Another Chance by Smilleydr(m): 2:41am On Mar 04, 2025
Hi me on WhatsApp 09039231211
I also need a female friend
PoliticsRe: Is Tinubu Nigeria's Lee Kuan Yew? Prices Are Falling! The Economy Is Rising! by Smilleydr(m): 2:25am On Mar 04, 2025
Catapault:
Mr Man go to market and price stuff.....you will easily see the downward trend in prices.

Who do you expect to be writing list for you?

Rubbish!
mumu dey smell

Una no even dey shame atall to come here and be ranting nonsense

How much una meet the fuel price and how much s it today

Even the price of food which of the food price decrease

Awon oloribu, ikuloma pa gbo gbon yin
RomanceRe: What Kind Of Lie Can Produce Such Facial Reaction? by Smilleydr(m): 7:57pm On Mar 03, 2025
AbujaLagos:
aye oooo
lobatan
PoliticsRe: Throwback: See The World-class Bridge Dino Melaye Built For Kogi West People by Smilleydr(m): 2:24pm On Mar 03, 2025
Na Temu bridge be that
RomanceRe: I Am Stucked In A Love Triangle And Not Sure About The Right Girl To Marry! by Smilleydr(m): 7:48pm On Mar 02, 2025
You never even finish master you don dey spark like this


Okayyyyyhhhhhhh
RomanceRe: Why Wealthy/average Couples Sleep In Separate Rooms by Smilleydr(m): 8:47am On Mar 01, 2025
Samantha what do you think
RomanceRe: Who Else Has Been Feeling This Way Lately ?? by Smilleydr(m): 8:38am On Mar 01, 2025
MikeofKd:
In all Honesty,I'm not depressed or sad. I'm just tired of living around humans , like I'm tired of everything, nothing , I literally mean nothing excites me anymore these days.

Money doesn't , women doesn't , playing video games doesn't , playing sports doesn't , talking with family doesn't etc

I've realized has humans we just keep wanting more , it never really ends , we feel if we achieve something it's going to make us happy and then we achieve only to start wanting something else almost immediately lol.

I can very much remember when I wanted to graduate from school badly, I would dream and think about it and smile , few weeks after I graduated the feelings of being a graduate went south and I started wanting something else. Immediately I got that something else too , the feelings went south again.

worse case scenarios is that after the feelings go south it comes with that empty feeling, like you haven't even done something worth while.

I wish I could get a break from reality. Possibly live in a forest far away from humans for like a year with no internet , no human contact , grow my own food , good books , enough old Scotch or whiskey and extreme peace of mind.

For guys that feel the same way , what is that wish you feel may give you a good break from reality ?
nice question, I av once feel that befoer, but what help me s when I went for vacation, you can also do that, try and leave your environment for sometimes may be you are tired of the environment,


Try and go far stay like two month and when you come back you will feel relieved.
RomanceRe: What's The Ideal Age To Get Married In Today's World �? by Smilleydr(m): 6:49pm On Feb 28, 2025
Michelle70:
the 25-30 never even see job. grin grin
. You unstd
RomanceRe: What's The Ideal Age To Get Married In Today's World �? by Smilleydr(m): 2:48pm On Feb 28, 2025
Samantha125:
31 to 35
Samantha
I thought s 25 to 30 I. SA
RomanceRe: Hello Everyone Please I Need A Serious Relationship I Reside In Abuja by Smilleydr(m): 9:28am On Feb 27, 2025
Bendeco02:
Serious people are hardly met online

Just be approaching ladies you meet at your work place and some public places

Many girls need serious relationship as well

I noticed one thing in this Abuja sha. Most girls in their late 20's need something serious unlike when i was in Owerri.

Women need serious relationship more than men. I know howmany girls that have told me that once i start having intimacy with them that am not leaving. Some even seek for marriage, but when you see them in public with their shakara you will think that men are the one begging them grin
I swear bro most of those fine girls wey you see self no get boy friend, most of them av high taste and they can't get it, most of those fine girls wey go carry big phone for hand wey you go dey fear to talk to them self no get level,
I just confirmed one recently then thing come even shock me.
RomanceRe: The One Who Laughs Last by Smilleydr(m): 8:52am On Feb 27, 2025
Una go just dey write long story, must you write plenty things like this befoer I unstd what you are saying
RomanceRe: Men Are B*stards, Women Are Heartless by Smilleydr(m): 8:45am On Feb 27, 2025
iLegendd:
The more irresponsible you are, but financially smart, buoyant and unknown, the more you'll enjoy life.

Responsible men are currently frustrated with family and extended family responsibilities and when these responsibilities kill them, these family members will still say, "What did he achieve with his money?" I just notice that if you want to be responsible in this life na small. E go remain make you die, what am I even say bro you fit die along the way self and life still continue, nobody send you ooo, no go do pass your self.

So, if you're looking for responsible men, go to another social media platform, Darling.
CareerRe: Is 80k In Naira A Good Salary? by Smilleydr(m): 6:48pm On Feb 24, 2025
jericco1:
It depends bro

Like most people have painted the state you stay.

80k monthly for 12 months won’t even pay my rent.

It’s not easy whether you’re earning 80k or 800k
nawaoo 980k won't pay you rent, Omo which head we come carry come this life bayi, na 200k be my own rent wey dey give me sleepless night wey I dey reason say hope no be say I don dey live large pass my self now at age 32 faaaa,

Make una try dey show us way for this app now abeg
CareerRe: Is 80k In Naira A Good Salary? by Smilleydr(m): 6:42pm On Feb 24, 2025
Emma09:
I have a side hustle already. I have a korope bus that gives me daily income before Salary comes in. My wife has a shop that i rented for her Last Year. She's a tailor doing well for herself. My bus gives me at least between 13 and 15k daily. I do daily Ajo from the korope.
oga your own don better now
CareerRe: Is 80k In Naira A Good Salary? by Smilleydr(m): 6:34pm On Feb 24, 2025
Hisroyalbadmeat:
80k wey we dey take drink beer 🍺 for one sitting,guy do business, Wata Bam Bam undecided
pls which business can someone do to make good profit, pls I don't mind if we can talk privately
CareerRe: Is 80k In Naira A Good Salary? by Smilleydr(m): 6:32pm On Feb 24, 2025
temitope27:
I earn that in a week
how pls carry us along, show us way
RomanceRe: My Wife Doesn’t Kiss Because Of Phobia About Bacteria Exchange, No Mouth Odour by Smilleydr(m): 5:23pm On Feb 24, 2025
Odingo1:
Sex is always done under cover of darkness, if I on blue light, she will say off it. If I initiate sex in afternoon she will decline it or find excuse. I have hardly seen how her kpekus look like.
baba try by all miss check that kpekus make e no be say na duck kpekus Dem dey give you Bleep

I once av that experience when I carry one girl come house, this girl rub things for face come fine Weller, na where I go hustle for work I jam am, I come reason am as I dey find work make I find other things join am make I no loose two things at once

Omo nasoo I try invite this chick come my house ooo, I sha try entertain her make her feel relax, tell her make she go shawa, she said okay, I carry bucket put water for her for bathroom, she bath finish, come enter room say make I give her towel I carry towell give her she said make I off light, I said off light kwa waitin happen now

She said nothing say make I just off light, nasoo I off light ooo, nasoo both off us naked sleep untop bed, befoer you know nasoo we naked ooo like twice, later we sha kiss sleep off, I no know waiting wakee up for night wey I won go pee, I just try light my power bank for babe kpekus, and she dey sleep that time,


Omo waiting I see my mouth no fit talk am funniest part second round I no use condom,
My mind spoil,my head crack I say Omo see waiting I dey Bleep,

I just pee finish come lie down back, she wakeup second dey won try to dey touch me make we still do, I no even answer am I just try pack her bag jeje give her transport make she dey go her house, immediately she left I just blocked her straight up,

Omo make guys dey check waiting Dem dey Bleep oooo, most expecially those ones wey dey say off the lights.

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