bankool:
I'm searching for a flatmate, kindly contact me if you're interested in sharing a 2 bedroom flat in Cork.
A recommendation to join someone that has already secured a place would also be very appreciated.

I am in Cork too. I am searching for accommodation . I don’t mind being your house mate

Expressbooking, please how do I pay? I am still in Nigeria but will be arriving Ireland on the 18th. I tired to authorize payment with my naira card with sufficient equivalent deposit in euro but it’s not going through. What can I do?

ExpressBooking:


Hostingpower.ie will only authorise your credit card for that amount. They will only debit you for that amount when the owner of the apartment accepts your booking. Then you pay one week rent and another week rent as deposit to the owner of the apartment. The amount hostingpower.ie charges you is their commission and it varies depending on length of your tenancy. They only charge that money when your booking has been accepted by the host

Christthesaviour:
be ye perfect even as your heavenly father is perfect.i will modify my reply tomorrow thanks.

Ode. Perfection is not a one day thing. It is a process. Many of us Christians still have flaws and faults especially those that were in the world before they converted.

Giving your life to Christ does not automatically make perfection fall on u but the grace of God, guidance of the holy Spirit, and walking with God by learning to listen/study his word, we behold his perfectness and become.

The Bible says 'walk with me and be thou perfect.' its a walk..a walk is continuous.. as we continue to walk with God, we become perfect. So yes, a Christian might still find himself having some flaws and his old nature wants to keep coming up, the Bible says there's no condemnation to those who are in Christ as long as you keep going to your father to tell him about the flaws and how u are sorry for going back to it, it is well with you. Because when u do that, u realize that's it's not by your power but by His grace only and the guilty conscience that the devil trys to bestow on u leaves.

I don't want to argue with anyone. Don't just come here to yarn rubbish.
Know God for yourself and leave Christians alone.

If you can't preach the gospel, drink soak away water instead of giving this post.

Righteousness89:


Good post bro!

I don't understand why u copied me.

All the same we GIVE GOD THE GLORY

Instead of wasting your energy in nairaland to preach to people that only end up arguing with you, why don't u take your 'fire' for God to do morning cry or preach in prisons where u can convert many to Christ. How many souls have u won on nairaland? Don't be dumb. U are doing all this to clear your conscience. Go to the field where the harvest is ripe. No one will take u serious here. To me, u are a joker

Christthesaviour:
christians don't revenge offences,
christians don't abuse government.
christians don't troll celebs on social media
christians don't fight
christians don't insult each other or other people anywhere.
christians don't commit any evil at all.
We follow christ our redeemer footstep.
we are united and we love each other because our master has taught us to love.
We are doing all these to prepare ourselves for our glorious home going we are successful here and in the world to come.
it is not in this world we have the hope of salvation,if it is,then we are of all men most miserable.
I you don't bare the mark of christ in you are not born again and you are just a church attendant.
please if you are in that category of fake christian,pls don't do bold face o! humble yourself,confess and forsake ur sins o! God will surely hear you.
Cc RIGHTEOUSNESS89

You are only a self righteous Christian and your self righteousness is like filthy rags to God.
Your goodness is not a yard stick for being a genuine Christian plis. Study your Bible, know God for yourself before u come here an lead many astray.

Let him that thinks he stands take heed lest he falls.

I am sure u have some secret sins and flaws n u are here giving us criteria to be genuine Christians. This post alone shows u need help. I hope u repent from ur blindness. Because u are to FarToSee hence u behave like the PhaRiSees

Scaredd:
I'm dating a deeper life girl, and we haven't had sex since I started dating her last year September.

It's a long distance relationship though, when I visit her and make any move for sex, she ends up saying she's doesn't want to have sex. But she can kiss for Africa which I don't fancy that much.

In one occasion, I took her to the guest room in a hotel, we kissed, she was turned on and started begging me to hold her nipples. I was like "finally!".

I told her oya let's get a room, but to my greatest surprise, she said No. That she doesn't want to have sex now, that it's been long she had sex and if she goes to the room with me she won't be able to resist sex.

Anyway, I let her be because sex should be mutual afterall. I love her and she's not the "give me money" type, rather, I send her monthly stipend at my will. Moreover, sex is not why I travel all the way to see her or still dating her.

I just hope am not being played like someone pointed out in the other thread.

U re not being played. She is only being cautious. Girls like her might not be able to control their sexual urges once they start. She is celibate and that is an achievement for her. Since u both are in a long relationship, once u activate her sex life, she won't be able to stop and u won't be there to keep satisfying her. Be wise.

Don't activate what u won't be available to maintain or else another man will take her from u. I do not encourage sex before marriage. Discuss ur values with her.

Since she is a good kisser, she should be good on bed so there is no point saying u want to test if u both are sexually compatible before marriage. Except u are not heading for marriage with he and u just wanna chop and clean mouth.

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traihit:
Letting go is a skill anyone going into relationship must imbibe. We deal with humans and we don't have any control over their minds, even if we do, we won't really enjoy that. What they saw in you that made you desirable to them may be seen in another with a better version, only marriage used to be an insurance against that and even marriage itself is plagued with challenges.
Dear op, you'll overcome this. Just try and be strong and hold on to your lesson. Love and commitment must always go hand-in-hand with the ability to let go. Don't turn against men because you don't know the one that'll be ready to give you his head if you asked for it. But understand that you can't control people's minds but you can control yours.

As for your lover, don't be the one to call it quit because of the reason he gave. You can try by giving him space but the steps to be taken will reveal themselves to you in time.

Thank u for this advice

DCmonster:
Depression is gradually catching up on your fat ass, seek for help ASAP before it's too late. You need a SHRINK, not NAIRALANDERS.

I am not getting depressed, thank you.

yomi007k:


What if he is having issues at work? The economic situation is not friendly as most businesses have been affected. Even educational institutions have halted , dreams have been cut short.

We need to be empathetic sometimes.

At least talk to me. At least tell me 'babe, I need some space.'

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traihit:
Letting go is a skill anyone going into relationship must imbibe. We deal with humans and we don't have any control over their minds, even if we do, we won't really enjoy that. What they saw in you that made you desirable to them may be seen in another with a better version, only marriage used to be an insurance against that and even marriage itself is plagued with challenges.
Dear op, you'll overcome this. Just try and be strong and hold on to your lesson. Love and commitment must always go hand-in-hand with the ability to let go. Don't turn against men because you don't know the one that'll be ready to give you his head if you asked for it. But understand that you can't control people's minds but you can control yours.

As for your lover, don't be the one to call it quit because of the reason he gave. You can try by giving him space but the steps to be taken will reveal themselves to you in time.

Okay. ��

MOnkeyBabe:
I wonder o. They say they aren't as emotional as women +ego. I take am as I see am o. Just PRayinG to God to make things anew BeCause I know my feelings are Genuine. This is After becoming BORnAGain. I'm not a ReliGious BiGOt though. Let me explain it as being or becoming a more loving PeRSOn.
When you Really love someone, it's CRaZy. You Don't mind the one way communication and Can't help it. Want to get mad at them but the holy sPiRit corRRrects you. It stands the test of time. You Do not want to Be with any other man no matter how pooR they may be. God Shows you a lot of things about them. Feel you have been with them before etc.
Don't mind my typing jaRe. Just havnfun

Lovely

XhosaNostra:
Most guys are like that. Some do it to try make you chase them- playing games. It's predictable & boring, tbh. Too draining. Just cut him loose if he's not on the same page with you as far as communication is concerned. It'll save you a whole lot of stress.

Thanks a lot

MOnkeyBabe:
we are GOing through the Same thing, lOve.
Stay STRONG

Why do men behave like that?

Hello nairalanders

I struggle to type this. Recently I do not know what went wrong in the relationship with my lover. All of a sudden, he stopped replying my texts frequently. He Stopped giving me long replies and hardly messages me unlike before. I tried to ignore it because I felt he was passing through something he does not want to share with me. I know it might sound awkward. He hardly tells me what is bothering him. Yet I asked him what was wrong but he did not tell. This makes me sick and sometimes I feel useless in his life. Maybe I should move on. I can not continue like this anymore. These days I am unproductive. I need someone to talk to. I am tired of being shadowed and ignored. I can stay without a man in my life but I really want a friend to pour my heart to. Someone that shares talks with me and vice versa. I do not want a sexual relationship either. Does anybody get me?