johnson232:

what david did was extreme... he killed another man so he could take his wife...

that is not what the op is talking about, cheating without taking any soul is permitted by nature for men.

a man can cheat as along as he doesn't kill....

really?

Fortius:
mumi sugah no go gree o
Amhappy,God is awesome..so happy for u madam.
limsycutey,mumi smokeydrinky,princessKF..hw r u mamas doin na

I'm good dear. hope u are too?

Op, you know there was a time I lost interest just like your wife too.... I didn't give him two weeks ultimatum sha but mine was worse. I was simply not interested. that means no bedmatics In the forseeable future

I was still in love with my husband nd sexually attracted to him. I wasn't committing adultery nor was there any man trying to lure me at the time. I was simply stressed!!!! work, chores, kids, school, problems. my time wasn't mine. I wanted to in my mind but my body kept betraying me, getting exhausted and falling asleep at the wrong time. I tought husband would make it an issue but to my surprise he didn't.

He ensured I got a help, he tried to clean up after himself, he played with the kids more and I got free time to gist with him.... We watched movies even managed a date, he asked about the issue eating me up, and on a particular day he painstakingly massaged me but got nothing in return. I mean I was turned on but slept off before the massage ended..... anyway, I advised myself, saw his effort and control plus konji was dealing with me so I had to initiate it. I took paracetamol to control the body ache and used my last strength to initiate it before sleep could strike again. He took over ofcz and gave more than he received and for some time after that I kept initiating before things got back to normal.

These things happen. Get to the root of the issue and ur seex life will be back on track. don't take d 2 days timetable anyway just ignore the offer and work on you and her. be the bigger partner.

cherry mum nwanne, ejiro nmgbagbu aghara ogu. love is still a beautiful tin.

Fortius:
mam smokeydrinky..u made a very sound statement bt there s a particular one am gonna address which is abt mentionin d moniker's name,we all knw it wont change anytin but u cant just kip attackin sumone if u aint ready to bear d brunt,fine aproko alwz dey wiareva women gada bt apart frm d erujeje behind d scenes dat likes wahala post,since i joined dis forum,av seen serious cases dat av been handled wt wisdom,av seen tears dat av bn wiped off faces,av seen issues dat mamas here Av addressed wisely nd i respect us all for dat,so u cant rule it out dat na only aproko wt little wisdom we get here,its insulting nt all of us bring issues here nd mamas here av bn helpful to our homes,we are sisters here nd we treat issues wt enuf wisdom dat we can give nd i still insist dat if she cant mention d moniker,y bring d mata here?we cant even differiate d truth frm d lie,May d LORD bless and keep our homes#Peace.

my sister you have spoken well. there are cases where nairaland stepped up and did justice though I doubt any had similar fact with the case in issue. the only reason why I'm not clamoring for her to drop the name is coz she might still want to fight for the dh who may not want the show to be made public. aside that, I really really want her to mention that mamas name here let's do justice to the issue. Apologies to you and other mamas who may have felt slighted by my comment. It wasn't meant to be belittling. I'm sorry.

convenant babies, I purge from conception til delivery. its a pregnancy symptom for me. If it's not for you, you might want to go to hospital and see a Dr concerning that. I know that I did back then and he only told me to take ors and remain well hydrated. I don't know how safe purge medications are in pregnancy. I know flagyl is an antibiotics and was infact prescribed for me wen I was preggy but plz, check with your Dr first.

so many mini skirted demons des days.... and so many diick thinking men. nah wa o.

mamas make una no vex that it's this matter that is bringing me out after a long while.

iyabetajos and all mamas dat have put to birth, congratulations and kisses to your los.

waddling mamas, you all shall waddle to victory in Jesus name.

Awaiting mamas, this year shall not pass you by in Jesus name.
I may not comment often but be sure you all are in my prayers.

Hi to all my friends and acquaintances within and beyond nairaland. how's you all doing?
And to all my friends waiting to be made, I can't wait to get to know you all.
My able seniors, I salute. my juniors, I hail....
Repping 03/14 and 10/ 15 til infinity...... my team mates before before, how many of una Don carry again?

Finally coldharmattan nairaland can't help you fight this battle. We may gang up against snatcher woman but that won't bring peace to your home. take it to God!!!! fight for your man. have you seen the movie war room? you should. seek counsel of elders and make a decision.

you don't have to name whoever ( eventhough I ll be honest and say I'm dying to know the madam that is borrowing another's husband but I must admit that that's not a solution ). you don't have to do this in public Coz our interests here is aproko and a little wisdom maybe.

I pray God gives u strength to face squarely wats coming and I pray u win too.

swearest, babe wake up o. read wat u wrote again. I guess u r married right? It's women like u that encourage men to cheat, I'm sorry to say. your advice to cold harmattan can be summed up as doing more if she has been doing little, doing extra more if she has been doing enough. pray tell, how does that help? you are simply trying to say that men get to make up excuses and just cheat!!!!!

How many women has gone to other men coz their husbands keep late nights, don't provide enough etc? marriage is a partnership. isn't the husband suppose to help his wife overcome her weaknesses? same as the wife? ..... anyway , ignore me plz. lemme attend to better matter.

Mr husband dat impregnated another woman, I know I don't know the whole stories but lemme just tell u this, if coldharmattan ever decides to stop fighting for her marriage, I hope she strips you to the last pin, for all that you are worth. you deserve to start afresh with your baby mama and test her love and loyalty.

madam baby mama forming funky, if you intentionally hooked a married man, even if u didn't do so intentionally but found out along the way before getting pregnant, you are still at fault even if it's after getting pregnant, you still can't be exonerated. For sticking to him till this point and forming Don jazzy for a woman u have caused so many sleepless nights, I hope you know wats coming to you. You can't hide. u ll reap war u sow and you may get the man with all his baggages and you ll regret it. It won't be a happy ever after for u one way or the other and I sincerely hope it won't be. yes I said it

Any woman that tries to take another woman's husband intentionally without Consent of first wife and gloating about it deserves all the misery coming her way, more than she can handle.

voltrons, defenders of the universe, I won't be replying uall

coldharmattan, if u r legit u ll pull tru one way or the other, you ll survive. I pray for happier days for you.

tchiwinnie:
Thank u ma'am. I don call u out. whr hv u bn?

my dear, I have been busy with school exams and I have been a bit ill too.

How u doing?

tchiwinnie:
Unripe one? Wot I know they say is pineapple o. Oya ma'am smokeydrinky(I hope I spelt ur moniker well) come and clarify. Na u start this pineapple business. Is it ripe abi unripe pineapple?

I don't know of unripe o. Wat I know of is this queen pineapple. u know the big ones not contonu pineapple o.... and yes the active ingredients is concentrated in the core..

byvan03:
Babe I have been struggling to remember the exact day. I will wish you happy birthday today, won't like to be late. May you continue to grow in wisdom and virtue.

byvan, edwife's was on the 10th

Fvine:
ok. What do you mean by "warm" being everywhere in Lagos?

sorry , typo. I meant the local cheese u wrote about.

Congrats to the new mums, welcome to the preggies. iyabetajos congrats dear. kisses to Andrea. God nus really awesome

Fvine:

My meals today is 6 Eggs, 2 Tablespoon Coconut Oil taken by the spoonful, 4 Tablespoon (60g) of Butter, used some to fry the eggs while I licked the rest. Took a Cup of Black Coffee at work, a Bottle of Diet Pepsi and N100 worth of fried Wara (Local Yoruba Cheese)

Yesterday was BPC, Fried Eggs, N100 Fried Wara, 2 Diet Pepsi. I was out all day and visited people hence the 2 Diet Pepsi but I couldn't eat the 6 min eggs because I took only 4 eggs out and got home too late and tired to prepare anything so I just took the 2nd Pepsi with the N100 Wara. 3 Tabs Orbit Sugar Free gum

1st day was BPC, 2 fried eggs and 4 eggs baked into an Oopsie Bread. I didn't really enjoy the sweet oopsie bread, I felt it would've been better with pepper. So if I ever Bake one again, I'll add dried ground pepper. I also took 1 tab of Orbit Sugar Free Gum.

Previous Egg Fast I've done, I make Egg Salad by Mashing and Mixing Boiled Eggs with Mayonnaise. I also make Fake Egg Pancake by Mixing Eggs with Butter, Cinnamon, Artificial Sweetener before frying. I also sometimes eat boiled egg and drink the cocnut oil or just lick butter. But right now all of them nohungry me. I go with my appetite. For now Fried eggs is all I can stomach plus BPC and that's what am eating. Fried egg is also very quick and easy for me.

NB: I use artificial sweetener as sugar, Cinnamon as bread and Pancake Flavour, I also used Mayonnaise as my fat in the Oopsie bread, I also use small seasoning powder with salt to bring it the taste for frying eggs. I chew Sugar free gum as the spirit leads. Hope this helps.

You can also try the General Motors Diet. It seems to have the same weight loss rate with the Egg Fast for me. If I get tired of the Egg Fast before reaching my goal, I will fall on it to help.

wow nice. I presume warm can be found anywhere in lagos?
I ll read up the general motors diet plz. This egg fast is quite effective but making do with fried and boiled eggs is scary to me I ll do it. 3 days at a time and see ... .

Thanks for sharing

Good work fvine. Wats ur normal egg meal lyk? I ve been deferin starting the egg fast. wanted details from a Nigerian living in Nigeria.

ruky my dear, I'm so so sorry for this loss. I don't know Wat to say, I'm short of words. Plz take heart, God will give you double for this trouble, loss ll never near ur abode again. may God himself console u.

Plz dear, take heart. Plz be strong.

Onegai:
Used my bamboo steamer

Steamed Croaker fish with ginger and green onions, served with rice and Chinese sweet and sour veggie sauce.

plz can you give me the recipe and procedure for ur Chinese sweet and sour? thanks

Fvine:
My Fish Cakes and Fritata. Very easy and fast.

cc smokydrinky

wow!! u actually did it.i sure ll try it out. u have gingered me

mizquote, I see you we are patiently waiting for u.
nice one op. funny

Fvine:

Thought this would help you. Culled from the Ketochef Facebook page. Maybe you can join up yourself. Carb restriction is 20g per day and the Carbs should be from Veggies only.

wow. Thanks dear. Dis is some work mehn but I'm willing to.

cococandy:
Pls fvck off.

you weren't so nice initially. no need for the insult.

cococandy:
So why is she super tight about her account details? I asked to PM and she ignored.

Whatever sha. they no dey force person to donate to am.I don't do PayPal. Just to simply send someone in naija to pay small something into her account.
Guess I've to unfollow the thread at this point.
Useless bantering had set in.

probably because u weren't so nice initially.

yes people, I know scammers abound but plz can we treat anyone soliciting as genuine until proven otherwise. just write kind things and wait for the verification before helping if you are led to.

God curse poverty sha. its only extreme need that will make ple resort to begging nlders with their very foul mouths. If you have acid tongue, reserve it for proven scammers. don't you lash out at innocent ple who may be emotionally unstable at the time.

Thanks fvine. morning everyone.

Thanks fvine. morning everyone.

fvine dearie plz can you throw more light on this low carb diet. Plz. tnx

ozycy:

Welcome, you and 1 have same target, at least 10kg for me.
I haven't started anything yet, am still taking my time cos whenever I start exercising and dieting, I get so addicted to it that it becomes my lifestyle until the day I get anoda bfp. But as I don hang boot na, make I wait small before starting.

wow. I wish I had such addiction. its a constant struggle for me especially exercising. Once I stop exclusive I ll try this egg fast.

chinwendym, my dear how's ekene? don't worry, we ll get there.

I'm here now!!!! ozcy, chinwendum etc plz welcome me. lemme read back. I need to shed atleast 10 kg. so help me God

didn't lose weight after delivery. my excuse: stress hunger pangs, low blood sugar dat I decided to cure by drinking coke. as at today, I ve said no to coke, so hel0 me God

wow....Wats dis egg fast all about? lemme quickly read. I always tought eggs make one fat. mamas, plz can d egg be fried or must it be cooked only?

Kai my husband is lucky o . 2 babies and no drama atall while pregnant. I remember praying to experience cravings and moodswing but for where? I cook and eat anything at home.

baby no 3 plz make mummy send daddy out at night to get asun, plzzzzzz.