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WAT !!!. Is this how people die RIP vivianc

HisRib: Hi There,

Getting over someone you really loved can be difficult. The first thing you need to do is forgive her. You're not doing this for her, you are doing this for yourself. You have every right to be angry or hate her, but you need to let the anger and hatred go.

Don't spend too much time alone. This is a good time to hang out with family and friends. If you spend too much time alone, you will give yourself lots of time to think about her. Stay occupied.

Go on a few dates. If you have any female friends, go on friendly dates. Have a good time.

Pick up a hobby and keep yourself busy.

PLEASE do not call, text or go see her. Remove her from your life completely. Remind yourself that you are a good man and will find the right woman soon. Don't accept self-pity and don't bring yourself down.

Focus on being the best man you can be. And the day she will run into, she will regret letting you go.

Thanks ma'am. The last thing i want to do is to call her (eventhough i'v been tempted to do so several times). I'v tried and will still try and forgive her cos i know she is not feeling the pains i'm feeling here....so i need to start making myself happy again. I guess it was a lesson worth learning.
Thanks very much ma'am. Have a blissful day ahead

mohaolajide: Hello there,
I have this ex i can't just get over and seriously i don't know why am finding it so hard,i know she's dating someone now but the feelings are still there,she was the first girl i truly fell in love with but she didn't feel the same.we had dated for 7 months before our break up and honestly it was torture all through she was into it for like two months and after that she just become incredibly cold and nasty.i would always show her i cared for her but it meant nothing to her,she always made me feel there were better guys out there will do better than i did.to be honest i know she loved me at some point but it all of a sudden just disappeared.. what do i do cos i rily love her

Hi, HisRib, my story is exactly the same as this, i'v tried every possible means to forget abt her (lyk blocking evry means of communication, deleting her pics on my fone) but its not yielding anytin, i cant stop d memories frm coming back. She broke my heart when i least expected, she was my bestfriend and i gave up everytin for her only to dump me. Pls is there anytin i can do to just kill off the memories. The more i hate her, the more i want her. I'm confused, pls help me

Abeg make dis man pay d corper's state allowance nah,

I'v actually begged before but i later realised u cant force people to stay in ur life, its better to let them go.....Begging is just an act of cowardice.

Justcul: its still open.. u can apply

lolz....why evils??

snadguy007@gmail.com. thanks man

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THAT I LOVE U GUYs ...."

@op, ur craze na grade A. Keep it up joor

Alumni, parents and
other education
stakeholders in Osun
State have begun to
remove items they
donated to Fakunle
Comprehensive High
School in Oshogbo,
following allegations
Governor Rauf Aregbesola
plans to demolish the
school and replace it with
a “Shop Rite” mall.
They allege there has
been a long battle with
the Aregbesola
administration over the
plan, saying that the
governor is serving the
interests of his political
god-father, Asiwaju Bola
Ahmed Tinubu, to provide
prime space for him to
extend Shop Rite, a
business he is said to
own, to Oshogbo.
An alumnus of the school
told SaharaReporters that
Mr. Tinubu’s interest is
what is behind the
troubles.
“Of all locations in Osun
State, only the center
that Fakunle High school
proudly sits on since over
fifty years is what Tinubu
wants. Why not develop
other areas to stand his
business?” alleged the
Alumnus.
In February, there were
pockets of protest by
senior students of the
school asking Mr.
Aregbesola to change his
mind on the alleged plan.
However, Osun State
Government officials
subsequently denied the
plan on television, as a
result of which normal
activities resumed in the
school.
But the crisis soon
resurfaced as the State
Government through its
education department
sent out transfer letters
to teachers of the school
and released a list by
which it distributed the
students of Fakunle High
School to other schools.
By the new list, some of
the students now have to
cover more distances to
learn.
“There are only few
schools in Oshogbo.
Instead of Ogbeni Aregbe
(Mr. Aregbesola) to create
new schools and renovate
old ones, he is
demolishing existing ones
to please some few
interests,” one parent
said.
“Why will anybody want
to convert place of a
learning only to create a
parking space or mall,
when he should create
more schools?” asked one
parent who spoke in
confidence to
SaharaReporters.
Occupying about space
about one kilometer long,
Fakunle High School is
said to have been
established by Reverend
Pa. Ade Fakunle in
1956, and has produced
persons of high status in
the State. In 1975, the
Osun State Government
took the school over from
the missionaries.
Since information leaked
that the administration of
Governor Aregbesola
intends to demolish the
school, stakeholders have
been mounting pressure
on the governor to
reverse the alleged
decision.
In a related development,
other missionary schools
in the State have
threatened to shut their
gates in protest if the
government goes ahead
with the decision,
prompting the
government to shift
resumption of all schools
by two weeks to enable it
re-work the idea.
An official at the
education department
refused to comment on
the allegation that the
school would be
converted to a shopping
mall, but confirmed that
teachers were being
posted across schools in
the state in line with a
“reclassification of
schools” model by the
government. The students
have also been planned
for distribution to other
schools.
The official said that the
government was carrying
out a reform in education
by which schools in the
state are now categorized
into three phases of
Basic, Middle and Senior
Schools respectively.
According to the plan,
pupils from Primary one
to four are in the
Elementary School; those
from primary five to six as
well as junior students
from JSS one to three are
now said to be in the
Middle School, while
students from SSS one to
three are in the Senior or
High School.

Read more
www.saharareporters.com/news-page/parents-stakeholders-begin-removing-donated-properties-fakunle-high-school-over-alleged-pl

VICMIK: I FELL IN LOVE WITH THIS YOUNGER LADY THAT I MET AS A VIRGIN IN MY FINAL YEAR.I GOT A JOB AFTER MY YOUTH SERVICE.I DECIDED TO REKINDLE THE LOVE BTW US(DESPITE THE FACT THAT SHE HAS BEEN DEFLOWERED,BY ANOTHER GUY THAT JILTED HER).IN FACT, I CONTRIBUTED IMMENSELY FINANCIALLY IN MAKING SURE SHE GRADUATED COS OF HER POOR FINANCIAL BACKGROUND.I STARTED TO NOTICE CHANGE IN HER BEHAVIOR WHEN SHE WENT FOR HER YOUTH SERVICE DESPITE THE FACT THAT I HAVE MET HER MOTHER(COS THE FACT IS LATE) AND EVEN TOLD HER TO FIX DATE FOR THE MARRIAGE INTRODUCTION.IN CONCLUSION,SHE TOLD ME POINT BLACK THAT SHE IS NO LONGER INTERESTED.I TRIED CONVINCING HER BUT SHE WAS ADAMANT AND MY FINDINGS REVEALED THAT SHE WAS SEEING ANOTHER MAN.HER MOTHER AND SIBLINGS PERSUADED HER TO HAVE A RE-THINK ALL TO NO AVAIL.IT HURTS ME SO MUCH BUT I WAS BRAVE AND COURAGEOUS ENOUGH TO OVER COME IT COS I HAVE FRIENDS THAT WERE THERE FOR ME.I MOVED ON WITH MY LIFE.WITHIN 6 MONTHS OF THE BREAK UP,I FELL IN LOVE AND MARRIED MY WIFE AND TODAY WE ARE BLESSED WITH THREE WONDERFUL KIDS.THIS LATER IS NOT YET MARRY AND I GUESS SHE IS 29-30 YRS OLD NOW AND NOT YET MARRIED.

Are u gloating or what....i think u shld be thankful rather than boasting.

Na wa o. Different strokes for different folk.

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Madam patience, seems ur mother's death didnt pain u, u still took faces of those that paid u a condolence visit.

Will state universities also benefit from this money??

kagari: Mine is different kind of
i dated this particular girl for two years, she loved me so much but i lied to her all through those 2 years.
She could not stand it any longer so she broke off the relationship, i thought it was cool and consoled myself with lie that there were lots of fishes out there. The first five girls i tried dating after she, cut both my head and money to pieces.
That was when i realised i had just lost a rare diamond. I searched for her contacts, i called her for like 2 months before she gave me listening hears, i begged for 6 months before we became friends again.
The problem now is she finally put me in brothers zone( and u all know that is the worst zone to be in).
We broke up in 2010 and i have bin begging her since 2011 to date.
Jenny if u are here, just know i was so stupid back then. I love u so much

Sorry bro. felt ur pain cos i was once in ur shoe. Just dat my own came back after a year and some months.....hope urs will come back too

kagari: Mine is different kind of
i dated this particular girl for two years, she loved me so much but i lied to her all through those 2 years.
She could not stand it any longer so she broke off the relationship, i thought it was cool and consoled myself with lie that there were lots of fishes out there. The first five girls i tried dating after she, cut both my head and money to pieces.
That was when i realised i had just lost a rare diamond. I searched for her contacts, i called her for like 2 months before she gave me listening hears, i begged for 6 months before we became friends again.
The problem now is she finally put me in brothers zone( and u all know that is the worst zone to be in).
We broke up in 2010 and i have bin begging her since 2011 to date.
Jenny if u are here, just know i was so stupid back then. I love u so much

Sorry bro. felt ur pain cos i was once in ur shoe. Just dat my own came back after a year and some months.....hope urs will come back too

Louis007: Guy! Pls I'v 2.2 but I mistakenly filled 2.1 and I was shortlisted. Now I can't edit. Pls what sud I do cos am scared of KOBOKO or going to JAIL. Or sud I use Correction Fluid to adjust my form. Pls reply! Onward Together!

Guy no fear, if they wont allow u to write the exam, they will ask u to leave, not that they will start flogging u just like that. Just leave if they ask u to leave. I did the same tin too and i will b there tomorow

Pls who has any idea on how the screening test will look like

@op if u dont want ur body to touch her bosom anytime u are on her, maybe u shld use plank to separate yourselves.......just an advice

Mtcheeew, Brazil wey don win 2 matches sef no party. SMH

I hope he has not come out to deny his mum's death cos this man can lie, very good at denying true and obvious incidents

I just want to start datimg a girl now, any advice for me??

There is hope for everybody but you av to help ursef first, go for pgd programme or u go and register for some professional courses. It shld help u

Africans could be
the big losers as the United States reforms
its immigration laws and eliminates the
green card lottery, of which Africans are
the main beneficiaries.
Half of the 50,000 residence permits
handed out at random each year are
earmarked for Africans. It is a hugely
popular program that has allowed
hundreds of thousands of Africans to
settle in America since the mid 1990s.
But the ambitious reform project under
debate now in Washington, which would
provide papers for million undocumented
immigrants, contains a clause that would
do away with the lottery.
In its place would be a more selective
immigration system based on skills, career
and family ties.
For years the lottery has been in the
crosshairs of Republicans, who control the
House of Representatives and say it adds
no value to the American economy.
"It's clear that there are better ways to
allocate visas than to randomly give them
out through a lottery system," said Bob
Goodlatte, the Republican who leads the
House Judiciary Committee. "Our
immigration laws shouldn't be based on
the luck of the draw; rather, they should
be designed strategically to benefit our
country."
The ‘diversity visa,' as it is known formally,
is set aside for people from countries that
do not experience a lot of emigration. So
Mexicans, Chinese and Filipinos, for
instance, are not eligible. Africans quickly
became the main ones to cash in.
All applicants need is a high school
diploma or two years of work experience.
Between 2010 and 2012, one in five
Africans who came to the United States to
stay did so through the lottery. That made
it the third most common method, at 21
percent of the total, after family
reunification (43%) and refugee status or
asylum seekers (23%).
By comparison, in the same period only
10 percent of Europeans who became
permanent residents and 3% of Asians did
so through the lottery.
"It has proven to be a way of helping
those who come from the continent of
Africa, those who come from a number of
other areas where it is very difficult to get
a visa," said Sheila Jackson Lee, a member
of the Congressional Black Caucus, whose
members are all Democrats.
But in an effort to preserve the
comprehensive reform being negotiated
for months by the two parties, the
Democrats and President Barack Obama
agreed to ditch the lottery.
Representative Charles Schumer, who
authored the program in 1990, said it was
impossible to keep it.
Schumer said the system that will replace
it in 2017 is merit-based and will also give
Africans a chance. On average they are
more educated than people from other
continents. And English-speaking Africans
would get a boost because of that
language skill.
But Michael Fix of the Migration Policy
Institute said, "It really probably won't
admit enough people to offset the effects
of the loss of the diversity visa for some
years after that. It's a long time away. It
won't be immediately offset by any
means."
The diversity visas would vanish starting
next year under the reform being
negotiated.
Only four percent of African immigrants
— compared to 21 percent of Asians and
22 percent of Europeans — received a
green card for employment reasons in
2012.
The National Association for the
Advancement of Colored People says the
number of African immigrants will go
down even with the merit-based system.
"In essence, we're concerned," said Hilary
Shelton, the NAACP Washington bureau
director.
Dame Babou, who hosts a radio show that
caters to Senegalese people in New York,
said the scrapping of the lottery is
disheartening for Africans.
"Every year many people thought this was
going to be their year," Babou said.
"Again, what is being eliminated is hope."
Source: Vanguard

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