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@ op your potential hubby is under police custody, instead of u to be happy there is even money for his bail, so he can explain tins to u after his release, u're here lamenting about bride price, so your bride price is more important to u than his life.....women and marriage sef...

swtesther: Hi, i want to use this opportunity to warn nairaland guys to stop disturbing me with emails!!! I jx registered, and lots of guys are sending me emails. D one dat made me loose my mind was wen i logged in, nd i saw dat abt 35guys sent me emails, i had to do sumtin to stp dis madness! It is making my mail box crowded wit useless mails, nd i hate letting my email get crowded! Its tooo much, and it gives me headache. I try to be nice nd answer 'em all, bt thrz jx too much a girl can take okay? embarassed pls stop sending too much mails. Am sure thr ar some gals who ar facing the same thing im complainin of. Ask bfor u send, nd if i say no. Pls dnt try to send! Iv tried to make u guys stop, bt it seems impossible, so i had no other choice but to post lt here as a topic. And pls does anyone knw hw to ban someone frm sending u prvt msgs or emails on nairaland? If u knw, pls share wit me. I rly need it to tame these nairaland guys angry Sorry if i sounded rude, but like i said, i had no choice. No insults pls. angry



this is exact example of wat the op is insinuating.....guys dey fall hand on social mobi as if they ve nt seen ladies undies before.gosh

No dey hype yourself jor.....who get your time, na fine u too fine abi na money u get....get lost jare.....cum here con dey hype herself, who knw u....*hiss*

@ op Na u wey be man dey give this kind of complain? Women are more emotional, she is supposed to be the one saying all these sh*t. What's special abt holding,kissing u in public? When both of u slp in the same bed. *fvck marriage jor*

ItsJonathan: Bro, its more complicated than that.

You see, My life will come to ruins if I buy it,

And she'll ruin me if I don't buy it. ( She say no kpekusing and her kpekus is the best in the world)

Please help me bro

What have u benefited from all d kpekusing u been having? By d way what type of fone are u using?

If a female soldier should slap me, I 'll return it back and runaway, let alone bloody civilian....na RIP go be her case....do unto others what u will do to yourself. If u don't want 2 be slapped, don't slap Anyone....simple!!!

Rubbish

Ishilove: Nonsense!!

While I agree that some women get bad mouth wella, in most cases women bashing is deeply psychological. My next door neighbour, a dashing, chocolate skinned hunk is a notorious woman beater. He became enemies with my mum because she took it upon herself to clean the bloody wounds on his baby mama's fiancee after another round of beating. This lady was about 7mths pregnant then, but it didn't deter the man from going all Vitali Klitschko on her pregnant azzz, using everything he could lay his hands on to batter her until the woman ran out of the compound and into Mum's hands. Mum cleaned the bloody wounds and advised her to go back to her parents until she put to bed and they resolved their differences. Heck, the man has not even paid her brideprice!! This man was even bringing girls and sleeping with them in the same house. When the lady protests...Pow! Here's a dazzling uppercut for your nagging asss, you biatch!! Smh

The man stopped greeting my mum till date, and as for me, I always make it a point of duty to give him The Evil Eye whenever we run into each other on the street, and a mental middle finger for good measure. Only this morning, we heard the man raking over the phone that the lady should "come and collect your daughter" because "I want to lock the door". The lady had gone to work and left the baby with their little maid. Now Mr Hunk was going out and he didn't want to leave the maid and the baby at home, so he told the lady that he was giving her ten minutes to come take the baby. When the ten minutes was up, he pushed the maid and the baby out and locked the door to the apartment. What a vile creature

Why this long story? Wife beaters can only change through God's divine intervention. This man had been the perfect gentleman when he had been wooing this lady, but once she moved in and took in, the inner modafucker revealed itself in all it's Tyson glory.

From the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks, and since Fiance keeps promising to beat up your argumentative asss, believe me, dear Isobel, he is going to fulfil that promise one day. And from there,it will become a habit difficult to break. However, before you quit the upcoming nuptials, look inwards deeply and pray over it. Do what your spirit, under the guidance of the Holy Spirit, tells you, and not what people tell you. Who knows, Fiance might just be different.

Dear take it easy nah? Na u d dude beat? See as u jst dey paro.......don't jump into hasty conclusion, this is jst one syde of d story, we don't even knw her offence. Why God nor make only one sex sef? Dis competition btw men and women is becoming Unbecoming....if boy beat boy we nor dey see am 4 NL. Women...blowing evrytin out of proportion....jst common beating

ednut1: marry him please, i want to read a story on nairaland in 2017 ' man beheads wife(isobel) after argument ,

Lol....u're very funny. U be comedian?

Amadaz: As a retired graduate cultist, i know the influences these guys are facing which impact negatively on their lives. I've been through all that and advice anyone nursing the ambition of joining a cult group or already a member to refrain from it or have himself to blame. I also advice the police to apprehend culprits not with intent of punishing them straight out but to gather info regarding their meeting points and their homes and then f**k them up severely

Signed: retired axeman

retired egede man indeed

acidosisTM: I'm really dissapointed in that Tinubu owned media house called TVC. Their staff lacks professionalism. Why should a so called journalist say stuffs like "T.B Joshua is feeling important"?

Its obvious most Lagosians (almost all) hate T.B Joshua, but should we allow the self-inflicted hatred distort our reasoning faculties?

The level of hatred Lagosians (and obviously Fashola) exhibit on T.B Joshua is soo high.

I won't be surprised if the man is jailed without further investigations.

U're right. don't knw why lagosians hate prophet tb joshua so much

wills: @Bebe2007, for a sec there  i thut, you are the lady am dilly dallying with at the moment, until U started talking about the guy being all Cute  n nasty, cute yeah but me am not nasty at all.

Rite now am in a situation myself, I have a gurl n we got this little thing going, and lately is sort of getting deeper than we thut, or wanted it to go, she has a guy and her man is as she says faithful and nice to her, but the guy sometimes beats her when ever they have issues but he always comes back begging when she calls it off, i guess that’s why  she fell so easly for me when I ran into her, cuz i showed a lot of care and am far way too matured compared to her man.

I have helped her build her confidence as a young lady and have also tutored her on career development also help her in her job hunt,now she is on the verge of working with a very good oil and gas company
She love her man dearly , but now tells me that am making her have a rethink especially now that she and her guy have some issues again.

I cant lie, am getting attracted to this gurl too, something I told myself I wont do since I know she has a guy already, she young, a cuty and smart too, but I feel i just cant have her,  so I had to tell her to work things out with her man  cuz like i told her,  you jus don’t give up on 4 yrs of relationship .
Wel the problem is that i like her, but i know she not mine , its not that i cant have her,   i find it hard to jus do that .  and I don’t want to use her mans weakness as an excuse cuz I have mine too


So just like u, am in this fix, do i take this girl from her guy? cuz i know all i have to do to make that happen and happen fast, or should i just be a righteous dude and settle for a friendship with this gurl, she really likes me too and i can see that its killing her being cut b/w too guys.

So fellow and ladies, While u dealing with @bebe questions, throw in a little word on mine……will love to here what u have to say.

Since she is not married,u can have her. But be decisive,do u really love her? 4 yrs of relationship is no justification 4 marriage,change is constant. it's a free world

What about d ladies, dem no dey get potentials sef? Let dem be talking about guys, like say guys get special tin wey dem dey benefit frm marriage....

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