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sweetorgasm:
she was only defending the love of her life

Not withstanding, she shouldn't have taken sides in their arguments, she should have remained plain sailing. Siding with her hubby against her MIL wasn't a wise move...

sweetorgasm:
what i was saying is dat its cool 2 swim ur ur dad in a pool bt taking a bath with him in a bathroom is nt so cool with me.

Okay...

Behira:
To me my answer is a full NO........

Why?
Don't u think this kind of practice may help strengthen d family bond...

sweetorgasm:
Thats so not cool at all except in the swimming pools

How?
Can u be more explicit.

SAMBARRY:
Na so incest dey start especially when he's conscious of his body and his dheek start getting hard when his mother is washing his blokus

But na father to son, mother to daughter nau...

firetrap:
my first instinct after reading this was to go in on you and tell you how foolish you are for sticking in that kind of a relationship even after finding out that she's still seeing the guy, then I remembered that I was once in your shoes and couldn't bring myself to end it before she broke up with me. Op believe me, whoever breaks up with the other person in a relationship holds all the aces but after a while it doesn't matter anymore.

The best thing for you to do now is harden your heart, I know it won't be easy but believe me when I say that you'll be better off for it. delete all her pictures that you have. even the ones that ur in and delete her number and all text messages you guys have ever exchanged block her from all ur social media accounts and platforms and take a 2 to 3 weeks long break without any contact with her and you'll see that your better off without her. though it took me awhile, but I discovered that I deserved better than my ex and these days I don't settle for less that I deserve. Anyone who acts stupidly with me gets shown the door. no time

Cc: elijah24 I enjoin u to follow this advise.
I want u to overlook all d insults, it's normal, that's how people usually react to stuff like this. But it isn't ur fault, it's called love, I'm pretty sure she's ur first.

A man's first love always makes him to act foolishly, u're not d first, neither shall u be d last, just wink at all dat happened & move on.

EmpNero003:
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Construction & telecoms are two distinct fields, u should be specific as regards career path.
How can u cope working without pay for a whole month?
How do u intend to take care of ur expenses?

shaybebaby:
Get with the times, the mirena coil in some instances stops the menstrual flow.

In some instances u said, & it doesn't completely stop menstrual flow.
I'm talking about sth with lesser bad points, there are too many horror stories about mirena coil, often times it may result to lack of any oestrogen. I really don't knw much abt menstrual flow though, perhaps u can educate me, I feel disposed to learn.

I go pay u plenty money....

Lol.....

EnlightenedSoul:
'Tis a lie, this point. So much so that I exit the sidelines to address it all its own. I'm actually more and more convinced that men want children more fervently than women do. And I'm not basing this purely off my own experiences.

Ponder on it.

How?
This is not true.
Ur assumption is glaring spurious.

angelTI:
Not supporting the mum but you think what the mum did is wrong and the dad's adventures with ladies are right?

I never justified his dad promiscuous lifestyle..

LordReed:
Acts 10:10-16 King James Version (KJV)
And he became very hungry, and would
have eaten: but while they made ready, he
fell into a trance,
And saw heaven opened, and a certain
vessel descending upon him, as it had been
a great sheet knit at the four corners, and
let down to the earth:
Wherein were all manner of fourfooted
beasts of the earth, and wild beasts, and
creeping things, and fowls of the air.
And there came a voice to him, Rise,
Peter; kill, and eat.
But Peter said, Not so, Lord; for I have
never eaten any thing that is common or
unclean.
And the voice spake unto him again the
second time, What God hath cleansed, that
call not thou common.
This was done thrice: and the vessel was
received up again into heaven.

Pls can u be more explicit.

ferdvict2:
den i put it to u dat love is blind nd wen u do it,u won't dude.

Yeah u're right, love is blind...

Articles like this make boys to act foolishly around girls, #7 is ridiculous, #8 how can u give ur attention to someone who ignores u, #17 how can u be pestering someone who doesn't answer u for long, isn't that madness? Rubbish...

IZUKWU:
Its been over a month now,she told me on sunday to find another girlfriend that she doesnt feel like having sex with me again. Even refused me kissing her.and has denied access to her body for that. On asking her questions . I got to know that there is another guy. I freed her. I use to call her for the almost a year we dated , Twice every day . Yesterday that was monday i refused calling . She flashed me in the evening and was asking me why i didnt call her,i told her nothing. I found myself where i have never been before. I love her but obviously she has moved on. Should i not just blank her . And allow myself move on too. Is there any reason that i should still be calling her asking after her welfare? How should i go about this. I need your inputs.

This is quite funny, tot u said u are no longer her boyfriend? So why should u be calling her, it will even affect her relationship.
stop calling her & move on, I guess she's ur first love.

Why are u supporting ur mum? Ur dad is right, why is ur mum communicating with her ex? She's married now & shouldn't be doing that, it's suspicious.
What do they have in common? That's how it all start. Tell ur mum to end any communication or business she have with that guy. Ur dad being a philanderer doesn't give her d right to cheat.

U should always interfere in any matter that concerns the family, because u're part of it & a man at that...

Akingbade11:
Thank God u aren't sure about dat

SAMBARRY:
O puleasssee do infants write letters talk more of unborn babies

Who knows, the op might be d one...

Why did u choose to sugarcoat evil with 'open marriage'? It's quite specious...

既是不是不是指导致力。

SAMBARRY:
like seriously

Nope, just raillery...

Op it's in their nature. Even if u bring them up in d convent, they'll still nag, it's has more to do with temperament than upbringing.

cococandy:


Is this even funny?
I don't know I find it funny.

Who wants to buy breasttmilk?
Who's selling?

If you think about it sha, maybe it's not so bad.
But I still can't overlook the yuck factor.

Yuck.

There is nothing yuck about breastmilk business, it's appealing & very lucrative.
U can contact me if u're interested, u'll make alot of cash.

SAMBARRY:
Ododo oro.gbam!

U be agbero?
Which kind language u dey speak sef....

lefulefu:
change is here
the time wey guys dey fall mugu was in the past

its better u help out a fellow guy in difficulty coz he will always be greatful than for a babe. if u just give a girl small change na to dey tell her fellow friends say she don catch maga .
naija girls sha

Fellow guys are even worse, they will desert u in ur time of need, ladies will tag u as a maga & scoff u behind.
Don't offer monetary help to anyone except family members....

Machiny:
20percent of married men today are not happy in their homes,because their wife nags a lot. After a month or two offshore, a friend prefer staying in a hotel or my house some days before going home to meet his nagging wife. It made me go to the bible since its the norm that governs our daily life and found diferent portions of the bible talking of same topic.means it did not start today. The nagging women never acept they are over stretching things...Some of them are so cool during relationships.Even proverbs 27:15-16 states its almost impossible to stop them...THe question is,how can one detect a woman that can nag as to avoid such ladies and high blood pressure in future?

A proponent & an advocate of feminism (every feminist have an uncontrollable rebellious streak that propels them to nag inadvertently).

she's short tempered.

she gets sullen anytime she doesn't have her way ( this bespeaks she has a chronic insatiable appetite for demand).

tiredface:
FAT & VERY SKINNY ONES

Spurious...

firstEVA:
Give her what she wants, there will be no nagging, it's actually that simple.

Lol...
But human wants are insatiable nau, how possibly can he meet up with all her needs...

texanomaly:
I tell you what...no matter where I go on NL Kay17 is mopping up the floor with someone. Gotta love it.


Btw op

I'm not sure Nigerian men know what feminism really is. Not that I'm a feminist.

I think it's nigerian feminists that really don't know what feminism is all about.

The way they portray feminism is quite misleading & spurious...

Wealthyone:
This can never happen in Africa especially in a country like Nigeria.

Why do u think it can't happen?

Daughters of this generation won't heed to this at all, it doesn't support feminism....