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how can you generalized based on your experience at two nigerian homes.

Natasha,,:
snow drops don't you play smart with me we both know you were referring to my post and you know it   okay you can go and crash I will stay with her  

we know different things. you know i am right and you are wrong.
anyway, let sleeping dogs lie. i no go use argument sleep tonight.

so i am sending a big make up kiss/hug to see if you go grab am and retaliate in kind

Natasha,,:
I have showed you yours so show me mine   , you know I was typing fast so I forgot to add the ''really''  

no ma. you did not forget really. the problem is you rush to start typing without reading other peoples posts first. hence you reach wrong and incomplete conclusions

snowdrops:
this is the 21st century girls. making a move on a guy does not mean you are cheap or bugging him. there is nothing unlady like in that.

you can send a brief mail, like hi. and see what happens.

show me where for this post that i mentioned the name natasha. I even said "girls"; that means more than one person. I never quoted you, i was only making inferences.

on the contrary, you misquoted me.

please, quick o, i need go crash, otherwise we go continue this yan tomorrow

tell me your quotes that i "misquoted" before i re-read the thread

Natasha,,:
The guy doesn't know her,  

Scash:
i kinda need u guys help. Thers dis guy av lykd for quite some tym nw. We dont speak. But yesterday we did,  Via txt on fb. JUST told him i'ld love to b his friend and he was all cool about it. Said he was honored n admired my courage n dt no problem, all i needed to do was to keep in touch n he would too. Now dts wia my prob lies, i hoped he wld txt today bt obviously he was waitin for me to do so. One, dnt knw aw to do dt without going lower than i already av. Two, i dnt even knw wt to say,  Do u get? So pls ideas. I like dis guy diiieee

@ Natasha,,

please explain whereabout in this post it says the guy does not know her. The fact that they were not speaking before yesterday does not equate he does not "know" her. Hello somebody.

Sagamite:
Amsorry!

Please explain what was special about your "contributions". Explain how it helps.

I am quite keen in knowing.

i dont have your time man.

Natasha,,:
gosh like seriously duh, don't push it, Dave made a statement and I was putting him on track Jeez  and please just end it cos you keep misunderstanding me , I said he doesn't love her does that mean he can't love her in the future??  just allow the car to pass before you cross the road 

like i said before, calm down. lets have an adult discussion.

@ Natasha,,

everybody is different. so is every friendship/relationship. what worked for you may spell disaster for another.

i am only wishing this does not turn out to be the best boyfriend OP never had.

Natasha,,:
lmao snow its obvious you are the one getting worked up, Dave said if the guy truly loves her he would text  clearly he misunderstood the poster all I was trying to do was to make him understand and you decided to take it upon your self  

so you mean, he has to call her everyday to show he is not disinterested

Scash:
d guy dosnt love me. Hell, i dnt even think he likes me, maybe indifferent. Wld send a 'Hi' and crosss my fingers,

well i hope he ends up proving you wrong. it maybe early days to love, but who knows if he has always fancied you.

1. there wasno reason for you to mention love first of all as it is uncalled for.
2. why are you now questioning OP rationale for starting the thread? you are turning the debate on its head.
3. this is not an argument. dont get worked up unnecessarily

Abu-Maryam:
Fear of Boko Haram is a beginning of

you be their supporter? abi na because you dey saudi?

she also did not say poster does not love her

Natasha,,:
^^he doesn't love her

thats harsh. they only txt for th first time yesterday.

leyom234:
Yes !!! This is what the [b]Jonathan [/b]has to offer Nigerians. Insecurity of the highest order.

you mean PDP.

dem dey worry you.

this is the 21st century girls. making a move on a guy does not mean you are cheap or bugging him. there is nothing unlady like in that.

you can send a brief mail, like hi. and see what happens.

dont generalize man. look through the thread and see the contributions i have made. its a shame what you have said without a clue of the person you are referring to

then maybe he is busy with work etc. it does not mean he no longer cares about you overnight. give him the benefit of the doubt. above all no bone am o.

E be like say you be specialist for bullet proof cars.

"eyeing" her husband.

i laugh in alien longuage.

hope it would really be completed in 24 months time and not another white elephant project.

the people wey give am 34th dey use glasses?

call him. maybe he is the shy type.

In that case, your husband is bang out of order. He should give you a reasonable explanation for sleeping out and should have informed you before hand.

However, has he done same before? Is he someone who womanises? This can give a hint as to his whereabouts. In addition, if he needs to play away game, abeg make he use condom o. Seriously speaking.

no big deal. this is only a temporary reaction by the market to security fears. it happens everywhere; ie after 9/11 and 7/7. they would return in their droves once the situation is brought under control.

and for potential investors now is the time to pick up those shares as they are at cut bottom prices.

maybe there is some backdoor negotiation with boko haram, and one of their demand is to bring to justice the police officers that shot dead their leaders.

in 9 months time we shall know the truth

you guys are not serious; still no date or venue.

taking toothbrush and paste, while not a common routine is by no means abnormal. he could have taken these items for a thousand and one reasons. why i am curious is why cheating is the top of your lists of differentials.

there is no smoke without fire. your mindset seems to have been primed to doubt his intentions, hence it looks like you are looking for evidence to justify your suspicions.

don't get me wrong, he could be seeing someone else, but 9 out of 10 he may not be. give him the benefit of the doubt, until you get cast iron evidence.