Who be the thick barney?

Humblelion1987:
Good morning nairaland family, please I have a serious issue which I need your advice.
I met my fiancee 1st March 2022 and everything clicked, within few weeks, we are like people who have been together for years because we share many things in common, we are birthday mates, we like the same food, we are practically like twins. I work as a Key account manager in charge of my region in one of the leading multinational company here in Nigeria, why she works as an RN(registered nurse) in one of the top private hospital in the state I base too. I will be 33yrs by September while she will be 25years the same date and month. We are supposed to get married by May this year because am ready and she is ready too, but the parents have been frustrating me, one that am not from there state, we passed through that phase and fixed our traditional wedding next month, the mum and her people now came up with another issue that she must travel abroad before getting married, even when I have tried convincing them that I can't prevent there daughter from traveling even after marriage because I have been nursing same ambition too.

When I met my fiancee, she has been doing bad in her ihealth exams not until I came into her life. I have purchased the form three times in a space of 6 months plus her form for CBT and I do practically everything for my woman. Since we met, she doesn't touch her salary, she doesn't stress herself much about house duties, both washing, cooking and other things because as a bachelor, those are the things I enjoyed doing. I love her so much and she love me too, but am totally confused on what to do as the parents have said point blank that she can only get married when she travels to UK.

She had a serious fight with the parents last night and the mum even called me and told me that if I can't abide by there rules, I should forget about there daughter. Am the only son and my parents are not aware of the situation.

I don't know there problem because as a young man, I leave in a comfortable bungalow, drives good car outside my official car and equally employed one of her siblings on a temporary project am running for my office, which they both earn 60k monthly.

Please I need advise on how to go about this as I have two options in my mind. Should I move on and forget all the money I have spent so far or should I stand by my fiancee who loves me so much and finish the fight?

Leave their daughter for them. Wash and remove your hands completely. If your so called future wife is unable to bring her family to their senses. Then leave her completely. I wonder how you people ignore major red flags before marriage.

The demands will continue into marriage and probably cause your untimely death along the line.

Do not compare your peace of mind to money. Leave the money and move.

If her family comes back to you to beg, decide exactly how you want to marry their daughter, if they say no, just move on. Girls too plenty abeg.

bmasz:


I'm cool.

I tried contacting you in lieu to a post you made in 2021 on a this thread
"Let's Talk About Joining Confraternity Before Getting A Job"

I don't feel comfortable continuing this discussion here.

Oh ok, I don't share my WhatsApp. Your email is faulty. Get a new email and share it. We can discuss.

bmasz:
https://leadership.ng/cbn-limits-contactless-payment-to-n50000-daily/

The Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) has limited contactless payments in Nigeria to a daily cumulative limit of N50,000 and a single transaction limit of N15,000. This means that you can only make a total of N50,000 worth of contactless payments in a day, and no single contactless payment can be worth more than N15,000.

Contactless payments are those that are made by tapping your card or phone against a contactless reader. They are becoming increasingly popular because they are quick and convenient. However, the CBN is concerned about the security of contactless payments, and this limit is an attempt to mitigate those risks.

The CBN has said that higher value contactless payments that exceed the limits will require "appropriate verification authorisation." This could mean entering your PIN, using a token, or providing biometric verification.

The CBN has also said that banks will be able to set their own limits for contactless payments. This means that some banks may have lower limits than the CBN's recommended limits.

The new limits for contactless payments came into effect on June 27, 2023.

Hello, what's up?

moderatedguy:
nothing will balance out ..bookmark this TINUBU is taking us to hell

You're taking yourself to hell.

moderatedguy:
Naira wud soon hit 2k

2k is extreme but anything could happen until the backlog of dollar repatriation is cleared. Eventually the currency will balance out.

SalamRushdie:
In his rush to dish out poorly thought out hard policies President Tinubu seems to have lost control of the economy, with the Naira hitting 1 thousand some time next week I dont see how he can salvage the economy..His first 50 days is 50 times worse than Buharis first 50 days

These things had to be done at some point and Tinubu is the leader that effected it.

Government can not continue defending the naira with virtually all our dollar income and subsidising petrol for most of west Africa.

In case you didn't notice, N1trn was saved at the last FAAC and N907bn shared.

Hold your governor and council chairman responsible for palliatives put in place. Wise governors are already rolling out cheap public transit.

Tinubu also created a massive eV transport market that nobody is seeing because everyone is busy complaining.

Wise entrepreneurs will focus on meeting the tremendous market gap and cash out in billions of dollars while the rest of you complain.

If you don't know what true free market and capitalism is, Nigeria is finally getting there.

anonymousey:
Anker Soundcore Motion Boom Plus 80 watts speaker

125k firm

Whatsapp 08057407671 to close the deal.

Location: Ifako-Gbagada, Lagos

How much for X600? Do you have it?

SalamRushdie:
Nigeria one of the poorest country in earth and one with a lot of infrastructural deficit is the one with the highest cost per km of road in the world..What a country filled with stupid leaders

Do not exempt followers

Northernblood8:
Does it mean that I am the only one using Heritage Bank app. No protest, no complaint. Why is it that we majority is just moving about our normal business as if nothing happened 😕😕.

Do Heritage Bank expect me to move from Ughelli to Warri whenever I wanna withdraw?

This is the message we get even if we use 5g network.

Seun
Lalsticalala
Mynd44
Dominique

Help me create awareness. This one don pass be careful.

It means go to Warri, clear your account and abandon them. The kind of customer loyalty some of you display sha.

This is how it should be done.

bjdon:
I really do not like Tinubu

However I totally respect him as a political operative. The man is always thinking many steps ahead.

He knows APC is weak in the SS, so he's looking to solidify his position there. With Wike and Ibori on side, he will be in a very strong position in that region.

Others could learn a lot from him in strategic planning

You no lie. I have never seen a president as strategic as him. He will leave Nigeria united and stronger than ever.

ClearFlair:
Yet the price of dollar keeps going up

Please Google demand, supply and price. Stop being ignorant.

Hardtotrust:
I need good advice on what to do.

Seun, Nlfpmod, Mynd44

Learn your lesson and move on. Your dad is not in a position to repay your money unless you know he has assets that can be sold which I doubt. Arresting your dad is equal to wasting the money you have left on police.

Kingcalls:


U can suck my d1ck

You're very emotional, arrogant and timid. It's a recipe for disaster.

Not everyone who talks to you is trying to belittle you. Learn to use common sense when online.

Kingcalls:


U are the bloody fool that thinks everyone on NL is as broke as ur generation...bloody peasant

You will intimidate yourself to death. All the rubbish you just said are only playing in your timid and arrogant head. Even money won't make you a better or rich person, you're perpetually poor from your Spirit and it stinks.

Kingcalls:


Lol...did u just say when I start owning a car?? I bought my first car with my own money 2 decades ago when I was still in university... my dad owned over 9 cars ... I have bought about 15 cars for my personal use since I got my first... I presently drive a E350 Mercedes( 2014) a lexus LX 570 ( 2012) and a Cls 550 v8( 2012) ...I sold my range sports 2010 last year...

I hope you feel great when you're done making a fool of yourself.

Kingcalls:


U don't have to own a car to hate a type of brand of car

When you start using a car, you will practically understand why Toyota ugly cars are the most popular in Nigeria. If you practise good maintenance culture though, you can drive anything.

KingintheNorth:
Guys I'm asking for a friend , if you are based abroad and earn 2.5 million naira after tax, what would you invest in Nigeria??

Do not bring your money to Nigeria, buy ETFs or invest in foreign stocks.

1144AK:
My company is in need of workers who would do simple task and earn about 500# daily. It is not tedious at all and it's sth dat can be done in less than 30minutes per day. Interested persons should please apply. The job is a data entry role. Zero nine zero four nine eight one six five eight one!

Describe the role properly here. No need to share details, is it copy and paste work or reading is involved?

vijim:
The dislike I have for all anything corolla or Camry no be here... Even if I get all the whole money wey dey this world I no fit buy those two cars no matter the model, weda na 2044... Their grills/Front dey always dey ugly...Na wetin dey turn me off for those motor be that

Which motor you dey drive?

It is used for loud storage, that white widow strain you don't want to share.

Evestar200:
Olomu Kingdom

Oh ok. I'm from Agbarha-Otor.

Evestar200:
I can only speak my language URHOBO

Which kingdom are you from?

MondayOsunbor:



he was looking for a boy

small boy

He's a bush man and that is my opinion about him.

Omotejohwo

turmacs:
18-20 - Lord deliver me from sapa
21-23 - Bachelor
24-26 - Lieutenant Bachelor
27-29 - Brigadier Bachelor
30-32 - Bachelor General
33-35 - Bachelor Marshall
36-38 - Commander in Chief of the Bachelor Forces 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
39-41 - Lord deliver me from eternal confusion

You too like marriage.

Fine girl

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