₦airaland Forum

Samantha125:
Nope, I don't do that.

Except you are married or in a committed relationship then don't please.

Samantha125:
Because they're already financially and sexually sorted.

please message me on socoharley@gmail.com

Any man in need of an open marriage??....There you go!

Samantha125:
Because I've watched a number of podcasts whereby side chicks were being interviewed and I've also heard men with side chicks discussing about it.

Some women in our communities are also outspoken about their dislike for marriage.

what tribe are you? Quite polite.

Samantha125:
That's just your self importance and ego speaking, not every woman wants to get married.

Yeah,prostitutes don't get married

Samantha125:
But they'll still be financially benefitting more from those men as side chicks than as wives... Most men spend more on their side chicks than wives, sad reality.

Are you a sidechic? How come you know?

My great grandfather's duplex was built in 1904.

Solofresh2:
Hello fellow nairalanders, I came across a thread by dbull which I need oppose.
https://www.nairaland.com/8706180/until-make-money-man-never#139970208

There is a growing belief that a man's value is tied to his wallet. That until he can provide, he cannot be seen as a man. That money makes him the prize. This is a lie.

Money is a tool. It is not a man. A man with money but no character is still a weak man. A man without money but with discipline, frame, and purpose is still a man worth respecting.

The prize is not the wallet. The prize is the man who carries it.

Point 1: Money Attracts — Character Keeps

A man with money can attract women. But money attracts women who want money. It does not attract women who want him. A man with character attracts women who want him — whether he has money or not

Money can open doors. But only character can keep people inside.

Point 2: Money Can Be Lost — Character Cannot

A man can lose his money overnight. A business can fail. A job can end. An economy can collapse. If his value is tied to his money, he becomes worthless the moment he loses it.

But a man with character — discipline, frame, integrity — cannot lose that. Even if he has nothing, he still has himself. That is true value.

A man who ties his worth to his money will never be secure. A man who ties his worth to his character will never be shaken.

Point 3: Money Without Frame Is Just a Resource

A man with money but no frame will be used. He will be drained. He will be seen as a provider — not a partner. He will give and give, and still be disrespected.

A man with frame — even with little money — will be respected. He will not be used. He will not be drained. He will not be taken for granted.

A man with money and no frame is a wallet with legs. A man with frame and no money is a king in waiting.

Point 4: A Man Is Not Defined by His Wallet

A man is defined by his word. His discipline. His ability to lead. His ability to walk away. His ability to build. His ability to protect.

These cannot be bought. They must be earned. And they are worth more than any amount of money.

Money can buy comfort. It cannot buy respect. And without respect, a man is not a man — he is just a source.


Money is not the prize. The man is the prize. And a man is not defined by what he has — but by who he is.

Do not let anyone convince you that your wallet determines your worth. Your character, your frame, your discipline, and your integrity are what make you a man. Money is just a tool. You are the prize.

Nicely evaluated even to an illiterates understanding ...kudos!!

yarimo:
Is like dangote is also a criminal underground, the same dangote that claim he will distribute fuel nation wide free when he was having issues with marketers

You think talking anyhow shows wisdom?
Yarimo You constantly show your ignorance level with every unpondered post

iLegendd:
Just updated the list to 22 each.

so "old man" /"old woman" na insults?
No wonder some people die young

The businesses and companies profiting from all these military supplies are the ones funding insecurity

Exousiang01:
I disagree with .14.
When you call me I will pick the call and say hello,
I expect you to introduce yourself.
If I am the one placing the call.
I will introduce myself as soon as you pick up.
I think it should be the other way round.
If you are calling someone the onus is on you to speak.
Especially when you know the receiver doesn't have your contact.

You were called so you should naturally speak first. Picking the call ultimately shows you are on the other end the caller definitely knows you so you must welcome that fact with a "Hello" then pause to hear your caller.

Rapmoney:
1. Asking people when they will get married when you are not very close to them is plainly stupid. Marriage is part of a person's private life. That should not be your concern.

2. Being overweight and big in size and expecting others to squeeze themselves for you in public transport. They are not the cause of your big size. You lack discipline because you eat too much without exercising. Pay for an extra seat instead of inconveniencing others who might have paid same fare as you.

3. Entering a public place with body and mouth odours and expecting people to respect you. You lie! You have already abused and disrespected yourself by entering a public space in such condition.

4. Impregnating a girl, and expecting others to contribute to the upbringing of the child. Do you think your penis is bigger and more functional than theirs?

5. Informing your boss of your resignation over dissatisfaction, and accepting the job back again after he/she pacified you. Na premium sack and disgrace dey front gidigba dey wait you.

6. Fighting someone who will lose less than you if things go wrong. Not every fight is worth the stress.

7. Staring at strangers for too long and in an unnecessary manner. It makes people scared and uncomfortable.

8. Talking to people you do not know about your life in public transport.

9. Do not switch immediately to answering a call while discussing with somebody, without seeking their permission to opt out. When you are discussing with someone and a phone call comes in, excuse the person and take the call. The person is not a tree. He/she deserves to be regarded.

10. When you are walking on a tiny space and someone is at your back moving at a higher speed than yours, give them allowance to pass. They are not your bodyguard.

11. Going on a date and pressing your phone throughout the period. You should have told the other person that both of you would be having a phone pressing challenge instead of a date.

12. Using your fingers to pick your nose and still expecting others to shake you when you stretch out your hand.

13. When you meet someone who is way older than you, allow them to stretch out their hand for a handshake, and not the other way round.

14. When someone calls you on phone, you speak first, except the call is suspicious. Don't keep quiet and allow the caller to speak first.

15. Do not enter someone's house with dirty feet, or use their toilet without flushing. You will never know the stress it took them to put their house in order.

16. When you borrow something from someone, return it after use. Do not allow them to ask you for it or come to you to get it.

You can add yours.

Social etiquette 101 for those with poor upbringing

SmartNYSC:
So many childish people nowadays. While I'm not against them divorcing, what's the nonsense about the "my baby is free" post?

If at some point in your life you openly claim to love or respect someone, your stance towards them shouldn't change just because you have irreconcilable differences. If it does, that is an admittance that your words should never to be taken seriously because you clearly don't reason before you say them.

You can be divorced and still have mutual respect for each other. That is maturity. Not all these divorces that one party (mostly females) will start giving the impression that they've been living in hell.

1 million Likes!

Suicideboy:
He should go rest. There are other kids like him. Some are way more intelligent than him but lack opportunities. At his age i was already writing my macro assembler for the motorola chipset, memorized hexadecimal and i can do differentials and polynamials without using a calcuator.

Agbaya!!
Small boys achievement dey pepper you Ntorrr!

shadrach77:
FIFA boy! If a whole Infantino FIFA president can come out to say he is excited anytime he watches Messi play yhag should tell you all you need to know

He is free to be a fan of any footballer...una dull for this forum sha..

Christiano no go get heart attack so? I pity the poor guy cos it's Messi everywhere and tipped to win the world cup.
I am not a football fan but I love Messi and his insane humility...

Anybody without an education is a calamity waiting to happen...

SoYNasarawa:
Wasn't he accused of rape some time ago?

yes he raped ya mama daughter

Chachalogo:
This grandma was definitely been used by those/someone very close to her. They should ask her who those that packed her bags were. Someone very very close to her put her to this.

her daughter or son-in-law maybe?

Greencloud:
That's my favorite part of the melon. In fact I got to know recently that the back is also eaten

I eat the whole thing with the bark.

lekkys:
I have forsale this Sports edition 2008 model Toyota Camry.
Fabric seat interior,4 plugs engine, factory fitted air condition,baked on first body.
All components are intact,the price is #6.3m, slightly negotiable call or watsap me on 08134558783.

#4.8m? That is what this vehicle is worth.

TheMensch:
It is more difficult to know who loves you when you are already made than when you are struggling.

What does a man need love for?
Being Feared is better than being loved.

trumpcoat:
It's well,you married right,not all men are lucky but most importantly be nice to your wife first, because women have the grace of doubling anything be it good or bad,if they can use small sperm to produce a baby then don't underestimate women

if who can use small sperm to create what? Most of you don't chew on your words properly before posting to expose inbuilt ignorance devoid of sound reasoning.

chatinent:
Connect him to jobs...stop praying. Thanks.

How many jobs did your father create?

Obavoh:
My Wife hate to see me sad or angry. She would always do everything within her power to see me and her children happy.

Thank you my Angel. I love you so much

Oga better go and hustle and stop playing the illusion called love... na money be correct husband or better papa o!
Children grow with demands so also women.
I pray God blesses you financially soonest because you are a good man.

Gentlesoul2021:
Are u saying just because time is not on her side and with the aforementioned, my sister should goto where she will be footing the bill 100%...

Are you the one getting married? What is your sister's decision?