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obembet:
There is nothing wrong with this... This is just African mentality. if you lady love your genuinely u can finance her to masters level

That's the issue! The love is hardly ever genuine but for the things they can get.

Na her car yet she had to change slippers to snap inside ìt?

PoliteActivist:
Sooo, how come sales people end up talking people into buying something they initially said they'd absolutely not buy minutes before? They do their homework! They prepare their game well. The customer has no chance!

"Sure, take care" and that's the end of it? Na, not good.
Women that change their minds constantly and are not really sure what they want. A woman may say no to you this minute and regret it the next - and you already out of communication? Not good

Best thing anyway is, never approach girls for date directly. Otherwise you're already a loser. If you must, first build yourself up so much in her imagination and read her so well, she can't possibly say no!
But most people are lazy, no preparation at all, no imagination, just shot in the dark and hope for a miracle!

Yes you made a big point i can relate with by subtly creating an imaginative future she craves to be part of.

Goo0dHardDick:
I know this has been asked a billion times, but women will rather choose to insult than to answer the question.

Others will ignore because they have no answers fully implying they're naturally stingy.

I keep asking, if giving of money to women is a proof of love why are men not receiving from women too?

CC seun farano justwise nlfpmod mynd44

Truth be told,a lot of my exes tried showing me love by offering me money,but the man in me always rejected those acts as an attempt to buy my affection....And i have never being with a woman who billed me ever because I only roll with them big girls too

bentenny:
There was but the feminists initiated and used the law to quench what was left!
These days some men go to Asia to get their wives.

I am seriously thinking Japanese too

Juliette5803:
Traveling is my hobby
Nowadays the only place I can travel to is my house after work,
We have accepted all these senseless killings as part of our society, nobody cares anymore

Driving long distance used to be a hobby I enjoyed, but not anymore because the roads are so unsafe now

Nothing like the original NYSC uniform.

Watcharena:
Intend to buy any of the above cars (bid daddy 2005/2006or honda accord discussion continues 2006/2007)

Which is better in terms of RELIABILITY

I don't want a car that will fail me on the road or fail to start when I need it


I'm buying the best grade Nigerian used


I have very good maintenance culture


So pleased I need your input preferably from some one that has used the two cars

Nigerian used? Buy Toyota.
Direct toks then buy Honda.

Haydens:
Dangote represents all those things he dey scatter with hammer. Only him wants to colonize all the biz in Nigeria.

He is a futuristic business thinker so you should learn rather than criticize real value.

Boogyman557:
Holly gram . This is really sad.

This is why we all need to get our own kala..

Make everybody carry der own kala..

My old kala de my left yansh. Once i hear pim or pim pim, I don loot am out!

Lite up my weed in peace

Wtf man!

Hey boogyman557,longest time

Rapmoney:
Can't you see it is a joke? Why did I post it in Jokes section in the first place? Na everything una dey take seriously.

fear be wan catch me,but e go make undergraduates sit up las las

Maj196:
That's AI bro, give credit to ChatGPT

but he did the research so it's still kudos to him.

SixSeven:
You will enjoy this if you never heard about it. Have you heard of Universe 25?

The Universe 25 mouse experiment explains why finding a good man feels impossible today. In that famous study, scientists gave mice a perfect world with unlimited food, water, and safety. However, this lack of struggle and extreme overcrowding completely destroyed their society. Today, modern digital dating has created a similar trap, causing a complete breakdown between men and women.

First, dating apps create an illusion of infinite choices, much like the endless resources in the mouse experiment. When mice had too many options, they stopped forming real bonds and grew stressed. Similarly, when humans scroll through endless profiles, people become disposable. This digital abundance causes choice fatigue, leading to superficial conversations, quick ghosting, and a marketplace where the quiet traits of a good partner are completely overlooked.

Second, the experiment led to the rise of "The Beautiful Ones" - male mice that completely gave up on fighting, mating, or interacting. They withdrew into isolated corners just to eat, sleep, and groom themselves. Today, millions of stable, kind men have become the human version of these mice. After facing constant rejection from dating algorithms, they have quietly checked out of the dating market. They have retreated into their own worlds, focusing strictly on their careers, gym routines, and solo hobbies. They are still out there, but they are invisible because they stopped pursuing.

Finally, when the male mice stopped acting like partners, the female mice isolated themselves too, causing the entire colony to go extinct. In the modern world, because online courtship has died, both men and women have retreated to their separate corners. To break this cycle, the search must move off the screen. High-quality men who have withdrawn from apps can only be found in real- world spaces that require effort, such as local hobby classes, sports leagues, or volunteer groups. They are just as tired of the digital noise, waiting to meet someone in real life.


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7634228804281552158

What are the lessons for men and women?

The collapse of Universe 25 shows that when an environment becomes unhealthy, the behaviors of both sexes change in ways that deeply hurt each other. For modern men to break out of this cycle, they must consciously reject the temptation to substitute real life with digital escapes like excessive pornography, video games, and social media. In the experiment, the male mice withdrew because dealing with the crowded community became too stressful, choosing instead to focus entirely on themselves. Modern men are doing the exact same thing by using digital dopamine loops to replace the hard work of real-world courtship, finance, and emotional vulnerability. To fix this, men must accept the stress of potential rejection, turn off their screens, and actively practice being present, reliable, and courageous in physical social spaces. They need to realize that shielding themselves from the discomfort of the modern dating market only cements their status as modern-day "Beautiful Ones," leaving them completely isolated.

At the same time, certain modern female behaviors are directly contributing to this male withdrawal. In the final stages of Universe 25, the female mice became hyper- aggressive, isolated themselves in high nests, and rejected the males entirely, which completely broke the natural desire of the males to protect and pursue. Today, the digital culture encourages women to adopt a hyper- defensive, highly critical posture online, often labeling average male awkwardness or basic courtship attempts as toxic or predatory. When men face a digital landscape where the penalty for making a mistake is public shame or instant cancellation, they decide that the stress of trying is simply not worth the risk. By treating the entire male population as a threat or demanding a flawless, hyper-wealthy partner, women inadvertently train good, average men to stay quiet and invisible to protect their own peace.

Wow brilliant!! This is intellectually appreciated,

Lovelink1991:
A single lady has come out to advice her fellow single ladies that they should remove their head from marriage and date for fun. Not all relationship leas to marriage.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpMrS5RBYqo?si=miI4jRGPeoT14js-

Only men are allowed to date for fun,women have a biological time to beat.

donareal:
I’m about to buy my first car and I need some advice from experienced car owners.

My options are Toyota RAV4, Toyota Matrix, and Honda CR-V. My budget is between ₦4.5m and ₦5m.

As a first-time buyer, which one would you recommend for me and why?

I’d really appreciate your suggestions. Thanks

Honestly speaking, all are wonderful economical vehicles, just chose the one that appeals to your lifestyle.

YourGFsnatcher:
If you are the first person in your house to buy a car, this might be useful to you.

Some of us were not privileged to have parents who had cars, so simple car maintenance might be new to us. No matter how smart you are, when it comes to cars, experience is key, but knowledge will help you save cost and avoid heartbreaks.

I will not go into minor details like checking of temperature, oil, filter, etc for believe that's what you will first learn. Let's go into more complex issues.

1. Ensure you understand how your car works more than you trust your mechanic

My first car was a Peugeot. The major issue with maintaining a Peugeot is having an electrician that understands Peugeot wiring.

The brainbox of my car was burn because the electrician thought the car had issues when it didn't turn off after the ignition was off. Not knowing it's a security issue, he rewired the car and burnt my brain box, had to buy new brainbox and the car was never the same again. Why the car didn't turn off was because the AC was on, and turning on the car with the AC on usually affects some components like the fuel pump, so the manufacturers made it such that without turning off the AC, the car won't turn off. But other models don't operate like that, so it was a new thing for the electrician

Don't just meet any electrician, ensure you find someone who understands how the model of yiur car works. If not you will spent money every week on one problem or the other, and it all leads back to electrician issues.

2. Know about your care model.

My second car was a corolla that has never been tempered with.
So when I started the car during cold season, the radiator fans weren't working. I panicked and called the electrician to help me fix it. He charged me a lot of money. What I didn't know what that the fans will not start until the engine temperature gets to a particular degree. He disconnected my fans from the sensors such that the fans will start immediately when the engine is on...so in essence, I paid someone to mess with my car

3. Understand your lights.

Some car models will automatically turn on your parking light when you disengage the Handbrake. Don't panick, that's how they are design, rewiring the car to put off the light will be doing damages to your car. In the evening or during rain, the dashboard light might automatically turn up too. These are all normal, don't pay someone to mess with your car.

4. Understand acceleration

Finally, this is one the reasons why you can burn fuel and destroy your engine without achieving efficiency.

Accelerating is not all about pressing the accelerator to the highest point. Doing that will send signal to your engine that it would consume more fuel and work at full capacity. That will just break your engine.

Smart acceleration is not rigorous, the car understands that you want to move faster, that's why it's not called velocitator but accelerator, meaning the velocity changed with time.
Just maintain that soft paddling and you will achieve the acceleration you are looking for. That doesn't stress the engine and saves you a lot of fuel.

If you want to have a rigorous acceleration, then buy sport cars, that's what they are meant for. Their engine power can withstand it.


What has been your experience and mistakes when you had your first car?

I don't see the relevance of all you wrote up there without teaching them dangerous warning signs and sounds to save a detroriating situation.

Car dealers and thieves be same thing but different branch.

wearsandtrends1:
I want to sell mine and complete the money for this Venza
The dealer said I shud getat if I don't have 20 million

Abeg Shey e worth am

I won't even buy this ugly crawling machine for #10million.

Tenses:
This AI might be what God will use to destroy the world, not fire like the Christians believe

You sure say Ai never replace God sef?

TemplarLandry:
He should behave himself now that he's out temporarily.
Any reckless utterance or post online by him, he'll go back to the cage.

you lack courage and sense so just bury your head in shame when others speak for you who can only speak in your closet

Flooded vehicle? Keep off if you like yourself!!

Paying a womans bills in the name of love.

igwedubai2:
We are happy congratulating her but while here in naija we kicked against 16 years can’t write jamb if u are not up to 18 years

check well,she's related to ICAN top official.

Richtaiwo:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2026/06/meet-16-yr-old-osasere-okundaye-who-became-nigerias-youngest-chartered-accountant/

with all the exam racketeering going on within ICAN? I can never take ICAN serious after what I know and saw with my own eyes.

Omayie:
Paying any less is putting the buyer and vehicle at risk

How? Make me understand

Sirchiboy:
If insecurity wasn’t the problem, where would you like to stay in nigeria ?

North ,doing my transborder business

Sonofgod1990:
Aswear. I'm even with one now

Guy abeg I don laugh wound myself...every don do abeg 😃

ezeknov:

Una no go kill person with laugh abeg

I swear...I just dey laugh these boys

Omayie:
Chief, it’s true you can pay less.
If you can please try to import one and pay way less.

its quite high.

Omayie:
This is dealers deal for the 2025 Lexus RX350
Custom duty of over N40M
Clean and Neat like brand new
100 accident free

cusyom duty of over #40m on a used vehicle? Story!

mayor1814:
A South Africa-based Nigerian man popularly known as Big Joe has been reportedly shot dead outside his shop in South Africa. There have been growing concern regarding South Africa xenophobic attacks against Nigerians and other Africans in recent months. This is seen as terrible step taken too far in the ongoing attacks against Nigerians and other Africans living and working in South Africa.



https://x.com/i/status/2071574413665882114

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