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Lamanii22:
Hello family lander! I was just wondering if it’s normal for my five year old to like/love fashion? Lately she wants long hair, choosing shorts and tucking in with a top…. Should I just let her have her way or I’d be spoiling her that way? Thank you for responses.

Typing:
What's this one saying..

BodePolScience:
I don't want to feel weird, but you don't need to pay ridiculous amount to learn driving. Observation skill is enough and a day to two day guide from a close friend or family member is enough, the rest depend on the calmness, courage, reflection, patience and confidence of the learner.

Typing:
It's about 58k for 4 weeks in Kaduna

Imperare:
It should be 40k or a little higher

Bigsin:
Please do anyone know how much driving Schools charge in Abuja? I would like to learn how to drive for fun.
Last time I wanted to learn in Lagos, the schools were charging ridiculous amount as if they suspect I was going to buy a car soon.

iwaeda:
It will be funny if this case is dismissed like that. The trauma and panick this man caused that day. If those boys have hit him with bottles, his mother and sisters will not be there to save him.

Sirchiboy:
How do children of the same mother hate each other so much that they no longer speak to each other?

Ezeama400:
Deji’s style of politics is disgraceful

Leemzyy:
I told you guys not to raise your voice at me 😭😭😭

eepeepook:
It happens. If your seatbelt is on, you have little to fear.

Leemzyy:
I pity the girl instead, oh poor girl 🤧 she deserves better 😣

Leemzyy:
Oh please they should spare the Woman....the man should pay for everything, he probably deceived her...Men!😣😞😞

Leemzyy:
Fine, how do you I stay there 😒

Leemzyy:
It's always me 😒

Leemzyy:
When are we coming for the funeral?

Chidibe212:
Omo...the brakes can't help in this situation. Just brace for impact cuz you must hit that car. Assuming I saw the path on the back or the front of the truck I will know if I am going to swerve left or right. But that 180 top speed is high way to hell in this situation.

I told someone...when you are on top speed above 100, you don't have absolute control of your brakes and steering.

Evaress:
ok.

Evaress:
can you dm me. I have them in microsoft copy. I can send to you.

Evaress:
i dont know why u people dont read to understand. I dont have parlor in my house. The only door to my house is my room door. I thought he just wanted to relate casual with me thats why i took his number. The landlady said she always introduces her brother to all her tenants and he relates casual with them. So i didn't look at him as that type of man

Evaress:
I'm an introvert and a writer, so I spend most of my time inside writing. I just moved into a new neighborhood.

When I moved in, my landlady introduced me to her brother when he came to visit. I greeted him politely.

Later, my landlady told me her brother had been talking about me. He said he didn't like that I was always alone and that I should try to come out and socialize more. Every time he visited her, he would ask about me.

I thought maybe I was being too distant, so I decided that next time he came, I would try to be more friendly and casual with him.

When he came again, I went out to greet him. I told him I heard he always asks about me. He said he was just concerned because I'm always indoors alone and he wanted me to have a friend. I smiled, thanked him, and i took his number promising to call him. I had planned to call him that week, but there was no power and my phone was dead.

He came again last Saturday to visit my landlady and after he finished talking to her. He came to my room. I let him inside. My house na small house o. No parlor inside. He asked why I didn't call him. I explained there was no light. Then he told me I should know that he likes me. He asked if I have a boyfriend, and I said yes. Then he asked me if we have sex. I told him I couldn't answer that. He said I was acting like a small girl.

Then he came closer and started touching my legs. I moved away. He said he loves tall girls. I kept begging him, "Please sir, I will call you, let's talk later." But he kept trying to touch me, and I kept dodging him, running to the other side of the room. Eventually, he left.

I went straight to my landlady and reported what happened. She said she was surprised to hear that and promised to warn him the next time he came.

He came again today. She confronted him about it, but he denied everything. Then he came to my room and knocked again. This time I refused to open the door. I pretended to be asleep until he left.

When I came out, my landlady told me he denied it all and asked me if I was sure I was telling the truth. Now he's making me look like a liar.

I know he will come to visit again on Sunday, and this time I'm ready to confront him. What should I do? This man is old enough to be my father.

Leemzyy:
Yeahh you are right, I agree 😞

Samantha125:
A foetus is just a combination of cells and nothing more, it has yet to develop into a human, so until men stop masturbating and using condoms, they have no right to be calling out women for doing abortions when they'd be killing their own DNA cells on a weekly basis.

Sirchiboy:
After the hookup girl destroy my life and made me mismanage my only savings of 10m plus.
I have vowed to start dealing with any girl I meet

uche87:
If you have struggled with dating women your age or younger, you might want to try dating someone older than you. In my view, it is a different experience, and the pressure is considerably reduced.

Older women have been there and done that, like Lionel Messi, and there is often less for them to fear or feel anxious about. They are simply on a cruise, enjoying the journey rather than rushing to their destination.

If you are looking for something that is not too serious, financially demanding or stressful, an older woman could be the answer. In my opinion, older women tend to understand young men better. Even when you are not talking, they can actually hear you clearly.

They can look at a man’s age and understand some of the life challenges he might be facing. They know how frustrating life can be for a young man who is still trying to find his feet, especially when he has to deal with financial pressure, unnecessary arguments and endless demands. Some of them simply want to focus on the fun side of a relationship: pleasure, companionship and making beautiful memories.

They can also be excellent advisers on life issues. From my experience, some older women are less jealous than their younger counterparts. They create an atmosphere of peace, which is important for a man’s mental well-being. Some also cook exceptionally well and have a way of spoiling their younger lovers with thoughtful, simple gifts.

Let me be clear: I am not talking about a sugar mummy. I mean a romantic, respectful relationship that is not exploitative. There is little pressure. You see each other when it is convenient for both of you, eat, talk, discuss life and keep the bed shaking. Some of these women are also well-connected and could open doors to fantastic opportunities for a younger man.

I briefly had a relationship with an older woman, and we connected deeply. The encounter was cordial, respectful and genuinely meaningful. She opened my eyes to some of the mistakes young men make while living abroad. Her advice helped me navigate a challenging period in my life. Even after we moved on, we stayed in touch and occasionally teased each other about our old memories.

However, dating older women is not without its challenges. One thing I have noticed is that some can be very good at hiding their feelings. They are not always easy to get close to, and they tend to keep their emotions guarded. It can take time before they feel comfortable opening up to someone younger.

Even when they meet a man they admire, they may spend too much time assessing the risks instead of making a decision. But if you manage to crack the code, you might discover the playful, affectionate side of them that they rarely show to the outside world.

Loneliness can also be a reality for some older women, particularly those who struggle to find compatible partners. However, I believe many have simply become more selective about who they allow into their lives.

As expected, some people will frown at this argument. People often have strong opinions about experiences they have never had. But I believe dating an older woman is a goldmine worth exploring, particularly for young men who want companionship, peace of mind and a different kind of romantic experience.

I see it as something worth exploring in the interim, rather than necessarily a long-term destination. After all, not every relationship has to lead to marriage to leave you with valuable lessons, beautiful memories and a different perspective on life.

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