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Romance › Re: “I’m 41, Single & Searching” – Lady Offers ₦10M To Any Man Who Marries Her by socoharley: 4:10pm On Jul 17
I am interested! Keep your ten million...just have two kids for me. grin
Foreign Affairs › Re: South Africans Enjoying Immigrant-Owned Spaza Shop After Takeover (Pics, Video) by socoharley: 9:10am On Jul 17
RandDigital come o..no be you be that so?
Chai! Poor south Africans going back to slavery below the white population soon grin
Politics › Re: Mary Habila Spoke With Her Boyfriend, Complained Of Nose Bleeding - Dave Umahi by socoharley: 7:03am On Jul 17
Image123:
Have you heard of the word investigation? Has anyone ever died around you?
Your question is totally baseless...it's either you rephrase it or you scram!!!!
Culture › Re: Bereaved Son Share Burial Demands From Village Group, Sparks Debate by socoharley: 7:01am On Jul 17
VenExchangee:
I see nothing here, the dead also enjoyed from other people's own...

So it must go on...
E be like osusu, them don contribute for her, na time for her to contribute for another person
Don't mind those ones making noise..even the church that will officiate things will bring their own list too.
Foreign Affairs › Re: 501-31: Russia & Ukraine Exchange Dead Bodies Of Soldiers Killed (Photos) by socoharley: 2:40am On Jul 17
SatanIsAllah:
Russia's population is 140 million, Ukraine's is less than 30 million.
Can't Putin pick on someone his own size or is he a coward?
Don't blame Putin,blame that Ukrainian clown turned president for not knowing his mate undecided... zelensky
Politics › Re: Mary Habila Spoke With Her Boyfriend, Complained Of Nose Bleeding - Dave Umahi by socoharley: 2:31am On Jul 17
So how was Umahi priviledged to be around her when talking to her boyfriend ?
Was she disrespectful enough to pick a phone call in front of her principal client or was there a clandestine affair keeping them close off duty?
Romance › Re: The Understanding Person Is The One Who Always Gets The Short End Of The Stick by socoharley: 1:18pm On Jul 16
Sonofgod1990:
That how someone took advantage of me and defrauded me about $300,000 on this nairaland. My kindness Sha
As na mumu you be na grin...kind full undecided
Crime › Re: Video Of Favour Narrating How Odogwu Asaba Raped Her Before Committing Suicide by socoharley: 1:12pm On Jul 16
This guy is cooked!
Crime › Re: Video of Content Creator ‘odogwu Of Asaba’ begging family of victim by socoharley: 10:03am On Jul 16
joeyswift:
He complicit in her death. Why u no go olosho. He is begging for what? That man should be in jail
If proven in court that his action of raping her caused her death,then he is culpable of 2nd degree murder and would either face life imprisonment if he escapes the death sentence which i expect he should get.
Education › Re: Sex With Student: UNIZIK Lecturer Jumps Through The Window In Boxers by socoharley: 7:49am On Jul 16
Its just so disgusting how some people go so low for fleeting pleasures... undecided How can a lecturer knowingly and willingly desecrate a place of learning .
Romance › Re: What Is The Biggest Relationship Red Flag You Ignored And Regretted? by socoharley: 3:40pm On Jul 15
*love bombing......but I knew such emotions were too early as she was just trying to unlock my bank account grin
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by socoharley: 3:37pm On Jul 15
QuinQ:
Try to state your points. That's what a civilized person does
I am an African man and my standards emanate from the conservative African norms.
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by socoharley: 11:18am On Jul 15
QuinQ:
May wjat befall me? Whatever it is, back to sender.
You still haven't told us what is wrong with govt banning DNA test for minors. Mind you they're not forcing you to accept the kids. But once you accept them they're your kids. You can't later start screaming DNA!
go and marry first and stop making noise. When your wife births a child that resembles your best friend please don't do DNA test inugo... undecided nshi aķpànà
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by socoharley: 11:15am On Jul 15
QuinQ:
What exactly does it take to raise a child compared to what it takes to bring a healthy child into the world? How much does a child eat?
A child that may come with blessings and may later become great.

And nobody is forcing you to accept the child. But once you accept him you can't later start DNA fishing. Govt ought step in and prevent that!
Rubbish!!
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by socoharley: 5:48am On Jul 15
QuinQ:
Only a man who relies on instinct like an animal instead of using his God-given brains will not realize that sperm is not what makes you father to a child. Will not know that some stranger who donated sperm 30 years ago will never be dad to a child that the only father he's known from infancy us his dad!
may such befall you....Amen!
Family › Re: What Are The Benefits Of Marriage To Women? by socoharley: 5:30am On Jul 15
LIVINGICONREBOR:
chiboy, u don't strike me like somebody dat have crossed 30 years of age how much more 45 years.
He probably smoked "colos" before writing all that rubbish about himself or herself undecided
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by socoharley: 5:21am On Jul 15
QuinQ:
But this is NOT about parternity fraud or deceitful partner. This is about Govt giving settled (likely happy) families incentive NOT to embark on unwarranted DNA fishing on their children!
Only a "half man" will accept another man's child knowingly and stay dumb.
Do you know the amount of sacrifices, effort and finance we men put into raising a child? And then you happily raise a child that's not your own because your "unfaithful wife" brought home her sins?
Guy abeg die this matter and wake up!
Romance › Re: Before You Invite A Lady Over by socoharley: 5:16am On Jul 15
stunnert:
He's a funny lad, he totally derailed from the topic and gave the op a proper tongue lashing grin grin
He made me proud to be a grammarian grin
Crime › Re: Prince Adeniyi Adeyemi Arrested In Osun by socoharley: 5:09am On Jul 15
christejames:
What about his accomplish Gbajabiamila?
" accomplice "
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by socoharley: 5:04am On Jul 15
QuinQ:
Never mind me, why not focuse on pointing out how and where the thesis is wrong
it is morally wrong in every way because you can never justify paternity fraud which is an offshoot from a deceitful partner.
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by socoharley: 4:50am On Jul 15
QuinQ:
Thak you very much. This active father below says it well:

But jokes apart, there's elements of truth here o. Because after the love and bond with my children from pregnancy to infancy to adolescent to adult, many times we've shared love, sufferings, laughter, pains and joy together then one idiot from nowhere wants to drag me to go and do DNA, as how naw? The fact is that, I will never ever want to think whether the children are mine or not. Children wey i nurture from pregnancy till now angry
I know your type very well,they say one thing and do the complete opposite....BTW,are you sterile?
Family › Re: Why Government Should Ban DNA Testing Of Minors by socoharley: 4:48am On Jul 15
QuinQQ:
Simple resson: if you've had a child since infancy, he is your child and you're his father and you're obligated to take care of that child till age of maturity. That's how Nature intended it.
It is NOT sperm that makes you someone's father!
Other people fight for custody of children tooth and nail. You don't have to do any of that. He's your child and you get ALL the benefits of fatherhood. He carries your name, references you as his father, and if he ever becomes something ALL fatherhood glory will go to you!
Nonsense!!
Sports › Re: Do You See Mbappe Taking The Golden Boot? by socoharley: 11:27pm On Jul 14
HeartlandNews:
According to history, The script looks familiar… 👀🏆
Boot!! Not Boat undecided...una go dey hurry to post.
Family › Re: Mikel Obi Speaks On Family Financial Pressure Faced By Successful Africans by socoharley: 5:13pm On Jul 14
FX:
Before nko. Imagine me making $10b. It's for my whole village and friends as a matter of hard fact. I can't finish it nah
Mikel should keep quiet! It is African culture because, " who go succeed.. succeeds for the family... Who no succeed na family get the burden".
Events › Re: I’ll Be Turning 45 In October, And I’m Not Ashamed To Admit That…. by socoharley: 11:36am On Jul 14
Sirchiboy:
I’ll be turning 45 in October, and I’m not ashamed to admit that….

1. I can’t drive.
2. I don’t have a car.
3. I’ve been single for years.
4. I’ve never been on a plane.
5. I don’t have an international passport.
6. I run a business, but I still struggle financially.
7. I’m still scared of marriage and commitment.
8. I’m not a “baddie” (I tried, but it isn’t me).
9. I still battle with my weight and body image.
10. I love staying indoors and enjoy my own company.
11. People have judged me before they got to know me.
12. I’ve been on my own since I was young, and life has taught me hard lessons.
13. I’ve never been to a club.
14. I’ve never drank alcohol.
15. I’m so scared of relationships that I walk away as soon as I see serious red flags.
16. I’ve struggled with depression, anxiety, and self doubt.
17. I’ve cried myself to sleep more times than I can count.
18. My immune system isn’t the strongest.
19. I cry easily, especially when I’m overwhelmed or frustrated.
20. My English isn’t perfect, but I keep learning every day.
21. I’ve lost my hope, and life has never been the same.
22. I take care of my mother as much as I can.
23. My business has crashed before, and I got into millions of naira in debt. I’m still fighting my way out.
24. I’ve been betrayed by people I genuinely trusted.
25. Since my last relationship, I’ve never really been someone’s priority. I always seem to attract emotionally unavailable men or men who are already committed. I RUN.
26. I questioned myself more times than I’d like to admit.
27. I pray more than most people know.
28. I’m in my final year at the university, and I’m proud I didn’t give up.
29. I started my business with very little and kept pushing despite setbacks.
30. I don’t own my dream house yet.
31. I don’t have everything I want yet.
32. I still dream of owning my walk in store.
33. I still have dreams that keep me awake at night.
34. I choose peace over relationships that cost me my self worth.
35. I’m learning to love myself, even on the difficult days.
36. I'm broke, discouraged, exhausted, and heartbroken, but I never stopped trying.
37. I’ve survived seasons I never thought I’d make it through.
38. My journey has been messy, but it has made me stronger.
39. I know my story isn’t over.
40. I recently told God that the best gift He will give me now is the gift of REST. I mean the kind my father is having right now.
41. So im currently working waiting to pay my debts off so I can cross.
42. That might actually be the end of my story but for now im still here so I write as much as I can.

At 45, my life may not look the way I imagined it would, but I’m still here. Still fighting. Still building. Still healing. Still believing. Still growing. Still trusting God. And for that, I’ll always be grateful.
Please clarify number 25?
Career › Re: I Want To Leave My Comfort Zone ������ by socoharley: 1:07pm On Jul 13
Speedstar7:
Thanks alot boss I feel inspired..... please how do I go about digital marketing....I don't really how to sell ebooks
how
25 and you are feeling like this... undecided what of we wey carry family yet still no show?
Education › Re: WAEC Fee Is 50k, Let's Call On Davido, Burna Boy And Asake To Help by socoharley: 3:33pm On Jul 12
Very silly comments that ignorant woman keeps making undecided
Romance › Re: I Still Control My Ex From Her Husband's House by socoharley: 3:27pm On Jul 12
YourGFsnatcher:
My ex married a very nice man.
But she's still loyal to me. She doesn't take any major decision without consulting me.
She completely believes in my judgement.
Thought I always give her sound judgement, but I think it's time for her to look unto her husband.

I wouldn't want my wife to rely on her ex before taking any major decision.

How can I pull out?
A reflection oh how unintelligent your ex is,that is why she's your ex undecided

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