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.This is a girl i met barely 4 months now at our church students conference ,she is our church memeber .She is a beautiful, average ,social , amiable and speaks grammar eloquently and has a nice voice.
To me i thought i have found an angel,because the relationship started smoothly and my prayer is that the relationship will continue because i promised her i would want her to be my better half.
she agreed and we started because i told her i am not wealthy,handsome,or to show off to her .She is one year older,but that did not bother her.
To my greatest surprise she told me how much she loves me and want me to be everything to her.she is not pretentious and that is why she told about a guy she had been with for 3 years now but that she does not have much love for him.I told her to cut him off but she finds it a tough task.Advice me because i will not like to be heart broken.We love ourselves but i will not like to be affected.The problem now is that the guy gives her everything she needs including sex,a very costly phone she has was bought by the same guy.
Okay we do have mid night calls and calls during day time because atimes i do send credit to her.The problem i am having in the relationship is distance because she stays at Owerri and i stay at Enugu but because of my education i stay at Umuahia.We saw each other twice since our 4 months old relationship i knew distance was affecting us somehow those time was when i visited her at Owerri and when she visited me at Umuahia.
At first i told her that i want a platonic relationship and i meant it.On 14th February she flashed me and as usual i called her to know why she flashed ,the second time i called that same guy picked my call and off the handset.
The nextday she flashed me and i called her she asked me to call back so that she will explain what happened the previous night i was boiling so i ignored her .On thursday the same week she called and pleading and explained the episode that occured which i accepted reluctantly.
After that episode the relationship soured because she had warned me that lack of trust kills relationship although i have not enquired about the guy because i did not want to hurt her feeling or any misunderstanding to come from me.
I had always pampered and cherished her that most often i am not angry.I was very proud about this girl and always boasted about her even my neighbours in my lodge hailed me for going out with such a queen.
I made her fell into the ocean of love with the kind of text messages i always sent because they were romantic and touchy.
Nowadays all those texts , calls from each other are gone because the relationship is losing its appetite.
I am not feeeling bad because this is my final year and i would not like to loose concentration in my studies of which she is aware.Please advice me.

pls tell me those things that make them happy it is rare.

it is good as far as she love his guy.

It is a happy news

I will give it to Samuel Eto

No you really tried not all girls are so

It is a pity take it easy God will give you another.

Nigeria is stupid,the money is exhilarating

They do that for adventure purposes.

There are many reasons maybe they dont want to be infested with STDs, atimes promiscuity in ladies might lead to infertility tomorrow

yes it exists

yes because i love her

who are they

I will say David Beckham

No because is inhuman

it is Fernando Torres of liverpool

when is it holding

so you mean yar Adua was seen wonders shall never end

At 22 years

Is it true

is it true?