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IslamRe: Understanding Islam And Muhammed Better - Sincere Questions To Muslims by Softee(f): 11:12pm On Feb 28, 2006
9ijaMan,

Why do i need to go out and explore islam? I know deep in my heart what i am doing and where i am going. Anyway *tell a lie* I have actually read some islam texts and found them quite intimidating so i refused to go on. I don't know about chrisd but i simply cannot sit down and be reading something that says " kufarrs are your worse enemys" "jesus was nothing more than a prophet". When infact Jesus is my saviour, my start, my now, my close, my end!

I did read enough to know that christianity and islam are both abrahamic and christianity started off with issac (The child of promise) and islam with Ishmel (Adultery).

And how come my personal opinion turned into ALL christians?

And what i meant by digging yourself too deep is that you might just get so caught up in islam that you can't find your way to turn back. Its happend before! But of course merciful God turned the person around. Overall Chrisd, you need to study christianity more, you can't know everything, there is always something you don't know. If you feel like your in a deep end the answer is not to study religion but to ask God to use your life for his Glory.

Exodus 15:2
The LORD is my strength and my song,and he has become my salvation;this is my God, and I will praise him,my father's God, and I will exalt him.

Deuteronomy 8:19

And if you forget the LORD your God and go after other gods and serve them and worship them, I solemnly warn you today that you shall surely perish.

(This may not apply to you but its still an important verse)
FamilyRe: Would You Abort? Advice Someone To Abort? Is Abortion Murder? by Softee(f): 10:31pm On Feb 28, 2006
Gotutripin,

I understand you but you have got to understand that the pictures was not directed at you. I just put them there for people to see the cruelness of abortion. My friend recently had an abortion. I would never put her down or any one in the same situation because i love her and care for her. But the fact of the matter is im not against the people who have abortions, infact im not against anyone, i just feel sorry for the lives that are gone.

I wish you all the best in future and remember that God luvz u!
FamilyRe: Would You Abort? Advice Someone To Abort? Is Abortion Murder? by Softee(f): 9:27am On Feb 28, 2006
Gotutripin:
Listen i don't know you and honestly i wouldnt ever want to, your a horrible person, you really are, i went to the clinic to go sign papers and their were people like you outside, they didnt know my situation and they didnt know me how many days old i was pregnant, and you know what i did to them i went back at them and gave them my opinion on how i felt, because do they have nothin better to do then make other people feel like rubbish, like seriously your a horribly mean person inside, if i was 3 months pregnant i would completely agree with you head on, im against surgical abortion to a certain extent of the month a girl is in in her pregnancy, im literally a couple of days pregnant, and i have gone over it with my mom, and even my mom said im making the right decision because of the stage im in in the pregnancy, im catholic and i know God will forgive me and if you seriously live your life trying to put down people and searching on the internet for pictures to make people feel horrible about themselves, then you need serious therapy because you have issues, i know im not a bad person and your not goona make me or anyone in my situation feel like a bad person, you don't know what its like that im going through right now, emotional and mental rubbish, i don't fuckin need you tryin to make me feel even more worse about this, i made a mistake, and i am making up for it every morning i wake up, you have every right to your opinion but don't push pictures like that in peoples faces, thats something YOU shouldnt be forgiven for
My intention was not to make you feel bad or put you down. My intension was to prevent another life being taken away. I'm warning others who think abortion is right. Im sorry if i upset you. But i think that the truth about abortion needs to come out. If nobody saw these pictures people will not know the horrific truth about abortion. The truth of the matter is, it can save a life, wouldn't that be better?

I am also a born-again christian and putting you down will be the last thing i will want to do. I can understand why you called me a mean person because that is what it seems like to you but you have totally got it wrong. If a mother that is going to abort sees these pictures and decides she is not going to abort and shows all her friends and they share similar opinions and so on, this can save MANY MANY lives.

Once again my full appologies for making you feel bad. Only God understands what you are going through and he will surely bless you after the darkness.
FamilyRe: Would You Abort? Advice Someone To Abort? Is Abortion Murder? by Softee(f): 10:54pm On Feb 27, 2006
Wether these pictures are real or not (which they are). That is what abortion looks like. You also seem to be missing my point here. Even if a feotus is only developed into 4 bunched up cells, aborting it you are still killing something that could have been a bouncy baby. My argument is that if you don't know what life is, who are you to make the choice wether a life lives or dies.

And you cannot tell me THESE pictures are not real! (I'm sorry everyone for the unpleasant pictures but this is real life)
IslamRe: Understanding Islam And Muhammed Better - Sincere Questions To Muslims by Softee(f): 11:48pm On Feb 26, 2006
chrisd,

Go ask God how to deal with hypocrites (if they really are). For a christian you are very judgemental against your own people and loving towards muslims. How sad that you canno't leave the judging up to God and evangelise to the muslims you respect so much.
Christianity EtcRe: Religious Violence And Free Speech by Softee(f): 11:43pm On Feb 26, 2006
Islam? A religion of peace? Think again!

4:89 They long that ye should disbelieve even as they disbelieve, that ye may be upon a level (with them). So choose not friends from them till they forsake their homes in the way of Allah; if they turn back (to enmity) then take them and kill them wherever ye find them, and choose no friend nor helper from among them

4:76 Those who believe do battle for the cause of Allah; and those who disbelieve do battle for the cause of idols. So fight the minions of the devil. Lo! the devil's strategy is ever weak.

5:33 The only reward of those who make war upon Allah and His messenger and strive after corruption in the land will be that they will be killed or crucified, or have their hands and feet on alternate sides cut off, or will be expelled out of the land. Such will be their degradation in the world, and in the Hereafter theirs will be an awful doom; (Anyone who resist Islam is deemed to be making war with Allah)

5:72 They surely disbelieve who say: Lo! Allah is the Messiah, son of Mary. The Messiah (himself) said: O Children of Israel, worship Allah, my Lord and your Lord. Lo! whoso ascribeth partners unto Allah, for him Allah hath forbidden paradise. His abode is the Fire. For evil-doers there will be no helpers. (Talking about christians)
Christianity EtcRe: Biblical Contradictions: What should we believe by Softee(f): 3:54pm On Feb 26, 2006
Ajisafe,

You seem to have some deep issues with christians. You go around all the forums critisising born again christians. I bet this forum is a dream come true for you. What you need to do is stop critisising other people and TAKE THE LOG OUT OF YOUR OWN EYE. Give it a rest. Nobody wants to listen. If you have a problem with The Bible and Christians, Take it up with God!

As for the 'Bible condradictions' the words of the bible go deeper than WORDS. If you read the bible as a book, thats all it will be. Each chapter of the bible is like a stage of a christians life. While reading it you should have the holy spirit present. Then it will be of full meaning!

Quick prayer :
Lord almighty, we are sorry for doubting you lord. I pray that you will send your holy spirit down lord to help us people, show us lord that the bible is not just words but of mightiful meaning. Lord the devil is messing with our minds but lord you are mighty God, I pray that you will BREAK whatever spirit is causing this biblical confusion, In jesus name. AMEN
FamilyRe: Would You Abort? Advice Someone To Abort? Is Abortion Murder? by Softee(f): 3:04pm On Feb 26, 2006
nferyn:
Why would you exclude medical reasons?

One possible example: during a civil war a woman gets raped by the man who butchered her husband and her other children.
Another possible example: a single woman is pregnant. Two weeks after she finds out she's pregnant she loses her job
Another one: A retarded woman gets pregnant. She lives in an institution and can't take care of herself.

I think you can figure out what the consequences are of aborting or not aborting.
As for the first example, the woman should keep the child and give it up for adoption to a childless couple. As for the second example, the woman did not just fall pregnant, she had sex to fall pregnant! and she should have thought about her cirmcumstances when she was having sex, same as the retarted woman. The single woman should go to the job center! and claim benefits for her child and the retarded woman should either get help for her and her child or give it up for adoption. These examples are not excuse for abortion.

How can you say that before 23 weeks a fetoes is not a life. Do you know what life is? Do scientists know what life is? My best friend was born just after 23 weeks and it sickens me that she could have been aborted. These 46 million babies that are aborted each year could have been people, so what if they couldn't survive outside the womb if they were born, the fact is that they were doing quite well in the womb when the doctors interfered and sucked them out of their mother!

Are these not lives?
Shouldn't every growing fetoes have the chance of life like this cute baby?

Christianity EtcRe: Refuting Monotheism: God Does Not Exist by Softee(f): 10:04pm On Feb 24, 2006
Destroyed it****
Christianity EtcRe: Refuting Monotheism: God Does Not Exist by Softee(f): 10:01pm On Feb 24, 2006
www.vexen.co.uk/religion/rm.html,

This website talks the most rubbish i have ever heard!

They say that its demons that enforce religion? so what are they just going to get rid of demons themselves? Or just decide to live with them? So how did these demons come about? isnt it God that said that he created an angel and the angel chose evil and became the devil? So they are just using Gods words and saying he dosen't even exist!

They say if God was all-good and powerful, why would he make evil?
These people belive in demons so why isit that they find it so difficult beliveing in God. They can pass judgements that God dosen't exist but then they say demons do! so if demons exist are they saying we belong to the devil!! they obviously haven't though there claim throughly. God didn't make evil, he made Good. His good creation turned evil, and God even it but he then felt guilty to noah and his family because these were the only good people and made the world go on - the rainbow is PROOF of this promise!

Funny how this person did not talk about the prophecies in the bible.
Christianity EtcRe: Dealing With Criticism As A Christian Body by Softee(op): 9:21pm On Feb 24, 2006
allonym,

If you wrote a book, tell me:


How can you make over 100 prophecies about the world in 2000 years time? (that came true)
How can you reach the hearts of all 'your belivers'?
How can you make 'miracales' in their lives?
How can you speak to 'your belivers' through other people?
How can you make a man out of dust?

You can't can you! ONLY GOD CAN. Because right now your looking at the humanly side of things. You have got to think spiritually and open your heart and listen and hear these things out, because they are real, they exist. The Bible is real, its the word of God, but if you really want a relationship with God, its God you should be talking to not judging the bible. He will show you things! but its up to you to make the change.

I can try me hardest to convince you that the bible is real, but its all going to sound confusing to you. Until you open your heart and feel God.
Christianity EtcRe: You're A Christian, Your Wife Is A Muslim. Will The Marriage Work? by Softee(f): 11:30pm On Feb 23, 2006
No a christian canno't marry a person of a religion. I say this because getting married draws you away from God as it is. But marrying a muslim girl will draw you away from God even more. This is because we have differen't laws and commandments from God. It won't work. Also a christian husband and a wife are orignially surpose to go to CHURCH in the presence of God to get married and ask him for permission. The christian husband will expect to go to the church and the muslim wife will expect to go to the mosque. Also if they have children, they will most likely grow up confused about christianity and islam.

A true muslim woman wouldn't even marry out of her religion anyway because it is their belief.

I am a Christian and will only marry a Christian simply for the fact that i would like me and my husband to go in the presence of God together. So that the holy spirit can live in our home. Any marriage of God works! (If you do it correctly)
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Feel Like You May Not Enter Heaven? by Softee(f): 10:07pm On Feb 23, 2006
Freewilly,

You saying you know you are going to hell is quite extreme. Ok yes your sinning today but as long as theres Jesus theres always forgiveness but Jesus might be coming soon, so don't waste time, live everyday like its ur last. God can also help you to change your world. So its no excuse! Pot! Homosexuality! I rebuk you in the name of Jesus!
IslamRe: Understanding Islam And Muhammed Better - Sincere Questions To Muslims by Softee(f): 9:49pm On Feb 23, 2006
lol ha ha ha
Christianity EtcRe: Dealing With Criticism As A Christian Body by Softee(op): 11:17pm On Feb 22, 2006
Allonym,

I can sit here and give you 101 reasons why Gods book (Bible) is the one true book. But i can guarentee you there will be an humanly answer to it (who made God etc.). What i mean is that the spiritual world is differen't then what we are living in because the devil has tempted humans and has suceeded, and as a result of this, we as men have messed up society. As for proof, the Bible made PLENTY of prophecies that is going to happen in the world towards the end and they are happening now. This will be a good website to find out more about it. http://www.aboutbibleprophecy.com/

The bible also teaches a lot about False Teachings (Religions) that may sound convincing but are not true. After all is said and done if you really want to know God. Open your heart and do good by him and he will reveal himself to you!
Christianity EtcRe: Dealing With Criticism As A Christian Body by Softee(op): 2:46pm On Feb 18, 2006
allonym:
The Koran doesn't say that Christianity is the one true religion.

So, both of your books are wrong.
allonym,

The Holy Book of christians is not wrong. The Bible dosen't directly say " ONLY CHRISTIANS ARE GOING TO HEAVEN". But it does say :

John 14:6
Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

Matthew 10:33
but whoever denies me before men, I also will deny before my Father who is in heaven.
Christianity EtcRe: Dealing With Criticism As A Christian Body by Softee(op): 2:37pm On Feb 18, 2006
choice.A:
Softee,

It's going to be an uphill task to get rational answers from people viewing this thread if it was simply created for stereotyped answers. Certainly, anyone visiting it to read comments might have questions; some might even break the rules sometimes and say things with foul language that you consider just illusive, offensive or otherwise incoherent. Perhaps, it might be a little more helpful to welcome views both agreeing and dissenting as to the rational of your faith in Jesus Christ. In other words, why do you believe that Christianity makes more sense than any other worldview? Never lose sight of the title of this thread - "Dealing with Criticism" - and expect people to both criticise and appraise what they read here. Criticisms are as legitimate as the topic itself.

In all probability, it would have been almost impossible for me to trust in Jesus Christ as my Lord and Saviour if the questions of my hardened skeptic mind received no rational answers. Nevermind if you don't have all the answers to the questions people ask: lovingly tell them the ones you know; leave a few more for some other Christians who might be more mature than you and me. Both ways, we'll be blessed. Jesus was criticised all round. Let's learn from Him who calls us to follow in His footsteps. wink
Yeah i think your right
Christianity EtcRe: Dealing With Criticism As A Christian Body by Softee(op): 1:42am On Feb 18, 2006
I didn't make this forum for arguing but im just going to say it as it is. Islam is not the "one true religion" because my bible does not say so. There is 101 things i can say to show you but i don't feel that it is needed. God will show himself to you when he wants to/if you allow him too, and then you will know that Jesus is the way, the truth and the life.

For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that he who shall believe in him, shall not perish but have everlasting life.
IslamRe: Understanding Islam And Muhammed Better - Sincere Questions To Muslims by Softee(f): 1:12am On Feb 18, 2006
4get_me,

I AGREE
Christianity EtcRe: Isaiah Prophesied Islam and Christians Accepting It by Softee(f): 12:19am On Feb 18, 2006
Stop trying to argue with christians! When God wants to show himself to you he will!
Christianity EtcRe: Isaiah Prophesied Islam and Christians Accepting It by Softee(f): 12:11am On Feb 18, 2006
I think his point is that jesus preached islam.

NOT TRUEEEEEEE

God is good, he gave us freewill smiley Luv u jesus
IslamRe: Understanding Islam And Muhammed Better - Sincere Questions To Muslims by Softee(f): 12:01am On Feb 18, 2006
Chrisd,

Theres nothing wrong with you understanding and respecting the islam religion, but it seems like your digging yourself in too deep. If you are really a christian like you claim to be, you should be evangelising about christianity - not telling people about islam. You should be drawing people to God. I'm not saying stop understanding islam but just a warning, before you dig yourself in deep.
IslamRe: Understanding Islam And Muhammed Better - Sincere Questions To Muslims by Softee(f): 11:56pm On Feb 17, 2006
, And if muslims will go out and understand christianity, the world will go around much smoother.
Christianity EtcRe: Dealing With Criticism As A Christian Body by Softee(op): 11:50pm On Feb 17, 2006
Wrong? that can not be an option. Yeah we as christians may get Gods teaching wrong at times but the holy spirit can whip us in to shape. We are not wrong, what we believe in is right.
Christianity EtcRe: Dealing With Criticism As A Christian Body by Softee(op): 1:28am On Feb 17, 2006
True, but its very upsetting that people can't see the light
Christianity EtcRe: Dealing With Criticism As A Christian Body by Softee(op): 12:00am On Feb 17, 2006
Gather?? LOL My Father**
Christianity EtcDealing With Criticism As A Christian Body by Softee(op): 12:00am On Feb 17, 2006
If you go through all the religion forums, you will see how much critisism christians get. Now i have a problem, as a result of this i get angry because it hurts when somone is dissing my Gather and my God, Afterall he does deserve all the praise, respect, adoration and time. So how do we deal with it?

God Bless You All!
Christianity EtcRe: Are Catholics Really Christians? by Softee(f): 11:49pm On Feb 16, 2006
You these so-called "born-again" are nothing but hypocrites! Although, I'm not a Christian (and I will never be one; I was born a Muslim and I'll die a Muslim -- insha Allah), but I respect the Catholics more than you "new breed" christians. By negating them you have alienated over a billion of the christian adherents. If we remove this astounding number from your population worldwide what remains is, maybe, a little less than 800,000,000 "christians." You are now in minority; even, the Indian Buddhists or whatever they call themselves, are now more than you in number. What makes you better than the catholics?

Ajisafe,

Please tell me this. WHO ARE YOU TO CALL BORN AGAIN CHRISTIANS HYPOCRITES!!!!
Only God is the judge he will rule the unworthy so why do you bother? I am a born again christian and i know a lot of people who are born again, we are all one body of christ, I REBUK IT IN THE NAME OF JESUS THAT WE ARE HYPOCRITES! I think before you judge you should TAKE THE LOG OUT OF YOUR OWN EYE BEFORE YOU CAN JUDGE THE SPECK IN ANYONE ELSES.

Chrisd,

You agree with this??
Both of you need to get right with God. The REAL God. The Jehovah Jira, Alpha and Omega.

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