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FRED HAMMOND ALL THE WAY!!

Ok, lets be honest with ourselves Is Kissing A Sin? is not the issue. The issue is, can you handle a kiss without going any further? In other words any thing that can lead to fornication is wrong.

If you really love your spouse, it shouldn't matter weather he or she is fat. However, if you are concerned about health issues, the appropriate way to act is encouarage a few workouts at the gym.

Ditch them both. neither ever did deserve you in the first place.

Ditch them both. neither ever did deserve you in the first place.

Lets stick to reality. You love your mum wayyy more than you love your husband, so you will eventually forgive your mother. Things will be a bit odd between you and your mum, but thats for her to suffer, you didn't do anything wrong, she did. The main issue however will be the little mite that gets born out of this huge betrayal. As a christian the best thing to do is accept that this has happend, never blaming the child, asking God to help you move on.

Parents!! heres a little tip for you:

When i was a child i found that when my mum deprived me of something i really liked doing (going out, computer, tv) this really annoyed me and made me think twice about being naughty. This even worked at the start of my teens but being 15 now i have grown out of bad behaviour, at least i like to think! (I'm sure my mum will dissagree!)

THIRD GIRL?? Take it as a blessing. There are some couples who cannot have children AT ALL and dream and hope of this happening to them.

I think your mother should come first. I mean she raised you, if it wasn't for her, you wouldn't be here. Your mother should be chosen over anybody but if however your mother is being out of order towards your wife becase of jealousy or whatever you should let your mum know that your wife is very much loved also and deserves respect (and vice versa).

Cocoa:
well hello to all of you. i said i would be back with the results and my cousin said that he doesn't have an sexual feelings for me. he said that he cares about me then i said that i care about him 2 in a brotherly/sisterly type of way and that any other way wouldn't be okay. he said that he'll stop saying sexual things about me.

Still be careful around him.

Hi Gurl,

Please do not go any further with your cousin. Let him know ASAP that you are cousins and you only intend to be one thing and that is cousins! I don't think it is appropriate for a 13 year old to be having disscussions about sex with a 21 year old. You see i have a friend who is having sexual intercourse with her cousin. She is blinded by lust and now the tables are turning against her, her family are suspicious and her cousin is treating her like a sex service. I am a teenager myself (15 years old) and i know what lust can feel like but you have to mature yourself and think of what it can lead to (in your case with your cousin!). Also, if you are a christian, you are a child of God and this is not only morally wrong but spiritually wrong too. You need to take out time to speak to God and rebuk the spirit of lust.

Yes, of course you should. Well i will anyway. The child came out of my body!!
Its just like clearing mucus out of my own throat! My child is a part of me. My mum did it for me!

We should all start singing "HOLY, HOLY IS THE LAMB"

Yes i believe Africa is cursed and troubled but only here on earth, always remember God's words:

Matthew 5:3
"Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven".

Reverend:
African men are to blame for the AIDS virus. It was them who performed sex on green monkeys. This unatural act with an animal is now being punished by God!

If anybody can stop this disease, it has to be God!

Was you there to witness the african men were having sex with monkeys?

teckman:
i don't think i've heard of any christian being harrased for carrying his bible in saudi arabia? school me on that
am a muslim,ave read the Q'uran and from my firsthand knowledge,we r not encouraged to fight or kill christians just because they don't worship the same way we do,anyways muslims believe in jesus and yes its in the Q'uran that he(jesus) is coming back,we just don't believe he got crucified ina degrading manner which the Bible portrays
lastly muslims don't hate christians(isnt that stupid),mostly those that participate in those riots/ killings are illiterates(almanjari's),a group of young boys reminiscent of area boys.who are given a token fee for carrying out the unGODly act,trust me i live in the north i know these things, i've got christians as friends aven as family embers because my family is a mixture of both religions,i respect your faith,am not just sure about it,

yeah,and those nations that wiped out about 97% of the native indians residing in America RIGHt?

I dissagree. I know you are not directly told through your quran to kill/fight all christians but some of the things in your quran suggests a lot of violence and most of this violence is resulted in war, bombing churches. I am not saying christians are innocent of these things but our actual Bible does not teach us to us violence in ANY FORM OR WAY. Your quran does:

Kill disbelievers wherever you find them. If they attack you, then kill them. Such is the reward of disbelievers. (But if they desist in their unbelief, then don't kill them.) 2:191-2

War is ordained by Allah, and all Muslims must be willing to fight, whether they like it or not. 2:216

Believers fight for Allah; disbelievers fight for the devil. So fight the minions of the devil. 4:76

Have no unbelieving friends. Kill the unbelievers wherever you find them. 4:89

If the unbelievers do not offer you peace, kill them wherever you find them. Against such you are given clear warrant. 4:91 (WAR)

God is not the creator of bad things, the devil is, so when the devil created aids, God probably just allowed it to happen. You see God looks after his people and will not let this kind of disease touch them unless its a consequence of ones actions or part of his plan, (Africa, innocent victims, )

God surely does have a plan for the innocent sufferers of this disease.

Matthew 5:3
"Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven".

beyunce:
LIFE AS DIFFINATELY BEEN MISREABLE FOR ME WITHOUT A MUM FOR THE PAST 6 YEARS,
I JUST WANT TO KNOW HOW YOU ALL MANAGE TO LIVE WITHOUT A MUM
I MEAN U ALL THAT HAVE NO MUM.

I'm sorry about your situation. I understand you a bit because i am without my father since i was born. Although my situation differs from yours i guess its still the same kind of emotions. What you gotta do is tell yourself you have a friend in Jesus and he is your Daddy/Mummy. I'm not saying you will stop feeling a bit down at times but this is just a boost of encouragement for one to go on in life.

True fact.

[b]26Then God said, "Let Us make man like Us and let him be head over the fish of the sea, and over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every thing that moves on the ground." 27And God made man in His own likeness. In the likeness of God He made him. He made both male and female. 28And God wanted good to come to them, saying, "Give birth to many. Grow in number. Fill the earth and rule over it. Rule over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the sky, and over every living thing that moves on the earth." 29Then God said, "See, I have given you every plant that gives seeds that is on the earth, and every tree that has fruit that gives seeds. They will be food for you. 30I have given every green plant for food to every animal of the earth, and to every bird of the sky, and to every thing that moves on the earth that has life." And it was so. 31God saw all that He had made and it was very good. There was evening and there was morning, the sixth day. [/b]

I don't know why God created us but all i know is that he did it in a wonderful way and his plan was not for the world to be like it is now.

yeepa:
@ softie

No one will stop you from typing whatever you want want on this forum but I think it's better you don't abuse your right to FREEDOM OF SPEECH

What have i done now?

urgh!!

Reverend's website is sick

What is reverends website?

must_a_far:
thats exactly what it is BABYFETISH damn it. or better still u still want to be a baby since u don't like being teenager

Well i rather not call it a baby-fetish

Reading and understanding (believing, feeling) are two differen't things.

allonym:
Anyone can make up stuff.

If I found a book which says God doesn't care about humanity and quoted from it, would that convince you of my position.

Probably not.

The bible is not just a book. The bible is ALIVE and is holy spirit filled, when you read it when the holy spirit is present, it will feel so personalised, God will actually be talking to you. Its amazing, you can feel Gods love for you.

Allonym,

God does loves you!

You see because we are regular human beings we do not understand God, or his ways, when your a christian and you accept Jesus as your lord and saviour and the holy spirit comes into your heart, you will start understanding God more. When people feel the spirit they talk in tounges which sounds like jibberish to the human ears but a prayer from your soul, this helps you understand God more. Its very hard to explain but its real and God is real, and he loves you! You see the devil is very intelligent and he is making you feel this way and be blinded to Gods glory. If God didn't love you or care about you why would he send his ONLY BEGOTTEN SON, Jesus Chist to DIE for your sins, in such a gruesome way?

[b]Rom 5:5 And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.

Titus 3:4-5 But when the kindness and love of God our Saviour appeared, 5 he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy.

Rom 5:8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

Psalm 145:7-8 The LORD is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and rich in love. The LORD is good to all; he has compassion on all he has made.

Nahum 1:7 The LORD is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in him,

Matt 11:28-29 "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light."

JOHN 3:16-17 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him[/b]

You want more, ??

God is good and he does not make the bad stuff happen.

Don't confront them. Now that you have this piece of information, just get on with your own life, ignore them, smile when you see them knowing that there is going to be more opportunities in life to meet new people.

Now who are the clowns?

Dupsybaby:
@ability , @larger 20 ,you both are confirmed agbaayas. What if softee is your lil sister,is that the advice you would give to her.----
@Roses thanks for all the brilliant advice you gave to her,God bless you real good.

@softee you take it slow,there is time for everything ,you are still very young focus on things that will make positive impact in your life then you can start thinking of babies in future,ok.start working towards a great future ,good education is what you need now.

We thank God for all the decent people that give great advice. Thanks Dubsybaby

must_a_far:
i think u have something called BABY-FETISH! u guys can correct me if u think it aint a baby fetish she got.

Baby-fetish? Don't be daft, i just love babies so much that i long for my own. I don't enjoy being a teenager much.

Reba:
@Softee
Are u sure that u are only 15?, or u just mention this numba so that we can fall for it and talk all we want , but if you're 15 as u say girl u need a medical attention because you're sick how can u think of a baby at your so called age yet you're a baby your self a baby taking care of the other not so cool girl , or do you want some body to play dolls with i can understand that, girl no offence just curious

I am 15. I am not sick. I am just a christian 15 year old girl going through the struggles and temptations of the world. Being a christian i am learning to overcome this, with help from people like Roses (who i respect very much). You see if you haven't realised the world is falling apart and it is mostly teenagers that are affected by it. Nowadays being a teenager is literally a nightmare. You see the thing with me is that the only thing that honsetly makes me happy is family. My mum, my brother and babies and this is prob why i'm craving a baby so young. So if this is what you call sick then i think you need to wake up and smell te coffee to the world we live in.

mamaput:
Its sick what some people here are writing.
Something like that is very normal in Kids that do not get enough love at home and want something to love and something that will love them back.
It has nothing to do with sex.

Mamaput,

I apprechiate your concern in me but me wanting a baby has nothing to do with not getting enough love at home. Yeah i have had my struggles but i know my mum loves me to bits and i love her so so much. We argue yes, but we always make up 5 mins later. We have a normal mum and daughter relationship with nothing out of the ordinary. Me wanting a baby goes much furthere than how the world wants to look at it. Its like a gift from God but i believe he wants to test me first, to see if i can go through these hard times and still have faith in him (Christians correct me if i'm worng).

mamaput:
ask if you can get u self a pet. for a start.

There was no need for that comment.

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