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Islie:SOMEHOW you wouldn't blame them, cause the country now appreciates big cash and not good heads... Sometimes i dnt knw who to blame. Is it the leaders? Circumstance? Parenting? Or lack of self discipline? |
chrisxxx:u mean Wike that called Buhari "BRAINLESS OLD MAN FROM THE NORTH" during his campaigne at Alimini-elele? U must be joking that APC as a whole znt agnst Wike |
SeductiveAngela:lol this is FOOLISHNESS BEEN PREMIERED INNA 10HD camera... Can't u percieve that ur mouth smells more than ur pvssy? When ever i see eediots like u i wonda hw jobless this country is ![]() SeductiveAngela:lol this is FOOLISHNESS BEEN PREMIERED INNA 10HD camera... Can't u percieve that ur mouth smells more than ur pvssy? When ever i see eediots like u i wonda hw jobless this country is |
Am here to read n learn also last year, i came across an autistic child name Ahmed along Woji-slaughter road PH..he was very skilled in drawing..so ma question is, what's the connection between AUTISM n DRAWING? Since autism wudnt mk a child tu b connected to the society..thank u |
Ilekeh:lol.. U mean it? Burger King? Kai! Dats racism at it Everest |
Ilekeh:lol ..u mean it? Burger King? Kai! Dats racism at it Everest |
Feranmicharles:lol guy thank u oo..u jux kick away my ignorance..i been no notice am ![]() Feranmicharles:lol guy thank u oo..u jux kick away my ignorance..i been no notice am |
My votes goes out to JARIZOD SOSIQDUDE LEKINZ RAPLAWD IAMKINGZLEE TOMFRENCH AKPOSY SCENTMARLC success tu y'all bro |
My votes goes out to JARIZOD SOSIQDUDE LEKINZ RAPLAWD IAMKINGZLEE TOMFRENCH AKPOSY SCENTMARLC success tu y'all bro cc : NLjega |
N-word to me means nothing. Just stop the discrimination n killins of the blacks in Texas n Ferguson |
After all this TANoids will come-out to say that, Amaechi did nothing in Rivers state.. Stewpid set of ppl |
Snail kwa? hmmm |
Hmm hmmm |
Lol Contractor sorry oo..PDP no go pay u oo..after that Hate-campaign una do..see d outcome Lol Contractor sorry oo..PDP no go pay u oo..after that Hate-campaign una do..see d outcome ![]() |
Ehyaa Tinubu boys pleading for position since 1700 B.C well thats good for democracy |
VictoriaBee:u b hunter? u just de beat around d bush...u'r tryno giv ursef hope ![]() |
Governor Nyesom Wike of Rivers State has vowed to upturn the status of some traditional rulers in state who are believed to have been favoured by the former Governor Rotimi Amaechi for political expediency while he will restore the status of those allegedly victimized unjustly by the ex-governor. In furtherance of his desire to correct what what he regards as “unfortunate politicisation of the traditional institution” by the former governor, he said: “I have sent an Executive Bill to the Rivers House of Assembly to repeal some sections of the Rivers State Traditional Rulers Council law, which the former Governor hurriedly passed in one of the rooms in Government House”. Wike said in the implementation of the obnoxious law, some traditional stools were hurriedly upgraded from third to first class and some had their status withdrawn from them,Pm news reports. He said some traditional rulers were also arbitrarily promoted above their peers and when the new Assembly passes the his Executive Bill into law, his administration would correct the injustices and arbitrariness. The governor who appeared on popular news and current affairs interactive programme of Silverbird FM radio in Port Harcourt decried a situation where some hitherto revered traditional rulers dabbled into politics. He specifically cited example where the Chairman of the state traditional council allegedly sent text messages to some traditional rulers not to attend ceremonies when the former president (Goodluck Jonathan) came to the state to address the people of the state. “How can you do that? How can you tell traditional rulers not to listen their President who wants to address them? As a traditional ruler you don’t dabble into politics. When Mr A from PDP visits your palace you bless him and when another from APC visits you bless him too and all you tell them is to ensure there is peace in the state. But if you do anything contrary to that there is dire consequences,” Wike cautioned Wike also alleged that a particular traditional ruler from Isiokpo, headquarters of Ikwerre local government area of the state went to the extent of taking a full page advertorial condemning his governorship ambition during the campaign period. The governor stated that the traditional ruler stated in the sponsored advertorial that Ikwerre people are not greedy for an Ikwerre (Wike) to succeed Amaechi also an Ikwerre. The state governor further alleged that the former governor dethroned a traditional ruler for daring to welcome him and his campaign team in his palace during campaign period, while someone who was no longer a chief in his (Wike’s) community, Rumuepricom, Obio-Akpor local Government was made a traditional ruler. However, Chidi Lloyd, the former Leader of the 7th Rivers House of Assembly disagreed with Wike on the Rivers State Council of Traditional Rulers law. He said that he was sure Wike had not read through the law the former lawmakers passed before condemning it. He said the new law passed was made to reflect the current realities aimed at “strengthening and empowering the traditional institution but not to make them partisan,” Lloyd posited. culled from : http://www.chichinwaafrica.com/2015/06/see-what-wike-is-planning-to-do.html?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=twitter
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VictoriaBee:lol...and you forgot that marriage was the only connection that really brought this sexes together? that a man would lord over his wife nt the oda way round..where in tha two holy books that a lady was made king? |
I do not see how we will ever solve the turbulent problem of race confronting our nation until there is an honest confrontation with it and a willing search for the truth and a willingness to admit the truth when we discover it.” -- Martin Luther King Jr., “The Other America,” 1968 ——— Earlier this year, I wrote an article for Aeon magazine called "Running Amok: The Crisis and Opportunity of Mass Shootings in America," (link is external) followed by a short referential blogpost here at Psych Unseen: "Mass Shootings in America: Crisis and Opportunity." In a sentence, these could be summarized by saying that the usual culprits brought forth to explain mass shootings, like guns and mental illness, should be viewed skeptically and that the underlying roots of such behavior are more deeply ingrained within human instinct and behavior. Just a few months have passed and all too soon we have another mass shooting. We're saddened, horrified, and outraged by the events that occurred at a church in Charleston, South Carolina earlier this week, if maybe just a little bit more inured to it all. But the lesson in the seeming frequency of mass murder and my claim that such events cannot be explained away by mental illness (a claim similarly made the other day in this article from Slate magazine ), isn't that we should become desensitized to violence or accept it, with nothing to be done to prevent future acts. On the contrary, if we begin with the premise that mass murder isn't typically perpetrated by some inexplicable "other" that can be swept under the rug of insanity, we can come to see how the seeds of hate and murder lie within us all and within the fabric of our society. Once we come to that realization, we can assume a responsibility that we can and must all do our parts to curb violence. This week's tragedy seems to offer a kind of case in point, with an opportunity to learn how we might move forward. Let's start with my standard Goldwater Rule disclaimer (see this past blogpost for my explanation of this ethical guideline for psychiatrists) — professionally speaking, I don't know anything about the suspect arrested for the Charleston shootings. Sure, we've all heard a bit of rumor, but in the fog of mass murder, we really don't know much. One article describes the alleged shooter as “quiet and strange,” as if that's telling. Another piece posted shortly after the suspect's arrest provides a very short list of "everything" we know about him thus far (link is external), claiming that the alleged shooter is a "pill-popping racist." Finally, in the midst of polemics about whether racism was to blame, this New York Times suggests that, yes, yes it was And so, while we still don't know enough, the available evidence presented through the (often unreliable) media suggests that the shooting was indeed racially motivated — an unfortunately classic example of a "hate crime," in this case targeting African Americans. Along a backdrop of cases highlighting the potential mistreatment of African Americans by police over the past year, it would seem that racism is the topic of the hour. And, as Martin Luther King Jr. said back in 1968 (see the quotation above), it’s something that needs to be talked about honestly, with a willingness to accept the truth. So let’s talk about racism. Many of us prefer to think that racism isn’t that big of a deal anymore, with this kind of denial coming in two flavors. One says that we’ve come a long way from the days of slavery and segregation, with a black president and whites potentially destined for minority status. Another concedes that racism may still be a problem within certain people or certain pockets of America, but not among those of us who sat watching 12 Years a Slave (link is external) in horror and moral outrage. But the truth is that, psychologically speaking, racism is a reality and, as a reflection of evolution-driven tribalism, it’s in our DNA. In the psychological literature, one aspect of racism is studied within a construct called “implicit bias.” As explained by the National Center for State Courts, “unlike explicit bias (which reflects the attitudes or beliefs that one endorses at a conscious level), implicit bias is the bias in judgment and/or behavior that results from subtle cognitive processes (e.g., implicit attitudes and implicit stereotypes) that often operate at a level below conscious awareness and without intentional control.” (link is external) In other words, as was the conclusion of a 2002 paper called “Why Can’t We Just Get Along? Interpersonal Biases and Interracial Distrust,” it appears that racism is often “subtle, often unintentional, and unconscious.”1 Now, before you affirm to yourself where you stand on how pervasive implicit biases about race are, click through to the Harvard University’s Project Implicit website (link is external), and take the Implicit Association Test (IAT) labeled “Race IAT.” Then, while you’re at it, try the Skin-Tone IAT, the Presidents IAT, the Weapons IAT, the Arab-Muslim IAT, the Sexuality IAT, the Weight IAT, or any of the others. Needless to say, the results may surprise you. I took several of the tests recently and let's just say that some of the results made me more than a little uncomfortable. And even if you’re African American yourself (or belong to another group against which people hold implicit biases), I suspect that your own test results might be at least as unsettling. Now, to be clear, the results of the race-related IATs shouldn’t be taken to mean that you are or aren’t a racist.2 Rather, they highlight how implicit biases about race are ingrained in our both culture and our individual minds, regardless of our own identities or socio-political views (for a characteristically eloquent but entertaining illustration of this reality, see Muhammed Ali’s classic BBC interview from back in 1971 (link is external)). In that sense, racism is undeniable. Once we acknowledge the prevalence of implicit biases about race, we can start to think about ways to change for the better. How do we do that? Several findings from research with the IAT offer some possibilities. On the discouraging side, a recent study suggests that the very act of taking the IAT make actually reduce positive interracial interactions,3 at least in the short-term, laboratory setting where “priming effects” may not be translatable to the real world. Likewise, holding the belief that race biases are fixed and unchangeable seems to be associated with overcompensation and efforts to end interracial interactions as soon as possible.4 On a more positive note however, believing that race biases are malleable seems to foster better interracial interactions. Finally — and this should come as no surprise — people who have interethnic friends tend to have less implicit race biases as measured by the IAT.5 Which brings us back to mass shootings and what we can do to prevent them. To begin with, we have to understand that there is no one single cause of mass murder. While I often argue that mental illness is a convenient, but inaccurate explanation, sometimes people with serious mental illness do commit murder. Just so, not all mass shootings are motivated by racism, though some certainly have been — the 2011 Norway attacks (link is external) and the 1999 Los Angeles Jewish Community Center shootings (link is external) (a case for which I interviewed the perpetrator, while assisting with his psychiatric evaluation) readily come to mind. If there is a common unifying thread to mass shootings, it's that they're carried out by people — mostly men — without well-defined mental illness who take certain beliefs to an extreme and carry out their aggressions on some perceived “others.” Such beliefs, which are often socio-political or religious in nature, are the kinds of beliefs and biases that we all harbor to some degree, just as we all tend to engage in divisions of “us” and “them.” As the IAT demonstrates, racism is a prime example of the kind of seed of violence that spans a continuum from all of us to the mass murderer at other end of the spectrum. Accepting the premise that the roots of violence lie within us all doesn’t mean that we’re all closet murderers — for the vast majority of us, taking another human life is a bright line that we wouldn’t cross in most circumstances. But it does mean that typical motives for mass murder and the emotions they’re grounded in — aggression, hate, and revenge directed at an “other” — represent “you or me… amplified.”6 Taking a page from IAT research, it’s important to think of these motives — even if they are “normal” to some degree — as modifiable. It's vital to not let ourselves become inured to violence no matter its frequency. Nor, for that matter, should we allow our racial biases to write some violence off as status quo, as we're prone to do with the alarming rates of murder among black youth living in certain pockets of urban America, like Chicago Then, just as perpetrators of mass violence inevitably target those that are viewed as “others,” we must not fall into the easy trap of painting the mass shooter, or the person on the path towards such violence, in the same way, as something that lies so far outside of ourselves that we can dismiss it as "evil" or "insanity." The roots of mass murder are much more integral and insidious than that, like cancer that's born within our own bodies of cells gone awry. In a multicultural society, we need to engage in more multicultural interaction. We need to make more friends with people who aren’t like us and encourage discussions of opposing views that don't quickly descend into hateful bickering, like they often do in online commentaries. By doing so, we can all do our part to work on our implicit biases about those that we might view with fear, misunderstanding, and aggression, in order to foster a more peaceful society. By commiting to that within a culture, perhaps we can in turn temper the rageful passions of those few outliers who pursue a more violent path. culled from :https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/psych-unseen/201506/when-racism-motivates-violence
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nice move...seems like work just started |
Proffdada:lmfao ...guy abegi no killi me witi laffu |
Bobbystanley:when it starts, i wud be watchin from d sidelines.. nairaland gangsters that acts worst compare to a pregnant stagnant gossiping housewives carry go ![]() |
kossyablaze:mtchwww just wait n see dem...they'r just warming up from tha background ![]() |
misssclassy:Whats d need of feminism? since d two known religion teaches that the male counterparts are greater than their female countparts? the day women will be on a equal scale with men, trust me the world would become unbearable for all |
misssclassy: |
my votes goes to SNAZZY5050 WENSON SCENTMARLC LEKINZ IAMSYNORD SOSIQDUDE RAPLAWD TOLZEAL OFFICIALCART3RG JAYHANS IAMKINGZLEE SWAGGAVILLAGE GOODLUCK TO U GUYS,,SORRY I MEAN BUHARI TU U ALL ![]() |
HarkymTheOracle:God bless you brother... Dats d kind of love i want in Nigeria..forget abt this low-life ppl |
Kwakwaso spking gibberish since day 1 |
Making nigeria proud since day 1
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The tribal bigots are loosing their members on NL |
Arrest that kwarapt pwaulitishan.. Change has kam tu stay... Send him tu West Germany |
So this crook want to decieve us ehh? No be u helep Saraki n Dogara? U think sey wey no knw |
Let them pay salaries...i dnt fvcking care bout tha insight |

