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Do you now the meaning of Show Off ?
Also, What do you expect when you build a house near the sea like this ?..

there are 17 other clubs that didn't win

Sad thing is they have neighbors that will pass by them and take huge money to go dump in a church

SmellingAnus:
so sorry to hear that... Marriage is not easy... So did your uncle make the right choice by marrying her in the first place?

so uncle made the wrong choice..
theres a definition for people that blame other people for all their woes and never take responsibility..

2 failed assasination attempt.... who is fooling who?

I do not agree with you 100 %

I know a plumber in canada who earns more than the prime minister. So dont underestimate these so called menial jobs.
This same plumber will drive a decent car to the place he cleans the toilet and will eat good enough food.

Can you say that about low income earners in Nigeria?

Life is not all about buying houses and expensive stuff.
Ask a bank manager in Nigeria what time he leaves home and when he returns ?

My friends daughter started working minimum wage job at the age of 15 - and as a result allowed her parents to have more money in their pocket - can you say that about a nigeria home ??

googi:
Op is obviously a depraved African with extra colomentality on steroids.

You do not realize the quality of life and culture a man that has risen to be a bank manager has, but long for the grass is greener on the other side.

Another deranged African also said life is better lost in the sea and desert, to slave traders and organ donors or sellers than being shipped into slavery on sugarcane plantations. True because you pay through your nose selling all you have to buy tickets and visa to "achieve" the same sugarcane plantations beds overseas.

It shows you what we had been reduced to when they handed us Bibble and Koran in exchange for gold and slaves.

Of course good infrastructure anywhere makes life easier for poor or working class but that is not the definition of civilized life which is simply ability to live peacefully with one another. Village life where you get enough to eat and drink is what rich people are longing for in rich countries

For the information of Op, life is rougher for lower class worker in America than African middle class. Indeed, their life expectancy is lower as the infant mortality is higher.

Their chances in correctional facilities and being shot are higher than in African countries. So called "good" education for your children is how to deride your culture and deprive you of your children and wives.

Ah, some Africans are irredeemable.

fake news.. we heard of this your cancer many years ago....

Junk journalism.. Why mention Nigeria ?

The same thing applies to students around the world

I felt same way @ 19 years old..
i am 6ft 6inch living in canada since age of 36 (4 years ago)

i cant handle the number of people approaching me everyday like a mini-celebrity..asking how tall i am, what do i eat, where do i shop.. etc

So Sad... After hearing this news i hope i will be able to sleep well tonight.

walking as if he is looking for Tinubu

You want to Divorce because "no sex"
shior.. you think the one you are going to meet will not have other problems that will chase you ?
You say you dont want to re-marry.. so how do you want to get the sex...
We know wetin dey do you....

Most Married women .. after child birth will have a drastic reduction in sex drive... many married men can tell you that.

Dont run away from an oncoming bicycle and jump in the tracks of an on coming train o

This your grammar is like own goal abeg.

Akacollins7:
I don't know how you people view league, after him leaving his mama home Barcelona where thing is throw/given to him to PSG, what happened with all the big players there at end he can't find his feet. And was throw out and no body talked about his spell in PSG. Now he find him self in a league of people that doesn't know there gender, you'll think is eleven men against eleven men, but it's seven female and four male in a team. It's an insulting to compare CR7 to him. Ronaldo have conquer many countries so. I'm not fan of any, truth be told. Even the world cup is still under questions

If you have to make things up.. why use figures that are so ridiculous.
Not even canada of 36 million people can boast of this percentage of unenployment, Nigeria of 200Million now talking of 4.1% ??

This is possible.. I am aware of a refugee in canada that got pregnant and had a child while the husband was still in nigeria. He never knew till the wife could not hide the crying babys voice on the calls anymore. FYI.. I know the couple personally.

CondenseMilk:
You didn't know she was pregnant within same year!

Big lie!

UK has wifi in all homes.

You want to marry a girl and you didn't do video call with her for 1 year.

Funkyswagzz:
This is a good development ambulance can now move into village were the road is bad. This is the best idea ive ever seen in a long time. Kudos to ogun state government 😂😂

Will it be flying on the bad roads ?

Westerhoffe:
Ain't this too small compared to footballers', knowing they both run same race around the pitch…

Modified: To those quoting me asking which race are they running around the pitch?

Let's be honest, referees run along with the ball.
If they don't then it's not a match they're refereeing.

Normal if they have other businesses or source of income, but still it's still quite low compared to footballers'.

How can you compare.. do they have the same skills and go through the same training? Do they referees go through the same level of tactics and game plan implementation as the players ?

Speak for yourself... this problem has been solved long ago .. you just have to knock on right door and ask the right questions

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

Congrats...But one question.. which God show this one to you ?

PENNYSWAP:
Just shut up cuz u r obviously telling a fat LIE ...

See person wey follow dig grave

Infact which cemetery una dig the grave ?

ignoramus

Lucky you !!.. If my wife do this to me .. i will do thanksgiving.

Philip94:
I have been married for almost a year but my marriage has been 30% sweet and mostly 70% bitter because I have an unforgiven wife who is ONLY concerned about what I said and did wrong but NEVER concern about what I did right.

She gets offended easily, keeps malice and gives me silent treatment at home. I've had private conversation with her MORE THAN 10 TIMES on how to find a lasting solution to wherever issues she has with me instead of her constant fault finding and malice. Despite my effort, all seems like a waste coz there is no positive change at all.

Lately, MY LEGALLY MARRIED WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE NO LONGER FEEL CONNECTED AND FEEL LOVE FOR ME ANY MORE.

I asked her to tell me one or more reason why she said that but her response was NOTHING. She's practically creating space between us. She does her thing alone and does not carry me along in any thing and she wants same from me.

She is doing everything to make the marriage stop while I have been the one sustaining and making the marriage work out. Her parents are not helping matters coz they are not giving me listening ears and have a way of supporting their daughter by twisting whatever I say to suite them.

B4 we got married, we had quarrel and misunderstandings as other couples do and said abusive words to ourselves which we settled b4 our wedding day and I assume we have forgiven and forgotten about it. But with the look of things, my wife is tied to the past and will keep remembering what I said and did wrong in the past and she allows the past deed affect our present.

Sadly, her unforgiving attitude and never ending resentment is badly affecting our marriage presently. I have tried everything possible within my capacity to rekindle back her love for me & for the sake of our marriage and 3 months baby boy. I suggested that we go out to a cool place just the two of us alone but her response is NO. She even said I can go out and have sex with anyone that she doesn't want SEX for now.

NOTE: I am the one paying all the bills at home coz she's presently jobless. Yet, I am not complaining. She is not stressed up as some may think coz there are helpers at home taking care of her and the baby. Please! What can I do to put a stop to this shit. It's affecting my emotion and psychology.

Ilekokonit:
Once husband and wife sleep in different beds or in different rooms, the marriage is almost over and may not last for very long

Husband and wife have no business sleeping in different beds or in different rooms.

The excuse some women give is that they are nursing a baby who must breast feed through the night and thats a fair point but at some point, the baby will stop feeding on breast milk and at that point, the baby can go and sleep in his or her cot and not in the parents marital bed and after some time he or she or they if twins have to go and sleep in their own room and let Mum and Dad have the needed private time so that they can bond if their young marriage is to survive long after their children have left home (which they will someday).

But the mistake a lot of women make is to over prioritize their time with their baby / toddler to the detriment of their marriage. Why go into a marriage when at the first sign of a baby, the wife imports the baby permanently into her marital bed under the guise of breastfeeding and in some cases even when the child is more than 3 years old, he or she is still sleeping beside the mum at night and often times the man has been stylishly shunted to sleeping in another room and even if chairman wan nack during the day, the 3 year old child is furiously banging on the door for the parents to open the door because the child has been made to always feel he or she has to be beside the Mum.

But wives who want their marriage to last will know where to draw the line and give unto Caesar what is Caesar's in a TIMELY manner.

A word is enough for the wise woman who wants her marriage to last way past when the kids will have left home to start their own families.

Speak for yourself and stop escalating things unnecessarily.
I am very sensitive o movements when i sleep .. likewise my wife so we decided to sleep separately .. but we spend lots of time together before going to our different rooms. -- and we've had a very good marriage for last 10 years.

So to each their own

I don't agree with most of the points.. Tax in Canada higher than Australia and UK

You need to see how people are building wealth in Canada and you will be amazed.

the problem is the phone you are using

Run .. I say Run .. My blood sister had same experience .. she didn't run.. now.. she is .....

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My People say.. Person wey snake don bite once.. if e see cooked noodles e go run for im life

So happy for real Madrid that they couldn't sign him..
Its hard to win UCL with Mbappe

Poswahala:
Guys I genuinely need some advice
Because of the state of my mental health I have decided never to get married or have kids, I suffer from intense depression and anxiety and other mental health problems. I'm unsure of my own future talk more of a child.
I do love being in relationships but I do that only for companionship and sex.
I don't know if I will regret my decision. The guys I have dated have been cool with my no marriage proposal but I don't think any Nigerian man will not want kids.
I'm thinking of moving to another country, buy a house, take care of my community and neighbors then when I'm old, I will move to a retirement home.
If I change my mind I can adopt a child, am not against adoption as I am with marriage, it depends on if my mental health improves

The problem I have is that will I be lonely without a child, like I said I'm not into marriage despite being a woman trained in traditional home, it's not that I hate it or anything, it's not just for me. I will be unhappy being married.
But the child thing is bothering me, I always wanted a child, but i don't want my mental health to prevent me from loving and caring for the child.
Please advise

I can understand the no-marriage.. But why no-children? did you share this with your immediate family (parents et al) ?

You need to understand that women operate with emotions.
MOST women are like this and they eventually mature and come around...few don't though.

I know for sure that in a marriage a Nice and responsible Husband is always the eventual loser.
You need to act like you don't care and equally show your dissatisfaction and disregard for her actions.

Then you will see changes.

This may not be true.
For you to depart a country. You need to show your status in that country.
At least i will speak of my experience returning to Nigeria From Canada.

My Status in Canada was not in my Nigerian Passport because i had a PR.
The Officer insisted i showed him my Canadian Status before i could board a plane going to Nigeria.

They could turn the trip to a deportation if you don't have valid (legal) residence documents

CowbellY:
Yes. As long as the passport is genuine. You only need a Nigerian passport if you’re coming back to Nigeria.

what do you expect from someone with such finger nails