captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

Go to church to share testimony that God exposed the woman that could have ruin your life. That is not a wife but a waster. It is understandable that women want flamboyant wedding but when it get to the level of not picking your call because of insisting it must be 3m, then, that lady will ruin your life even if you a rich like Dangote. I am 20 years in marriage and talking to you from experience.

God showed her real self to u...u HV to thank ur maker

What a foolish man the signs are extremely clear, she's doing this because you can't fund a wedding imagine what she'd do if y'all get married and you become broke, or you can't fund the lifestyle she wants, imagine what would happen then, carry your hand Kee yaself.

Thats A whorre not your fiancé run my brother never play with your finances with these women out there

You need a woman who will support you not the one that will wreck you. A lady like this will run away once you go broke

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

She is not ready. One thing the Buhari administration taught Nigeria is to be frugal with money. There is life after wedding.

Mean while, since she is desirous of a 3 Million naira wedding, how much is she contributing to the said wedding preparation

Is she working ?

Why u no want get sense for this life! God is showing the Jezebel u will deal with and u are here talking rubbish! Run ooo! Let her use her money in short u no do again run!!

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

God is now showing you that it's time to run from her just like Jesus went through the midst his would be killers.
Guy just 'fled' asap

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

Oga..I for say u b big mumu..

God does not force anyone on us, he gave us d freedom of choice...if u see that u guys re not in agreement...u share d grace in fellowship

I get similar issue as urs...mine I told her dat we should do small thing of about 300k..so that we can Japa together after d marriage...she no gree... saying we need around 500k+, and other expenses which I calculated..it was about a million plus...I just dey laugh for my mind say for this buhari regime...I will waste 1 million naira out of my life savings...not at all...

Bro, forget it...u will get a better lady that will appreciate what u Ve....


Don't go into debt because of any lady... better invest d money...some relationship won't lead to marriage...pls, don't b a SIMP

God showed u ur enemy so that u can avoid her and u 're taking it the other way round. las las...

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

"After the wedding if you go broke she will stop picking your calls, stop talking to you and in due time leave you."

Wedding is only for a day but marriage is for a lifetime.

Use your head. Give her same treatment and see her come back to her senses.

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat[b] if not that no be God showed her[/b] to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

It seems you serve qnd worship the SIMPle GOD cause i don't think Mother Earth will show u the fastest route to your grave bro.

Keep it up, this is just tge begining.

You will continue giving us the full gist as it unfolds

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

How did God show her to you?
I'm waiting for ur response so I can give you the solution.

@captaininiobong

Congrats on your immense blessing from God or the universe filtering this materialistic woman out of your life. May a frugal and level headed babe come thru the door for you that she exited very soon.

It's sadden that you're seeing red flag yet u wanna proceed.

One of the sign and gift of God is peace, any relationship that is not of God will give u bitterness.

The revelation you had was manipulated.
Thier are Godly altitudes u will see from a lady u will know it's God sent.

Read the book of proverbs 31:10-30 and u will see the quality of a virtuuous woman.

Please just let her go and find someone else.

She's a detector and will lead u to poverty in d nearest future...

How can God direct you to such a saucy lady?

You sure say na GOD or na the gods. Which one nah bros?

ariesbull:
Dump her... Dude 509k is enough for wedding

Your brain dey work well

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

If you are sure and know for certainty then she is probably doing her last test for you on the subject however let her bring the 3 million naira QED.

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

Congrats...But one question.. which God show this one to you ?

god showed her to me

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

Bro, you will suffer after signing the dotted lines with her. Flee from her!

A lady that wants an extravagant wedding is not for you. She should be the one telling you to save for the rainy day ahead.

Delete her number and have nothing to do with her. This is not your woman but if you must go ahead, please let us know after 7 years.

There are lots of good ladies out there; just search and you will find!

Geovanni412:


Maybe na d ROD wey been speak to am after a good time in the other room.

it was a mind resetting event.... I see

Pells:
Which God showed you her
Una go dey use God as excuse for una SIMPlicity
You dogged a Pump Action Bullet and you are here complaining
I rather born kidnapper than born a Simp like you
Spits on your soul

Hahahahaha the guy mata tire me ooo. A woman that can not listen to her man on financial preservation is not worth wifing. A SIMple man will always look for a reason/justification

H1. No problem in desiring even a N10m wedding. The issue is how much she is contributing to it.
2. In the early days of my courtship with my Deeper Life fiancee, we are asked to limit communication for a while. Why? When you gist with someone often especially during midnight calls, you may dream about them and claim that God showed her to you in your dreams.
So Bros, that your will of God claim, check it very well.
Even satan can reveal things to you, which you appropriate to God.

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.


When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

God showed her to you how, if I may ask?

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

Big Red Flag !!!
By the way God doesnt do match making again o.
This is what you should do
- Get 2 pieces of paper.
- One first paper draw up budget on how you get to Expenses N500,000. It’s one thing to hear another to draw up budget.

- One second paper write “ if N500,000 is not sufficient - let’s call it quits “

Send them both to her and wait for her response.

captaininiobong:
Hy guys, I don't know if you have been in this, my woman that agreed to be the mother of my kids as stated by her recently stopped talking to me, picking my calls because she needed a 3million naira marriage.

I told her please why not we do moderate and use the remaining for investment. She said no. The three million is even small.

When I asked her what will we use the 3million to do, she said to buy furniture for the home. Uptill now she doesn't pick my calls, reply my chat if not that no be God showed her to me I would have deleted her number off my phone but am still keeping it for a reason I don't even know.

We have been together for long, not until a friend of mine got married and I told her they did thier marriage not less than 300k, then she said it's a big lie.

She said " the 3million is small" ?

Ask am how much her papa use take marry her mama.

That lady would never contribute anything to the home once you marry her.

Sunday way go good, na from Saturday dem take dey know.

Which God showed you her?

Go and marry your level

Leave her for her level and if she no see that's none of your business

Bro Jesus loves you. See as god take expose her. My cousin fiancée did same thing and he left her. Hers was too much demand and commands. Quit sharperly

U dey dating a billionaire babe and u want her to do things below her standard,

3. The issue of money is one that will keep coming up in marriage. In fact, it is one of the causes of conflict in marriage. The situation of the country makes this a very important factor.
Even rich people are being smart as no one knows what will happen next.
If you are not compatible in your financial views now, how will you agree on the thousands of financial decisions that will come up in marriage? Don't let that girl ruin you.

4. Every lady out there knows that a committed boy friend is a treasure these days, let alone one proposing marriage.

For your fiance to stop communicating, my street mind is telling me that there is a rich guy in the shadows, who may only want to hit and run..
She is only comparing you to him and weighing her options. That is the only tenable reason why she is being unreasonable at this point, after knowing your pocket, dreams, and financial views/mindset all along.

5. When the guy breaks her heart, she will come back and ask for even a parlour wedding.

All I'm saying is, guy, use your head.