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Family / Re: Pls, I Want To Know About Nigerian Marriage Life. by somadinho10: 11:55am On Nov 26, 2022
Are you on WhatsApp dear
peacefull:


Hello! I dey! I dey fine!
But I lost my baby girl (pet) few days ago and I just done her funeral yesterday.
I'm still so sad cry

Anyway, Thank you so much for asking!
I appreciate you!!

What about you? How far?

When I found out this website, I was so emotionally, hurt, weak etc.
And I'm always confusing person.
I know every marriage is different. But I thought something I can't hardly to understand about my Oga is because of our different cultures, traditional etc.
And I thought if I will know more about his country, his peoples, his culture etc, I can more understand him and I can make more good relationship with him.

Yes! I think I got to know more than before!
But I'm still learning. Many many things I still don't know, I still hardly to understand etc.

Yes, I thought I saw the truth.
That picture is 2017. But that woman writing she married in 2013.

But I'm feeling so guilty now.
Because I didn't try to trust my Oga. But I trusted what I saw it.
I must trust him first. But I couldn't do that.
Before I talked with him, I came here to pour my emotions.
That was make me little bit calm down.
But what I did is just talked about I, I, I and me, me, me! and I made him look like a bad person.
Very very bad and very very selfish.

I'm feeling guilty, But I also still have feeling what they did is disrespectful.
Very disrespectful, no moral, no manners for me and her husband.
I don't know if her husband knows about it or not.
Because of gain somethings, they did it.
Fake or joke or whatever, what they did it is very disrespectful. At least he could tell me before he accepted that offer.
Sorry, I can't write everythings.

But my Oga explained to me everythings and I'm still trusting him.
I know him very very well.
One of very strong proof why I can trust him is because he is still with me.
That's very strong proof about my Oga is still love me, caring about me, cherish about our marriage.
If not, he already dump me long time ago or now. He can't be with me.
But he is still with me.
Anybody who know my Oga can confirmed about it.

But when I'm so emotionally, I hardly to think like that.
Very very bad.

Yes! You are very very right!!
I don't think I can do it embarassed
Not involving my emotion is very very difficult to me.
If I don't love him or I'm not interesting about our relationship any more etc, maybe not so difficult or maybe I already leave.

Sometimes I really doubt him. But when I calm down, I really hate myself.
If I always could keep calm down, I never doubt him.
He can't even understand why I always doubting about him and that woman, he always said she is a cousin.
But I really can't confirmed about it. What I can do is just trust him.
I have some reasons why I always doubt this woman. Not today or yesterday, but some years.
I really don't wanna have any negative feeling or bad feeling about any his family.
So, if she is a really his cousin, I'm so guilty.
I'm already don't have good image about her.

If I really really calm down, I don't think he is married with anybody especially if someone who already know about he is a married man.
Because I don't think he can choose to be with that kind of woman who can have relationship with married man.
If not her culture or religion etc, that kind of woman can have relationship with anybody.
So, I don't think my Oga can marry with that kind of woman.
How I wish I can always keep calm down, not so emotionally.

I know this my writing already have many many my confusing. I'm sorry.

Thank you so much for giving me advice!
I really appreciate you!!
I will try to keep calm down!
peacefull:


Hello! I dey! I dey fine!
But I lost my baby girl (pet) few days ago and I just done her funeral yesterday.
I'm still so sad cry are you on WhatsApp dear …..I have a lot to tell you

Anyway, Thank you so much for asking!
I appreciate you!!

What about you? How far?

When I found out this website, I was so emotionally, hurt, weak etc.
And I'm always confusing person.
I know every marriage is different. But I thought something I can't hardly to understand about my Oga is because of our different cultures, traditional etc.
And I thought if I will know more about his country, his peoples, his culture etc, I can more understand him and I can make more good relationship with him.

Yes! I think I got to know more than before!
But I'm still learning. Many many things I still don't know, I still hardly to understand etc.

Yes, I thought I saw the truth.
That picture is 2017. But that woman writing she married in 2013.

But I'm feeling so guilty now.
Because I didn't try to trust my Oga. But I trusted what I saw it.
I must trust him first. But I couldn't do that.
Before I talked with him, I came here to pour my emotions.
That was make me little bit calm down.
But what I did is just talked about I, I, I and me, me, me! and I made him look like a bad person.
Very very bad and very very selfish.

I'm feeling guilty, But I also still have feeling what they did is disrespectful.
Very disrespectful, no moral, no manners for me and her husband.
I don't know if her husband knows about it or not.
Because of gain somethings, they did it.
Fake or joke or whatever, what they did it is very disrespectful. At least he could tell me before he accepted that offer.
Sorry, I can't write everythings.

But my Oga explained to me everythings and I'm still trusting him.
I know him very very well.
One of very strong proof why I can trust him is because he is still with me.
That's very strong proof about my Oga is still love me, caring about me, cherish about our marriage.
If not, he already dump me long time ago or now. He can't be with me.
But he is still with me.
Anybody who know my Oga can confirmed about it.

But when I'm so emotionally, I hardly to think like that.
Very very bad.

Yes! You are very very right!!
I don't think I can do it embarassed
Not involving my emotion is very very difficult to me.
If I don't love him or I'm not interesting about our relationship any more etc, maybe not so difficult or maybe I already leave.

Sometimes I really doubt him. But when I calm down, I really hate myself.
If I always could keep calm down, I never doubt him.
He can't even understand why I always doubting about him and that woman, he always said she is a cousin.
But I really can't confirmed about it. What I can do is just trust him.
I have some reasons why I always doubt this woman. Not today or yesterday, but some years.
I really don't wanna have any negative feeling or bad feeling about any his family.
So, if she is a really his cousin, I'm so guilty.
I'm already don't have good image about her.

If I really really calm down, I don't think he is married with anybody especially if someone who already know about he is a married man.
Because I don't think he can choose to be with that kind of woman who can have relationship with married man.
If not her culture or religion etc, that kind of woman can have relationship with anybody.
So, I don't think my Oga can marry with that kind of woman.
How I wish I can always keep calm down, not so emotionally.

I know this my writing already have many many my confusing. I'm sorry.

Thank you so much for giving me advice!
I really appreciate you!!
I will try to keep calm down!
Travel / Re: Notice To Those Who Wish To Live In Japan by somadinho10: 11:47am On Nov 26, 2022
LienwaltAbel:
TL; DR : Forget about japaing to Japan if you can't devote tons of hours of your time to learning how to read, write and speak Japanese. kiss

Now the Japanese speak only Japanese. Well, this doesn't seem like much, but it is much. You have to learn Japanese to be able to have day to day conversations with people, read billboards and signs, and most importantly: get a job or even school there. Japanese in Japan is as essential as water. So what do you do. You can change your dream country probably to New Zealand, Australia or whatever English speaking country you love or you could sit down and learn this piece of shite of a language.

Japanese is easy to speak. Within a month (of dedicated learning) you'd be quite comfortable with it. Just like me. Ohaiyō gozaimasu, Watashi wa Eiberu desu. This means Good morning, I am Abel. Note that I changed the spelling of my name because the Japanese usually change English names to suit their tongue.

Since it seems so easy, why am I making it look hard? Number one, Japanese don't use the Latin alphabet at all. So that crap I wrote up there is shit. Number two, the writing system of the Japanese is extremely difficult to master.

Japanese has two writing systems: kana and Kanji. Kana is further divided into hiragana and katakana while kanji is just kanji. Kana is easy as it is very close to the alphabet system of writing and is kind of constant (what you read is what you pronounce) but kanji on the other hand is just silly.

Kanji was directly copied from the Chinese hanzhi system centuries ago before kana was made by a Japanese Buddhist monk. İt is like the Egyptian hieroglyphics, but instead of having nice beautiful wholesome drawings, you have some ugly set of characters that require you to decrypt their meanings. The worst thing about kanji is not even how silly and unrelated the characters are to their meanings most of the time, the worst thing about it is it's unbelievable size. This piece of shite of a system has over 5000 characters/radicals and hell even after learning the so-called 3000 or 2500 average, you'd still meet a new one one day. Oh and I forgot to mention another annoying shit about the kanji system: it's pronunciation when used in a word is hardly ever consistent. For example this character 日 is normally pronounced nichi, but in this word 日本 it becomes Nihon that is Japan. This looks easy but what about this 3日, it's pronunciation is now jitsu. grin you see, this is even worse than English's terrible spelling system.

Having said this, if you have two years to waste, you can waste it learning Japanese or you can learn something like German or Finnish and head to these countries (i think Finnish is easier). However, you could just go to an English speaking country and put the work aside.
boss nice write up I would love to relocate to Japan next year…I don’t mind if you can send me your WhatsApp number let’s talk more ….thanks
Politics / Re: FG To Facebook: Stop IPOB From Using Your Platform To Incite Violence by somadinho10: 10:28pm On May 17, 2022
richiemcgold:
The worst Mr Lai can do is to ban Facebook too. But he should note that Nigeria will be the biggest loser because unlike twitter, Facebook provides free internet access for millions of Nigerians everyday. A good example is this nairaland. It is possible to visit this site without any data by using Facebook's freebasics.
I m lost ooo free internet where
Health / Re: My Knee Hurts Each Time I Try To Run,i’m Depressed by somadinho10: 7:31pm On Apr 25, 2022
Gentlerespect76:

Why are you laughing. His situation is touchingly sad.
thanks bro

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Health / Re: My Knee Hurts Each Time I Try To Run,i’m Depressed by somadinho10: 7:31pm On Apr 25, 2022
Mokason288:
grin
its well keep laughing
Health / My Knee Hurts Each Time I Try To Run,i’m Depressed by somadinho10: 6:01pm On Apr 25, 2022
Since December 28th during the village tournament where my knee cap shifted while playing football I haven’t been able to recover fully.

I can walk and do Normal things with little pain but when I try to run I just can’t cos I always get this sharp pain underneath my kneecap.

I have gone to the hospital and have taken drugs,did X-ray and seen a physiotherapist yet it’s still the same ....I went back and they said I would need an mri text that I could be needing surgery and I don’t have that kind of money ....

Please anybody that can advice me on things to do,drink or wear I will be thankful....thanks ��
Health / I Miss Playing Football Because Of My Knee ...any Help ?? by somadinho10: 12:24pm On Apr 25, 2022
Since December 28th during the village tournament where my knee cap shifted while playing football I haven’t been able to recover fully.

I can walk and do Normal things with little pain but when I try to run I just can’t cos I always get this sharp pain underneath my kneecap.

I have gone to the hospital and have taken drugs,did X-ray and seen a physiotherapist yet it’s still the same ....I went back and they said I would need an mri text that I could be needing surgery and I don’t have that kind of money ....

Please anybody that can advice me on things to do,drink or wear I will be thankful....thanks ��
Health / I Miss Playing Football Because Of My Knee ...any Help ?? by somadinho10: 9:47am On Apr 25, 2022
Since December 28th during the village tournament where my knee cap shifted while playing football I haven’t been able to recover fully.

I can walk and do Normal things with little pain but when I try to run I just can’t cos I always get this sharp pain underneath my kneecap.

I have gone to the hospital and have taken drugs,did X-ray and seen a physiotherapist yet it’s still the same ....I went back and they said I would need an mri text that I could be needing surgery and I don’t have that kind of money ....

Please anybody that can advice me on things to do,drink or wear I will be thankful....thanks ��
Politics / Re: Saboteurs Hold Nigeria Hostage As Power Grid Collapsed 115 Times In 9 Years by somadinho10: 9:18pm On Apr 17, 2022
Handwork of generator importers

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Autos / Very Neat Es350 For Sale by somadinho10: 7:31pm On Mar 26, 2022
The car is first body paint,Full option,
about 7 months use,All components are intact, features include reverse camera, DVD player, chilling air condition parking sensor with panoramic roof The price is 3.8 million

Location Enugu .....08166291269

Autos / Less Than 6 Months Used Lexus Es330 For Sale by somadinho10: 12:59pm On Feb 27, 2022
Lexus Es330 2006
First body
Engine,gear and AC in top form
Interior clean
Price is just 2.5
Selling fast
Location enugu
08166291269

Autos / Never Been Used Howo Truck For Sale by somadinho10: 8:05am On Feb 27, 2022
This truck is mint has never
The price is 21m
08166291269

Autos / Re: 2010 Nigerian Used Venza 5.850m by somadinho10: 8:39am On Feb 14, 2022
Is it this particular car I’m seeing
Autos / Are You A Car Dealer Selling/buying Used Cars?? by somadinho10: 8:21am On Feb 14, 2022
Good morning my fellow dealers,
If your interested in joining a new WhatsApp group where we can buy and sell used naija cars drop your WhatsApp number let’s grow a network
Sports / Re: Fantasy Premier League 2021 Thread by somadinho10: 10:29pm On Aug 12, 2021
Your squad is the worst squad I have seen in fantasy history...


Now compare it with mine ...mind you we were both giving 100m

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Travel / Re: Israel Migration by somadinho10: 10:18pm On Jul 16, 2021
Hazardd:
okay... Ask her how she got visa na
she is not a Nigerian
Hazardd:
bro pls reply ur dm
I try to but what you sent me ain’t showing
Travel / Re: Israel Migration by somadinho10: 10:18pm On Jun 16, 2021
Drella:


Well,you can still make your research because it might not be as easy as you think.

In Nigeria here,there are people earning 5 million per month.If anyone decides to migrate here because of that,the person will be shocked!!
are you resident in Israel?
Travel / Re: Israel Migration by somadinho10: 1:22pm On Jun 16, 2021
Drella:


Goodluck!
I don't know much about israel tho.But I don't deem it a good idea.
her pay is 10000 shekels a month that’s roughly 1.3 million here even though she pays rent of about 300k a month but atleast you get to save like 500k a month if you know what you want

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Travel / Re: Israel Migration by somadinho10: 7:32pm On Jun 15, 2021
Ladyhippolyta88:


What are you looking for in the middleast cheesy

Do you speak Hebrew are you Jewish?

What are you looking for in Isreal.

Find another country relocate go
babe I just want to leave this country,I hope to relocate to another country once I’m dia ,I just want to leave this country infact I believe Uzbekistan is better than here
Travel / Re: Israel Migration by somadinho10: 7:29pm On Jun 15, 2021
Drella:


You know a woman there.An Israeli or Nigerian?
south African
Travel / Re: Israel Migration by somadinho10: 11:38pm On Jun 14, 2021
Drella:


Wetin una dey find kaakiri sef?

You speak hebrew?No!
So how do you intend to work when you can't even communicate.

Target asia bro.Or south america or scandinavian countries.They have more job prospects.
But be prepared to learn the language.
I already know a woman over there
Travel / Re: Israel Migration by somadinho10: 10:38pm On Jun 14, 2021
Lagbaja88:
Israel is not looking for black people. Na suffer you wan go suffer
baba which foreign country is looking for black people Abeg I believe even Congo better pass this country

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Travel / Israel Migration by somadinho10: 4:40pm On Jun 14, 2021
I would love to relocate to Israel for greener pastures,can anyone here who has experience help out about the country in general and How one can obtain visa
Phones / Any Iphone8+ Or 7+ For Sale ? by somadinho10: 9:35am On Feb 18, 2021
I need a second hand iphone 7+ or 8+

Serious sellers only
Health / Re: 587 New COVID-19 Cases, 344 Discharged And 14 Deaths On June 17 - (2207 Tested) by somadinho10: 1:52pm On Jun 18, 2020
Observer131:
Dexamethasone has been approved by WHO so corona is a done deal.
that means that the madagascar drug no too work
Politics / Re: Resident Of A State For 10 Years Should Become Indigene, Says Senate by somadinho10: 12:22am On Mar 12, 2020
Niggmatic:
Good. Hahaha..
I know some people that will not like this grin
ndi Lagos

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Romance / Re: Why Do Most Akwa Ibom Girls Have Big Clit? by somadinho10: 12:18am On Mar 12, 2020
That’s why they like fuc

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Celebrities / Re: Rudeboy's "Reason With Me" Records 40m YouTube Views, 2019 Highest In Continent by somadinho10: 7:07am On Dec 30, 2019
mojeezy:
Nawa o! But these weren't siblings now, talk more of twins.

Jackson 5

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Celebrities / Re: Rudeboy's "Reason With Me" Records 40m YouTube Views, 2019 Highest In Continent by somadinho10: 7:05am On Dec 30, 2019
karika2018:



This is a new era and we must embrace change .....

Beyonce was bigger than destiny child........

Omarion was bigger than B2K

Sisquo was bigger than dru hill

kcee was bigger than kcee/fresh

Tuface was bigger than plantation boys

kci/jojo was bigger than jodeci

Micheal jackson was bigger than the jackson 5

bobby brown was bigger than new ediition

Justin timberlake was bigger than N'sync

Wizkid was bigger than EME and BANKY W

Bobby brown was sacked from new edition.... Have u ever heard of the name Raph tresvant?
Politics / Re: Respected Monikers On Nairaland by somadinho10: 11:41pm On Nov 15, 2019
NwaAmaikpe and others

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Celebrities / Re: BBNaija: Ike's Fans Present N500k To Him As Gift (Video) by somadinho10: 7:51pm On Nov 04, 2019
And none of them is worth 100k cry

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