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FamilyRe: Do Pregnant Women Fart So Much? My Wife Is Driving Me Nuts... by SonOfEl(m): 11:46am On Sep 05, 2015
what's the big deal? don't you know she is pregnant? bear it, tolerate it, manage it, understand it, its called LOVE.
FamilyRe: Can You Marry A Lady That's Richer Or More Educated Than You? by SonOfEl(m): 11:09am On Sep 05, 2015
yes I can, both don't expect her not to use it against you at some point, because that's a woman for you. mind you what makes you a man is much deeper than more money and a bigger career. you wise judgements in crucial issues makes her trust you and obey you, because she will respect your views. two, if you are a romantic lover and fantastic in BEDmatics, she will call you lord, trust me.... three, once you are not the nosy and possessive type, it makes her free and herself with you..... there are many more deep things that tames any amazon queen or lioness as so called.
PoliticsRe: Aba Has More Industries Than All Southwest Cities except Lagos. by SonOfEl(m): 3:39pm On Sep 04, 2015
SonOfEl:
your stupidity is quite amazing. agbara estate is the greatest city in your hallucinations. I really thought you were rational. you will have to excuse me. **leaves the thread for the mad man**
PoliticsRe: Aba Has More Industries Than All Southwest Cities except Lagos. by SonOfEl(m): 3:38pm On Sep 04, 2015
omonnakoda:
Yes Aba was an industrial hub long time ,that is where your mother and her mother before started work as an ashawo and where your father sold rat poison
your stupidity is quite amazing. agbara estate is the greatest city in your hallucinations. I really thought you were rational. you will have to excuse me. **leaves the thread for the mad man**
PoliticsRe: Aba Has More Industries Than All Southwest Cities except Lagos. by SonOfEl(m): 2:51pm On Sep 04, 2015
omonnakoda:
Why didn't you say this before?
Thank you for enlightening me I can now think wide.Certainly Aba and nearby Owerri have the largest Ashawo,industry,also kidnapping industry and counterfeiting industry and baby industry as well to mention a few
just shut the heck up if you have no point to make. your mouth is only here in nairaland.

you have not even been to aba let alone owerri and you are here e-farting.

aba had been an industrial hub before your father earned his first pair of shoes. no offense, just go ahead and ask him.
PoliticsRe: Aba Has More Industries Than All Southwest Cities except Lagos. by SonOfEl(m): 12:06pm On Sep 04, 2015
Ritchiee:
Go and tell him that you know about industries more than him.I am sorry, either he is dumb for naming Ogun etc or you are the challenged one here, I wouldn't know.The bottom line is Aba is no where compared to Agbara estate industry-wise.And in a few years more it would double what is on ground now...ciao
you are joking.....I know you are. I know this is all about bragging rights...... from what I know, agbara estate may have sophistication of some sort, but it is still an estate, aba on the other hand is an industrial city. take or leave.
PoliticsRe: Aba Has More Industries Than All Southwest Cities except Lagos. by SonOfEl(m): 11:22am On Sep 04, 2015
Ritchiee:
http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/06/rivers-state-others-have-overtaken-s-east-in-commerce-industry/You are mostly dumb.This okoro man has answered you appropriately and he has told me to leave you wallowing in your ignorance.You don't argue with an illiterate.
dude, the owners of industries in ph are IGBOS. the man you are quoting was also giving a speculative observation. the news was not even proven neither did it receive acclaim. his major point was for IGBOS to come and establish their industries in the SOUTHEAST ZONE, not south south or any other zone.
PoliticsRe: Will Smith Acts As An Igbo Man! by SonOfEl(op): 12:09am On Sep 04, 2015
wytecat:
Thanks jare! This Akala guy is a bigger achiever than Omalu.

Omalu is just been celebrated as a SNITCH, nothing more.

He's a coroner, a profession of dissecting corpses, so of course he should be able to know what he's looking at whenever he cuts dead bodies open, but to say he was the the first to identify a link between injuries and depression blah blah is bullpoo. His fellow pathologists new this link but for the sensitivity of the topic. NFL is involved, and Omalu was just a lucky guy who happens to be at the right place at the right time.

Will Smith is an actor and a business man, and will act devil to celebrate a black's achievement cum snitching on big guy like NFL, this is more of political correctness as the normal scrutiny would not be applied so as to not be labeled racist. The last thing Sony pictures needs now is to look a bit racist.

THIS IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT, OMALU IS MORE LIKE A WHISTLE BLOWER.
I never knew envy and jealousy stinks this much! pls kill yourself if you must. you disgust me.
PoliticsRe: Will Smith Acts As An Igbo Man! by SonOfEl(op): 10:29pm On Sep 03, 2015
vicadex07:
and how has your post reduced the price of a bag of rice in the market huh
tell that to EVERY post in nairaland. JEALOUS WORM.
RomanceRe: 10 Benefits Of Being Ugly As A Lady by SonOfEl(m): 9:40pm On Sep 03, 2015
hilarious but true.
PoliticsRe: Will Smith Acts As An Igbo Man! by SonOfEl(op): 9:36pm On Sep 03, 2015
vicadex07:
lol...for every one omalu in the Igbo tribe, we have dozens of Akalas in the Yoruba tribe making us proud. This thread is dead on arrival, chest beater grin

https://www.nairaland.com/2569570/emmanuel-akala-awarded-1.1million-study
what has your akala got to do with Hollywood and will smith acting as an Igbo man? pls don't allow envy and jealousy kill you.
PoliticsWill Smith Acts As An Igbo Man! by SonOfEl(op):
in a Hollywood Blockbuster movie trailer released on the 31st of August 2015 titled "CONCUSSION", Will Smith played the lead role of an igbo medical doctor and pathology professor Dr. Bennett Omalu who discovered a brain damage disease amongst NFL players. it was based on a true life story.

though his Igbo Nigerian accent was not 100%, his persona was superb. a Yoruba Hollywood actor was also in the film cast.

check out the trailer on YouTube.
CelebritiesWill Smith Acts As An Igbo Man! by SonOfEl(op): 8:07pm On Sep 03, 2015
in a Hollywood Blockbuster released 31st August, 2015 titled "Concussion", will smith played the role of an Igbo medical doctor working in USA, Dr. Bennett Omalu as he discovered a terrible brain problem amongst NFL league players and professional Wrestlers. the film was based on a true life story.

his Igbo Nigerian accent wasn't really it, but his acted superbly.

you can check out the trailer on YouTube.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 6:56pm On Sep 03, 2015
Joy1706:
Are you married to yourself? You're answerable to your wife abeg. In the same context in which your wife is answerable to you. Doesn't mean you're not the 'head' *ucandancenow* . And pls enough of the reverence ish. Reverence is reserved for God.
now you keep contradicting yourself. HEAD NA HEAD, if you like, accept it or reject it. I leave you to crucify your husband. congratulations. IMO.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 6:50pm On Sep 03, 2015
MrsChima:
And you are one of those "married" people.

I am against child marriages for obvious reasons! lipsrsealed
same here. i have done my best online to correct you "Mrs" chima. child marriage breeds strife and VVF.

IMO.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 6:42pm On Sep 03, 2015
Joy1706:
That verse was not in reference to intimacy. It means you are answerable to your wife and vice versa. Your wife submitting to you does not stop her from despising you
wrong again. answerable to her in what context? see, your husband is your head. you should reverence him. I will tell you the truth whether you accept it or otherwise.

anyway, its your marriage isn't it? suit yourself.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 6:34pm On Sep 03, 2015
Ngokafor:
.....You are simply utterly shameless fighting over this very silly topic for the past 24 hrs dude..Your drivel is littered all over this thread already
.....You are nuts like the agbaya man in question who is bickering and fighting over whether or not to dish food served and sitting right in front of him..

..You can divorce your wife since your hands are crippled and cannot dish your food served already and sitting right in front of you...

..Childish and immature things.
so you have been following my posts?

why not leave the thread and stop making incesssant comments.

at the end, noisemakers like you will be the ones. praying for divine intervention, or give in to alternative lifestyles.

I HAVE SAID IT FROM THE BEGINNING THAT THE TOPIC WAS LIKE MAKING A BIG DEAL ALARM OUT OF NOTHING.

you lots should take correction. simple.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 3:04pm On Sep 03, 2015
Ngokafor:
..You have been fooling yourself for hours on this very silly topic...get a life please
fooling? is that suppose to massage your guts? why are you here in the first place? when we say some people are first class sadistic losers, they we are being too harsh.

oya, tell the op to fight and divorce her husband so you can be pleased.

you mentioned foolishness right? take a look at the mirror.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 2:57pm On Sep 03, 2015
dinachi:
A woman who loves and cherishes her husband will see nothing stressful or wrong in serving him the way he wants to be served!
This is definitely not an issue worth discussing. Only a woman who has no regard for the husband will make issues out of it.
Do you know that most men find absolute joy in eating their wifes meal? Why did our parents teach us that the best way to a mans heart is through his stomach?
Only a foolish woman argues about what gives her husband joy instead of doing it!
more feathers to your hat.....I love that...
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 2:55pm On Sep 03, 2015
TV01:
Thank you grin - I absolutely agree that the bible enjoins husbands to love, cherish and honour their wives. No one here has disputed that. Many are disputing that a woman must submit to her husband


There is no such scripture cool.


No scripture counteracts what I posted cool


So, does that nullify the commandment to wives huh


I am not writing for the benefit of non-Christinas, non-believers or unmarried couples.
As for husbands "who do not honor" Christ - the commandment to wives is not predicated on what the husband does - short of sin.


At all


TV
thank you my brother, these people try to evade the point....they want unconditional love, but they despise unconditional reverence...thank you again.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 2:52pm On Sep 03, 2015
MarvellousGod:
So you actually think you put me in my place? undecided ... Suit yourself Oga and all the best to you and your church. ....
my church? see this one o.....I SERVE IN A CHURCH, not my church, do you comprehend at all? stop misquoting me.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 2:45pm On Sep 03, 2015
MarvellousGod:
Church minister huuuh? What exactly do you teach people? You mentioned me and called me all sorts of names because I gave my view on this thread... And to think my opinion had nothing to do with you. .. Anyway, I actually ignored the mention because I don't exchange words with people here, just surprised to see you're a church minister. . undecided

God help us.....
who is a church minister? a church minister is one who dedicates time to serve God in a church. WHAT IS THE BIG DEAL?

I use my talents in the church too, and to think that you can downplay my talents because i put you in your place is your own business of delusion.

I know when I act childishly for fun, cos I don't take things too seriously here. however, I also know when am serious, especially in handling your case. there is wisdom in taking one in their own craftiness, and that's what I do to you and your type.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 2:37pm On Sep 03, 2015
MrsChima:
You are upset and hurling insults won't change my facts. Focus on your "wife". grin


Stay out the kitchen too! You can't handle the heat boo boo! wink
its unfortunate that some married people come here and give wrong advice. its a shame. you know nothing about marriage.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 1:45pm On Sep 03, 2015
MrsChima:
It is not a big deal to you that the husband want the woman to dish food but what isnt an issue to you may be an issue to the next person! You can't compare your comfort with the next person and I said that at the beginning of the thread!

Focus on what works for YOU and it isv okay! If submission isnt a big deal according to you then why do men have issues submitting to their wives?

Of course, you will say because the bible said so. Do YOU follow EVERYTHING in the bible? Don't lie.


One last thing....why do MANY religious folks have s n issue with true submission to Christ if submission isnt a bad thing according to you?

Do you think a gay pastor is m submitting to Christ?
Mrs chima or whatever your name is, you MAY be married, but I doubt your maturity in it. a matured married woman will not meander the way you do.

you are still a child. I know so.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 1:32pm On Sep 03, 2015
MrsChima:
Don't dish out what you can't handle

No pun intended OP.
if you don't have anything to comment, just keep quiet. you know absolutely nothing from your responses as regards me and even the marriage you claim you are in.

with your so-called ten years of marriage, you still reason like a juvenile.....
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 1:28pm On Sep 03, 2015
bukatyne:
1. Nobody has said we do not owe one another special treatments... If I do not treat my husband special, who will? If my husband doesn't treat me special, who will?. However, considerations and wisdom is important. I do not see the big deal to scoop your food from a cooler in front of you.

2. Maybe let people know when you are just joking around.

3. An issue can only be addressed if it is tackled from the roots. We are not concerned with what she is busy with, how the home is run, the set up of the home etc.

It became a feminist/anti-feminist & master/slave issue
see, my position is this,

the OP should not have made a big deal out of this. to me this matter is trivial, and can be settled within the walls of the bedroom. better still, a counsellor in a church or other places of worship can follow the matter in details, because I know the man didn't just start the demand that day.

finally, ladies need to know that submission is not slavery, and that love does not negate ones headship in the home.

a man, NO MATTER HIS WIFES MISBEHAVIOR, isnt meant to raise his hand on her for ANY reason no mayter how angry he is right? that matured love. also, a man demanding to be served in a certain way, should not make the wife exploded in anger or bitterness, that matured reverence.

this are just one of the few instances given. thanks.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 1:11pm On Sep 03, 2015
MrsChima:
I will take that as a no. It shows in your responses/comments.
No offense to other unmarried couples/people.
still, you are entitled to your opinion about my status. na you sabi....
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 1:07pm On Sep 03, 2015
bukatyne:
And who said there is something wrong with her dishing the food?

This morning he almost left for work without taking breakfast and when i asked why he was leaving, he said the service was not complete. So I had to leave what I was doing to dish food for him.

This was directly from the OP

Please let us not project our biases on a simple issue.
see, as a man has wife, I know my wife will not always be around to get me first class treatment as a wife, but how she let's me understand is what keeps the peace at home, because I am not perfect too. however, it does not mean we don't owe each other this treatments.

my wife works in a hospital, am a nutritionist, but I serve in the church as a minister. truth is girls nowadays don't know how to follow up and address their issues, they end up braking their homes.

that is not to say men are not sometimes childish, sometimes in nairaland i say some things childishly for the fun of it which atimes, which i often regret, but we have to get real sometimes in order to address issues. this issue was never meant to be an issue at all.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 12:58pm On Sep 03, 2015
MrsChima:
I need to brush up on "studying" when I stumped you with the very book you quoted from? grin

Hit harder...you hit like a girl. wink
no, you respond like an unmarried person.....I know you are hurt, because you know I know it hit you hard where you least expect.

you are now the man right?
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 12:55pm On Sep 03, 2015
MrsChima:
Damn...this nigga lives in our house! Unofficial things?

Are you married? Don't lie.
you are in no position to ask me that, I won't even dignify it with an answer. how can you ask a marriage counselor if he is married just to justify your point?

I don't need to bring my marital status to the prove anything. conclude that I am not married if you wish, that your business, you stated yours to prove you are an authority in marriage affairs. sorry, I am beginning to doubt that. why?

Peter and Paul were two apostles who were marriage counselors, their marital status had NOTHING to do with scripture instructions from God. one was and the other was not. regardless of what you think, I won't dignify your question.
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 12:40pm On Sep 03, 2015
MrsChima:
You do not need my approval, correct. wink Who has given you the authority on what is moral and just? Are you Jesus?

I find it interesting how religious folks love throwing quotes that benefits them but when the other parts contradicts their argument, they begin to deflect and create a smoke screen!

You can't ask Christian wives to submit to their husbands if the husbands aren't submitting to Christ!! It is in your bible boo boo! grin
who ever advocated that husbands should not submit to Christ? me? you are funny really.

every servant of God at any capacity has the moral authority to correct people with scripture. we are instructed, teach, reprove, correct, exhort..... with it. maybe you should dust your good book and starting studying...
FamilyRe: My Husband Insists I Dish Food For Him by SonOfEl(m): 12:35pm On Sep 03, 2015
MrsChima:
Be easy on him sis! grin
what do you mean exactly by that? what are you trying to prove?

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