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MrsChima:
Please tell me with evidence what I have spewed? Did you read any of my comments?

Yes, I am a wife and STILL HAPPILY married to the same man with multiple children going on almost a decade!

My husband and I do not argue and fight over dumb sh1t like serving and dishing food. We will not allow petty sh1t to disturb the peace in our home but then again my husband and I wasn't children when we gotten married.

No offensee!

but you both argue over other 'unofficial' things right?

and you said you have been married for a decade and your inconsistency over this issue shows the type of person you really are. I doubt your marriage, what I doubt is your sincerity.

op should not have brought this issue up for people to assess her marriage affairs with an intent of villainizing her husband. its immature.

MrsChima:
Oh we are playing the assumption game? I like!

You are not a true man of God or otherwise you would have presented a better retort and sense.

madam stick to the point and stop dodging the issue. so it is Christians only that should follow those moral instructions?

I don't need your approval to be a servant of God at any capacity. just take correction.

Joy1706:
Wow *claps* Bible scholar. Please help me out with the scripture that enjoins Husbands to LOVE their wives.

And that scripture that tells Husbands and Wives to submit themselves to EACH OTHER.

excuse me, submitting yourselves to each other has to do with intimacy, NOT headship.

the bible never said man should submit his headship to you, stop misrepresenting the scripture. your husband is your head. Reverence him.

loving you does not stop him from being YOUR HEAD.... GOT IT?

MrsChima:
Don't quote scriptures that benefits you but also quote scriptures that counteracts as well.

Read the verses after the wives submit to your husband verse. The chapter also focuses on CHRISTIAN families and those who are believers.

It does not apply to non-Christians, non-believers, unmarried couples, and husbands who do not honor Christ and give his life for the church.

deep huh?

oh so you are not a Christian? you should have said so since....ehen! now I can understand why all this is dragging too far......my apologies ma.

MrsChima:
Just because you disagree with her statement doesn'tmean I do.

You are entitled to your opinion and so does she. I will be whatever you wanting me to be as long as it helps you feel better.

I hope you feel better? pls tell your friend to challenge her husband, bad mouth him, snub him, or even divorce him.

you called yourself a wife and you are spewing this. shame on you. IF YOU READ MY POST BEFORE COMMENTING ON HER SELF-DEFENSIVE REPLY, then congratulations to your shame.

Joy1706:
*laughstoo* is it not the same thing u offered?

battle of the sexes. I also knew all along this is what its about, not sincere marriage matters....

good luck to your marriage.

you know what? fight him, bad mouth him, in short, DIVORCE HIM....so you can have your peace.

yimu.

Opynion:
someone is being misled here. OP you should be happy that you have such a romantic husband. how many men will have time for the dinning table (if not to eat beside his laptop in his room with his attention on one half unclad lad chating him up om fb). abeg feed your man with kiss and enjoy your marriage jor.
|Wish you happy married life

pls talk some sense into her head, that is if she would receive it and take correction.....before she labels you as a villain.

MrsChima:
Hmmm. Nice.

its no longer reasoning, its now the battle of the sexes.....are you ashamed of yourself?

if you read my post she responding to, then I am sorry for you......nice kor, noose ni...... foolishness.

Joy1706:
Indomie chewing gum boys always hiding under the cover of 'I am the man'. A wise husband should know that he should be considerate and understanding.
A wise man builds his own home but the foolish man tears it down with his own hands

*laughs* it that all you can offer?

lawvelyn:
come here!! Did I mention you? Your type go about creating qualms on NL bt dude see I dnt v ur time

you better dont

INDOMIE CHEWING GUM GIRLS, ALWAYS HIDING UNDER THE COVER OF "BUSY"

A WISE WOMAN KNOWS WHAT HER HUBBY DOSENT TOY WITH. AND IF SHE HAS TO MAKE AN EXCUSE, SHE KNOWS WHERE AND HOW TO APPROACH HIM.

NO MAN WILL SEE HIS WIFE ILL, INDISPOSED, TOO BUSY, OR AWAY AND STILL BE OFFENDED FOR NOT BEEN SERVED.

OP WANTS THE THREAD TO BASH THE MAN SHE VILLAINIZED.

ALL THIS IMMATURE WANNABES SPEWING TRASH WILL DEFINITELY LEARN THE HARD WAY.

peppyluv02:
I can't remember quoting you in the first place that's why I see you as frustrated soul. You died and resurrected on this thread,are you that jobless? Go through your post and mine and see who took it serious. Pls get a life.

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there is nothing to be ashamed of, you should be asking such to yourself.....as I said earlier, always making a big deal out of nothing...

really? I must be Jesus Christ to die and resurrect. don't worry, am jobless for you today, after all , you kept a late night vigil just to make a big deal out of nothing.....

peppyluv02:
Smh..you really don't have shame. Get a life.

there is nothing to be ashamed of, you should be asking such to yourself.....as I said earlier, always making a big deal out of nothing...

peppyluv02:
Mumu stop covering up just to feel good. Let them go through our posts and find out who the angry frustrated one is. Your frustration started from the first page as if you are the immature man the op is talking about. Why did you run away last night or your slave served you akamu this morning which gave you strength. Market man. Son of Ezi indeed...

***drools in laughter***

the thread did not turn out the way you expected. always making a big deal out of nothing....

peppyluv02:
Foolish shameless man..go and continue marrying your slave and let her wait on you to wipe your anus after you poo....Ezi

hahaha.... e pain am bad bad.....pls just don't burst your arteries of anger.

I know after all this NL noise, you will still do the needful

*am loving this*

peppyluv02:
Kai! You don't have shame. See you running up and down like a market woman and you want a woman to dish food for you
Ifele eme ewu...

congratulations..... shameless girl. good luck with your indomie mentality.

peppyluv02:
Even fake name
Frustrated man.

its like your brain has been fried. keep deceiving yourself, misleading young girls on nairaland your trash post.

lawvelyn:
the guy above me doesn't have anything new to say!! rather than wasting ur time to type in some 'old thread', just sharap !! take note I did'nt mention anybdy's name/moniker

e pain you say I catch you? why not display your boobs for every one to analyse it?

peppyluv02:
Self sufficient like your slave,you mean? Go and sleep ..frustrated soul. You can die on this thread if you wish. Onuku.

insecure fool..... empty boaster. fake hair, fake eyes, fake butt, fake boobs, fake skin, fake atm, fake everything... now una sabi make noise pass.

peppyluv02:
Why are you pained? Are you the op's husband or what? I no be Julius begger like your girlfriend.

you can never ever ever be like, or look like, or be self sufficient like my bae.....you really wish....

you go fear mouth.....

peppyluv02:
Not every woman needs a man's ATM card. He should come and collect mine.

empty brag of the week.

frank317:
Even if there is God, how does that change anything? Ok there is God... What next? I will still g bto work and to earn money tomorrow. Even if God exists he must be the most useless thing I have ever seen.

congratulations.

peppyluv02:
Na wa o! Didn't know another name for marriage is perpetual slavery.
A man who wants to cheat will cheat even if you lick his ass after he poos!

and a woman that wants to cheat will cheat too, even if you give her your ATM card....

Deehvahrzz:
Honey, I blame his mother... She should have taught him how she would have loved to be treated. No disrespect meant to anyone at all....

your trash only ends in NL..... selfish feminist.....I wish you the best though....

dominusgai:
read ur bible well, sarah never even served abraham food, he had servants to do that for him(gen 18:7) . verse 8 shows us he even prepared the milk and butter himself.
Also, he treated sarah like a queen, banishing Ishmeal for her sake.
A man that says e will not eat because his wife did not dish the food b4 him is an inconsiderate idiot that does not hold his wife in esteem. But i dont blame him, i blame his father for teaching him rubbish. If a simple thing like dis will make a man look out, then his wife is walking on eggshell and as a man who saw is mother on eggshells i wud not wish that on any woman. Those kind of men would insist their wives cook 4 dem even wen they see she is hot with fever. God forbid. If dat kind man near my daughter na pump action i go take pursue am. And if a man's criteria for measuring honor is his wife dishing food in front of him, he has low self esteem and should get a new measurement criteria

who said Sarah never served her husband food ever in their marriage? stop being legalistic with the bible. one who calls her husband, my lord, never served him food in their marriage? guy you are immature in analysing events and history.

stop assuming out of context.

danpatrick:
Was that how cow poo tasted like? You dried vulture poo!

hmmm.....its like you tasted both at the same time.

sinizia:
I dey tells you!! The man is arrogant Idíot!! Here's my reply on this thread.

see bunch of childish sympathizers.......from Christ sake what's the big deal about a wife serving her husband how he wants it? this excuse of 'busy' among this indomie girls is just too unfortunate. there are sincere cases of busy wives, but MOST we find today are mere excuses for laziness from this ladies.

pls, wives, do your husband well, so that he will do you well too.

am out.

frank317:
Proving himself to his creation does not take away his sovereignty. Using his creations to convince his creations that he exists even after giving us each brain to reason out issues is not working. Of course he should know this. He is not answerable to me , how does that clear my doubt. In fact if he is really the God you say he is, he should understand why I don't believe he exists and do the right thing about it not use people that I percieve as confused and delusional to do the work.

Religion improved your conscience? And that is what this whole God this is all about? Why does this statement sound selfish to me? Well I for one do not need Christianity to have a quality conscience. I know what is right and people around me can testify that I could be trustworthy to an extent, even better than most christians I know.

If anyone makes a computer that is susceptible to virus is it the computer's fault or the makers fault? Your God's case is even worst, he the creator of both the virus and the computer and created the computer to be susceptible to the virus he created. He even gave this computer free will and brain to think on its own and leaves room for the virus to over multiply in different deceptive forms and he goes hiding.

the quality conscience without God is like smoke denying fire.

one day the value of your conscience would change with events and circumstances.

stop deceiving yourself, when the computer was made, there was antivirus.

raayah:
*clap*clap*clap*clap*

if plating food is an issue in marriage, there is no love in that marriage shikena.

man: Honey why didnt you plate my food.
wife: I'm a little busy, help yourself.
man: NO, you must serve me. I need complete service

This does not make sense at all.

the man asks you lovingly as in 'honey', you responded coldly, then he gets challenged and lashes back..... see how you ladies of today scatter your home.

raayah:
abi oooh.
The woman will also find a man who doesn't mind dishing his own food that is in front of him.

life is easy

and let's see who hurts the most eventually.....

raayah:
Well, if my husband acted this way towards me, I would seriously consider a divorce. Refusing to eat my food two times in a row because of complete service does not make sense.

congratulations and clap for yourself..... the great home builder...

divorce is so easy to spew on NL....