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Adaeze003:
Oh my goodness!!! This comment literally made my day. Couldn't have said it any better.

I hope it does just as it did for her.....

Joy1706:
Everyone can understand? But you did not understand instead u went on and on about how women should revere their husbands like Sarah did

are you teachable at all?

how old are you sef?

Sarah had a large home to manage because her husband was wealthy, but does it stop her from reverencing her husband? was her husband her first priority or not?

I ask again, how old are you?

aaronson:
its you again? You often sound worst in every question you answer eventhough the average christian try to talk reality stuff,you often make everything haphazard and disjointed,you could make christian turn atheist from your constant delusionary point of view of christianity,Freewill and loyalty to god,so god gave you freewill so he would test your loyalty to him eventhough he already promised you heaven or hell,does that make sense? Please don't ever join the evangelical team of your church,you gonna end up preaching confusion into clueless people.

no. you are the one who lacks understanding and has drowned in delusion. freewill is not a license to rebel against God. its a licence to act responsibly. you are not designed as a robot, you were designed with a mind of your own to glorify God. freewill makes you responsible for your actions.

so stop kicking like a child denied a candy. You have decided in your mind not to worship God, stop the pretence of trying to sound concerned and realistic. stop fooling yourself. america is a FREE world, yet when you CHOOSE to rebel against the law that governs the land, you get the consequence. its that simple.

Joy1706:
I believe u read the original post. No? Abi u just rushed to run ur mouth?

I read the original post, but the context was misplaced by how you and co, presented it. stop been smart by half......

you made it seem wrong for a man be offended if his wife refuses to serve his food... if my wife doesn't serve my food at most times, then who will.....? is she ill? or extremely busy? or away? abegggi......

you better learn that the word SUBMISSION is not SLAVERY before you scatter someone's home or even yours.....

frank317:
I am no overrating science, how did I do that in my post? I just pointed out what science is doing as regard understanding how this world came to be. But if I must compare it to Christianity which claims they are worshipping the Almighty creator... I must say science has done better than enough. In face Christianity has done nothing compared to science. Science has improved our quality of life but Christianity is just about faith and claims yet achieving nothing.

God is not obligated to answer me? Lol. I want to ask you a simple question. Is there anything wrong with God proving himself and saving us all this stress?

If God is not obligated to answer why are you being his mouth piece? If he does not answer my questions how then am I obligated to even give him a consideration in my life?

Pls whose fault is it there is evil in this world. A world that had no evil before creation... How come evil started after your God started it?

perhaps you misunderstood the context of God not obligated to ANSWER.... my point remains that God is not answerable to you, he is sovereign, but if you seek him the way he expects, then he will reveal all that you NEED to know.

Christianity has improved the quality of my conscience and has defined my purpose on earth. science is only a (NOT the) tool I use to discover, manage, and dominate my world. simple.

you did not want your computer to have a virus, but somehow it did due to its processing activities in the cybernet, then you had to get an antivirus to address it periodically because your antivirus expires. am just using this analogy to explain some spiritual things to you since you understand the natural/physical world only.

raayah:
why cant the man treat the woman as a baby too. the woman does not want to do something. Pamper her and let her rest too. Cook breakfast for her and look into her eyes when she eats. I too want to treated like a baby.

that can be arranged, that's understanding for you, but it does not change the role of each spouse. that's my point.

Joy1706:
Suddenly o my dear. I wonder if they were not the same people strongly in support of the man

your comments were misleading, so correct yourself and save face abeg....

raayah:
you just compared a grown man to a baby.

why do you think lovers use the pet word "baby" on each other?
yes a grown man can be a "baby" to his boo

Ymodulus:
Mr man , I am not supporting her and I don't have a track record of going around nairaland frickling around ladies. I dare you check my posts I have important things to do than do that.


Now I replied you because your Biafra is a stupid cause.

Brian washed Kalu subject

stick to the issue, woman wrapper, who made her and her co lords over igbos for 150 years? save whatever dignity left of you and shut the heck up.

A7:
Coming from a blo.ckheaded lu.natic full of anger and frustration, whose sole purpose of living is to hate and fantasize to kill, whose race cowardice is unprecedented.

Dude your life is synonymous with pain.

*drools in laughter*.........e pain am true true....

A7:
Another case of wendell simlin? Foreigner my foot.

chai....e pain am o.....

coolitempa:
Given the choice......I had no option....jonathan was a joke...

simple. you were FOOLED as usual... they were laughing at your stupidity while you were screaming CHANGE!

edwife:
I have always been curious to know,how long does it takes to cook and serve an individual....one o.

According to NL your mum has a slave mentality. watching him eat?

on the contrary, its like a mum watching her baby gobble the food she prepared for him with love and satisfaction.

so much for your type wanting a romantic and caring husband.....yimu

zeeblamj:
Hello to u Madam.
I might not be married long enough (six months) but I've been with him long enough to know that a woman is not a maid.
Why is ur husband disrespecting u this much? It all depends on how u started the relationship. He got used to u being his maid and now he wants u to be his maid for the rest of ur lives.
The problem with us women is that while dating we pretend to be the ultimate by cleaning cooking and washing his butt when needs be. After marriage we then expect him to suddenly grow out of it??
Grab urself back up. U are are woman. His wife! Not his maid. Communication is the best thing here. In my opinion coming back here to ask doesn't help cause people's opinions differ and u might get confused in the end and maybe ruin. Ur marriage.
Let me give u an example. I once was in a long distance relationship because of schooling and working and when we got engaged I had gone to visit him for a few days. It was the worst experience of my life cause he needed a maid. Not a wife. He had no respect for me and expected me to cook him breakfast, lunch, dinner, clean and do the laundry without him helping one bit . I couldn't take that disrespect from a man and I broke off the whole thing.
My dear, talk to ur husband about this when he's in the right mood, explain to him how much u have to do around the house. With ur love and patience he will come to understand and help u do chores when he has the time. Communication is key. I have seven years with thesame man to prove it.
Please ladies, don't start the relationship by being his slave otherwise u will be that forever. Marriage is a 50/50 affair and don't let anyone tell u a man is ur lord. Man of the house? What about the woman of the house?
My husband (then fiancé) came home earlier from work and he used to cook dinner before I was back. Did that make him less of a man? I also do things for him and we make sacrifices for eachother. That's what love is.

madam, your marriage is still young, so don't sound to 'expert'.

nobody said a woman is a slave or must call her husband lord, the point is s woman must honour her husband deeply, its called reverence (I know you hate to hear this part).

the man too should love his wife deeply(pamper her always, but correct her when you have too, you don't expect her to tell you that, that's why you are a man, the head of the house)

anyway, wish you the best in your new married life.

Ymodulus:
Is this how you want to achieve you Biafra by insulting people?

Why insult the lady?

Biafrans are irrelevant. Get it into your skull Nigeri is doing you guys a favour. They don't want refugees trying to beg again

woman wrapper, read her comments properly before facing me.

Joy1706:
On nairaland, men are too high and mighty to do anything na even something as simple as dishing out his own food

so you have KNOWN ALL MEN in nairaland right? again stop generalizing...

Joy1706:
A woman wants to be treated with love and care in her own home. You see your wife's hands are full with chores yet you insist she dishes out ur food for u. Is that a way to show love, care and consideration? It's ur type that will end up jumping from wife to wife

stop fooling yourself, everyone can understand the instance of her hands being full with rigorous chores, not the 'forming' your type does nowadays....

Joy1706:
Well the case at hand involves a nigerian wife and her husband. Here, the men are too lazy to get anything done in their homes

maybe in your family, stop generalizing...

Joy1706:
Look here you retard, if you don't want to see red this afternoon you will refrain from abusing me.
Sarah elected to call Abraham Lord. Is there any place where Abraham said to Sarah 'you must call me Lord'?
Did Abraham ever portray the attitude of a tyrant or dictator in the bible? Go figure!

Abraham didn't have to, and Sarah chose to as a symbol of honour she had for her husband. today, nobody is asking you to call them lord, what husband want is to be treated with honour in his home, and serving his food is not a taboo, it is another way to show honour. get that into your brain. are your so busy or handicapped to serve your husband food? it is your type that demands for heaven and earth from their husband, that Is if they ever successfully settle down with a husband.

Joy1706:
Sorry o but I didn't realise husband/wife relationship is synonymous to master/servant relationship. Like seriously, you'd be happy if your wife called you Lord? Na wa o. Nigerian men sha

I know you are a spiritual illiterate. was Sarah ever a servant to Abraham? yet she called him lord, that is honour for you, if you truly love your husband, you will show him REVERENCE, that is, deep honour, just like Sarah did.

mugu.

MarvellousGod:
He's not only being immature, he's being very very silly. .. rejecting your wife's food cos of a petty issue? What will now happen if the food isn't cooked well? Pour it on her? I suspect he has another place he goes to eat and just uses this as an excuse. ..

My dear, this is marriage. Some things are supposed to be overlooked. . Do you think the marriage will survive if the woman picks on small stuffs the husband does? How do they handle bigger issues if they see this as a problem? The woman has cooked the food (definitely alone), she has served also, to dish out is the only problem. Maybe she should also feed the man after dishing out.. so laughable, ... The man does it even when the woman is busy with other things. . As I said hunger never catch am or he doesn't enjoy the wife's food hence giving unreasonable excuses. ...

In HIS own house abi? Where's the woman's house? Maybe the corridor? .. this is what spoils marriage, selfishness, instead of doing things as "ours", you do as 'mine'

I may advice the woman to start doing as the husband wishes to avoid irreparable problems but that doesn't make the man's whining reasonable. ....

it is your type that mislead young naive wives. no mature woman that knows her onion will play with her husbands appetite and belly. I think you are the immature one here.

what's wrong with a wife making whatever gladdens her husband's appetite her priority?

if it is "don't hit your wife NO MATTER her attack at you either physically or verbally", you will shout a loud militant amen to that (not that I support the act of hitting her anyway)

if it were " spend your last dime on your wife even if she has more money than you", you will shout hallelujah.

only a wise woman builds her home. you are a legendary fool. ladies should desist from people like you.

kestolove95:
did d europeans stop slavery ova night? Slave trade went on for ova 300yrs...d igbos have to serve dia masters for 150yrs b4 we giv dem freedom.

who are the "we"? anyway, any LovePeddler can vomit trash on NL. inferiority complex at its best.

FP things please.....

aaronson:
Christianity is no religion but a way of life,the only way of life that was ever taught in school was culture and if I could think back,Christianity is the jewish culture you adopted prior to colonization despite the fact that you had your own way of life so I agree with you on. that,Christianity isn't religion. Secondly,I like the fact that you said,billions of years has gone by but I tell you what? Christianity is barely 2000years old,how do you reconcile that?
I challenge you to figure out what science hasn't unravel,let me explain it to you extensively and comprehensively.
If you say god gave man freewill,then why would he wanna send me to hell if I don't wanna worship him since I got freewill?

your freewill determines your loyalty to him, its his own way of sorting the good from the bad. at that you know who deserves life and appreciates you for it, and who dosent. this is just as you allow machines to prove their worth which when they do not do what you made them for after efforts of repair, you finally discard them.

frank317:
He is not only educated but has been on Nairaland for long to realize how silly the question is. For years on Nairaland and beyond, no one has conveniently discovered how the earth came to be. Research is still going on and theists are dulling us with silly postulations of how a man magically appeared and started creating the world with is suddenly out of his control.

What answer does he expect from the question and what answer does he have?

science is only a fragment of knowledge, its not the embodiment of knowledge itself. theists dulling? you are funny dude.

there is more to life than science, stop overrating science. God is not obligated to answer you, just as you are not answerable to your computer. as humans, we were built to dominate the world, yet it doesn't take away our human flaws. more so, there is a true God, and there is a god of this world, manipulating the world with his evil agenda. this evil force is responsible for the state of the world as we see it. But God has an appointed time to reward every God and punish every evil. death is not the end of man, it is a transition from one form to another.

and for you to judge evil at any degree, evil has to prove its evil. Spiritual wickedness, human wickedness, and all forms of wickedness must prove they are evil. rape must take place before it is been called rape and judged accordingly. natural disasters must occur before demons are judged as such. pls I expect sincere and intelligent questions from what I have posted.......

frank317:
Ya right. Everybody goes through hard trouble times and good time at a certain point of their lives... Just how exactly does your God fit in this situation?

whether your accept or not, there is a God....you are too infinitesimal to change that or disprove it. even a skeptic called Voltaire once said that if there is not God, then it is necessary to invent him. Lifes complexities and the natural world from the atom to the milky way proves that there is GOD, and in by a skeptic stance, there has to be one.

Osisie:
This world is a terrible place. I would probably assume it a mistake. Nothing works. Every thing just falls apart. This life is the real hell.

Was man created to suffer?

And let these atheists not come here and start lecturing me how man wasn't created o. Cos no be that one carry me come here.

I'm simply frustrated and angry and the way life turns out. I wish the world ends soonest, make all of us dey go back to wherever it is we came from.

The other day I almost hung myself, didn't have the liver to do it. Life is unbearable, yet death doesn't seem a better option.

Human creation was probably a mistake!

I rest my case.

we have all had our moments of misery and hopelessness, and the scripture did not say these times won't come. it will. but what do you do with it? if you can still stand despite the difficulty and hardships, then you are a living miracle! its like walking on waters, doing the impossible! people will expect you to give up on life or probably commit suicide, but for you to shock them by standing resilient, my dear, you are a living miracle!

freecocoa:
I'm sorry but are you alright? What exactly should she be thankful for? That many died and she's alive? That many are suffering limbless and she's got limbs? That many haven't eaten in days and she has? Just how is this the humane thing to do? How is this healthy?

You are the one in dire need of deliverance, wtf?

I am not ignorant of your agenda to evangelize your atheism. even if the op chooses your line of thought, it doesn't change our own testimonies as believers, because I have been through worse, yet the unthinkable happened.

it is not enough to believe in yourself because you are not even perfect, you are human. I am a testimony of divine intervention. when I thought I and some great man would address my problems, our human frailties impeded it.

don't worry, your pride and ignorance with hit you hard someday, just like it did to Antony flew, a late former atheist popular for his many years of atheism and atheist evangelism.

the OP displayed an old pix. cos I have seen this pix way back...why do people keep repeating threads?

aaronson:
You use to be logical with me but this your latest post is full of contradictions,here are the contradictions as follows....
1-You wrote we have different believes and see life differently and my question to this is,There many religion belief out there,over 5000 gods and more from different countries and religion so how do you know your amongst others seems to be the best? And Will others who believes in different god go to your own god hell fire?

2-As per who created god,you don't know-Now,I don't know is a place holder for christians/theists who haven't studied facts, history and research as regard their existence,rather,they live off what they was socialized with,which is an extra terrestrial called god.
Now,according to RON PAUL,he said "Truth is treason in the empire of lies" again, universal truth is not measure in mass appeal,that the mass of peoples say there is god might no be true and sometimes the 'M' might be silence in the mass people making them look AZZ just like the 3rd world nation who holds religion high esteem and still have the most problems.

3-You said Science can't solve the mystery-i tell you what,science is life long process of researches and objective emperical facts I can beat my chest and tell you,As am typing this,scientist are still on the research of discovering why is life only on earth and not other planets,however,No scientist and I repeat,No scientist makes research to know god's origin,biography or mysticism because god was only believed to be only in medieval era before the emergence of science but after the industrial revolution and the emergence of science,god was debunked as the creator of earth,man used science and technology to reshape the world and today the world is a global village,thanks to science.Now who were the people who kick started the pre-enlightenment era of science, scientists and where are they at the moment? First world countries.

4-god takes care of animals in his own special way---so logically,if he takes care of animals In his own special way,why did he allow the snake he created to go tempt eve or did he loose control of creation and let the devil have control?

you are so out of point...

..suddenly, he is no longer logical because he expressed his candid view...so much for your logical reasoning....

you are not even an intelligent atheist, you are such a wannabe.

frank317:
Lol Mr engineer abi na doctor. Continue embarrassing urself.

To answer ur question: I think he was created by one bored man who appeared by magic and thought life would be fun if he created angels... But the angels messed up and want to overthrow him so he shooed them away and created man who still messed.
All this creator wants is to be praised continuously but since man won't do that he created hell to burn them forever.

I know I passed your question Mr doctor/engineer

stick to the point, stop evading the question....

alsudaes1:
then what would you say about Akwa Ibom?

I really don't know much akwa-ibom state, but since they collect the highest oil revenue, they are not supposed to collect much loan.