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Lesbianism, in the most simplified form, is the homosexuality of women. A female person is called a lesbian when she expresses her sexual and romantic desires toward another female. By the laws of nature all the living creatures are born with the inborn instinct to mate with opposite sex.
But lesbianism is an exception to this law of nature; as a lesbian will generate no feelings of romance towards the opposite sex, but shows sexual feelings only to a same sex being. Today many countries have made lesbian relationships legal and lesbian marriages takes place in western countries. Today lesbianism is no more considered a taboo in modern societies, but only a slightly deviated way of thinking.
Whereas Lesbophobia is a movement to silence lesbians everywhere, to double dose lesbians with sexism and homophobia and dare them to challenge that erasure of who and what they are.
Causes of lesbianism
Lesbianism can be caused by both mental and physical reasons. Many a times a person develops lesbian traits at the early childhood itself. Certain physical conditions back lesbian mentality. Today, lesbianism is no more concerned a mental disorder. But it is proved that lesbianism is more a mental orientation than a physical disorientation. Psychology says that a great number of lesbians have developed homosexual desires as a regression to the earlier stages of development.
There are two common models of lesbianism. If a girl experiences the company of other girl or girl more than that with a boy, she may possibly become a lesbian. On the other hand, if a girl, by whatever reasons, happened to hate a boy or boys, she may become a lesbian. In fact, lesbianism can be derived from uncommon attachment to a girl or from hatred to boys. The physical reasons include sexual disabilities of different kinds.
Social issues related with lesbianism
Though legally supported, lesbian couple often feel socially neglected and looked down upon. Society always takes its own time to change the deep rooted mentalities. The number of lesbian couples is increasing day by day as today people have all the freedom to identify their sexual orientation and select a lifestyle independently. The bulging issue associated with lesbianism is the increasing number of ‘fatherless’ babies. Lesbians, if they prefer to have a baby, have to either adopt or approach a sperm donor to mother a baby. These children are fated to grow as ‘fatherless’ kids.
Babies growing with lesbian parents will lack the awareness of healthy family relationships which he/she has to learn from the families. Usually, the marriage between a man and woman is not just to satisfy the sexual needs, but to accomplish the social needs of procreation and mental needs of sharing the love. But a lesbian union is always based on the sexual aspect only. A baby grown between lesbian parents has all the possibilities of lagging behind other kinds in mental growth and maturity.
Can lesbianism be treated?
Lesbianism is never a disorder to be treated and cured;
see more here:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/feminism/is-lesbianism-a-product-of-feminism

Women should come over here right away; sure we’ve got some extra capacity to build as wives in our homes. However, having to discuss so much of your achievements or what we think we are doing the best could make you sound so ridiculous and it is in fact not in any way healthy for a successful relationship, so just when you’re thinking about raising arguments about how much achievements you’ve made, think about these:
We’re on the same team
We are both working towards creating a home and life for one another. Everything we do is for the good of our family. We’re creating a happily ever after together. The only way to victory is for both of us to be winners. Like any team sport, it doesn’t matter who is doing the most or the best as long as we win the game.

We are one
Remember, you’ve both been joined as one and you both are supposed to protect each others interest, having in mind that you do all that you do for the interest of the family you’re building together. It doesn’t matter who is doing or carrying out the most responsibility, all that matters is that you’re fighting a battle you both should win together.
Love wins always
Remember, love conquers all and it always wins. Constantly remind yourself about how you fell in love with each other and how you want to share everything together. We want to share every day of our lives together. Constantly remind yourself why you fell in love with your husband. This way, love will always win.
Compromise is the key to a successful
Give room for compromise, work together and be willing to fill capacity and take responsibility, this will enable you enjoy a successful marriage. The only way to win is by working together and these require a lot of give and not just take.
see more here:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/young-families/reasons-why-competing-with-your-husband-is-unhealthy#

The festival, which was kicked off in 2009 features Cultural and
traditional heritage ofthe people with the sports-inclined
mountaineering.The festival, last year drew participants from across
Nigeria, South Africa and Europe.Another important feature of the Mare
Festival is the all-important Mare Marathon.

It is an event introduced as part of activities for the celebration
since year 2010.
The 23 kilometre event kicks off from Akure, the state
capital to the ancient city of Idanre the mountaineous venue of the
celebration. The festival will kick off with a lecture entitled: “The
economic importance of festival to the development of a state,” by Dr
Amos Akingba, the Chairman, Governing Council, Ondo State University
of Science and Technology (OSUSTECH), Okitipupa, at the palace of Owa
of Idanre, Oba Fredrick Aroloye. Other events outlined are mountain
climbing sports, marathon race, beauty pageant show, musical concerts
and float carnival procession tomorrow, when representatives across
the 18 council areas in the state will process from Akure enroute
Alade to Idanre.
source:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/people-culture/mare-festival-see-more-pictures

Calcium is very important in keeping the body functioning properly. Some of calciums main functions are creating bone mass and preventing osteoporosis, but calcium also helps normalize the function of nerves and muscles, helps regulate your heartbeat, helps you sleep, and helps promotes healthy skin and hair. It is also important in immunological activity of cells.
There are numerous factors that can reduce the calcium level in your body. Things like too much sitting, excessive coffee, alcohol consumption and carbonated beverages can all lower your body’s calcium level. Women that are pregnant, women in menopause, men over the age of 50, and people suffering from digestive disorders are especially prone to calcium deficiency. Also, eggshells are especially beneficial for children because of their body’s formation of bone tissue.
An eggshell contains over 90 percent calcium and is a natural source of 27 different minerals (such as: magnesium, phosphorus, silicon, sodium, potassium, iron, sulfur, aluminum). The composition of eggshells resembles our teeth and bones, which makes it easy for the body to absorb. Also the protein of a shell is composed of such essential amino acids as methionine, cysteine, lysine, isoleucine. This makes eggshells an effective natural means to obtain calcium.
see more:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/lifes-ultimate/an-eggshell-is-as-important-as-the-eggs-too

A student of Ladoke Akintola University of Technology (LAUTECH) has written an open letter to the government of the state where the institution is located. The school which has been on strike for more than 4 months has attracted heavy critics from all corners and it’s indeed deflating the prestige of Oyo and Osun states which co-own the school.
The writer whose name is known as Oladipupo expressed his mind in the letter which he addressed to the governor of Oyo state, Ajibola Ajimobi. The letter reads:
“Please I love to begin like this, Nigeria got her independence in 1960, today, it was 56 years ago, you as the governor of Oyo state was just of an age below 10.
For me, my mother hadn’t been born, but to history and records that tell the happenings we give thanks. The word “right” is defined as just right, another definition may come as an understatement but let’s understand it as an abstract idea of that which is due to a person or governmental body by law, or tradition, or nature.
To disturb me adjectivally, it means in conformance with justice or law or morality. With due respect sir, I have reminded you about the time of independence because it was since then that every Nigerian has been greatly empowered to live with “rights”.
So it’s, that is owned by the male and female, the handicap, the governors, the tall, the short and even the Nigerian students. As Nigerians we all have it no matter what the state of power has any of us. You, the big political leader have always been trying to prove your rights on exhibiting acts which seem to the people of Oyo state crazy, cruel and barbaric.
And you always provide them answers because you know they all have the right to question you. Like I have talked about the freedom of speech under political condition, I’ll let go the natural condition of right not to look rude at all. So I have the right to write on to reply to this statement “Lautech Students are thugs” and to aggrandize that you are our great role model.
see more:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/campus-affairs/lautech-student-writes-an-open-letter-to-the-governor-of-oyo-state-ajimobi

Chelsea midfielder John Obi Mikel is closing in on a move away from Stamford Bridge.

Former Los Angeles Dodgers owner Frank McCourt, who bought Marseille in October, had promised to invest heavily in the January transfer window to help manager Rudi Garcia build a team that could be European champions.

Les Phoceens were ready to rescue Mikel from his Chelsea nightmare in the summer but the player’s reported £3.4m-a-year salary reportedly aborted the move.

Nigerian manager Gernot Rohr has confirmed that the Chelsea midfielder is in advanced negotiations with French club Marseille and a January transfer is very much on the cards. He also confirmed that Chelsea are ready to let him leave on a free transfer.

I saw him in London. He is in advanced discussions with Marseille. Marseille is a serious option for him,” the German told Europe 1

Chinese moneybags Shanghai SIPG reportedly offered Mikel £170,000 per week to move to Asia but Europe 1 believes the 2013 Africa Cup of Nations winner will move to Stade Velodrome next month as he will be a key player at Marseille.
see more:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/sports/mikel-close-to-leaving-stamford-bridge-for-marseille

Sometimes when we are about to fall asleep after staring at the ceiling for some minutes, our body suddenly jerks right up because we felt like we were about falling off a cliff or about to be hit by something. Nobody knows the actual cause of this but to me it’s fascinating, because it gives me the sense that I going to rest well for the night.
Here are the reasons you suddenly jerk up back while falling asleep
The Body Jerk
Majority of the time you jump because you feel like you’re falling, being hit or were scared by something you saw in your sleep. Some people feel embarrassed while some are startled by it, but it’s not bad after all.
Hypnic Jerk
Physically, hypnic jerks resemble the “jump” experienced by a person when startled, sometimes accompanied by a falling sensation. Hypnic jerks are associated with a rapid heartbeat, quickened breathing, sweat, and sometimes “a peculiar sensory feeling of ‘shock’ or ‘falling into the void.
Defense Mechanism
Doctors believe this is your body reacting to the first stage of sleep, which is when your breathing and heart rate slows. Your body begins to think your organs are failing and tries to wake you up with a jolt! Some say this happens when extremely exhausted.
see more:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/lifes-ultimate/here-is-why-you-suddenly-jump-up-while-falling-asleep-see-more-picture-below

A student of Ladoke Akintola University of Technology (LAUTECH) has written an open letter to the government of the state where the institution is located. The school which has been on strike for more than 4 months has attracted heavy critics from all corners and it’s indeed deflating the prestige of Oyo and Osun states which co-own the school.
The writer whose name is known as Oladipupo expressed his mind in the letter which he addressed to the governor of Oyo state, Ajibola Ajimobi. The letter reads:
"Please I love to begin like this, Nigeria got her independence in 1960, today, it was 56 years ago, you as the governor of Oyo state was just of an age below 10.
For me, my mother hadn’t been born, but to history and records that tell the happenings we give thanks. The word “right” is defined as just right, another definition may come as an understatement but let’s understand it as an abstract idea of that which is due to a person or governmental body by law, or tradition, or nature.
To disturb me adjectivally, it means in conformance with justice or law or morality. With due respect sir, I have reminded you about the time of independence because it was since then that every Nigerian has been greatly empowered to live with “rights”.
So it’s, that is owned by the male and female, the handicap, the governors, the tall, the short and even the Nigerian students. As Nigerians we all have it no matter what the state of power has any of us. You, the big political leader have always been trying to prove your rights on exhibiting acts which seem to the people of Oyo state crazy, cruel and barbaric.
And you always provide them answers because you know they all have the right to question you. Like I have talked about the freedom of speech under political condition, I’ll let go the natural condition of right not to look rude at all. So I have the right to write on to reply to this statement “Lautech Students are thugs” and to aggrandize that you are our great role model.
To keep being straight, our Model sir, at the end of reading this message you might decide to order my arrest, but for a man like me who’s sick of living in this so-corrupted country I will be smiling before you in the court of law.
Matter of fact, I need to ask you why you’d get me arrested again after you’d already attempted to kill me on the 9th of December, 2016? Within these words, as our adopted father sir, tell me sincerely if you will order the NPF to fuel the ammo tank and shoot mercilessly at your kids if they are also Ladokites protesting peacefully for resumption after the 6 months and still lingering strike—and not the ones you’ve already travelled out of the country to study out there in fine and total peace?
As the result of the everyday railing of the students, I heard you loud and clear give the oral statement that Ladokites are thug -in-the-Yoruba-dialect during the townhall meeting, now which has caused me a thing which is excusable as moral-cephalalgia which made me take from the tablet of patience to cure myself.
Yes, quite respectful to the Elder I am. Now with the bullets of the day, you’ve hurt a spot, you got to cut one of the tissues that secure my mannerism, I beg, you’ve to do calm with an injured man.
Now I have to take us far back to the 60s, the typical act got done by you in the primary school you attended maybe it was just to prove your right. Right.
I still beg you not to think like I had already delved into your background.
Peradventure when we meet, you will know that I am somehow related to you thus correct me if I am wrong now thou the source of these facts is still nowhere to be found.
continue reading:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/campus-affairs/lautech-student-writes-an-open-letter-to-the-governor-of-oyo-state-ajimobi

If your days consist of running to and from work, cleaning up the house, taking care of family, and maybe slipping in some time with your friends, you may feel like there’s no time exercise. Even if you can make time for the gym, the idea of getting sweaty and working so hard might make you want to slip even further into your couch cushions. In either case, there’s a good chance you could be severely out of shape and have a difficult time performing even the simplest of physical fitness tests. Here are seven signs that you should kick your daily activity level up a notch, because you’re not as in shape as you think you might be.
1. You can’t do push-up
Pushups are an excellent test of your physical fitness, as you utilize muscles in your back, shoulders, arms, and core. To perform the perfect push-up, you should be sure to lower yourself with your arms tucked close to your body before pushing yourself back up. This is a tough exercise, but anyone who is physically fit should be able to knock out at least some. Very well has a chart showing the averages for both men and women of different ages. Though there’s a lot of variation, anyone younger than 50 should be able to do a minimum of five to 10 just to be considered in fair shape.
If you’re struggling to perform a couple of push-ups (and don’t worry, you’re not alone), then it’s perfectly fine to start with your knees on the ground. As you get stronger, you can adjust the move to your fitness level. Don’t give up, they’ll get easier over time.

2. It takes a long time for your heart rate to slow down:
When you’re physically fit and exercising, your heart beats faster to pump needed oxygen throughout your body. Your heart rate can be anywhere between 140 and 190 beats per minute, depending on your age, when you’re considerably exerting yourself. When you stop, your heart rate will decrease by about 20 beats per minute until it’s back at a normal pace. if you’re out of shape, it could take much longer. The fitter you are, the faster you’ll recover.
3. You have a large waist circumference:
According to the National Heart Foundation of Australia, you should check your waist circumference to see if you’re carrying excess body fat around your midsection. Though your weight is not necessarily indicative of your fitness level, carrying excess weight around your middle could mean you’re not as in shape as you should be. Also, more weight around your abdomen area could mean trouble for your heart, kidneys, liver, digestive organs, and pancreas.
You can measure your waist by first measuring from the top of your hip bone to the bottom of your ribs. Breathe out as you normally would so you’re not holding your breath in, then place the tape measure between these two points. Wrap the tape measure around your waist and look at this measurement. WebMD says men should have a circumference of no more than 40 inches and women should not exceed 35 inches.
4. You’re winded after walking up a staircase:
Even the most seasoned athletes will feel like their bodies need more oxygen when they’re climbing a flight of stairs, so if you do catch yourself a little short of breath when walking up a steep incline, don’t fret too much. However, if you find you’re really struggling to get up those steps, you’re probably out of shape and could use some cardiovascular activity.
Cardio is tough, and if you’re out of shape, it might feel near impossible to continuously walk up steps or jog a mile. The AZCentral’s Healthy Living section suggests you start your cardiovascular exercise slowly if your body isn’t used to the demand. Schedule five 30-minute light cardio workouts like brisk walks each week. Choose low-impact, low-resistance exercises to get started, and always warm up for anything more vigorous. You’ll be conquering those stairs in no time.
5.You’re craving sugar:
Exercising might influence what foods you crave. While you may think your body would be craving food immediately after exercise, a study performed on 30 young adults who exercised regularly found they had little interest in food immediately after exercise. The study also showed those who did little physical activity were more likely to crave sweets.
see more:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/fitnes-and-body-building/7-signs-you-are-seriously-out-of-shape-see-more-picture

Blac Chyna’s Instagram account was hacked on Saturday - and the end result appears to be a world of hurt.
Chyna, 28, moved quickly to let her social media followers know that she had set up a new account.
‘Just to let you all know that’s not me on my IG page,’ she explained in a video she shared after a series of messages claiming she had been cheating on Rob were posted on her original account.
‘That’s somebody that hacked me And somebody’s really, really, really, really, really mad,’ she explained.

In one lengthy conversation, the authenticity of which cannot be verified, the former exotic dancer appears to tell Treasure that she plans to give Rob a year to shape up otherwise she’s leaving him.
‘He’s lazy, fat, insecure,’ writes the 28-year-old, who became engaged to Kris Jenner’s only son in April.
‘Imma give rob 1 year to get it together or I’m gone,’ she adds.
Her pal advises her to ‘just stack ur money’ and that ‘Kris will make sure y’all stable always.’

Rob already believed the message and responded to it on his snapchat.
He wrote: “Sorry to be so open but I’m not feeling so good after seeing @blacchyna messages about me and what her plans were. I have never been this heartbroken in my life. I don’t mind being so open or if anyone thinks I’m being weak but I don’t play when it comes to Family and Chyna was my Family and thought we were getting married. I treated her as a Queen. My baby girl is 1 month old and Chyna took her and left this beautiful home that I just bought for us. Right before Christmas. Someone I have given my all too. I Loved every inch of that woman and loved everything that came with her. I truly loved Angela. I gave everything I owned for her.
see more:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog//this-is-really-heartbreaking-blac-chyna-and-rob-kardashian-in-a-very-messy-split-on-social-network

Marriage is sweet; many single persons wish to be in it at just a glance at other’s pre-wedding photos, but those already in it, well let’s just hope for the best. But you can always call me if it doesn’t work out.
At the end of the day, it’s a divorce, constant fighting or just extra marital affairs that’s becomes the other of the day…, c’mon couples, we are bigger than that.
These are some of the reasons why you may want to cheat on your partner and the earlier you know this, the better because you can just avoid it!

1. Early marriage
People who marry in their early 20s would most likely have achieved some level of stability and social standing by their mid-30s. At that point, they feel that they did not really enjoy life in their 20s, and find it exciting to indulge in an extramarital affair. It is their way of experiencing the thrill and excitement of dating.
2.Married for the wrong reasons
Many people enter into marriage for the wrong reasons. If they meet someone who is in any way a better match than their current spouse, they are immediately attracted to him/her. And what starts as a simple friendship usually ends up in an affair.
3.Inability to deal with changes
Life throws changes at us almost every day. Most of us are able to deal with the small changes. But the bigger ones are tougher to deal with — a serious illness in the family, death, loss of employment, financial loss, etc. Many turn to people, apart from their spouses to deal with such changes. They find more comfort in the arms of someone new, perhaps someone not connected to their tough circumstances in any way.
4.Becoming parents
Becoming a parent changes everything about a husband-wife relationship. Priorities change, the time you can give each other reduces and your immediate living environment alters drastically. And since most women are usually so busy being mothers, they probably don’t even realize this for a long time.
5.Physical dissatisfaction
This is probably one of the most common reasons for people to get involved in an extramarital affair.

6.Emotional disconnect
Sometimes a couple grows emotionally disconnected from each other, the top reasons being lack of time and lack of communication with each other. To be emotionally connected, you need to share, you need to talk, you need to express, you need to listen, you need to laugh, you need to care and show that you care.
see more here:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/young-families/reasons-people-have-extramarital-affairs-in-marriages

In Nigeria, marriage is definitely a big deal considering the kind of money and energy people invest into it to make it happen. That is the period where every bride gets to feel like a queen because of the way they are celebrated. It is usually a royal event and depending on how big the wedding is, you will be shocked to find the important dignitaries in the society there. Marriage is treated with great respect and as such some cultures in Nigeria ensure that whoever comes to marry their daughters fulfill all the traditional rites to the latter. In most cases, these traditional rites can be termed as expensive cultures to marry from and so are dreaded.
Although the most expensive cultures to marry from in Nigeria is not restricted to just a geographic region or tribe in Nigeria, but of course the eastern part of Nigeria- the Igbo speaking region of Nigeria and also some states from the Southern part of Nigeria can be said to be some of the most expensive cultures to get a wife. These are the 10 most expensive cultures to marry from in Nigeria:
1. The Annang People of Akwa Ibom state: The Annang people are found in Akwa Ibom state and they are the second largest ethnic group in Akwa Ibom state. Any groom who intends taking a bride from the Annang people must be ready to meet fulfill the traditional marriage rites which is indeed expensive because of the loads of stuff and fees that the groom is expected buy and pay for.
2. The Ogoja People of Cross Rivers state: The Ogoja people are found in Ogoja Local Government Area of Cross Rivers State. The major communities in Ogoja are Ekpogrinya,, Nwang, Esham, Nnang, Egbong, Ewinimba and Banasara. Marrying an Ogoja lady is expensive because of all that is required for the groom to fulfill before the bride can be handed over to him.
3. The Ibibio People of Akwa Ibom state: The Ibibio people are found in Akwa Ibom state and they are known to be hardworking people especially when it comes to the Agricultural sector. The requirements from any man who wants to take an Ibibio woman is a wife can be said to be expensive because of the numerous components that makes up the list.
4. The Efik People of Cross Rivers State: The Efik people have a rich culture and marriage is not left out. A groom is expected to organize a carnival like event for the traditional marriage especially if he is getting married to the daughter of an influential person in the town.
5. The Ngwo People of Enugu State: The Ngwo culture requires that any man that wants to marry their daughter must be willing to prove that he can take care of their daughter by first meeting their requirements which often is expensive.
see more here:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/people-culture/these-are-the-10-most-expensive-places-to-marry-from-in-nigeria

Depression was created only in your mind; it’s not worth the stress. The devil is never happy whenever he sees us getting all we need in life; hence he comes up with different issues and uses it to distract us. First of all, you have to make up your mind that you no longer wish to be at the mercy of depression because it can always leave you when it sees you are no longer succumbing. Avoid being alone, go out in the public where you can always see other people who can make you smile.
If you think you are depressed pr see any sign of depression in you, do these 4 things, it sure will help you get back to yourself.
1. Exercise: exercise will help keep your mind and body busy and in good condition also. The more you exercise the better chance you have of coming out of depression.
2. Eat serotonin-enhancing foods: Serotonin is a chemical messenger that’s believed to act as a mood stabilizer. It’s said to help produce healthy sleeping patterns as well as boost your mood. It’s even been looked at as a treatment for depression. This is because people who have depression often have a low serotonin level. They include; eggs, pineapples, fish, mackerel, turkey etc.
3. Change your way of thinking: have you heard? You are not any different from the way you thing. For the Bible said that out of the abundance of the heart speaketh the mouth (Matt 12:34). The moment you decide to start thinking and speaking positive things to yourself, the earlier and faster you start getting positive results in your life.
see more:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/you/depression-is-just-a-word

Marriage is sweet; many single persons wish to be in it at just a glance at other’s pre-wedding photos, but those already in it, well let’s just hope for the best. But you can always call me if it doesn’t work out.
At the end of the day, it’s a divorce, constant fighting or just extra marital affairs that’s becomes the other of the day…, c’mon couples, we are bigger than that.
These are some of the reasons why you may want to cheat on your partner and the earlier you know this, the better because you can just avoid it!

Early marriage
People who marry in their early 20s would most likely have achieved some level of stability and social standing by their mid-30s. At that point, they feel that they did not really enjoy life in their 20s, and find it exciting to indulge in an extramarital affair. It is their way of experiencing the thrill and excitement of dating.

Married for the wrong reasons
Many people enter into marriage for the wrong reasons. If they meet someone who is in any way a better match than their current spouse, they are immediately attracted to him/her. And what starts as a simple friendship usually ends up in an affair.
Inability to deal with changes
Life throws changes at us almost every day. Most of us are able to deal with the small changes. But the bigger ones are tougher to deal with — a serious illness in the family, death, loss of employment, financial loss, etc. Many turn to people, apart from their spouses to deal with such changes. They find more comfort in the arms of someone new, perhaps someone not connected to their tough circumstances in any way.

Becoming parents
see more here:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/young-families/reasons-people-have-extramarital-affairs-in-marriages

FisifunKododada:
Also they should stop teaching our kids that Mungo Park founded River Niger. When he came did he not see people swimming inside the River? So how did he discover it?

lol

If you’re in a relationship with anyone for long enough, you will have fights simply because conflicts are part of relationships. In fact it is fun to just stand and scream at each other over one common issue that you could have simply overlooked. If you have open communication and no one is afraid of or pretending to the other, your disagreements will definitely come up.
When two people get married, they are merging their formerly separate lives and this cannot happen without some friction. They will have different opinions about so many things and from time to time, this will lead to fights. The key is to know how to fight; with love, respect, honesty, forgiveness and willingness to meet each other half way.
Some issues, however, are recurring causes of fights in many homes and these five are some of the most common;
Money
Money means a lot; security, status, well being, health and plenty other things and people relate to money in different ways and with different values. When two people merge in marriage, aligning and unifying (or not) these money values often happen in the process of many money fights.
Money is a major issue in a marriage and it is often the make or break factor for many marriages.
Sex
Many couples fight about matters relating to affection and physical intimacy, sometimes because of conflicting expectations and sometimes as a fine-tuning process. It’s an important matter and it causes a lot frustration and apprehension and therefore, a lot of fights.
In-laws
Whether it’s about how the husband doesn’t defend and protect his wife enough before his mom and sisters or it’s about how the wife likes to discuss too much with everyone in her family, couples always find something to raise the roof about concerning each other’s family.
It’s been happening for really long time and is not likely to stop.
Children
It could be how one person disciplines the kids or how another is too aloof or too easy on them.
see more here:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog/young-families/the-common-things-that-leads-to-fight-in-marriages

Blac Chyna had folks on the Internet gushing over her latest hairstyle — an eye-catching crop of platinum blond faux locs, which is actually a wig expertly styled by Kellon Deryck, the soon-to-be Kardashian’s hairstylist. The piece was made in collaboration with Deryck and Aaliyah, one of the braid specialists at the Kellon Deryck salon in Atlanta.
The perfectly blended wig had us wondering just how Deryck got it to look so real. So we asked the hair guru to spill the deets on how the dreadlock extensions were crafted and modified to become the beauty look that’s been shared all over Instagram — and for which he says he has since gotten at least 12 requests from mainstream celebrities to re-create.
see more here:http://www.nowayobloggers.com/blog//applaudise-for-blac-chynas-hair-stylist

Dino Melayi solicited for Solidarity Tears as he called for immediate resignation and prosecution of the secretary to the Federal Government from the national assembly
Dino Melayi Senator kogi West believed he successfully got solidarity tears from the Senate President who quickly pointed out that he was rather reacting to the cold he had.
Senator Dino Melayi !please be informed that the common man cries every day for the plague that you Politician inflict on the only country we can call ours.
You are lucky to have been offered a white handkerchief to dry your fake or real tears but our tears are so much that the only dryer is honesty and love for this country by you Politicians indifference to your Political name’ tag’.
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1. Taxes
How confusing are taxes? If we had a bit more practice preparing them before we left school, we’d be in better shape to tackle them after school. Imagine defining tax as lessons are going, memorizing them for exams and then come out to face the reality of paying them.
2. Live Without Technology

I’m not getting all doomsday or anything but there might be times when you need to live without technology – like, during a natural disaster. The more we rely on tech, the more vulnerable we are when the batteries stop!
3. Health!
Sure, there are PE classes at school but is there really any in-depth learning in regards to how to look after your health in the long term?
4. Shopping
Shopping is always going to be part of your life, but wouldn’t it be great if, at school, they taught you how to spend it wisely and how to get the best bargains?
5. Speaking
This might sound like a strange one but there runs are on the board, so to speak. How many people do you know that don’t know how to speak politely, or effectively, when it comes to communication either personally or professionally?
6. First aid
You may have been lucky enough to attend a school where this was taught in some form or another. But it really should be a core part of the school curriculum – seriously. That way, absolutely everybody would know it as second nature.
7. Law
We don’t want everybody to become lawyers, but it would be nice if people were taught the law from day one and then perhaps, they’d grow up to live in a more law-abiding world.
8. Patience
I wish they had taught me this at school. I’m very bad at being patient. I can’t even wait for this damn sentence to finish!
9. Finding job
Yeah, school gets us ready for more schooling (in the form of university), however, a lot of us could do with a bit of help learning how to go about getting a job, either while we’re studying or beyond that. Not just teaching us how to write application later though.
10. The metric system
This one probably applies mainly to people in the United States who never got involved in track and field. But that’s a whole lot of people!
Some schools might teach a bit, but most need to teach a whole lot more.
11. Car repairs
You know, for kids whose dad couldn’t/wouldn’t show them the basics…
12. Computer maintenance
The more we use computers the more stuff can go wrong, and wouldn’t it be great if we didn’t have to call the IT guy for absolutely everything?!
13. Making friends
This might sound like a strange one but some people don’t have the inherent skills. That doesn’t mean they’re weird or anything, it just means they don’t really know how. It’s a legit skill that will serve you later in life as you try and network and meet new people in the big, wide world.
14. Building credit cards
This skill is of utmost importance. If you don’t have a good credit score, it’s going to be difficult to do a whole lot of things in life. Many people learn this the hard way.
15. Time management
Many of us bite off more than we can chew, while others really utilize the time as it ought to be. Practice and more practice would make this a skill most people have, creating a more efficient world in which to live. But I learnt how to manage time on my own because they couldn’t teach me that at school.
16. Negotiation
Some schools have a small percentage of their students join the debating team, but a more universal approach would give kids the skills and confidence to negotiate better in life.
17.Dating
Think about it – if we could somehow learn the trials and tribulations of the dating world earlier in life, wouldn’t we have a better chance of happiness? It would probably put the brakes on teen pregnancy too – perhaps…
18.Breaking up
Maybe this should go under the blanket of dating although, as most of us know, breaking up is a whole other ball game. It can get messy – really messy. Maybe, just maybe, if kids were taught how to deal with it better when they’re younger, things won’t get quite so bad later.
19. Live sustainably
Perhaps this is one that will actually be factored in over the immediate years to come. The whole planet (okay not the whole planet – but we’re “planting seeds”) is coming to terms with it and so it should only be a matter of time before it’s an inherent part of learning as a child.
20. Home repairs
My teacher should have at least taught me how to repair my watches when it spoils. This is exactly like the vehicle repairs except us replace “vehicle” with “home/house”.
21. Handling money
They thought by teaching me economics, that they have taught me how to handle money, but they only succeeded in teaching me the law of diminishing returns. See them! Though some parents are pretty good at this, others don’t bother. If it were taught in schools then young people who’ve just started earning their own money will surely make far less financial mistakes.
22. Self defense
You never know when you’re going to need this one. In an ideal world you would never need it, however, we do not live in a world like that. If you think about it, it seems crazy that this isn’t universally taught in schools. I mean, if you can’t defend yourself, then what’s the point in doing anything?!
23. How to dress
It could be argued that some schools that have a uniform are already doing this; however, if long socks and a tie isn’t your thing, then you’re going to need further assistance, moreover my school uniform does not even include ties.
24. Cooking
Some schools offer this sort of thing but it’s another that could perhaps be universal for the benefit of mankind.
Then again, there’s this thing called YouTube.
25. Self awareness
Who am I?
This dog has more of an idea who they are than most kids who’ve just left school.
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Real Madrid forward Cristiano Ronaldo has won the prestigious Ballon d’Or award for a fourth time.
Ronaldo, 31, helped Real Madrid win last season’s Champions League and scored three goals as Portugal won Euro 2016. It adds to the titles he won in 2008, 2013 and 2014.
Ronaldo is now one behind Barcelona forward Lionel Messi, who received the honour in 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012 and 2015.
The former Manchester United forward has scored 19 goals in 20 games for club and country this term, to add to the 54 he got last season.
Ronaldo’s Real Madrid team-mate Gareth Bale finished sixth in the vote, while Leicester City striker Jamie Vardy – the only Englishman included on the 30-player shortlist – was eighth.
The Ballon d’Or is given to the best Europe-based player as voted by 173 journalists from around the world.
It has been awarded by France Football magazine every year since 1956, but for the past six years it became the FIFA Ballon d’Or in association with world football’s governing body.
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Two Nigerian Students, Amate Mohamed Amate, 26 and Emine-Imoh Daniel, 23 had been reported missing when a boat they were travelling in capsized on Sunday.
The students were later found dead in a river in Tasik Taman Negara Loagan Bunut, Miri Malaysia.
According to FreeMalaysia.com, Sarawak Fire and Rescue Department director Nor Hisham Mohammad, the bodies of Amate and Emine-Imoh were found at 12.45pm and 5.15pm some meters away from the scene of accident.
The corpse were sent to the Miri Hospital for a post-mortem.
The two victims were among six students from Curtin University, Miri, Malaysia, conducting observation and research on wildlife in the lake area when the boat capsized.
Four other students, one each from Oman, Zimbabwe, Nigeria, Malaysia and the skipper of the boat were reported to be safe.
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A TEACHER at Sandara Primary School in Gweru was recently arrested for allegedly whipping a Grade Five pupil with a plastic pipe and the schoolboy had to be referred to hospital for treatment.
Nyasha Muyambo (51) of Ridgemont Heights in Gweru appeared before Gweru Magistrate Ms Judith Taruvinga charged with ill-treatment of children and young persons.
Muyambo pleaded not guilty and was remanded out of custody for trial on December 16.
He allegedly severely assaulted the 11 year old pupil using a plastic pipe on the buttocks, resulting in them getting swollen.
Prosecuting, Mr Jabulani Gwapedza said on November 9 at around 7AM at Sandara Primary School in Gweru’s Mambo suburb, the teacher assaulted the complainant while he was lying on a table.
“He ordered the complainant to lie down facing downwards and started striking him on the buttocks several times using a plastic pipe.
“The accused was claiming that the complainant, who is 11 years old, had urinated in a plastic container and had kept the plastic container in his satchel instead of going to the toilet,” said Mr Gwapedza.
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The eye is one of the most vital organs of the body. It is very sensitive and needs to be taken special care.
You sure don’t like darkness do you, so imagine a world where you will have to live everyday in total darkness. This is the more reason why you should take care of it like it’s the center of your life.
Here are some tips to take care of your eye:
1. Eat Well
Nutrients like omega-3 fatty acids, lutein, zinc, and vitamins C and E might help ward off age-related vision problems likemacular degeneration and cataracts. To get them, fill your plate with:
• Green leafy vegetables like spinach, kale, and collards
• Salmon, tuna, and other oily fish
• Eggs, nuts, beans, and other non-meat protein sources
• Oranges and other citrus fruits or juices
• Oysters and pork
2. Wear Sunglasses
Choose a pair that blocks 99% to 100% of UVA and UVB rays. Wraparound lenses help protect your eyes from the side. Polarized lenses reduce glare while you drive.
3. Use Safety Eyewear
If you use hazardous or airborne materials on the job or at home, wear safety glasses or protective goggles.
Sports like ice hockey, racquetball, and lacrosse can also lead to eye injury. Wear eye protection. Helmets with protective face masks or sports goggles with polycarbonate lenses will shield
4. Exercise more frequently
According to the AAO, some studies suggest that regular exercise — such as walking — can reduce the risk of age-related macular degeneration by up to 70 percent.
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King Sunny Ade’s Guitar sold for Fifty Two (52) Million Naira in an auction at his 70th birthday celebration.
The occasion attracted Nigerian great men and women among them are Chief Otedola, Alahaji Dangote, Traditional Rulers and performance by Tiwa Savage, Sir Shina Peters, DJ Jimmy Jatt and other great names in Nigerian music
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Apart from being tasty, avocados are completely stuffed of vitamins and nutrients that are helpful for your organism. It gives a few of health advantages that you may not have acknowledged earlier. For example, it decreases the chance of forming heart disorders, cancer, and eye degeneration. You can really grow your personal avocado tree wherever you need to have a year-long stock of the aforementioned nutritious fruit. Once you start growing it, carrying won’t be any more complicated than the carrying of any another flower, herb or tree. You’ll also receive the attached reward of pure avocadoes. And don’t forget that trees also help in regulating the environment, so it’s good to plant trees.
Here’s how to get an avocado tree at home from only one avocado pit.
This is what you will need:
• - one avocado pit
• - four toothpicks
• - one wide-mouthed container
• - 1 pair of scissors
• - one pot
• - 1 kg potting soil
• - 1 kg peat moss
• - 1 kg perlite
The Method:
1. Prepare well the pit.
Avocado pits drop its viability if it’s not applied shortly so you’ll want to begin growing the pit as quickly as you’ve separated it from the fruit. Only before you begin, wash the seed properly first, then dry.
2. Toothpicks Addition.
Attach 1 toothpick in all of the four sides of the avocado pit at approximately mid-height. Get assured that the toothpick is secure moreover that there’s still a really good length of toothpick holding out from the pit. The toothpicks directions admit the suspension of the pit in water, including the head opened to breathe.
3. Put the pit in water.
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At least 20 people have been killed, and 35 others injured in an explosion near Cairo’s Coptic Christian Cathedral, Reuters reports citing Egyptian state TV. No one has claimed responsibility for the blast yet.
The latest attack comes two days after two roadside bombs, one in Cairo and one to the north of the capital, left six police officers dead and six others injured.

The bomb was reportedly placed in a female handbag in a seat in the back of the church, and the explosion hit the section where female worshipers mainly stood, which is why the majority of the victims are women, Egyptian reporter for The Washington Post, Heba Farouk Mahfouz, posted on Twitter.
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Revelations into the cause of the death of a 27-year-old Computer Science graduate of the Ambrose Alli University, Ekpoma, Edo State, Okonikhere Joy, after a scuffle with her boyfriend on the night of Sunday, December 4, 2016 causing the former’s death, are beginning to emerge.
But this much is clear: That night, there was a scuffle between them at a hotel in Orile area of Lagos. By morning, Joy’s corpse was discovered by workers at the hotel, prompting them to alert the police. But the unidentified boyfriend was in the wind.
Punch reports that when the workers at the hotel made the discovery, they recalled noticing that there was a scuffle inside the hotel room where Joy and her boyfriend lodged the night before.
When the case was reported to the police, a manhunt was instantly launched for the suspect.Two suspects have been arrested by the police. One of them is the purported boyfriend, who has not been identified by the police.A police source revealed that a CCTV showed the suspect leaving the hotel.One of Joy’s friends, May Ebute, said, “I just spoke with her brother and he confirmed the news. The murderer is presently cooling off in a police cell. I wish l could find the words to express the anger l am feeling right now,” she said.
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Ghana’s main opposition leader, Nana Akufo-Addo, has won the country’s presidential election with an absolute majority over President John Mahama, the private radio stations Joy FM and Citi FM said on Friday.
The two respected news stations based their projections on results from Wednesday’s election announced at the constituency level. The electoral commission is set to begin releasing results on Friday.
Joy FM’s website showed Akufo-Addo winning with 53 percent of the vote with Mahama on 45.15 percent, based on a count of 217 constituencies out of 275 in total. Citi FM gave Akufo-Addo 54.8 percent based on 190 constituencies.
Akufo-Addo, 72, served as attorney general and then as foreign minister in the New Patriotic Party government, which held power for eight years starting in 2001. It is his third time running for president on the party ticket.
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Cucumber is (a technical fruit) filled mostly with water and fiber. Their high water content helps ward off dehydration and combat the heat while their refreshing and mild taste appeals to even the pickiest eaters.
However, there’s reason to eat cucumbers all year long. With vitamin K, B and C copper, potassium, and manganese, cucumbers can help you to avoid nutrient deficiencies that are widespread among those eating a typical American diet.
Plus, cucumbers contain unique polyphenols and other compounds that may help reduce your risk of chronic diseases and much, much more.
Here are the reasons why you should eat cucumbers
1. Fights Inflammation
Cucumbers may help to “cool” the inflammatory response in your body, and animal studies suggest that cucumber extract helps reduce unwanted inflammation, in part by inhibiting the activity of pro-inflammatory enzymes (including cyclo-oxygenase 2, or COX-2).

2. Reduces the Risk of Cancer
Cucumbers contain polyphenols called lignans (pinoresinol, lariciresinol, and secoisolariciresinol), which may help to lower your risk of breast, uterine, ovarian, and prostate cancers. They also contain phytonutrients called cucurbitacins, which also have anti-cancer properties. According to the George Mateljan Foundation:
3. Cucumber Protects the Brain
Cucumbers contain an anti-inflammatory flavonol called fisetin that appears to play an important role in brain health. In addition to improving your memory and protecting your nerve cells from age-related decline, fisting has been found to prevent progressive memory and learning impairments in mice with Alzheimer’s disease.
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A 37-YEAR-OLD Mangwe man allegedly committed suicide at his brother’s homestead after testing positive for HIV.
Michael Khumalo allegedly first drank a pesticide last month in a failed suicide attempt and hanged himself on Tuesday.
Brunapeg councillor Mrs Thapelo Ngwenya confirmed the incident.
She said Khumalo’s body was found hanging by his 13-year-old nephew who was coming from school.
“A man from my area committed suicide by hanging himself at his brother’s homestead which is a few metres from his own home.
“Khumalo first tried to kill himself by drinking a pesticide last month after testing HIV positive. His mother found him on time and he was rushed to the hospital,” she said.
Mrs Ngwenya said after the failed suicide, Khumalo allegedly always indicated that he would end his life as he was not prepared to live with his HIV status.
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In a fast moving innovative and technological world as ours, two fundamentals have constantly occupied the centre stage as prime propellers. They are BOOKS and RESEARCH. While BOOKS are described and most accepted as – “set of written, printed, or blank pages fastened along one side and encased between protective covers which include e-books and e-journals, Research entails the systematic investigation into and study of materials such as books and other sources in order to establish facts and reach new conclusions. Books are the substantive material products or objects capable of been felt, touched or seen. Research in the other hand are the adjectival process with a procedural elements doable and also demonstrable in key characteristics or words like - study, enquire into, look into, make enquiries, probe, explore, analyse, examine, scrutinize, inspect, review assess and more.
If the descriptions or definitions above are true reflections of Books and Research, why then are these two great concepts aliens to a greater population of peoples around the globe? For the Black People, African and Nigerians, the reasons are wide, varied and complex. The analyses are reserved for the next publication. However, for the greater general population, four things and four categories of people(s) stand apparently and indisputable out in relation to their attitudes towards Research & Books.
Four principle groups -A, B, C & D are marked out for the purpose of this article: The first -group A create all the books, actions, interfere and even erupt nature and natural phenomena. They alter the cause of history and nature! They are extra ordinarily curious, natural born paranoid adventurists. They are ingenious and scientific. They cause all the inventions and actions wherever and whatsoever in the world. They are the Einsteins, Alfred Nobles, Shakespares, Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Prof. Oyibos, Newtons, Faradays, Chikaobis, Achebes, Zuckerberys etc. They are naturally and simplicita - BOOKS & RESEARCH personified.
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