₦airaland Forum

By this post, you are telling me you are matured in age but not matured at all in thought. How on earth will you allow one man to sex both you and your sister because you are getting up to 30 years and is not married yet. I won't be surprise that he may have slept with you by now.
So instead of pitying your sister and comforting her, you want to break her heart the more. Nawa for you.

You should have slapped the hell out of that man the day he said it, but for you not to do that, am very hungry of slapping you now.

I would have been surprise if he didn't name them as some of the sponsors.
When Hope give his people hopeless and Uzodimma chuns out uzo di njo.
What else do you expect

May His Soul Rest In Peace.

He has confirmed he is looking for hope in a hopeless situation

What course did you read?

Sorry dear, you are just her ATM card
Stop relationship immediately.

Another terrorist talking. Watch out.

SmartPolician:
Enugu is hot with many dead bodies lying by the roadsides

. Please, stop this lie. Am in Enugu, I have gone to most part of Enugu since the protest. I went round even today, I did not see any dead body anywhere. Where did you see them? Mention the areas please.

Why can't he buy Innoson vehicles. I heard him blame federal government on Magic fm Aba for not patronising Aba when buying face mask in the heat of corona virus. He also blamed them for not ordering Abakaliki and lake local rice instead they bought foreign rice> He blamed them for not buying yams from Nigeria hear instead they bought noodles made by foreign countries.
He has fallen victim of what he blamed and even condemned.
Which way Nigeria.

Quite painful. May the families affected take heart. May her soul rest in peace.

[quote author=southniyikaye post=90742432]Make I siddon here just in case.

Southniyikaye, i need your phone no pls.
mine is 08095519098.
Take care

What an insult to youths on this. How can you pay someone 20,000 per month and think you have done much for him/her. It is this same government that put minimum wage at N30,000 and now want to pay youths N20,000.
What is the economic and social benefit of the payment to government? Nothing
Take a look at this analysis
1000 persons x 774 LGA = 774,000 persons
774,000 persons x N 20000 = N15,489,000,000 monthly
12 months x 15,480,000,000 = 185,760,000,000 yearly.
Suppose we ask these youth to come out with a sustainable business idea and share this money to 20,000 youths (whether graduate or not) every year. Each youth will get N9,288,000 for business establishment/expansion.
If they do it for the next 3 year, they will empower 60,000 youths directly and create more than 200,000 jobs indirectly.
Lets assume we have 60% success rate. you have established 36,000 person for life.
This is more than the work force many state government in Nigeria
Government, think wise, think progressive pls.
Thank you
(makualeonard@gmail.com)

The caption is wrong. He did not abandon wife and children. He was there for them until the wife die and he even buried his wife, then how did he abandon her? The wife delivered cojoined twins and died later. He is financially incapable of taking care of further treatments needed by the children. Pls, don't paid him bad, he is not bad, he is only poor.
May God save these children and keep them healthy in Jesus nama.

God have mercy

Dear, weather your story is true or not, in all you went too far because of a stranger.
Thank God you said that you have realized your mistakes and is ready for a change. Traditionally it could be said you were bewitched, religiously you were possessed, socially you are proud and see you wife as not your match and befitting. To some you were either wicked, fool, careless, weak or anything else. Thank God you have come to your senses.
What you should do is this.
Start showing care to your children first and wife too seriously now.
If you show care to your wife first, she may misunderstand you.
Show care to your children, pet them, play with them, chat with them joke with them, make them feel you.
As you are doing this, you are bringing your wife very close to you, extend such care immediately to your wife.
They will not respond immediately, it will be gradual.
God buy clothes and tell them you want to have family uniform. You talk as someone that is well to do.
The clothes can be two of three different types. Have a family photograph and put the enlargement in your sitting room
Take you wife picture as your screen saver, and even put her full picture (enlarged picture) at your bedroom where you can see her all the time.
Gradually, her anger will be melting down.
Have a very private meeting with her where you will narrate all you did to her yourself, don't let her tell the story, tell it yourself. Tell her you remember you did all these to her. There and then apologize to her, if you can cry, cry. If you can't show deep remorse for your action and promise not to do such again. The promise must not be political.
Next thing you do is to take the whole family out. You can take them to a hotel for a weekend and make them feel loved.
Make it a decision to visit your friends and relatives regularly with your wife. You will do this just to tell her that you have given her back her position in your life. Try and ensure that she eat with you whenever she serve you. In the middle of the meal, feed her especially if you are eating with spoon.
As things unfolds, take shower with her and in the process, bath her.
Try as much not to make her remember the sad past for a year and you will win her back.
She has shown you maturity, submissiveness and understanding, you owe her love, protection and care.
With this you will win her back. She will be the one giving testimony of what God did for her.
Take care

etisalat (9mobile)

Dear, sorry for what happened, i think two of you got it wrong at different points. From your narration, it is his birthday. He is suppose to be happy all through the day but he felt like you want to spoil his day at the tail end of it when he want to end the day with very nice sex. Though i know both of you are adult, you are still at sexually active age and also married newly so expect sex frequently.
He got is wrong by beating you for saying know. Sex is not by force. The first slap could be accidental, the second slap is premeditated and planned. Having gone out of the room, he should have endured it. For men, if the urge for sex comes and you did not have it, some men find it difficult to sleep well. Once white semen is coming out from his penis and his under wear wet, some men get uncontrolled and randy. Sex does not last long, take years or need special preparation, you could have allowed him. You may not enjoy the sex but just allow him to hop in and hop out, it does not take time for him to cum. That sex would have given you a sound sleep too. This is not to justify the man's action. He is totally wrong. He is the bossy type that believes that his word is authority. He don't need anybody's opinion to run his family even from his wife. Understand this man very well to be able to live with him peacefully.
You were wrong in the sense that you slapped him back. He see It as affront and insult. That is where you got it all wrong. You could have cried all night. When he see you crying till morning, he will come with apology and will never bit you again. This time, you are making your family a war zone.
What you are to do now is to calm down and come down from where you are. Come low. Swallow the pride, tell him you are sorry, tell him that he offended you too and tell him how he offended you. Do not say it with a hoarse voice rather a very sweet voice. Resolve to give him sex within you non stop every day for like 7 days. It will shock you how he will change towards you. Do not be surprise that he will take you out or buy for you something expensive for you.
Sorry for bugging you. Pls do know that in marriage, you marry personality but you live with character. Let me make it clear. You can marry a banker, a teacher, a trader, a lawyer, a priest etc, they are all personality but you live a person's character. For instance, you may be married to a Doctor called Ngozi, you are living with the character of Ngozi but you are married to a personality called Doctor.
The earlier we know this, the better for us. Happy married life.

Madam,
am very sorry on what you are passing through, is highly painful and unexpected.
May i also told you that you majorly caused it. It is not because of ego problem of the man,
it is because he is filling that because of his joblessness and less financial contribution to
the family now, he is not getting respect due to him naturally and traditionally.
I blame you in asking him to help you in house chores now. You are belittling him.
Whatever you have not asked him to do you when thing was going well, don't ask
him to do it for you now, he will misunderstand you.
You added salt to injury by hiring a male helper without his consent. Pls, it could be
highly misunderstood. Sack the helper immediately.
Pls, don't take your family issue to pastor, talk it out with your man first.
Before going to Pastor, make sure that all his people and you people have heard of it
and make various imput that could not resolve the issue.
On rhe way forward, pls, take this man out and spoil him, pamper him and make him
feel that you enjoy him more now that he is jobless that when he have job.
If you do this, he will do all those house chores happily and even do more without
complain. He will be more relax and who knows, he will get a better job soon.
Just be submissive, love him more and care for him.
Thank you.

RIP

This is fake news. Tell is the polling unit, the local government and if possible the name of the voter or VIN of the voters.

Good morning dear, i don't think what you need is a male friend to relate with, i think what you need is a marriage counselor. A lot has been said already to you on advice. Pastors may not do so much for you instead, look for counselors. A lot is still hidden in this your write up. How many years have you been married? Do you have children? Do you know any of his close male friend? Have you try to share this with his relatives especially mother? What have your relationship with his relatives like? When some of this things are known,we can help better. Reach me on 08033166648 for more advice. Happy new year.

How many times we he escape assassination bikonu. He escaped during the time of Chimaroke, he escaped i the time of Sullivan, he has escaped another one now. Biko, someone should explain

Kingjames:
How dare you? a maverick ineptitude ethical megalomania annihilate my rhapsodic session with my belle and that is prone to revivifying my revanchism instincts? You are churlish, and your faux pas cannot be scrutinized by aposteriori. You allow me cross dalliance, and plunged into chef-d'oeurvre of sensational delectation, and you condescendingly queer my pitch and I am in fit of pique. I am obliged to , faute de mieux, ask you to recede, chasten and shot the door against further comments with your insalubrious hand...

Pls meet Mr Patrick from Edo State for further lesson, you are still a learner. Sorry to tell you that you have said nothing

Just like her dress sense. I love her songs igwe and excess love.

RIP

Starting from the left, no 2 & 3 is old enough to be the father of the student in question. What a world?

Thank God for his grace boldness to say the truth.

I cant even imagine this! Commissioner for happiness and couple fulfillment. We she teach couples how to live their private and sexual lives or what? Just remembered a title "Our Husband Has Gone Mad Again". Okorocha has gone mad again. God save Imo State.

okway:
Ibos have no recognizable businesses besides Innoson and Zeerox. How did this one become billionaire?

Awon drug smuggler.

No. He is a real businessman. Innoson and Zeerox are junior apprentice where Prince Authur Eze is.

Unbelievable!

So Sad.RIP