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PrinxArthur1:
old hag

Asin eh
See her face

DEMZEE:
Women are repulsed by emotional men

I believe you meant the society
We are not here to converse about women's viewpoint or how they acquit themselves.

Uchesis:
Really? These red pill people don come again oo

What is red pill

What I meant is that you should always rely on logic to make any decision despite the kind of heat that comes with the moment.

Decisions made inside the darkness of our emotions will lead to regret when the light of our rational thinking is shone on those choices we made in the past. This is where the thought "I should have done better" emanates from.

It is very difficult to master this skill.

LikeAking:
Explain this discipline part.

Many African dads think its about floging and punishing.

It's about feeding your sons with the necessary tenets so that they can portray positive masculinity in the future.
At the end of the day, they will choose how to live their lives by themselves but consistent training will go a long way in helping them to make the right decisions.
Call your sons, sit down with them, ask them questions, have a chit chat with them and get to know their opinions about certain things in life.
Of course this discipline pattern is not common due to our default African culture. Only few men understand the importance of these things.
Your children will remember the lessons you taught them through these series of conversations rather than the ones you tried to instill in them through fear with your cane.

Most people shut their eyes to that definition of discipline that expounds it as an activity that provides mental or physical training. They plump for the harsh interpretation that commends the use of punishment and force to correct disobedience and other bad behavior.
And most children bow to these commands because they are still under the tutelage of their parents.

Skepticus:
I've not insulted you and it's good that you revealed your deeply-seated insecurity which has shown by you addressing other guys here who politely reply you as "LOW VALUE" and other tropes that reeks of a poor, weak frame.

Anyway, before I end my conversation with you, I've always seen you around comment sections that made front page trying to explain "red pill" to the female monikers and how they egg you on till you give them the cheap attention they seek. Please, try to reduce it so they can see you as the tough patriarch you claim to be. Telling them the game is a lame move.

Have a good day.

Trying to explain red pill to women
I Don die

Nezzjnr:
Nawa ooo

Audio person go just come here dey blow for una


BTW it happens though

Sincerely
Laugh won kill me here
Even juju sef omo country hard

luminouz:
You are fuqin crazy!!!

I don laugh taya bro.

Guy make them just dey take am easy abeg
All of us na men here
Make person no come here con dey blow our head.
Which kind thing be this

Nawa ooo
Some people go just dey lie give us here

Either she's giving the orders and you are taking them or the other way round.
Two tigers cannot live on the same mountain.

DEMZEE:
A woman cheats on u wen she has lost respect for u and that always comes wen she's not longer in ur frame.

Most men are taught to condone their cheating girlfriends. Once ur woman cheats on you, u dump the bitch immediately. That's called having STANDARDS.

THATS WHY U NEED TO B HIGH VALUE TO BE HANDLE THE BULLSHIT THAT COMES FROM WOMEN.

Most men cannot walk away from their wives or girlfriends because they are not high value that's why they tolerate their wives or girlfriends bullshit

Women see wealth from a security point of view. Men see wealth from a social hierarchy point of view.

U are talking about ABUNDANCE MINDSET oga

E. choke

Some of us here need to take chill pills, we being mad disrespectful to each other.

If I SOZINN was your wife and you shared some of your responsibilities with me, then you shouldn't have a problem with the kind of decisions I make. Let me give instances.

If we both return from work, there's no way in Hades you are chilling in the dinning while I make our food alone, the way I see it you've only got three options.
1. You get yo ass off that chair and join me in the kitchen.
2. U order your food online.
3. U go to bed hungry

If we had three kids and you paid tuition for 2 while I handle one. I'd withdraw that child and register him/her in a cheap school if I think his/her fees are expensive. With or without your permission, I don't need your approval. I pay the fees so I control this bìtch.

If we had one car, you can drive it to work for the first three days, i.e Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday. I take it on Thursday, Friday and Saturday. On Sunday we can use it together as a couple on our way to church.

If our T. V broke and you wanted me to replace it, no problem but don't be surprised if I get a smaller one. If it's what I can afford.

If I have to contribute money to buy groceries and jumia can't deliver it to our house. Then we're going shopping together (couple goals).

My point is, if you can share your responsibilities with me then you should be cool if I decide how we're going to use my money. If you're not comfortable with this then you have a problem not me. Something is seriously wrong with you.

On the other hand if I was the man of the house, you can't tell me shįt like "chores should not be tied to one gender". Cos when we talk about providing for the family that has to be tied to one gender.

Now I've seen where the above scenario works, I know couples that are doing it and they're fine. But not all men can live like that.
I believe that masculinity should portray dominance in a home and feminity subordination. But that's me, I won't try to choke you with my opinions and force you to agree with me. This is why I don't like arguments.
Never let anyone define your masculinity for you, do things the way you see fit. Be your own man.


PEACE