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MixedMan:
Please I really need your advice my fellow nigerians.. My brother in law is breaking my family and my marriage..

I got married with my husband 2011, it was going all well and lovely.. I really loved my husband,he's the most caring man on earth and gentle,gives me listening ears and take care of the family.. By. Sept 2014, he's immidiate younger brother visted us, I was thinking it was a short visit only for me to discover he wants to stay with us pending on when he gets new job within the city.. I learnt he lost his former job at abuja due to some personal issues he never want to revealed to us.. And he's 38 not yet married.. As at jan this year, he made some funny moves with me.. That shows he's interested in me.. I gave no room for that,just recently only for me to discover he's helping my husband to arrange other women outside.. According to some of the people telling me.. This is not the first time nor even the sixth time.. He will arrange girls for my husband in hotels,clubs etc
Just last two weeks,I decided to stalk them, when he told me he wasn't coming back tonight.. Just for me to see them at a popular club at ikeja with some girls.. I have confronted my husband and told him but till now he's stll haven't changed, this past friday it repeated itself again.. Right now I'm confused,I don't know what to do.. I need your help my fellow nigerians.

Patience from Lagos.

Treash:
I woke in the early hours of
the night in my bed, when I stretched my
hand across the bed to feel the
softness and the tender skin of my
wife but it was my pillow that
occupied the space beside me then I
realized that my wife is yet to come
into my life.
Hello dear, it’s funny that I don’t even know your name yet but that is of little
importance because I will always call
you “My Angel. How is life treating
you? It might have
happened that we have met without
really meeting or we may have passed
each other on the road without even taking
a glance or possibly, we have never
met; whatever the case may be, we
are going to meet someday. My angel
I’m looking forward to the day we
shall be pronounce husband and wife
the day that man will say: “You may
now kiss the bride, the day my parents
will embrace yours, the day we
shall be known as a big
family. I promise I
won’t choose a place for our
honeymoon the pleasure will be
yours. I’m also looking forward to the
night when we shall conjugate our
marriage, when I shall plant the seed
of my first twin inside of u. I don’t care if your flower
has been plugged, circumstances can
make us do things against our wish. I
promise to love and cherish you just
the way you are. Be careful with men,
don’t fall prey to their sweet words
which carry little meaning. I want you to know
that I am looking forward to the day I
can boldly say that I have a Queen the
SYMBOL of Love. Am waiting for that day.

Dapo777:
Its annoying, i receive countless inboxes from gals here on nl even some guys too. A lot of girls stalk me here Its getting out of hand

I just might take down my profile picture to reduce this

Reasonable suggestions plsss.

Pchidexy:
I met this girl when I was a teacher in a private school five years ago. She was a teacher as well. She was a hell of beauty. We both had feelings for each other but there wasn't anything serious. We lost contact when I left the school to pursue business. Five years later, in 2015, we met again. This time, we got really acquainted to each other. We were rolling!

The Test:
I purposely gave her number and details to my friend who is a real player. He scooped her and she fell. She was money conscious as she demanded Samsung galaxy n some money from my friend. He never gave her any of those things. Just by promising her marriage she willingly opened her legs for him. All these while, I was updated by my friend. She never knew I knew about her escapades.

If you were in my shoes what would you do?

As for me I see her as worthless and only use her to quench konji.

milliondollas:
The community of ladies who are tired of the “come to my
house syndrome” Are u all virgins ? I asked because you are asking for respect due to virgin girls only, 99% of girls are prostitute who date old men for money, nonsense

RedBenson:
That's a lie. I've not shared any gold with any women. Women try to gold-dig me but God has given me the grace to refuse it.

AcesIni:
a girl posted the following about sex on facebook and it's causing a debate. what do you think

masterchi:
problem is the girls dont want to work and the guyz dont want them to reap where they did not sow.

zendy:
I fall into that category. I won't say I'm rich but I'm comfortable and I own the house I live in and I'm 30+. When you get to that stage in life, you will think seriously about settling down but unfortunately, wife material is hard to come by. I don't want to get married just for the sake of getting married because marriage can be a curse. I know many guys my age who are married but feel like they are in a nightmare which they don't know when they will wake up from. Women can be strange creatures. Some of them are good at hiding their true nature until they are married. By then, it's too late for the man. Many Nigerian women treat marriage like winning a jackpot. After saying 'I do', they regard the mans role as being their own personal "genie" who is there to grant their wishes while all they have to do is pop out kids. There are actually very few women who realise that marriage is joint effort and any problem that comes along, they just blame it on the man. All I can say is that while they say that "Husband is scarce", I say that "Wife material" is even more scarce. Rather than being with a "Dragon tailed Witch" , I would rather stay stay single or just get myself a Baby mama.

zendy:
I fall into that category. I won't say I'm rich but I'm comfortable and I own the house I live in and I'm 30+. When you get to that stage in life, you will think seriously about settling down but unfortunately, wife material is hard to come by. I don't want to get married just for the sake of getting married because marriage can be a curse. I know many guys my age who are married but feel like they are in a nightmare which they don't know when they will wake up from. Women can be strange creatures. Some of them are good at hiding their true nature until they are married. By then, it's too late for the man. Many Nigerian women treat marriage like winning a jackpot. After saying 'I do', they regard the mans role as being their own personal "genie" who is there to grant their wishes while all they have to do is pop out kids. There are actually very few women who realise that marriage is joint effort and any problem that comes along, they just blame it on the man. All I can say is that while they say that "Husband is scarce", I say that "Wife material" is even more scarce. Rather than being with a "Dragon tailed Witch" , I would rather stay stay single or just get myself a Baby mama.

Orikinla:
[size=18pt]The best a salary earner can be in Nigeria is comfortable.
No salary earner can be rich in Nigeria, except he or she is doing sharp practices or moonlighting.

When the annual school fees of a child in a very good private school in Nigeria is almost N1 million.
House rent in a decent and safe location is from N1.2 million a year.
So, before a young man earning more than N500, 000 monthly salary can marry, he must consider how to secure the future of his family.[/size]

RedBenson:
You see why they're not willing to marry? Why did you aim at that 33 oil bloc of a dude when a hustling guy near your neighbourhood is dying to get you? Gold digging everywhere.

RedBenson:
You think you can reap where you didnt sow? You should ask yourself why he hasnt married all the women said to be around him.

#HeartlessGoldDigger

olowoba:
lol. believe me most of my friends don't lack women around them.
however, if you are serious, pm me. i will link two of you and leave you guys to do the sorting yourselves.
i have never had any report of him beating any lady. hope say u make sense small sha.

olowoba:
lol. are you serious?