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fleeky:
And where did I reply after I made that statement "Silence is the best answer". Kindly quote and paste "the reply you saw from me"

why u dey vex na.
just in a playful mood.
oya no vex

fleeky:
Oldie, why don't u understand simple English?? there's no difference between you and the teens here, why can't u simply get off my mentions?? Is it a difficult task? You're singing your "above 30 praises like you have achieved a lot" how has your old age helped you? How has it helped nairalanders?? How has it helped Nigerians? How has it helped the nation?..I know your type, na nairaland dem dey get mouth. you still have loads of growing up to do Mr 30 something
Keep seeking a 2years old girl's attention.





Silence is the best answer!

"Silence is the best answer"
Always act and do wat you type or say.
you replied

MYMINDER:
Good to know you see where I am coming from with my assertion. I do believe the hookup focus in the thread title has stifled the thread and sent it into a funk.

i wish i knew where your coming from but honestly u don't.
the hookup focus did not stifle the thread rather it has enable some people to meet with great minds which on normal nairaland parole they would not have noticed.i belive some have formed friendship that could be of benefit to both parties.
just cos your not open to the hookup part bout it does not mean others are not
so i would ask that you view the thread with an open mind.

[quote author=MYMINDER post=40247876]Good to know you see where I am coming from with my assertion. I do believe the hookup focus in the thread title has stifled the thread and sent it into a

MYMINDER:
Ladies is being able to make an enjoyable conversation with your partner a prerequisite to romantic bliss? Can someone tickle your fancy despite not having much to talk about? Is informal silence golden?



Your thoughts...

forget romantic bliss.
communication is what keeps both parties going.
cos it is only tru communication that you get to really know each other it is important in relationships as it allows us to share interests, aspirations and concerns, to support each other, to organise our lives and make decisions, communicate.dislikes.wants,desires.capability,e.t.c
cos after the romance if there is no form of communication the relationship is boring.

Toks2008:
I really dont know where you are getting these ideas from..This thread was never created primarily for hook up but to discus mature issues hence the title "lets talk"

So i guess its because one silly mod moved it to meet up or hook up zone hence your perception.

toks lets be real when this thread was created it primary purpose was for hookup anyway which every way anyone see the term hookup cos the key word is "single"
why do you think some just drop numbers and bbpins.

BCISLTD:
Give the dude a break..the thread is actually "dry".A thread for 30 plus singles should be more daring and more about taking chances.. (hook ups and dates ). All I see are folks trying to be charming by throwing words around. .


Well wetin concern me...just passing through. .

lol.i did give him a break.
daring?? in the context of this thread define your meaning of daring.
Taking chances.if your part of the members have you taken any?
atleast in their charming self of throwing words around they kept the thread to this point.

DrDauda:
This dry thread. What is d objective self? I wonder

Forget the objective of this thread
as it will be very boring for you.
just retrace your steps back to sexual section cos ur much needed there.

saucekid:
(How I go take make this request sef?

Female
Witty
Any tribe will suffice
Business savvy and all the other trappings a man desires in a female, then let's chat
Send a PM and I'll request for your contact and we can take it from there

Thanks

lobatan

Go and confess to your friends parent and tell them to adopt you as their child in their heart
or
stop using the certificate
if you want go bck and do part time and get your own 2:1

Hello House
A friend of made a statement that no man can be in a sex free fully committed relationship
in this world of today and he won't indulge in it outside the relationship.
Is it that the world is so corrupt that no sex no commitment.
HOW TRUE

Toks2008:
LOL! You no sabi quote at all..see how you changed my original comments lol!

I can see you are not getting it...we have short term and long term plans so getting involved in a regular job could be a short term plan for some of us and some guys are just ok doing this for the rest of their active years and its perfectly ok if that is what gives him fulfillment.

My point is that a typical naija lady would rather prefer her man to stick to a regular job rather than resigning to take up a dream career,business or project.

i no sabi the whole quoting thing but atleast u understand

Toks2008:
my broda you have said it all...sometimes i just cry in silence for the myopc disposition of our ladies...they keep saying...i want a guy who is financially stable,a guy who is gainfully employed,a guy who is....then i began to wonder if these ladies actually reason rationally.

yes we do.that why oninye differs from udy to seun

Nigeria is a perculiar country where the norms in organized part of the world is a fluke here...and come to think of it..it is even easier for ladies to get jobs because of many factors too numerous to highlight.

wat factors?

All a lady needs is a hardworking guy who knows what he wants and dogged enough to pursue his dreams and not necessarily a man who is fortunate to secure a regular take home pay just to get by...there is more to life than just eating and having a regular job that may limit your dreams...

All men were not born to be employers.
Aside food clothing.reproduction.house which most human need.throw in one or more businesses.vacations
all of which a good regular job can also give to you.
wat more does toks2008 need in life.

Go round and check the men that are making great success of their lives n you will agree that these are not guys with regular 8 to 5 jobs but guys who follow their dreams and passions.

Tunde fowler started from a regular 9-5 job
mr eric oloruwa
udo udoma
fashola
all these were guys with regular 8 to 5 jobs who made a success of their career


I am not saying getting a job is not ok but the way ladies hinge their criteria around regular income earners,many guys are losing out on their dreams,many guys are dropping their vision to build another man vision just because an average naija girl will prefer a regular worker in shell rather than a lionel messi in the making...for how long shall we guys continue to lose our identity for the sake of winning the respect of these myopic ladies who look for a financially stable guy for their selfish purpose.

I advice every lady reading this,sit that guy down,ask him about his long term goals as well as short term then decide if you are strong enough to go all the way with him.

For me,my vision is clear and no lady in this world will ever make me drop it...anyman without a vision is a total failure and if im a lady,i will prefer to be with a vision driven man rather than a man who just wants to get a job,retire at old age and depend on pension.

Did i hear someone say...what if the vision does not get fufilled?...well life itself is a risk and those who try and fail are far better than those who do nothing.

Take that risk with him,pray for him and if at the end of it all he fails,hug him and tell him how proud you are to have a man like him.

Some dont have the heart that comes with taking risk.
Most importantly only always take a decision that will make you happy.
it worked for toks2008 might not work for sparlles003

magneto:
I agree with u to an extent bro. Even the Bible says dat a man dat can't provide for his family is worse dan an infidel. There's no mincing words abt it, the love in a 'broke' home is not as sweet as that in an 'abundant' home. Of cos dis doesn't mean dat money creates love but rather it can enhance it. I'm glad u got the main lesson from wat ur dad said. Every man should strive to better himself financially in so that the love that exists in his home would be adequately enhanced.
The bolded part of ur post however is not entirely correct. It is definitely NOT A FACT and only a selfish woman would 'hinge' her love and respect for her man 'solely' on his ability to bring home the bacon. That kind of woman is still very immature and doesn't understand the issues of life. I rise

all which takes the grace of God.discipline not to be envious her seeing your lack in other men.dedication to you in terms of lifting words of encouragement

klassic:
God bless you. My postulations is not only posited on premarital issues, but the fact that a guy with low income gets married, at first the wife is understanding and cooperating, the suddenly she wants more. Not only that, she is now Mrs wife, the guy loses his job and the income is gone down, same goes with the love and respect the woman is got for her man. Especially when it takes longer for the husband to bounce back. I was trying to state the fact that a woman/wife's love, respect and continuous loyalty is premised or hinged on the man/husbands continuous ability to provide and upgrade the financial status of the family. Cos when he fails in this aspect, the family love crashes faster than the stock exchange market.
On a final note, a woman will do anything to get her supposed man to change her last name to his. But the crux is what happens after that? The veil of the masked character is lifted and reality sets in. Soon all the honey flies outta the window.
Above all, it's a wake up call to men out there, that there is little or no difference between a boy of 22 who is got mad bread and he is "responsible" and a 45years old man who is bearly getting by.
The lesson my loving dad was trying to pass across, was the fact that don't wait till you are 25 to realize you a man, realize every 10 year old boy is a grown man, husband and father who is got responsibilities.
So the earlier you realize that and start early, the better for you. Cos you only earn your place as the head of the family and the accrued sugar, honey, sweetheart, dad, daddy, baby "even when you are 60years" when you perform averagly well as a man and still earn that respect even in death. If not, you just become what I stated in the first post, the most useless man and a dead bit dad. Guess nobody wants that . I rise.

my brother gbosa for you
abeg watsapp me you number make i call you
rashida come help me type my number give uncle klassic.

missbronze:
Wether Joseph or Job, it doesn't matter.


All I am saying we shouldn't place priority on money as a tool for marriage to work out.

It takes more than money.

money should not be the only priority but one of the priorities.

missbronze:
Dear, quarrels, nagging, insults are bound to happen in marriage. Don't blame it on because the "man have no money again."


You used Job's wife as example, didn't your bible show you that Mary married Joseph ordinary capenter. He was so poor, no money for hospital, she have to deliver in a manger.

Yet, there was love and peace in their marriage.

if the holy spirt had not told joe in a dream to marry mary joe would have dumped her when she got preggy

[quote author=missbronze post=39946803]Dear, quarrels, nagging, insults are bound to happen in marriage. Don't blame it on because the "man have no money again."


You used Job's wife as example, didn't your bible show you that Mary married Joseph ordinary capenter. He was so poor, no money for hospital, she have to deliver in a manger.

Yet, there was love and peace in their marriage

klassic:
When I was 14/15,my dad sat me down as a son and said"my son, the sooner you realise the fact that you are a man, the easier life will be for u. One day, you will marry & raise a family. You will have the sole responsibility of providing for your family and giving them the best of what life has to offer. If you do this, your wife will love and cherish you, she will forget your name and still call you honey, darling, sugar pie, daddy, baby, etc, at age 60.But remember, you must strive to make things better cos if you fail, you become"Mr. Man, papa John, she remembers your full names and always ask ; y did I marry you, the juju u used for me has failed and you become a useless, good for nothing man, she starts comparing you with your mates, forgetting the good times so soon. If she is totally heartless, she starts sleeping around with your friends and other men who can take care of her needs. She denies you everything the marriage has to offer and you feel worthless before her as she will turn the kids against you.
So my son work twice as hard as your mates, work while they work and work while they sleep. Remember you have loads of time to rest and sleep when you are dead. Even if you die young, make sure you leave enough to make your family comfortable. For in doing all these, you earn their respect even in death. # Our Fathers advice #no woman loves penniless man. #No money no love. #No money no honey. #in a woman world, it's God first, make money and don't stop, cos the only language they Understand is money.

Honestly you just spoke the tboughts of 95% of women

True love is just an illusion most say.as to still remain single or say it for sake of identifying with the statement.
personally when you care for the wants,wellfare,thoughts of any being more than yours thats true love.
when you can make sacrifice for anyone thats true love.
when you feel and share in their pain.aches.joy.sorrow thats true love
not the sweet talks,butterfly in the tommy feeling,the diamond studed engagement ring,fancy propsals e.t.c

lots of theories on marriage
uhmmm

Gojack:
Well i hope a find a gud girl here and she must be working, age range 27 to 30 and based in lagos, if you are interested and ready for a serious relationship hit me up via my details BBM 2BB838D9 OR 09053206913. But if you are looking for an ATM machine , please ignore my details speaking from experience all i seek for is true love and long lasting relationship that will lead to the altar.

Are you a good boy?
Do you have a good job?
What age range are you?
Are you ready for marriage?
What do you understand by true love.

Toks2008:
Cute dude...i just dey admire o..im straight o

becos of you i check the dp too.
he try

bros i beg you.runnnnnn.cos that babe can and will never change
you ho find peace tire you no go see if you marry her cos every day of your life will be an argument.fight abuse verbally.insults on you and your family join.

nicerod:
u dnt like me being straightforward abi?
I'm nt here to play wt any1's heart

You shouldn't be here in the first place.cos you definately need to go learn how to coordinate your speech.

nicerod:
Na toto kari me com here o make una vex

uncultured mannerless rude child

lolu20:
Eva since I met her,I became a better person. my life changed.not APC change. it was as if dat was all I needed in life.I loved her and she loved me back. so sad,she was married. I have been living a normal life.not club for like one and a half years.I never like clubbing. I thank God,she stopped me from d act.

uhmmm.so you considering starting a class in adultery with her?
Thank God she was instrumental to the change your life experience but my brother our deeds good or bad we reap.
stay away from her she is married
do to others what you want done on you.

lolu20:
what do u know about love.I followed my heart.and u don't av d right to me whether I am in luv or not.how can u open ur mouth and say my luv is selfish. if I find luv in a married woman,so be it.all d single ladies doesn't appreciate a gud man.moreover,they r not legally married. it was just introduction, no kids whatsoever. d girl denied d ring when I asked her about it.she told me I can still come and marry her if I am ready now. but I just decide to avoid violence.

uhmmm.
the same cane used on the other might just be used on you too.
Introduction is as good as marriage.cos you have decleared your intents to belong to that person to all and sundry.
my opinion her characters such as contentment.faithfullness is questionable.

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lolu20:
what do u call a relationship that started right from d state.a girl I met in d dream while I was in Lagos b4 travelling to the east for d first time.what do u call that.I told d same tins I said to her in d dream and she replied d same way.the same sitting position,the same time as it was in d dream.what do u call dat ?

Spirit wife.....just joking
Sent from heaven....another joke o
my brother forget na another man wife.