Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:19pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Do You Look Beautiful Without Make-up? Post Pictures Here by Sparkles003(f): 5:58pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:24am On Oct 23, 2015 |
klassic: ...And he was right to be afraid, because the man who had cleared his throat soon raised his machete and struck him. Okonkwo looked away; so I did too. We heard Ikemefuna scream, "My father, they have killed me" as he ran towards Okonkwo. Then Okonkwo raise his own machete and bring it down on the boy. Still rem quotes from your favourite " things fall apart. Remember ; the white man's horse, agbala shrine and amalize " the cat"... Hehehehehehehe good old days indeed. Things fall apart |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:19am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Whobedatte: by Godd fearing, we simply mean a woman with conscience and a large heart, who can put on her spiritual garment for her man when the chips re down. Not your own definition. Btw hw are you? So in essence my own question no follow for Godfearing. Oga we all have the defination of wat Godfearing means personally to each of us. To me it means living right according to the word of God that the thought of doing wat he dislikes according to his word makes you uncomfortable or uneasy. which means if truly one is Godfearing it is reflected on their attitude.dressing.speech.behaviour.thoughts.everything not just having a large heart or conscience. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:07am On Oct 23, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:07am On Oct 23, 2015 |
galantjoe: i need good looking girl for friendship.
see my signature and send email to inbox. Are you handsome?  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 11:33pm On Oct 18, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 11:27pm On Oct 18, 2015 |
klassic: ...When God had made Man, he made him out of stuff that sung all the time and glittered all over. Some angels got jealous and chopped him into millions of pieces, but still he glittered and hummed. So they beat him down to nothing but sparks but each little spark had a shine and a song. So they covered each one over with mud. And the lonesomeness in the sparks make them hunt for one another. To she who has sparkened up my crazy world I say thank you. She knows her self. yes i know  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 8:17pm On Oct 18, 2015 |
halexito: Please, I can you explain more? explain?? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:16pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
[quote author=halexito post=39087702]Hmm........ Sincerity, hard working and good prospects. Hmm...... Love your line of thought sweet. [/quote
sincerity=loyality or being real=who he is. not lazy=comfortable,ok or rich=where he is or what he has. good prospect=goals,aspiration=what he will be. please tell me you are dating him for WHO HE IS |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 4:50pm On Oct 17, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 11:27am On Oct 16, 2015 |
atom2015: Am tired of been single n I really need appropriate answer to this simple question: DO LADIES STILL LOVE A GUY FOR WHO HE IS? NO. They love for what he is. What he can be. Who he is(MD CHEVRON e.t.c) What he has. Where he belongs(family). Where he works. His looks. etc. Only 10% truly love for WHO HE IS irrespective of anything and everything. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 11:03am On Oct 13, 2015 |
toks here toks there toks everywhere. he speaks like toks. and some come to say left whatever. shuoooo. abeg make ba free the situation and move to other matter. and melish as a young beautiful girl it is not everything your eyes see it says.some you keep your mouth shut and observe even after observe still keep quite cos others saw it to. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 8:31am On Oct 13, 2015 |
mikolo80: madam i agree I'm not politically correct h appreciate your matureresponse but the truth is bitter and I really don't like..... let's Just say I like to cut to the chase no I did not mean to make fun of her but it's a just a fact is it fair, no but those are the 'rules ' man is the the head and trust me women would rather get married to a broke asss nigga than a bitch asss nigga(sugar mummy, cougar,gold digger stop) only one captain in a ship and the deck is stacked against women if you want to wear the pants,you go'n have to man up honey (not patronising y'all, Just saying it as it is) you can't pick equality without the baggage Tiananmen with it aka no more women first you wash your own cars you pay for dinner ...you get the point most guys don't handle this well so they leave 10 feminist career women to 1 man who can deal with it 9 lonely women multiply by millions the choice is the women's it is what it is
obviously everyone has a story but if you give me your whatsapp or bbm contact i promise you I will convince you it's your fault sorry I don't like typing on phone (prefer to talk real time, cos it's very easy to misconstrue my text cos I'm blunt and can't always interested emotion in words (mainly cos I think it's gay (yeah, I confess, I'm a caveman)))
God will heck you beht madam, try take medicine for Lagos palaver i recommend you buy okada uhmmm. you just typed a lot of thing i presume are your opinion My opinion all,no disrespect to you or your writing na rubbish cos when i read what you initially typed and eneded with fish brain i expected you to bring your valid points to the table for such statement instead you got plain sparkles confused even the more. FEMINIST you talk bout women being career orienated and desiring to be treated equally so therefore they should take care of their own shit. in this economy of today it cannot be helped.things are much more expensive(food.clothing.shelther.schools)which are more or less basic needs.like i tell my friends the equality stops at the work place at home the man is the head and should be respected accordinly not feared but some men see women as their sub ordinate,subjects or rivals instead of an helpmate mate which is her calling. Do a research most women that her feminist at home do so because the man has chosen to switch roles with the woman while will a man. The story A bit.after a year and half of staying at home and job selecting cos i do not want marketing jobs.i got tired and finally got one by God favour dat did not come as markerting but still ended up bring markerting. i work mon- fri till 6pm 2 sats in a month make time for market.stay with family cant expect mum to do it.wash.clean before you know sat is gone. sunday comes with cooking for the week @end of the day sun day is gone if at end of the day i make d statement she made.makes me a fish brain? met a guy dat i really liked one time at the bank my dad banks with.after every every .said i was too expensive just cos i told hom my dreams and aspirations and dat me no fit do room and palour with any man. that a two bedrooms should be a better start. just as women have wants so do men Battery low.lemme stop here. before you generalize make sure you do a through research first. Thanks all |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 6:07pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Toks2008: The ethics of my profession embraces proactiveness,innovation and dynamiism which remains the opium of any sustainable and progessive corporatiion or individual.
Having said that..i have decided to lay to rest the clamour for ladies in their late 20s...though i expected the OP to execute a liberal and democratic approach to my suggeston by throwing it to every one on the thread but she chose to be authocratic about it and i had to let it go.
If there are ladies of late 20s on this thread i believe you wont even write this because you would have silently sent a mail to any lady in your age bracket that catches your fancy in terms of her beauty or personality even if you are on the bench as a result of your ae.
Im writing this because of the mention but the op has the right to be epiphatiic about this or still hold on to her standds. You still talking about it means you have not laid it to rest. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 8:17pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Toks2008: Now you are confusing me..are you saying i was wrong advising him not to go for ladies older than him above 5years? I never said that. I am only asking a situation you that in a situation that a guy wants to date an older lady say the guy is from 27 upward wnd comes to you for advice would you encourage him. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 4:52pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Toks2008: Read the first libe of that my post very well.
How are you doing?qutee a while. if he was above 23 would you advice him to marry an older lady |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 4:04pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
Toks2008: I dont advice you go for an older lady above 4 or 5yrs.
Apparently at 23 you should focus more on building your life then maybe as you grow older you will have a broader view about life and decide on what you really want. Why won't you advice him to go for an older lady? just asking |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 2:20pm On Oct 09, 2015 |
Toks2008: Oya make una come answer nah
torqque7 coded06 DIVFAVOR marcusagrippa goodguygonebad Sparkles003 fairlyisabel halexito siamia Dosunmuoflagos udysweet tpiande uchezzz IceDude tbaby123 joebeckz gratefulme40 Most ladies when dating a man fail to pay attention to the very little details. while befriending eachother except you are one that stands for no sex you would have noticed his fetish for "licking"either by actions or subtle telling thru his words. Now to the question of if i can allow my man do the "licking"or not. yes i can as i feel is vice versa.there is no where that the bible condems how you make love.rather it says that the two shall become one which is only possibe in flesh,sometimes in soul and very rare in spirit.all she can do now is to pray the demon out of him |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:56am On Oct 09, 2015 |
Melish: Why all the long notes..... Hasn't she tried by lowering the bar to 30 after originally starting with 40(she obviously wants those closer to her age).....
Drop the matter... Or Create your own thread... U lack proper home trainning. but i guess the thread and toks are giving you that much attention that you so desire in your life right now.but i have to give it to you your sturbborn attitude is consistent.keep it up and while at it also keep your opinions about this thread to your self. Thank melish |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:38am On Oct 09, 2015*. Modified: 11:07am On Oct 09, 2015 |
@toks.the op of this thread has already set a standard of the age set wanted for this group.please drop the inclusion of the ladies from 26,yes a lot of them may be much more matured than those in their 30s.but the op says 30s.if the 20s want this kind of thread,last time i checked creating threads on nairaland is free.melisha can start one.  @dd.saying the watsapp forume of this thread is crappy seems to me like disrespect to the op,cos same person created the thread and the watsapp group. and to those saying the watsapp disscussions are immature.no disrespect but in your mature selfs nothinh stops you from pointing out errors and flaws of a group of people to them and leave it to them to take correction or not.the topic of this thread says if your 30plus and single lets talk.just cos you choose to talk bout politics or spiritual beliefs doesn't mean i should do same ,i might choose to advertise for a husband it is called choice and i feel the purpose of the watsapp is to know one another on a personal level to share challenging and disscusing probably solutions.wants.issues of life.e.t.c that most probably won't want make public here and like every other forum the wheat and shaffs are mixed up together.it's your choice to be among the wheat or among the chaffs |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 12:03am On Oct 07, 2015 |
Melish: And remember no matter how soothing calm and gentle anybody appears here they might turn out to be a Wolf in sheep's clothing...
I'll advice that you should keep all info about your personal life to yourself even if he has proposed to you over the Internet until you have met and established a stable physical relationship ... Don't let desperation or vulnerability get the better of you... from your quotes you sound like one who is born again but with the op permission i say you are very disobedient and the word of God condems disobedience in all form.you have been instructed not to comment but stay on the sideline but you disobey. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:56pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Toks2008: But you just quoted me..lol *smiles*didn't want to.just had to |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 10:33pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
Toks2008: My sister abeg go read again..
E no pass 3
Good cook
Pleasing to the eyes
GOD fearing
shikenah..no long list Please i am not quoting any one.I'm here to learn and open to corrections. A lot of guys when asked what qualities do you desire in your lady always include God fearing. Now a God fearing woman i belive takes to heart the word of God in the bible dear as such tries not to do the things the word of God condems like would not indulge in sex before marriage ,rarely or never does outings like clubs,night outings.never or rarely sleeps over at her man place so as to avoid stories that touch. Most men aviod such women in the excuse that they are boring,can't be with a woman that they cannot shine her congo. So my question is do men truly want God fearing women or it is just a word of mouth they love listing. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 4:01pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
EggovinMma: I'm not looking for a perfect man, but I have a standard.For example, I may live with a serial cheat but never a physical abuser. pardon me but why would you even consider a serial cheat |
Romance › Re: Question To All... by Sparkles003(f): 3:28pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
MrCork: ..^^^ Sparkles003<<<<<<< chick spekin pigeon english like farmers wife...u try to help or correct them and them an they all ways comebak wit atitude.....white wonen will never behavr like tha t!!(REAL TALK)  Even that you london English call chick(baby chicken) and farmer wife na lady wey follow cultivate the food wey you dey eat. So keep your londoness to yourself |
Romance › Re: Question To All... by Sparkles003(f): 1:15pm On Oct 05, 2015 |
MrCork: ..ok...so u want to cometo London..abi?  |
Romance › Re: Question To All... by Sparkles003(f): 10:06am On Oct 05, 2015 |
MrCork: ...which comand??...sweery ..females spekin pigeon english mean they r bush & r not on our London level......u spek pigeon English & then u complain u cannot find man on nairaland..abi?. Are u lightskin?!((no ofeeense)  non taken.i prefer my nija level anyday any time with holidays to your london level. |
Romance › Re: Question To All... by Sparkles003(f): 8:12am On Oct 05, 2015 |
MrCork: ...we Londoners cant but serriously...can you date a female who spek pigeon English?...in this day & age?  Guy i dey always observe your posts them before before close mouth but this one i gats yarn. I speak pigeon wella but i also have good command of my well spoken constructed English so don't get it twisted.wen i dey obalande market u no expect make i dey speak queens English ,pigeon no means one no go school in Nija your enviroment at that moment determines if you speak proper English or pigeon.simply |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 7:41pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
klassic: @OP thanks for this thread, i am in my early 30, i am a workaholic and an introvert though trying to socialize and work on my people skills becos my profession needs it as a civil doctor( guess you should figure that out yourself or ask Shakespeare) smiles. I spend my 48hrs weekend at home all indoor except i am at the mechanic, in church or out of town. I love older women they are understanding, matured and fun to be with especially the matured discussion. The only thing is dread is the marriage issue. I dont wanna get marry, i hate marriage at least for now . I moved to Lagos few months back and will like to hook up atleast up my social skills. I dont do social parties, its a kill joy, but do go out to gardens and club on friday nights which is once in green moon, maybe when i am extremely sad. Watching people dance gives me joy even if i dont know how to dance. Now describe me in a single word. U already did.INTROVERT |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 7:10pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
Toks2008: I dont even advice you do that considering the guy codes.
btw nice dp though not too conspicous lol Thanks.some of us prefer to be conspicous |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Sparkles003(f): 6:53pm On Oct 04, 2015 |
[email][/email] Toks2008: Shame kwpa
If im a lady and i really want a duse walahi i will give him vivid signs and if he makes the move on me and thinks i will be a zombie for him then he is on a long thing.
Many ladies fail to realize that you could prove difficult to get yet be easy prey for guys who are dogged and dangerous.
i always tell single mature ladies,come out of your shell and be expressive. Prove your worth to that guy even if you showed interest first.
Yes you can woo a guy and still have him crave for you..its all about how you comport urself. Call me old school but i cannot woo a man I can give him the necessary signals and attention,but to outrightly woo him laye kojo. |