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FamilyRe: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Sparkles003(f): 11:33am On Jul 02, 2022
[quote author=DamnnNiggarr post=114327116]My Bossom childhood friend was financially down and needed financial assistance because his landlord was suffocating him with his constant nagging. So he contacted me as his old guy and and told me the situation on ground and requested for financial assistance from me. I didn't hesitate in sending him the money which he summed up with the one he had and cleared his house rent.

So, this afternoon, his wife texted me, and in her text, she thanked me for the assistance and requested to pay me a visit and and help me with some of my chores since my wife is in Bayelsa. From the very moment I set my eyes on that text, I haven't been myself knowing fully well that one thing may lead to another during her visit/stay.

That my guy is so dear to me and we treat each other with utmost respect so for this reason, I wouldn't like to loose that respect and trust. This woman is anticipating my response, according to her.



Joseph never aske a question in the face of temptation, joseph flee. Block her number and every other number she might use.

Tell her you appreciate but you don't need her help.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Sparkles003(f): 11:19am On Jul 02, 2022
Mayemavins:
I have been seriously contemplating, she Aborted my pregnancy after we both went to hospital confirmed it and we both agreed to keep the baby.

Moreover I really need the child, she connived with her sister and they Aborted it. I'm thinking to go the Police station to make a report and arresther!!

Pls should I?
Many more things surrounded that Pregnancy. I really need a child.
Why didn't you commence marriage plans with her?
CelebritiesRe: Pretty Mike: "If I Die Today, I Die Alone, What Family Owes Me Is To Mourn" by Sparkles003(f): 6:07pm On Mar 07, 2019
LuciferSaviour:
Look at that hungry Nairaland feminist olosho salivating & stealing glances at him from her empty table hoping he will ask her to follow him home to fvck.



*spits angry
Seer.
HealthRe: Ekiti Slay Queens Turn Flooded Area Into Swimming Pool During Rainfall. Photos by Sparkles003(f): 2:53am On Feb 27, 2019
Zanas:
Unhygienic
Honestly,hope they bath with detol after this swimming for the gram,cause skin diseases like ringworm is possible with such waters
FamilyRe: My Wife Has Reduced Me To A Common Trash. by Sparkles003(f): 8:10pm On Feb 26, 2019
Treasured4eva:
I've never been happy for almost 8 years of marriage with 3 wonderful kids.I wake up everyday asking God how I got entangled with the worse woman I've ever met in my life.

I'm a very responsible and decent man who provides for his family.My family has always been my priority, but my wife's disrespectful attitude towards me has rendered me hopeless,shattered and broken.

She insults me at any slightest argument,raises her voice to attract the attention of neighbours and the kids whenever we have a misunderstanding.She hates been talked to,even if she's wrong.

I have my own imperfections too as a man,but it really baffles me when a woman you paid her bride price sees you as trash,challenges you in a very rebellious and arrogant manner for the whole time you've ever spent with her.

My kids has been the ones keeping me from leaving the marriage since I've complained to virtually all her family members yet it seems to be worse. I die in silence and pains everyday.

My wife can't serve me food with water to wash my hands,I'll always go and wash my hands myself and mostly take the plates back to the kitchen if the maid didn't do it.She has never asked why I rejected a particular food,she'll just take it away without remorse.

I'm just nothing to her and her family members. Her sister even called me to warn and threaten me one certain time we had problem.It even became worse when she got a job,I'm a laughing stock because I lost my job.

I usually send her money to pay the kids fees,I was owing some little amount this term,surprisingly,the gave the school accountant my number to embarrass me.

I've come to realize that any woman disloyal to her husband definitely has someone she's loyal to and if you don't let her go,she might end up killing you or you do the unthinkable out of frustration.

Divorce might not be the best way to end an unhappy marriage,but it can surely prolong the lives of the couples involved. Kids will surely grow into adults someday to understand things. This is my point of no return.

She started as a terrible girlfriend and ended as a bad wife.I pray my daughters don't ever take after their mother because I can't wish a fellow man what I've experienced for almost 8 years.No body should ever marry a man or woman with flaws thinking they'll change with time;they don't change,they only get worse.

Lots of people are really misquoting me.I only lost a high paying job but still got a very big business which is already yielding income,just that my spending pattern changed.I still run all aspects of mybhome.

My wife's money remains her business and she's not mandated to spend it on me or the family.I truly assist her to the best of my ability in domestic chores and otherwise.

She's a very bad tempered woman that doesn't regard or respect me and that's where the problem lies.My only crime is that I wanted respect from her.
My advice for the sake of life which we only have one.I suggest a separation where your children spend weekends with you and weekdays with her,it is very unhealthy when parents belittle themselves all the time in front of their children as this tends to affect them socially and mentally
CelebritiesRe: Iyabo Ojo Shares Photos Of Her Daughter: "When Your Daughter Is Hotter Than You" by Sparkles003(f): 8:01am On Dec 14, 2018
doctoradekokolo:
Coming from a woman. I'm disappointed. Could be you're jealous.
please tell me what other work do most young girls do these days than spread their legs open,shoe side boob's, ass when taking a pic for gram?
CelebritiesRe: Iyabo Ojo Shares Photos Of Her Daughter: "When Your Daughter Is Hotter Than You" by Sparkles003(f): 10:49pm On Dec 12, 2018
thesicilian:
Already spreading her legs.
Na the work wey dem day do.
FamilyRe: Should I divorce my wife for this? by Sparkles003(f): 8:03am On Nov 27, 2018
shakmati:
These girls here are not serious. I'm sure y'all are just like my wife. To buy simple salt in kitchen would be a problem. Slay queens. No single person talking about how her actions are bad. Women are thrash!
Firstly: from the use of your words"silly woman""women are trash"you sound like one of them guys who have no respect for women just cos they provide for their home perfectly.
Now from my view I would say your wife lacks understanding in the management of your home(kitchen),even if she doesn't buy this things when your not home it is expected of her that as soon as you discuss your return she should have stock up on all consumables to avoid issues like this one you posted.....but didn't you see this incompetent (your words)side of her while courting?cos if you did and still went ahead to wife her then you shouldn't post such topics anymore.... your competence is suppose to cover for her incompetence.
CelebritiesRe: Lota Chukwu Steps Out In Cleavage-Baring Outfit by Sparkles003(f): 7:49pm On Nov 26, 2018
Why expose the legs ,when she is already exposing the jugs...even the dress looks not ironed.
CelebritiesRe: Meet Biodun Okeowo Children (Pictures) by Sparkles003(f): 7:42pm On Nov 26, 2018
I just don't understand why some mothers make their girl child expecially look like an adult, at such young age she should be exploring her natural hair.what is that mountain of attachment doing on her hair and what type of fugly dress is she putting on......I just don't understand..with 500 naira bend down select at tatanguatatangua,she would have looked better.
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Sparkles003(f): 3:25pm On Nov 18, 2018
Toks2008:
It is well bro. Just try more and lower your expectation a bit
I'm female not male,
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Sparkles003(f): 3:22pm On Nov 18, 2018
TomatoBiscuit:
I can relate. Maybe we just may find who we're looking for in the 41 days remaining in 2018. Wishful thinking. undecided grin
Amen
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Sparkles003(f): 5:50am On Nov 17, 2018
Lucasinho:
Amen. How are you?
I'm fine and well. Hope you are too
RomanceRe: For Single Guys Above 30 And Single Ladies Above 25 by Sparkles003(f): 4:52pm On Nov 16, 2018
Toks2008:
Happy New month friends...

We all shall see December 2018 in Jesus Name...AMEN!


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Amen. December is next month pop. I still single.
God dey on my case.
TravelRe: Passenger Sues British Airways After Sitting Next To An Obese Man For 12 Hours by Sparkles003(f): 10:04am On Nov 16, 2018
[quote author=ConciousRapper post=73017510]I am really depressed right now. Due to the heat I experience everyday in my self contain. I started saving money to get a good 1 horse power Split unit. Now the problem isn't the AC anymore.. But electricity to run the AC. I can't afford to buy a good power generator that will be running the AC 24/7.

Ever since I bought my AC.. Its been hanging there in my room like an Art work. No electricity to run it. I have been sweating day and night praying for light to come so that at least I can enjoy the AC I bought. The worst is.. I leave my house to an eatery, pay for a drink just to enjoy their AC on sunny days. I've been doing it for 3 months now. The nylon on my AC is still there cos it hasn't been used. They only flash the light in the mid night when I won't be needing it. Sometimes low voltage.

I'm damn fade up with this country. I was at accra last week and I marvelled at a lot of things there.. Not like accra is better than Nigeria. But imagine how electricity was wasted there.. For the first time I ignored charging my phone even when the light was there cos it was fully charged.

Coming back to Nigeria, I started regretting..
Now today came as a nightmare. .. As I'm typing this
my singlet is soaked with sweat from my body.
It is very hot and there's no light
My AC is even sweating too.. Reason why I came here to ask y'all what it will really take for Buhari and its government to provide us a constant power supply.
How much will be spend to work this out?

Because I heard that a small town like Cotonou runs a steady power supply..

Then what more of a big country like nigeria?
Please.. Can buhari forget fighting corruption and give us just this one?

I don't care about the naira depreciating.
I want to be cooling off in my AC everyday esp in sunny times like this.

so I want to know.. What does it really take to provide constant electricity in the country [/quot

Instead of waiting on the government just go install inverter of solar if you can afford it. And say bye to nepa issues
FamilyRe: My Wife Doesn't Like Sex by Sparkles003(f): 4:30am On Nov 15, 2018
MUSAPLC:
Thanks bros, I do enforce her I do it like mad dog with her when she start enjoying it , I then release
This comment right hear is why she does not like sex. "you enforce her like mad dog then you release like a mad dog too?
RomanceRe: With These Discoveries, Can I Continue With Her?? by Sparkles003(f): 9:29am On Nov 14, 2018
enshi:
A cheat is a cheat ... No body really changes
My brother if you were me, knowing all these would you proceed as to dating and or marring her ??
She telling you the truth is evidence that she has changed or willing to change or she no send you,you wanted honesty she gave you honesty despite knowing that it might break the relationship. Bros if you can't handle her being honest with you abeg leave her for man wet sabi handle her.
RomanceRe: My Recent Breakup Experience - I Couldnt Tolerate Disrespect by Sparkles003(f): 8:49pm On Nov 11, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked



Bros,
I've read your lengthy writeup and I'd analyze your plight with a little analogy.

You are her uber driver,
She is your passenger,
He is your passenger's next uber driver.

She loves neither of you. Instead, you guys are her ego-boosting tools.
May God give you the wisdom and maturity to handle your next passenger.
Amen
CultureRe: Igbo Monarchs Set To End The Osu Caste System Come December 28 by Sparkles003(f): 11:07am On Nov 09, 2018
Finally.
CelebritiesRe: Gabrielle Union & Dwyane Wade Welcome Baby Via Surrogacy (Photos) by Sparkles003(f): 11:02am On Nov 09, 2018
[quote author=CHIMDIYA4EVA post=72805000]Since it's through surrogacy, why is she on the hospital bed huh[/quote
When a child is born and cleaned up the baby is usually given to the mother to foster first mother and child bond,this with is way the child feels the mom mostly through the breastfeeding... by the way it is on the picture.surrogacy or not.
LiteratureRe: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by Sparkles003(f): 8:03am On Apr 01, 2018
First cover catchy but only after a second glance.
Second cover,matured and certain to get more audience.
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LiteratureRe: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by Sparkles003(f): 7:58am On Apr 01, 2018
[quote author=Nazeren post=66138646]Gaby, I'm your biggest fan. I've silently followed everything you posted on this topic and on the other thread but this past week has been frightfully busy for me to comment anything.

And...I'm disappointed.

Why you created this thread, I'll never know. Leave these petty things, would you? You should be writing a book. You're bigger than the things you do on here...even a blog! If only you'll believe in yourself, that you can and don't need anyone's validation. I've read how you hope someone will happen upon your story and "help". Why do you think you need to be discovered to discover yourself? You want to wait for that, really? Ok, we'll wait together. Or take the bull by the horn?

Gaby, you will write a book like Chimamanda has written and published. Though I do not like to compare you two. I think you are better, will do better. Your story content is stronger, heart wrenching, grittily realistic and will shake the powers that be.

You're a genuine talent and sharing this experience would be a form of release for you, a means of expressing things that have been pent up inside for many years. The world would know the horror, despair, hopelessness endured by almost half our people who have taken on this same distressing path as you.

Focus your time on putting together a manuscript reflecting your childhood and the life you've known in the desert. Your character would be typical of thousands who have struggled to survive in that death trap you once knew. Those words will write themselves, I assure you.

You may write under a pseudonym but whether or not you do, you'll be a sensation anyway. You'll take the world by storm and be the chief topic of conversation in all quarters. I dare say your story'll be a remarkable piece.

It's a very bigger picture on the other side.
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Gbam.
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LiteratureRe: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by Sparkles003(f): 7:53am On Apr 01, 2018
Raintaker:
Op should take a cue from Zubby.
He wrote on nairaland, shared on his blog also, he also made his story into n e-book.
Zubby na Oga pata pata now
Zubby exploits made for great read..IMO that was the best story on naira land for years.
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FashionRe: Top Of The Range Ladies Shoes And Sandals For Sale by Sparkles003(f): 7:33am On Apr 01, 2018
Do you still have shoes for sale?size 11W and how do I get them.
FashionRe: Top Of The Range Ladies Shoes And Sandals For Sale by Sparkles003(f): 7:32am On Apr 01, 2018
Do you still have shoes for sale?size 11W
BusinessRe: Make Money Answering Simple Survey Questions. by Sparkles003(f): 7:29am On Apr 01, 2018
anochiamonyinye@yahoo.com
FoodRe: We Supply Beans Wholesale From North by Sparkles003(f): 11:00pm On Mar 28, 2018
bettylizzy:
Business minded individuals. Also ONIONS
How much for a bag of drum beans and onions
AgricultureRe: Palm Oil Supply Nation Wide.(Abuja, Zaria, Kaduna, Kano ) by Sparkles003(f): 10:37pm On Mar 28, 2018
maureen44:
Oil 7500
Transportation 1000
Keg 750

Total 9,250
Pay on delivery?
AgricultureRe: Palm Oil Supply Nation Wide.(Abuja, Zaria, Kaduna, Kano ) by Sparkles003(f): 9:09pm On Mar 28, 2018
How much total cost per keg to zamfara
Nairaland GeneralRe: 9 Things Only Those Who Don't Stay Out Late Can Relate To. by Sparkles003(f): 5:18am On Mar 26, 2018
xynerise:
1. Your definition of Late night is different from others. You see late night as 10pm when everyone should be sleeping, while your friends see 12midnight as when the fun begins. undecided


2. Your friends always complain you are not a fun person anytime you stay out late with them because you always act as the PUNCTUALITY PREFECT(Reminder) grin

3.All you do throughout the night is continuously checking your watch to see if it past your bed time grin.

4.So your head started calculating the earliest you could be home so you won't look awful staying past your time. sad


5. When you are invited to a party that will commence at 10pm, you keep giving flimsy excuses why you won't come... grin


6. At a point you start preaching to your friends why staying out late is a bad habit and they nicknamed you "Grandpa/Grandma" undecided

7. You decided to attend the party with them to avoid tagging you "granny" but as soon as it clocks 10pm, you begin to step backward slowly until you disappear into thin air grin

8.And when the next invitation pops up as text message and the time says "Starts by 10pm", you just giggle because you are not going grin

9. Then you start questioning why your friends like staying out late, what is the benefit? Absolutely, nothing undecided.


Well, I am one of the #TeamDontStayOutLate grin grin

What kind of fun you do late night that can't be done in the day? undecided
Help me ask them ooo
Business To BusinessRe: We Sell PALM OIL by Sparkles003(f): 1:21pm On Mar 25, 2018
Price and delivery to zamfara...do you operate payment after delivery

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