It's no longer news that the Nigeria military is presently operating in Okuama community in south-south Nigeria. The disturbing news, however emanating from the region, is modus operandi of the Nigeria military, and this has led to the following observations. I don't expect this piece to hit front page.

1.DEEP SITTED HATRED: From the manner with which the military is razing the communities "associated" with the death of the soldiers, one would think Nigeria is at war with the region. The Nigeria government, under the leadership of Bola Ahmed Tinubu has deliberately prevented every form investigation into the actual cause of the death of the "gallant" soldiers. They did not even allow the state governor to visit the communities and get a first hand information of what actually happened and what is presently taking place there. Even when a senator representing the region asked for a minute silence for the innocents he was shouted down. If not HATRED, how best do you describe such behaviors towards a people.

2.ENVY AND JEALOUSY: From the comments here on this forum, coming from the northern and the southwestern part of this country, expressing their wish for the region, one doesn't need a crystal ball to see the level of jealousy and envy they have towards the south-southerners. Everyone from the south-south, whether Ijaw, Urhobo, Edo, Ibibio, etc, must take notes of these happenings for posterity's sake.

3. PERPETUAL SUBJUGATION: There's a grand scheme by the northerners and the southwesterners to perpetually subjugate the people of the south-south so as to continually plonder their resources, that's why the Nigeria state always employ the show of brute force whenever there's a fracas in the region in order to intimidate and suppress the people into submission. Only time will tell how long this methods will work.

4. CREATE DIVISION AMONG THE PEOPLE: Owing to the fact that the northerners and the southwesterners see the south-south as their cash cow, in order to have unfiltered access to their resources, they deliberately look out for sellouts who can be used to create division in the region and give this individual mouthwatering offers that ensure the continuity of their sinister agendas.

THE WAY FORWARD.

1. ENCOURAGE OUR YOUTHS TO MASSIVELY JOIN THE MILITARY: Our youths in the south-south must be encouraged to join the military. State governors must see to it that the slot given to the region is completely utilized by indigenes of the states making up the region. This can be achieved by creating a special fund, aside the federal government salaries, for military personnel of the region. This will make the military attractive, and in the future, it will prevent any form of repressive tendencies being presently experienced in the south-south and southeast from the Nigeria military, as there will be many opposing voices within the military as being usually seen when similar events occur in the north.

2. DELIBERATE SUPPORT FOR OUR POLITICAL AND RELIGIOUS LEADERS. Any of political leader who champions the interest of our region must be supported irrespective of whatever political party he belongs. For the selfish ones among us, we should not destroy them in public, we should rather device ways of using their selfishness to our advantage. The strong men in our region should never again be handed to the government to be prosecuted for whatever "crime" they may have allegedly commit. We must protect them at all cost, after all, it's our money that was "stolen" .

3. OUR FIRST ALLEGIANCE MUST BE TO OUR GEOPOLITICAL ZONE: Former governor of Ekiti State, Ayo Fayose, once said, "Yoruba comes first, thereafter, Nigeria". This is the same mindset of the northerners. Our political, religious and traditional leaders must ensure that their first allegiance must be to our region. Our men in the military and police must use their heads whenever they are deployed to intimidate and manhandle their own people. A word is enough for the wise.

4. POLITICAL AND MILITARY ALLIANCE: The people of the south-south must forge a very strong military alliance with the people of the southeast as they share a common enemy. After all, these two regions have a lot of similarities in terms of culture, religion and political ideologies, and they've equally experienced the same brutality from the northerners and southwesterners. They must deliberately reorientate their minds towards the Igbos by eschewing the age-long propaganda and gaslighting, that the Igbos are not to be trusted. Time and again, has proven that the Igbos are trustworthy. They have never for ones betray the people of the south-south, and a military alliance with them will send a very strong message to the common foes.

5. SUPPORT OUR CHRISTIAN LEADERS: The people of south-south should without hesitation desist from attending churches headed by the southwesterners and northerners and start attending our own churches. One thing I have noticed is that the southwesterners only attach importance to our financial contribution to growth of churches headed by them. They don't care about the growth of the people of the south-south. A typical example is the protest staged against former President Goodluck Jonathan which was led by a prominent southwesterner. None of their religious(church) leaders has ever criticize this government policies, not even the renowned Daddy G.O. has even express some level of sympathy towards the innocent people of Okuama, some of which are his "children in the Lord". Everyone in the south-south should wakeup from their slumber. Any means by which you can spread this message should be done without delay.

6. OUR INTELLECTUALS AND ACADEMIA MUST DEVELOP DEFENSIVE MECHANISM FOR THE REGION: Scientists that are of the south-south extraction, home and in diaspora, must start bringing their expertise to bare in advancing the development of the region militarily and otherwise. There are many islands and remote places where defense factory can be sited clandestinely. Israel is a powerful nation not because they're populated, but as a result of their defense capabilities even when they dwell in midst of deadly enemies. This is where the military alliance between the south-south and the southeast matters most. Please, spread this message, our collective survival strongly depends on this.

7. ESCHEW OUR NEGATIVE DIFFERENCES: The south-south region consists of several ethnic group and diversities. Like the Americans, we should use these diversities to our advantage. The Ijaws, Urhobos, Binis, Esans, Etsakos, Ikweres, Itsekiris, Ibibio, Efik, etc must promote unity amongst us and never allow outsiders to turn us against ourselves. We must deliberately eschew communal clashes. Disagreement between ourselves must never degenerate to violence. When brothers fight to the death strangers loot their wealth. This is what the military is presently doing in the south-south. The piece continues..

Richtaiwo:
The president has issued a statement on the killing of soldiers in Okuama.

STATEMENT BY H.E. PRESIDENT BOLA TINUBU ON THE KILLING OF NIGERIAN SOLDIERS ON A PEACE MISSION TO OKUAMA COMMUNITY IN DELTA STATE

it's very obvious that the Yorubas hate the Urhobos so much. See the narrative being circulated. Hmm. This too shall pass.

Jewessgratitud3:
Why won't they be short of teachers when they pay peanut out of the millions they are making?

You'll see a school charging 50k on the average per child with a population of 100 or more pupils paying teachers 25k. Isn't that wickedness? And you expect such a person to continue working the millions for you while you and your family keep enjoying the money.

I tell you a real life story.

Before I never knew this mushroom private schools make hell of money until my experience with one.


This woman will always cry that the school is small that we should bear with her . When the school starts growing in number she'll do something about the pay..

One year down the line the number increased and she did an increment on her school fees. I approached her afterwards and tried to remind her of her promise to do something about our charges ( cos I'm on part-time arrangements). This woman turned to lion and tolde she can't do anything that in fact I'm earning higher than her full time teachers and she has not done anything for her teachers. I tried to let her know this was not our agreement but she turned deaf ears. Well.. since I have other schools that were paying well, I said let me calm down and see what will happen. That year she sent her son to Ukraine, this Someone who claims no money. The school kept increasing. She sent her two other children to a private university. Hmmm . Meanwhile her full time teachers were collecting 10k. Three years down the line, she still refused to do something about my charges. By then I had gotten better schools and was just using hers to rest. You know.. because I've been long with them, the school was already established in my subject, so I hardly do much or stress myself explaining for too long before they grab. Though I was not happy.

Four years down the line for the son in Ukraine to graduate, his school was bombed down. You guys know that university in Ukraine that got bombed during Russia and Ukrain war, that's the school the son was attending. She was crying and panicking that day and said she didn't know where the son ran to that he just sent the pics of the school and since then she has not heard from him that students are running all over the place while some are being evacuated by security men but that she doesn't even know where the son was. I was just consoling her that day. I saw the video of the school her son sent her burning.

All their computers, results and everything got burnt in that blast. The son was later evacuated to another neighboring Country with other students and had to start afresh because news went round then that since they lost their records and all in the fire, the school can't graduate anyone because no data to work with or determine who's due for graduation.

Now what am I trying to say, this woman used the sweat of her teachers to send the boy abroad to school in one of the most expensive universities in Ukraine while paying her teachers then, 10k as salary and always complaining school is not making money. Her other children are in private universities and till today she's still complains of no money just to avoid increasing salaries. Though according to the only teacher remaining there, I heard she has increased it to 25k now while she added a miserable 5k to mine claiming my charges has always been to high from the beginning. Now she has only two teachers left. She will interview new ones only for them not to resume the day they're supposed to.

Tell me why teachers will not leave.

This your story sounds so familiar with what somebody also told me in Delta State. Do you live in Delta State?

This your story sounds so familiar with what somebody also told me in Delta State. Do you live in Delta State?

HydraFeeds:
Na that recitation go make person forget am.

Chei , good old days wey we dey enjoy tyre rolling , sand playing , killing lizards , chasing mouse etc but now na how to sort out bills and not to be left behind man dey reason.

Did you grow in Udu, Delta State?

tctrills:

Luke 9:62
62 And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. Hmm.

So, I visited the mall this afternoon and behold, I came across a man in his early thirties wearing a leg chain, earings as well as having his finger nails varnished.I decided not to post his photos here so as to protect his privacy. How will you describe such a fellow?

No one needs a seer to understand what Nigerians are presently going through. The situation is affecting every section of the country, irrespective of tribe, religion and ethnicity. And if you're expecting BAT's administration to fix things you will be disappointed. PBAT may want to ameliorate the situation, but no meaningful change will be observed. I repeat no meaningful change will be obversed. This is not because l hate PBAT or because I'm a pessimist, it's simply because I understand his ideas and philosophies.

BAT is an oligarch, an elitist in idea; that's why he's been creating strong men over the years. What Nigerians need are strong institutions and people like BAT don't create strong institutions. Strong institutions will obviously undermine their influence and weaken their hold on the people. Oligarchy or elitism is the system of government the Hausa-Fulanis practice, and interestingly, this is what most Islamic countries practice. This is one of the reasons why BAT enjoyed the support of the likes of Elrufai, Ganduje, etc. They have similar mindsets, that is, government of the wealthy and powerful few controlling the populace. Yorubas who are open minded will concur to this observation. Unfortunately, this elitism will continue unless the Igbo and South-southerners form a formidable alliance through the following:

1. MARRIAGE: Trust between different ethnic groups are usually established through marriages, as no one will deliberately want to harm his/her in-laws. This is exactly what the Hausa-Fulanis and the Yorubas do. In this regard, the young men of the Igbo extraction must intentionally prevail on their elders and kinsmen to drastically reduce the cost of marrying an Igbo bride so as encourage suitors from Ijaws, Urhobos, Benins and other ethnic groups that make up the south-south region to seek the hand of the Igbo maidens in marriage.This will go a long way in fostering cohesion between the southeast and the south-south.

2.ABOLISH THE NAME, BIAFRA: If the unity of the southeasterns and South-southerners is to be consolidated the "Biafra" tag must be discarded, especially, with regards to the violence taking place in the southeast region. No genuine South-southerners want to be freed from the hegemony of the Yoruba/Hausa-Fulanis only to be shackled by another ethnic jingoist. This is why most people from the south-south are usually on the fence when the Igbos are agitating for freedom and inclusiveness. To this end, an acronym that incorporates the initials of every ethnic group that makes up the two regions must be adopted as the name of the geographical entity. This is so important, as the name BIAFRA is one of the propaganda tool with which the core northerners and the Yorubas always use in driving wedge in between Igbos and the South-southerners. This was what they used against Peter Obi in the middle belt, but failed to achieve the south-south region.

3. SIGNED MOU: There must be a well documented and signed agreement with regards to power and resource allocation. This document must ensure egalitarianism and total federalism. Criminals must be treated as criminals irrespective of tribe and religion. If this can be achieved, the subregions will be competing with the UAE in the next ten years.

4. Hmmm..

No one needs a seer to understand what Nigerians are presently going through. The situation is affecting every section of the country, irrespective of tribe, religion and ethnicity. And if you're expecting BAT's administration to fix things you will be disappointed. PBAT may want to ameliorate the situation, but no meaningful change will be observed. I repeat no meaningful change will be obversed. This is not because l hate PBAT or because I'm a pessimist, it's simply because I understand his ideas and philosophies.

BAT is an oligarch, an elitist in idea; that's why he's been creating strong men over the years. What Nigerians need are strong institutions and people like BAT don't create strong institutions. Strong institutions will obviously undermine their influence and weaken their hold on the people. Oligarchy or elitism is the system of government the Hausa-Fulanis practice, and interestingly, this is what most Islamic countries practice. This is one of the reasons why BAT enjoyed the support of the likes of Elrufai, Ganduje, etc. They have similar mindsets, that is, government of the wealthy and powerful few controlling the populace. Yorubas who are open minded will concur to this observation. Unfortunately, this elitism will continue unless the Igbo and South-southerners form a formidable alliance through the following:

1. MARRIAGE: Trust between different ethnic groups are usually established through marriages, as no one will deliberately want to harm his/her in-laws. This is exactly what the Hausa-Fulanis and the Yorubas do. In this regard, the young men of the Igbo extraction must intentionally prevail on their elders and kinsmen to drastically reduce the cost of marrying an Igbo bride so as encourage suitors from Ijaws, Urhobos, Benins and other ethnic groups that make up the south-south region to seek the hand of the Igbo maidens in marriage.This will go a long way in fostering cohesion between the southeast and the south-south.

2.ABOLISH THE NAME, BIAFRA: If the unity of the southeasterns and South-southerners is to be consolidated the "Biafra" tag must be discarded, especially, with regards to the violence taking place in the southeast region. No genuine South-southerners want to be freed from the hegemony of the Yoruba/Hausa-Fulanis only to be shackled by another ethnic jingoist. This is why most people from the south-south are usually on the fence when the Igbos are agitating for freedom and inclusiveness. To this end, an acronym that incorporates the initials of every ethnic group that makes up the two regions must be adopted as the name of the geographical entity. This is so important, as the name BIAFRA is one of the propaganda tool with which the core northerners and the Yorubas always use in driving wedge in between Igbos and the South-southerners. This was what they used against Peter Obi in the middle belt, but failed to achieve the south-south region.

3. SIGNED MOU: There must be a well documented and signed agreement with regards to power and resource allocation. This document must ensure egalitarianism and total federalism. Criminals must be treated as criminals irrespective of tribe and religion. If this can be achieved, the subregions will be competing with the UAE in the next ten years.

4. Hmmm..

No one needs a seer to understand what Nigerians are presently going through. The situation is affecting every section of the country, irrespective of tribe, religion and ethnicity. And if you're expecting BAT's administration to fix things you will be disappointed. PBAT may want to ameliorate the situation, but no meaningful change will be observed. I repeat no meaningful change will be obversed. This is not because l hate PBAT or because I'm a pessimist, it's simply because I understand he ideas and philosophies.

BAT is an oligarch, an elitist in idea; that's why he's been creating strong men over the years. What Nigerians need are strong institutions and people like BAT don't create strong institutions. Strong institutions will obviously undermine their influence and weaken their hold on the people. Oligarchy or elitism is the system of government the Hausa-Fulanis practice, and interestingly, this is what most Islamic countries practice. This is one of the reasons why BAT enjoyed the support of the likes of Elrufai, Ganduje, etc. They have similar mindsets, that is, government of the wealthy and powerful few controlling the populace. Yorubas who are open minded will concur to this observation. Unfortunately, this elitism will continue unless the Igbo and South-southerners form a formidable alliance through the following:

1. MARRIAGE: Trust between different ethnic groups are usually established through marriages, as no one will deliberately want to harm his/her in-laws. This is exactly what the Hausa-Fulanis and the Yorubas do. In this regard, the young men of the Igbo extraction must intentionally prevail on their elders and kinsmen to drastically reduce the cost of marrying an Igbo bride so as encourage suitors from Ijaws, Urhobos, Benins and other ethnic groups that make up the south-south region to seek the hand of the Igbo maidens in marriage.This will go a long way in fostering cohesion between the southeast and the south-south.

2.ABOLISH THE NAME, BIAFRA: If the unity of the southeasters and South-southerners is to be consolidated the "Biafra" tag must be discarded, especially, with regards to the violence taking place in the southeast region. No genuine South-southerners want to be freed from the hegemony of the Yoruba/Hausa-Fulanis only to be shackled by another ethnic jingoist. This is why most people from the south-south are usually on the fence when the Igbos are agitating for freedom and inclusiveness. To this end, an acronym that incorporates the initials of every ethnic group that makes up the two regions must be adopted as the name of the geographical entity. This is so important, as the name BIAFRA is one of the propaganda tool with which the core northerners and the Yorubas always use in driving wedge in between Igbos and the South-southerners. This was what they used against Peter Obi in the middle belt, but failed to achieve the south-south region.

3. SIGNED MOU: There must be a well documented and signed agreement with regards to power and resource allocation. This document must ensure egalitarianism and total federalism. Criminals must be treated as criminals irrespective of tribe and religion. If this can be achieved, the subregions will be competing with the UAE in the next ten years.

4. Hmmm..

Olawade24:
Ko qwo ko qwo oyori destiny Oghene tore o kufia gwoko.

Enemies of progress
Otorie kufia gwoko!!!

You are very good at the Urhobo dialect.

igbosarejews:

OHU fulani, Fulani goat. No wonder FULANI HERDSMEN will slaughter góats like you any day Allah needs blloood

The man you are engaging is a Fulani man in Benue State.

Marriages today are hitting the rocks ceaselessly with no end in sight. In spite of the negative turn of events we see in homes today, some marriages are still flourishing as a result of these three factors I'm about to highlight.
Mind you, having a partner who is good in bed cannot keep a marriage from crashing. Sex does not sustain marriage when the chips are down. As a man , no matter how huge your penis is or how good you are in bed, a goal oriented, ambitious woman will work away from you when she realizes you can't meet her futuristic expectations. That's why a lot young ladies leave their long time relationship to marry a new found love.
Similarly, the beautiful or sexy appearance of a woman cannot prevent a man from walking away from his marriage. In fact, we 've heard of men who abandoned their very beautiful wives and go after a lady who can not hold a candle to their wives in terms of beauty, this is because, curves, breasts and butts have very little or no role to play when storms of life come hard on you. Below, are the three main things that keep the union going when things are falling apart:
1. MONEY: It's said that the presence of money does not guarantee a successful marriage, its availability will, however,douse a lot of tension that may arise from spousal disagreement. Majority of women are in their marriages today not because they are comfortable with their husband's excesses, but because of the constant flow of money coming from their hubbies they let sleeping dogs lie. Also, some men are putting up with their wives due to the fact that the wife is a huge pillar of financial support to the them and the family. So, they fill that doing away with such women will amount to huge economic loss.Note, however, that men under this category are mostly unresourceful. Try your possible best to be financially stable when going into this union called marriage, especially as a man.You will need this stability to weather the storm.
2. CHILDREN: Children play a big role in keeping couples together during difficult times.The fear of what become of the children when couple go their separate ways has sustained a lot marriages for years. Most women have very strong compassion and connection towards their children. They wouldn't want another woman to raise their children while they alive hence, they stay in their marriages. Similarly, some men decided to forgive their adulterous wives and welcome them back into their home not because they still love the wife. But simply because of the strong affection they have for their children. Not all children can successfully go through the emotional trauma associated with divorce.So, these highly responsible and compassionate men tend to sacrifice their ego for the happiness and emotional stability of their wards. Ensure you bear children in your marriage.Their presence will make a lot of difference in times of marital crisis.
3. SEXUAL PURITY OF THE WIFE: This is the most important thing that keeps a man to his wife. A man will tolerate anything thrown at him in a marriage if he's certain that he is the only one who has slept with the wife all her life. Many men are in their childless marriage today because of this very fact. They see the childlessness in the their union as a cross they must carry owing to the sexual purity of the wife. There was a couple who had their first childbirth when the wife was 53years of age.When the man was asked how he managed to cope all these years without a child in spite of his wealth and relentless pressure from his family to marry another woman; his response was that, he is the only person who had had carnal knowledge of his wife. So, it's only proper for him not betray the woman who has been faithful to him all his life. If the woman had been disvirgined by another man before he got married to her, the story would probably have been different. A man can endure an insulting and nagging woman if he is sure if being only the man in her life. Sexual purity is the most valuable thing a woman can offer in a marriage. As woman, stay sexually pure and your husband will have no reason to want to ditch you when things are awry. I hope you you learnt something. Happy Sunday.

chuksbogus:
If anything had happend to that marriage everybody will be shouting man of God !! Accusing the man of various things becausebits only women that must he victims of abuse.

Chidu Ihemere, I sight you.

It's no longer news that adultery is now a major problem plaguing marriages today. The news, however, is the exponential increase it has assumed. In the registry where I work in Port Harcourt, we receive at least 10 cases of divorce every week, 8 of which are as a result of the wife committing adultery. This is why it's pertinent to take this info seriously so as to avoid anything or anyone that may lead you to break your marriage tomorrow.
Aside the fact that a lot of women fall for monetary and gifts inducement, though not all, other ways to identify a woman who will likely commit adultery or presently indulging in the act are as follow:

1. A Woman That Easily Gets Bored: Any woman that easily get bored is likely to commit adultery with a man that can give her fun in that state of boredom. That's why you find so many married women sleeping with younger men and still get the men paid after sex. This is not because they don't love their husbands; they just want fun and pleasurable means to extinguish their boredom.

2.A Woman With A Low Self-esteem: A woman with a very low self-esteem will easily be attracted to any man that flatters her with praises irrespective of the man's status or moral inclinations. A lady whose husband is a medical doctor once confessed to me her she fell for her husband's driver simply because the guy is always singing her praise and she eventually slept with him severally. A young lady I once dated with the intention of getting married to cheated on me with a road side mechanic apprentice. When I asked her why she did it, her response was that, my level of education was making her to feel that she was not good enough for me and that she has to settle for a person of her class.

3. A Woman That Fears Or Hates Being A Lone: This one is very crucial for new husbands whose nature of job keep them away from their wives. Any woman that hates being alone would easily be bedded by any man that can provide companionship whenever her husband is not around. Most women see sex as a worthy reward to a man that keeps them company.

4. A Woman That Enjoys Visiting Neighbors: From observations, I come to realize that most adulterous acts are committed by neighbors. When a woman easily enters a neighbor's house who happens to be a male, to watch TV programs, adultery is inevitable.

5. A Woman Who Enjoys Night Movement: Any lady that sees nothing wrong with night movements is a potential adulterer. A virtuous woman is always cautious of herself and her surrounding. Her fear towards rapists always make her avoid being outside her home at odd hours. But you see those loose cannons, they are ready for anything. They believe you can't do anything to them other than sex. Flee from such women.

6. A Woman Who Has Cheats As Close Friends: Women in this category will hardly see anything wrong with cheating on one's partner. Unfortunately, majority of ladies today fall within this group. Guys, open your eyes before it's too late.

7. A Woman That Keeps Male As Close Friends: If your fiancee is keeping a male friend, tell her to put an end to such friendship or you quit the relationship. If she insists on keeping the male friend, then walk away for your peace of mind. 98% of these male friends are actually side guys.

8. A Woman That Always Like Partying: You can hardly please ladies that are party freak. These ones will give anything to be on the spotlight.

9. A Woman That Acts Awkwardly At The Sight Or Hearing The Name Of A Particular Male: When a woman in serious relationship acts awkwardly or feel unease whenever a particular guy is within her vicinity or whenever she behaves awkwardly at the hearing of a particular guy's name, just have it mind that she has either had a relationship with the guy or she is secretly seeing him.

10. A Woman That Posts Emotionally Disturbing Headlines On Social Media, Especially Facebook: Guys, please take this very serious because this is newest way through which cheating women express their dilemmas. When married women or ladies in serious relationships make posts on Facebook such as: "I'M CONFUSED, GOD HELP ME", "LORD, PLEASE FORGIVE ME", "HOW DO I OVERCOME THIS?" , "I NEED YOUR GUIDANCE, LORD", " SATAN GET BEHIND ME", " MEN WILL NEVER STOP", " IS IT GOOD TO CHEAT?", etc, know that they are seeing a male secretly and are looking for ways to unburden themselves from the guilt feelings or seeking validations for their actions.

Caramia2020:
Hmm, it's better to act now because it might result to chaos, happening now at Orhuwhorun Junction, Udu, Delta State, Access Bank ATM has been burnt while the crisis has gotten to express junction. It's between the youths and military men because of the rejection of the old notes.

My guy l beg give me update. Na my area be that, but nah PH I dey stay.

HarlequinLekex:
How come dey meet in the first place?
Was the husband a pastor before they married?

The young pastor was already in the calling before he married this love peddler.

HarlequinLekex:
Nairalanders can form ehnn,just say u are the husband and she is the wife.There is no crime in it,all in all na to get solution to the issue at hand

The pastor is a member of this forum. But I don't think he's in the right frame of mind to create any thread now.

dawnomike:
Simply, he should take her out to a cool place like and eatery... And disclose his findings to her.
They should both agree on separation without affecting the kids. They can even continue to live under the same roof and mind their own business.

He has already confronted with the hard evidence and she has been begging since before I drove out of the compound. But the man is insisting on divorce.

Hello Nlanders, this early morning my neighbor woke me up and told me how he secretly check his wife's Facebook account and saw amorous conversations the wife had with a friend from the other end. From the conversation, he saw that the wife had slept with the guy in a car three times. This is a marriage that has been blessed with four kids. My neighbor in question is a pastor in one of the big churches in SOUTH-SOUTH Nigeria. He told me the founder of the church in which he pastors will never grant him the approval to divorce this slothful woman . He's asking my advice on the civil and easy way to part way with this LovePeddler of a woman without having any negative effects on his calling and ministry. Mynd44, nlfmod, please do the needful.

Hello Nlanders, this early morning my neighbor woke me up and told me how he secretly check his wife's Facebook account and saw amorous conversations the wife had with a friend from the other end. From the conversation, he saw that the wife had slept with the guy in a car three times. This is a marriage that has been blessed with four kids. My neighbor in question is a pastor in one of the big churches in SOUTH-SOUTH Nigeria. He told me the founder of the church in which he pastors will never grant him the approval to divorce this slothful woman . He's asking my advice on the civil and easy way to part way with this LovePeddler of a woman without having any negative effects on his calling and ministry. Mod in the house, please push to front page

Racemate:
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If you supported Buhari in 2015 & 2019, and still willing to support Tinubu, then export more hardship.

post=114454251:
Naso, make una kontinue.
Dem no dey telli person.



If that is the way your brain interpret it to you,
That is your problem in life.
We cannot help you.
Live with it.

Can ever make your point without resulting to insults. Do you really know I was at your grill in PH last week just to have a better understanding of the person you really are?

buckeyemedia:
Empty cliche, cheap talk, a failure will always look for an excuse, let FIFA change the format, I know you believe an African team will win the soccer World Cup?

Just so you know, I'm not a politician but a very successful young man from Delta State. I don't need any political recognition to achieve whatever that is left in life that I 've not achieve. I only want an enabling environment where every Nigeria child can achieve their aspiration unhindered by any low-thinking being.

festacman:


They didn't allow the first one? Did they? It happened on them like a movie.

They never envisaged such a scenario; and that's why they will never allow a repeat of it. Just look at how Peter Obi, a unifying factor of the youths, is already being attacked maliciously by the political heavyweight.

Tellwhat:
Only thing that will save us is Restructuring

There's need for state police

Do you really think this fulani-led government will allow peaceful restructuring?

festacman:


EndSars protesters didn't have AK 47s. Did they?

Do you really think this government will allow another endsars like protest?

post=114454251:
Naso

Since it's Zamfara it is in order right? But if the southeast governors toe thesame path they are terrorists; isn't it?

festacman:
Telling the civil populace to arm and defend themselves suits our visionless leaders to confidently continue to shirk real governance while mismanaging public money. While you fight the terrorists and get killed, the police and army who are paid by the public fund guard the politicians and their families as they continue in office.

Instead of arming to defend themselves, Nigerians should use that courage to defiantly demand higher standard of governance from our Governors, the Legislators and the President. EndSars protests showed that a lot can be achieved by active interrogation of our leaders. The truth is that it our political leaders that we should fight against.

Fight the failed corrupt political leaders. They are the real terrorists.

How do fight them when you are not armed?.

KaluwisxPRO:


For which state Omo Agege don settle him own problem with Emerho inside APC before talking about taking delta from Pdp.

Una go just open mouth dey yarn dust. Omo Agege won’t get %30 of total vote. He’s not popular than Ogboru who’s been contesting from all the opposition since the days of AD.

Go Emerho compound for Evwreni you go see Omo-agege poster for billboard for front of Emerho compound

Chosen44:
which secondary school u attend.

I schooled in warri

Chosen44:
My knees almost rotten then due to crawling punishment my chemistry teacher then gave us...cos we got below 5 if u c my knees en,water was just coming out and flies were traling me...almost all the girls in my class were injured then,but nevertheless it helped to shapen some of our mistakes.

what is the name of your chemistry teacher? Your story sounds familiar