SugarGirl44:


What about me?
I'm jealous.

Because you believe in my prayer for her even though you don't know who I am, you will be wedded by the man of your heart desire before the end of this year in Jesus name. Please, keep me posted when the time comes.

dacblogger:

Did I tell you this is an excuse... This is an act I am trying to stop. I am not making excuses for myself.
Read to understand please and not to comment.

You made it an excuse when you said it's your coping mechanism.

MadamVanessa:




Inasmuch as I kick strongly against domestic violence against women. But if we want to be objective and look critically into most of domestic violence carried by men on women, we'll see that about 68% of it are caused by women.

The way and Manner wives talk at their husbands is always sad, and it's enough to make a sane man go insane immediately and unleashed his anger on the wife through beating.

Men should learn how to control their anger, because when you lay your hands on a woman, the society don't want to know the level of insult the woman gave you, all the blame will be on you.

This Madam Venessa is just a one in million. I've read her comments on issues boardering on relationships and they so unbiased, objective and devoid of every form of gender discrimination. I never knew there are feminine folks of this unique nature in this forum. My ernest prayer for you is that the Almighty God bless you with a man that can truelly appreciate you in Jesus name.

donleo92:

Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.

Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the women?

l never knew you are a member of this forum. I wanted to share it on this forum. Thank God you finally brought it here. The society needs to know what some men are experiencing in their relationship.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Exactly you also have to reread my comment so you could properly understand..

If I observed that you want to start throwing tantrum, I will cease to engage you. Because from your comments I'm already sensing that.

Kobojunkie:
Stop with the ignorant attempts at pulling God down into your tirades abeg!

There is no ordinance given by God that supports any of the claims you have made here.

then, you are very far from the scripture.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
But a wannabe redpiller is not a terrible father right? *Grins*
Equal rights implies equal responsibilities.. *winks*

Look it depends on what the persons in the relationship are like...
A relationship is about two (or more) people bringing their values to bear on how they treat each othe not on the labels that they or others place on themselves and each other...

The definition of "feminist" has changed over time and will change further still...So it is problematic to define a person as a feminist and try to use that label as a predictor for his/her behavior towards a romantic partner..
Is that understood?

Please, l want you to reread this article with a view to learning from it and not with an antagonistic approach. By so doing, you will be greatly imparted positively. I've been in marriage for about eight years now and my lovely wife is aware of everything written here. I didn't write this article to spite anybody. I only want our value for marriage to be rekindled.

I decided to make this article public as a result of the increasing cases of divorce in our present day society.
First and foremost, who is a feminist? She is a female gender who dogmatically believes that she ought to always have her ways irrespective of the consequences or outcomes of her actions and inactions. These are group of people with warped definition of morality. To them, morality is subjective. They have no regard for God's ordinance; they lack empathy and are very toxic. Being a scrupulous woman to them, is viewed as being weak, wretched or being mentally imprisoned. Their hatred for the male folks is unimaginable. The only link between them and the masculine gender is sex and money. Nothing more. I repeat nothing more; not even children.
But to be fair to them, I will like to emphasize that these group of women were not born with these self-destructive tendencies. The society made them the monsters they are today, not all of them anyway.
From careful observations and analysis, I got to realize that some of them were products of broken homes; some have been molested by rapist; while others might have developed the resentment they have towards men from experiences they had from abusive and failed relationships. But these are never enough justification for their hostile tendencies towards men. Because I also observed that majority of these women deliberately joined the feminist group so as to garner support and approval for their sordid lifestyle. Hmm. An intending husband who wishes to maintain his sanity and also enjoy his oldage must flee from such category of women. My reasons for this submission is as follows:
1. A Feminist Is A Terrible Mother: Feminists deliberately raise their children to undermine father's authority. The husband only becomes a good father if he always provides whatever the mother and the children demand. The day he fails to provide or he gives an excuse, he instantly becomes an slowpoke.
2. A Feminist Don't Attach Importance To Marriage: to be continued...Mod in house, please push it to front page.

I decided to make this article public as a result of the increasing cases of divorce in our present day society.
First and foremost, who is a feminist? She is a female gender who dogmatically believes that she ought to always have her ways irrespective of the consequences or outcomes of her actions and inactions. These are group of people with warped definition of morality. To them, morality is subjective. They have no regard for God's ordinance; they lack empathy and are very toxic. Being a scrupulous woman to them, is viewed as being weak, wretched or being mentally imprisoned. Their hatred for the male folks is unimaginable. The only link between them and the masculine gender is sex and money. Nothing more. I repeat nothing more; not even children.
But to be fair to them, I will like to emphasize that these group of women were not born with these self-destructive tendencies. The society made them the monsters they are today, not all of them anyway.
From careful observations and analysis, I got to realize that some of them were products of broken homes; some have been molested by rapist; while others might have developed the resentment they have towards men from experiences they had from abusive and failed relationships. But these are never enough justification for their hostile tendencies towards men. Because I also observed that majority of these women deliberately joined the feminist group so as to garner support and approval for their sordid lifestyle. Hmm. An intending husband who wishes to maintain his sanity and also enjoy his oldage must flee from such category of women. My reasons for this submission is as follows:
1. A Feminist Is A Terrible Mother: Feminists deliberately raise their children to undermine father's authority. The husband only becomes a good father if he always provides whatever the mother and the children demand. The day he fails to provide or he gives an excuse, he instantly becomes an slowpoke.
2. A Feminist Don't Attach Importance To Marriage: to be continued...[color=#006600][/color]

My friend, do not destroy the blessing God has given you because of mere fantasy. Body stature is just a thing of the mind so is sexual fantasy. If you can work on your mindset by shifting your focus from those so-called hot figure, your marriage will be heaven on Earth.

[quote author= post Are you sure that the Nigeria economy is depressed? I thought you said your darling daddy has made Nigeria a Utopia. Hmmm..

[quote author=Dropme post=107109812]Hello nairalanders,

Sorry for bringing such a Story here, but I just feel like getting advises and opinions.

I'm a young single father of one.

I have been the one taking care of my son since his mother left us for a worldly adventure since 4 months ago. But ever since I took over the baton to become the child keeper or nanny or whatever name u could call it, I have never noticed this child fart. Get like three seeds of Calabash nutmeg, grind and mix with water then heat and allow to cool . Give it to the child to drink.

Safyqueen:
Baze University of Abuja owned by Dr Hakeem Baba Ahmed family. Ahmed, a Mauritania recently talked down on the entire South. Mauritania just abolished slavery in the early 1990s when USA/UN threatened an invasion.

See Ifeanyin Uba, Dino and Osita Chidoka in the Law class of the Baze University. They all graduated this Weekend. Chidoka chop 2:1. Ifeanyin Uba chop 2:2 and Dino 2:2.

Let us see what they will chop in the proper Law School.

APC IMO NEC Legal Adviser, Barrister Uzukwu Patrick Eze cried bitterly, he wrote angrily :

The Council of Legal Education that regulates the training of lawyer's in Nigeria must investigate the nonsense going on in the Faculty of law of some private Universities in Nigeria.

The award of law degrees to Senator Dino Melaye and Senator Ifeanyi Ubah by BAZE UNIVERSITY is a disgrace and must be thoroughly investigated.

Dino purportedly gained admission into BAZE University in 2019.

Every public and private University were shut down the whole of 2020 due to the Coronavirus pandemic.

The Council of legal education require a law student to spend a minimum of 5 years in the University before you acquire a law degree.

On what planet will someone acquire a law degree after spending less than one year of studies in school except in Nigeria and at BAZE University.

To the best of my knowledge Senator Ifeanyi Ubah didn't attend a formal secondary school.

He spent his secondary school time in Gabon as a trader.

Now he's a law graduate with Second Class upper.

This is utterly despicable.

When did we descend this low.

Can you become a medical doctor after one year of University education?

If the medical colleges will not graduate a student in one year why should the council of legal education allow this nonsense to happen

If an Abubaka Malami can become a SAN, and still went further to become the AGF of this country; then Frank Ubah and Dino Melaye should be awarded a Phd for their efforts.

[quote author=Insecurity post=106872383]Insecurity: Arrest, jail Lai Mohammed now – HURIWA tells security agencies

Arrest Lai Mohammed. How? Can you differentiate the security agents from the lying machine?

Honestly I blame the Southern leaders for being docile and complacent in the face of the imminent danger lurking in our corridors. These northerners are cooking up something big. But Almighty God will make their evil agenda backfire in Jesus name. Amen.

[quote author=OlabodeTECH post=106826403]Hey guys!

My daughter of similar age also exhibit similar attitude when I changed their school this term. What you should:
* Always ensure you take her to school and pick her up at least for a month. That will help ensure her safety.
* Personally explain to the new teacher the need for her not to be called a baby by her new classmates. That's a form of bully and is taking a toll on her.
* Establish a friendly relationship with the teacher by always calling the teacher in her presence while at home and also making her to say hello to the teacher. This will make the teacher to pay more attention on her, and at the same time make her feel that her plight are being addressed. This will rapidly boost herself esteem and integration into the new environment.

I hope Felix Dave Terumgwan is aware of this development?

The police disclosing the boys identity is a calculated attempt at creating chaos and division in the southeast.

Y

[quote author=Amaechi2023 post=103791390]what kind of low budget script writing is this.
yahaya bello has his ambition no doubt, but to use the headlines of lawmakers supporting a northern presidency is pure false to the point of even agreeing that representatives from 18 northern states including Benue and kwara all endorsing his presidency Is pure junk journalism and am sure no meeting of such happened.
top northern political stakeholders like elrufai, Ali ndume, ganduje and babagana zulum have all agreed that yes its the turn of southern presidency even among the citizens, they believe in southern presidency except ipob who wants northern presidency because they want to laff tinubu and also want eastern presidency because they want to frustrate APC. confused sets..

[If you think northerners you mentioned are in support of southern President then you don't understand these northerners. They are only trying to create confusion in the south so as to have a better advantage when protecting their candidate. If the Yorubas can present a candidate in the person of Akinwumi Adesina or perhaps Akeredolu but not Tinubu, you will see how the whole of the south will queue behind the Yorubas.]

Splitmind:
Buhari has done it again.

All the southern idiots who were talking rubbish have now seen that he is a man of action.

God bless Nigeria!

Did you even read the post?

[quote post=103567616]The Nigerian Vice President, Yemi , has on Friday 9th , 20H21, said that the federal government Hmm

=lyndaway post=103414226]They can make their noise... is called democracy..we will always have our way..

You will have your ways when the country is balkanized?

[quote author=lyndaway post=103414226]They can make their noise... is called democracy..we will always have our way..

You will have your ways when the country is balkanized?

Another scam loading.

SimplyFacts:


Don't be foolish!

Who knows if this evil was perpetrated by your UGM from SE just to cause crisis in SW. If your UGM are found behind this barbaric act, I tell you, Sunday Igboho will kill you all. This is not the first time UGM would be operating in military wears.

I just hope a deeper investigation is done. I don't take hearsay serious until the fact is shown to the world.

If IPOB hand is found in this, you are all in soup. Take it or leave it.

You are excellently doing your job. Pit them against each other. But one thing is certain; the fatter the ram the more suitable it is for sacrifice. The days of freedom is near.

[quote author=stephanie11 post=103250859] Buhari has declared war against the south.
https://politicsnigeria.com/breakin

[quote author=stephanie11 post=103250859] Buhari has declared war against the south.
https://politicsnigeria.com/breaking-sunday-igbohos-wife-abdu

lalasticlala po yust=103014907:


https://www.thecable.ng/gumi-banditry-is-a-business-security-forces-colluding-with-bandits/


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VLiLScUKK0

Taqqiya master. Trying to confuse and derail the Southerners and the international community so as remove attention from him.

ExAngel007:


http://saharareporters.com/2021/06/21/breaking-gunmen-kill-another-man-after-making-withdrawal-atm-around-university-ibadan

I Know him very well . Depression everywhere

RocketHarbalTea:
Man From Niger Republic Who Ran Away With N206b Nig Arms Money Declared Wanted by EFCC | #IgbereTV

ABOUBAKAR HIMA is from Niger Republic.

Buhari and his APC govt gave him contract to supply ARMS worth over N200bn and he ran away with the entire cash!

1. $394m = about N200bn

2. €9.9m = N6bn plus

3. N369m

TOTAL = N206.4bn

Reacting to the Development, a journalist and social commentator, Peter Agba Kalu said: "What a country! Buhari has out sourced Nigeria to his relatives at Niger Republic. How can you give supply of Nigerian security equipments to a Nigerien that has limited English proficiency?"


WANTED BY EFCC
The public is hereby notified that the person whose photograph appears in this alert is wanted by the EFCC.

ABOUBAKAR HIMA
Aboubakar Hima is wanted in a case of criminal conspiracy, contract scam, misapproonation of public funds, money laundering and fraud to the tune of over $394million. €9.9million and N369million. The suspect, who is the Chief Executive Officer of Societe D'Equipment Internationaux. SEI, is alleged to have received the sums for the purchase of equipment for the Nigerian Military.

However, investigations have revealed discrepancies in the supply of the equipment. Having failed to honour invitations from the Commission, Hima is currently evading investigation, thus the need to declare him wanted. 46-year-old Hima is a Nigerien citizen. The suspect speaks French and Hausa Languages fluently but has limited English proficiency. His last known address is Block A. Flat 3. No. 5 Sapele Street, Garki II, Abuja.
Anybody having useful information as to his whereabouts should contact the Commission In Its Abuja, Benin, Enugu, lbadan, Ilorin, Kaduna, Kano, Lagos, Malduguri, Makurdi, Port Harcourt, Sokoto and Uyo offices or through the number: 0809 3322 644 (0809 EFCC NIG); its e-mall address: info@efccnIgeria.org or the nearest Police Station and other security agencies

Tony Orilade

I hope MANNABBQ man is aware of this development?

Emmac433:
Indigene Intercept northerners coming to their city, they were all sent back

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wwKpejz6Cbw

Good