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Pets / Re: I Have Kittens For Sale In Yenegoa, by Spirit1(m): 8:14pm On Nov 06, 2016
How much?

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Pets / Re: Bull Mastiff Puppies For Sale by Spirit1(m): 8:13pm On Nov 06, 2016
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Pets / Re: Top Notch Adolscent Male Cane Corso Available For Sale by Spirit1(m): 8:10pm On Nov 06, 2016
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Pets / Re: Awesome Boerboel Pups For Sale by Spirit1(m): 7:59pm On Nov 06, 2016
COCCI:
Happy weekend beautiful people,

Stud service and pups are available...

Tx & jah bless


Where are the puppies located? How many make and females?
Agriculture / Re: 135 White Turkey For Sale In Abeokuta As Low As #14,000/#15,000 (Pictures) by Spirit1(m): 7:49pm On Nov 06, 2016
Can you supply to Owerri ? Need 20
Career / Re: A Doctor Reveals The Only Thing That Truly Separates Doctors From Nurses by Spirit1(m): 11:26am On Nov 01, 2016
Before you guys start reaching a different conclusion on this article, an article is only meaningful within the context it was written.

Nigeria does not have Nurse Practitioners, unlike in the US where it is an advanced nursing degree.

Also despite what the writer tries to portray,nurse practitioners work under a supervising doctor. There are many procedures that doctors perform that they are not licensed to perform.

Being a doctor is not just about examining a patient and writing medications.

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Autos / Re: Bought Brand New Reg 2008 Nissan Xtrail For Sale @ 1.550m Asking!!!! by Spirit1(m): 3:54pm On Oct 15, 2016
Samad805:
No deal
1.2?
Autos / Re: Reg 07 Nissan Xterra For Sale 1.7m Asking by Spirit1(m): 5:32pm On Oct 10, 2016
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Celebrities / Re: Ernest Asuzu: "My Stroke Caused By A Producer In Nollywood" by Spirit1(m): 6:50pm On Sep 17, 2016
No one caused your stroke. This is why our people die in ignorance. Stroke is not caused by juju and not healed by prayers.
There are scientifically proven risk factors for stroke and evidenced based ways to prevent ands treat it.

You clearly have risk factor(s) for stroke. Unfortunately unless you see a doctor and identify, then aggressively treat your risk factors, you have about a 30% risk of having another stroke.

The recovery you have seen while in your prayer house is a natural improvement seen in patients with stroke. With physical therapy at home, you would have witnessed the same improvement.

Unfortunately it doesn't remove or modify your risk factors for stroke. You are still at risk, until it is addressed.

See a doctor today who has experience with managing this killer disease.

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Politics / Re: Joe Abah Complains About His Innoson SUV Is Giving Him Wahala by Spirit1(m): 4:08pm On Sep 15, 2016
danot1030:
what did he expect from an Igbo made products, they are not made to last.

The very reason why Nigeria is in this predicament today and possibly doomed.
The only vehicle produced in Nigeria. Instead of you to be objective in your critisms, you are rather focused on it being an Igbo man product. Shame on you and shame on the people liking your post.
We say we are "one Nigeria" right? Yet most of us are ethnic bigots.

Toyota, Honda, Ford, Mercedes and what ever car out there develop problems all the time. I just bought a 2016 Honda Pilot brand new and by the next day it developed transmission problem. I returned it and got a new one. That's why manufacturers have warranty.

Why don't you first figure if the warranty as elapsed. Why don't you ask if Dr. Abba had a mechanic who is not experienced in this vehicle work on it and hence ruined it. We should be one Nigeria and not practice divisive politics.

These things happen all the time.

Samsung are notable for producing smartphone and yet their latest Galaxy S7 is catching fire and has been recalled.

Shame on you for not supporting made in Nigeria products, but instead supporting ethnic and tribal bigotry.

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Family / Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Spirit1(m): 9:48pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life angry

Get rid of a human being ? Why don't you say it better; KILL YOUR CHILD ASAP.

How wicked and heartless. God forgive you
Politics / Re: "Chinedu My Son Was Killed" - Satchie Emmanuel Etoromi by Spirit1(m): 11:29am On Sep 05, 2016
PaulIdu:
Everyone including 61 priests are enjoying this abomination and show of shame perpetrated by Stella Oduah because of her vast wealth but the the truth is when the repercussion of this abomination starts to bay for justice many who know the story won't be around and those who will bear the brunt will be the next generation of Etoromi ,then they will start running from night vigil to night vigil looking from solutions to what has hit them but won't realise that it all started on 2016 when thier wealthy grandmother decided to buy the corpse of her own son against wise counsel and the traditions of the land ..A word should be sufficient for the wise

Religion is the Achilles of our society.

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Autos / Re: 2007 Reg Nissan Xterra @900k by Spirit1(m): 1:08am On Aug 23, 2016
Where is the car located
Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 5:01pm On Aug 15, 2016
cococandy:
"The unfortunate boy"

The arrogance. SMH.

US indeed. You know how many Nigerians are more well to do that Americans and American immigrants? Instead of showing that your family is truly contrite and providing helpful information that can be used to locate them, you're busy stressing your belief that they are still church rats. And brandishing 'your wealth' in the hopes of enticing them with it.

That's very very condescending mister.

Thank you

Either way the choice belongs to the young man.
Don't you agree that he should be given the opportunity to make this choice?
Politics / Re: Yes, Ndi Igbo, ‘go Home’ - By Ochereome Nnanna by Spirit1(m): 4:32pm On Aug 15, 2016
Excellently written.
Every Igbo man should have a copy of this article and read it to himself and his household.

We don't need Biafra as an independent nation; we need to "go home".

Learn from other ethnic nationalities in Nigeria. How much investments does a Yoruba man or Hausa man have in Igbo land.

If we are able to invest half of what we have in Lagos in Igboland, there will will not be agitation for secession of Biafra.

This is an opportunity for us to look inwards.

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Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 1:46pm On Aug 07, 2016
Ujoan:


A mistake TWO people made . . . . Unfortunately Chioma had to pay for the both of them all these 23 years past, what choice does she have? Not like she can just throw her child away like your brother did!

Kind of convinient for your brother to decide to pay for his 'mistakes ' after have a lovely life without the inconvenience of a love child..

Buying the wrong shoe is a mistake, forgetting to turn the tap off is a misake . . . Abandoning your own child is an irresponsible act that only a truly wicked person can pull off.

No amount of sugar coating can change that and honestly trying to justify it is a huge insult and lack of consideration for what he put the young lady through.

Keep in mind that by the time he realized that a child was born from the brief relationship it had been 2 years and Chioma was nowhere to be found.
They were only friends for barely 3 months, when all this happened.

Either way, I agree that abandoning ones child is irresponsible.
Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 1:43pm On Aug 07, 2016
flyca:

I totally understand that people make mistakes. It is not by intention to put your brother's head on a sledge. But don't make it sound like your brother is doing the son a favor. He is 23 years now, that means he has passed his formative years, that age that kids will need a father figure in their lives. Therefore apart from drolling money at him, the time for your brother to shape a boy into a man is gone, for good!

You talked about male children not having a heritage in their mom's home. May I remind you that African cultures has been vastly eroded by Western culture. Many families are getting educated, becoming wiser, knowing their place in the society. And that is one.
Next is that we do not know the hands into which Chioma has fallen into. To be honest with you, if she is in the hands of a man who values her and treats her with respect, not even her all relatives will know that your brother's son is not Chioma's husband's child. Besides, this is 21st century. Many women have made and are making fortunes for their children. And you know they rarely bother their lives with what they would inherit from the fathers of their kids, especially those who were not there when they were needed most.

So, DO NOT ASSUME that your brother is certainly doing this son a favor by looking for him after 23 years.

Yes I agree with you. This is not about doing him or his mother a favor. This is about making effort to right a wrong.
No assumptions is being made here, but we all know that a mistake has occurred.
Shit happens in life, but everyone deserves a second chance.

I really appreciate your kind contribution.

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Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 1:40pm On Aug 07, 2016
obicentlis:

Nairaland is good, but why not patronize local Radio and television station within Abia State, especially in Aba as believe that the resources is not an issue here.

Thank you. I appreciate your helpful advise.
Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 1:05pm On Aug 07, 2016
mynduu44:
Oga dele, ur brother dey fork gal wey him no sabi her surname

The truth was that ur family never wanted anything to do with the Chioma nd son because they could neither get her full name nor her village...

Secondly, we knew they were no GSM but people used phone booth then abii I could remember I ve used Nipost to send a letter to enugu and I also got a reply..
So save ur lies..

Now to solution:
You have to drop your brothers full name because no be ur brother be the only fuckative then for ikoyi wey give gal belle, this might enable third party who re privy to ur brothers name to get across to chioma.

I pray u guyz find that boy, if not for anything, to bring joy to Ms Chioma who must ve been in pain..
Sincerely I pity for Chioma.

Thank you for your contribution.
There was Nipost phone booth yes, but you have to use it to call someone who had a phone. Neither Chioma or Ikechukwu had a phone.

Remember that looking back there is enough blames to go around and my family accepts this.
My brother realizes his mistakes with high sense of humility. I know he wishes he can take the hand of the clock back. Don't we all?

All efforts to help will be appreciated.
Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 12:59pm On Aug 07, 2016
flyca:
For you to tell us that your brother is now successful in the US tells me all is not well. Maybe, a bait to lure Chioma and her son back. Either Karma is knocking already or your bro is impotent as someone mentioned already.

Anyway, if I were Chioma, I will never come back even if all is well. 23 years?! Why the sudden love and search? When her days of sorrow, regret, blame and disgrace are over. When she is counting her blessing now. Son might already being rounding up with first degree sef. And you want to come back now and remind them of sorrowful days - probably out of selfish interest.

I wish you well.

He who is not without sin let him cast the first stone. Mistakes have been made and regrets accepted in humility.

But my dear, two wrongs can't make a right.

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Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 12:56pm On Aug 07, 2016
luciouscookie:

I am still wondering what took him so long after 20 something years. If chioma was twenty years old when your brother impregnated her by now she would be like 43. What would happen to her what if she's still single, would your brother marry her or just compensate her

They will have to make that decision themselves. Just like the young man will make his own decision. At least he should have the opportunity to benefit from his father's wealth if he wishes.

I know he is rich enough to offer him some comfort, although nothing can replace all these years of absence
Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 12:52pm On Aug 07, 2016
kaziblake:
I know a lady in my street bearing chioma with a 23yrs old son born outside wedlock...she told us how the man family rejected her and how she and her new husband suffered to train him in school but if she is the one you guys are talking about,just forget it.
1,Your brother is heartless and I won't show or tell her anything about this post..God has redeem himself in their life and the boy is done with school.

Just forget about him

Karma is a b!tch

Thank you. I hope you never ever make mistakes. You do realize the young man where ever he is, will make the ultimate decision.
If we can help him make this decision , we would have done noble as humans.

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Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 12:02pm On Aug 07, 2016
flyca:
For you to tell us that your brother is now successful in the US tells me all is not well. Maybe, a bait to lure Chioma and her son back. Either Karma is knocking already or your bro is impotent as someone mentioned already.

Anyway, if I were Chioma, I will never come back even if all is well. 23 years?! Why the sudden love and search? When her days of sorrow, regret, blame and disgrace are over. When she is counting her blessing now. Son might already being rounding up with first degree sef. And you want to come back now and remind them of sorrowful days - probably out of selfish interest.

I wish you well.

Keep in mind that in most Igbo land, a son has no claim in his maternal home.
Finding a lost father therefore is a necessity.

If you read the story carefully you will realize that it wasn't deliberate. People make mistakes. He did in this case. I am not defending him. But blood is thicker than water.

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Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 11:59am On Aug 07, 2016
Ujoan:
I suspect someone is in dire need of a male heir . . . . Because obviously your brother didn't try enough to locate the boy back then. And your family didn't help either.

Boy, this karma sha. . . .

No actually he has 2 other sons. Why leave this unfortunate boy out there, when he has become successful enough to care for him and atone for the mistakes?
This is more of family than what he stands to gain.
All members of the family have been pushing to retrace the boy.

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Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 11:56am On Aug 07, 2016
obicentlis:
Enough of the bashing, none is above mistake. We can still help and pray for the reunion. Mistakes have been made, even if the reason for the son is for heir or any other reason, it is not out of context for one to look for his blood.


I pray the reunion brings joy.


Thanks for your understanding. Yes people make mistakes, but this involves human life and family.

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Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 11:53am On Aug 07, 2016
crackhaus:

Interesting...

At least someone is being helpful.

Thank you.

My brothers first name is Ikechukwu.
Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 11:52am On Aug 07, 2016
Iolite:


Nice one. They should also locate the girl's brother via shell company.

This happened 23 years ago.

Ngwa is a big town in Abia State and there are several parts; not a village.

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Family / Re: Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 5:32am On Aug 07, 2016
azeecoboy:
Hmmmm,this a bit difficult

all u wrote upthere are just stories without pictures or nothing for easy searching..
maybe you should search her name on facebook,luckily for you,u might find her...
I pray u locate her

Unfortunately my brother doesn't know her surname. Honestly it's painful, because she was a young mother and my brother didn't have much to offer then. The society was very different then and we come from a very conservative family.
Things have changed now. We are hoping for the best and praying that we can reunite with him.

To the person talking about a picture; no none exists of his mother. Of course my bros has a picture. I don't see how his picture helps at this stage.
We are hoping that someone somewhere knows of a young man born under this circumstances in Ikoyi -Lagos. Or Chioma can see this.
Family / Please Help Locate My Brother's SON. by Spirit1(m): 3:54am On Aug 07, 2016
Fellow nairalanders, I must say that I have been impressed with the way this website and it's members have worked to reunite families together.

I am hoping that you can do the same for my family.
My older brother who is now successful in the USA had a son sometime in 1993 with a neighbors sister who was his "secret girlfriend" in those days. In those days, you can't have a girl friend openly if you are not married. My family didn't allow things like that.

He was a young graduate then living in the boys quarters of my sister's house at 40 Gerard Road Ikoyi.

The girl in question was living in the neighborhood with her brother who worked as a driver with Shell.

Her name is Chioma and she is from Ngwa in Abia State. It was an unplanned pregnancy.

The son must have been born sometime between September and November 1993.

Unfortunately my brother didn't know that Chioma was pregnant when he left Lagos for Immigration course in Kano for 9 months. Please note that there were no cell phones or emails readily available in those days.

It was after he returned about two years to the area that people told him what happened and by that time Chioma was gone from the area and he didn't have any more information to contact her.

Before Chioma left Lagos, she brought the boy to our big sister, who adviced her to return months later when my brother will be around, but Chioma was probably sent back to the village by her brother and never returned.

Over the years our family have been trying to locate Chioma and my brother's son. Unfortunately he doesn't have more information about Chioma apart from what I have said here.

But I believe in the power of nairalanders. Please help.

Please this child was never neglected, my brother just didn't have a way to contact him or his mother. We want him to reunite with his father's family and to compensate Chioma for years of sacrifice, although no amount of money can repay her.

Mods please help post in front page. Anybody who may know a story similar to above please contact me.

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Religion / Re: Adeboye Gives New Instructions For RCCG by Spirit1(m): 12:38am On Aug 05, 2016
visijo:
rules or doctrine?

Why not tell your members to stop stealing and looting from government.
How can you condone people who pay tithes from looted funds and illegal deals.

When one takes that which doesn't belong to him, it is called stealing. Those who accept money that they clearly know is not theirs are thrives.

When the church accepts the same money as tithes, it is stealing.

If all Christians, all your members were to be upright and reject corruption and bribery of any magnitude or for any reason, Nigeria will turn to a heaven on earth.
Religion / Re: Akin Alabi Blasts Adeboye Over Comment On Type Of People To Marry by Spirit1(m): 7:02pm On Aug 02, 2016
Too religious yet too corrupt.
Let him first start by saying that any church member who brings a kobo from stolen loot or public property shall die !!!

Let him say that any man who marries a corrupt female government official and does not expose her shall die.

Any woman who marries a corrupt official shall die.

Any church or pastor who takes money from a criminal or corrupt official shall burn in hell fire!!!

Any politician who rigs an elections, kills and destroys people's properties in order to win election and then comes to church to offer thanksgivings shall die in the church and even the pastor who receives such offerings without asking questions shall die in the altar !!!
Nigeria will turn to the promised land it should have been.

Nonsense. Nigeria, a country that practices religion without morality.

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