₦airaland Forum

Joee2932:
Mr Premier the new MD in NIBSS sack 31 staff. One commit suicide. He wants to bring in his own people into the system.

CAPSLOCKED:
WE'RE IN TROUBLE IN THIS COUNTRY.

EDUCATED PEOPLE THAT CANNOT APPLY REASONING, OR COMMON SENSE IN THEIR DEALINGS.

EDUCATED PEOPLE GETTING SCAMMED BY ILLITERATE BABALAWOS, JUJUMEN, AND PASTORS.

A BIG SHAME ON ALL OF YOU.

IGBOSON1:
Anyone caught, tried and convicted should pay for his crime! This is the main thing!

Trying to draw attention to their ethnicity is for what? If your country had provided them with opportunities to earn a decent living i doubt we would be here discussing this today! This issue of getting gov't to be accountable and work for the people is all what IPOB is about! If you have a problem with their modus-operandi then start your own movement to change things....just like Sowore tried to do before they silenced him!

Marineghost:
This man should imitate Adenuga
No noise no problem

KingAzubuike:
I said I know wadume right from our secondary school days you are here telling me bullcrap... Use your head young man .

hurthubby:
My story is too long but let me try to summarize everything.

(I have been a member of Nairaland since 2009, but i just created this account to hide my identity)

I got married in the year 2000 and wedded in Dec 2001. Before the actual wedding, my wife got a job in Abuja, where she stayed for one year before our wedding and her joining me in Ibadan. During the cause of that year, i have a friend who stays in Abuja that knows my wife very well, who reported about my wife's infidelity to me then, though i ignored it.

In the year 2005, my wife confessed to me that she committed adultery after our wedding. (She was actually about 2 months pregnant in Feb 2002 when she sought my permission to visit her sister in Lagos. I never knew that she actually visited one of her old boy friends and spent 2 days with him).

I was down cast for some days when i heard her confession before i got back myself and forgave and forgot everything.

She later got a job which made her travel often, sometimes spending weeks outside but i never suspected anything even though her boss, (A lady) called me several times to complain about my wife's behavior, which is contrary to that of a married woman but i didn't take her serious because my wife always complained of the harshness of the woman. She later lost the job and joined me in my business, but always going to Lagos to buy jewelry, which she sells in Ibadan.

In the year 2014, i got some texts from a concerned fellow about how my wife have been sleeping with his neighbor for over 2 years in Lagos. It happens that the fellow knows us very well and didn't want to cause any problem in our marriage but the the acts became too much, he had to let me know. When i confronted my wife with all the evidence and some dates, she owned up and pleaded for forgiveness. She confessed that the affair started when she was working for the lady i mentioned earlier and anytime she travels to Lagos for her jewelry business, she always go and sleep with the man. She promised to turn a new leaf.

In the year 2018, i discovered that she had been communicating with the same man, to the extent that he even knew that my wife traveled to Owerri for a wedding. I discovered that they had reconnected back and chats always. When i confronted my wife, she said that they have nothing, just chats, which i made her to stop (I don't know if they actually stopped).

Before i married her, a man actually dumped her and married her friend, 6 years earlier. The next boy friend left her and traveled abroad for over 2 years, without any communication (before i met and married her) but unfortunately, it didn't work out for him and he came back and discovered that shes married. He started pestering her,pretending that he wanted to marry her, that he traveled to make money for both of them, but been that she's already married, she introduced the man to her cousin and he married the cousin.

Now the issue is that my wife is flirting with her former boyfriends, sending pornographic pictures and nude pictures with dirty chats. I used to monitor her chat but to save myself from HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, i stopped checking her phone.

My wife even told the one that dumped her for her friend that she still loves him so much. She also tells the one that married her cousin the same thing and regrets that distance is so much between them. (The one that married the cousin is based in Kano while the one that married her friend is based in Abuja) Whenever i confront her, she will deny anything serious but when she sees my evidence, she will beg for forgiveness. My business is down and she provides about 70% of the house up keep (She is a teacher). We have 4 children, the eldest being 17. I have been trying to sell my house or land to reestablish my business but it has not been easy. My wife now does as she like, even having male friends here in Ibadan and keeps too much secret? What should i do.

I know this is long, but its just a summary. Forgive any typo.

mikeuz:
And you came to Nairaland for advice. My dear wrong place.wrong move. If you are real, please seek advice somewhere else. Many of the people here don’t have boyfriend or girlfriend, not talking of wife or husband, or are even fathers or mothers. Many are social media kids, many are frustrated. Please seek for advice from respectable persons you know.

spiritedtete:
We are suppose to have the award to the most useless Governor..

Well ..

On behalf of me and well meaning Nigerians, we Present the Ballon'd or of the; most Useless, most irresponsible, most clueless and the most Laziest Award to:

Governor Yaya Bello of Kogi state

"A round of applause please"

Nigerian youth are you seeing your carbon copy?

When he wasn't in power I am sure he must have been the best political and economic analyst amongst his peers. Lol shame!

Pascopele:
pls explain

Pascopele:
Honestly, our men are not doing well.... You know you will have a reason(s) why you won't marry her you still went ahead and got her
Pregnant.... I really feel for all these ladies because I can imagine what most of them are passing through emotionally and otherwise in the name of love and to satisfy their men sexually, as well protect the relationship..... If you are a man in this group and you have done this to any lady, I urge you to go back to her and marry her before the wrath of God will befall on you. Don't think God is not interested in such cases, He will visit you one day with punishment for putting that lady in a state of roundabout. Read this message and do the necessary things about the woman you impregnated.

raphy:
the country name is even funny turkeymenistan they must have a lot of Turkey in that country.

I had that former super eagle player osaze odemwingie mum is from Uzbekistan .

its an European country.

if u didn't know now u know.
we learn everyday

Shadbay:
Deep. I appreciate your contribution. Thank you very much sir

sdindan:
30m

I will contest for house assembly here and I will win and get treble of that money in 6months

chidi2pus:

CCTV without database of citizens,
CCTV without registration of immigrants
CCTV without face or vehicle plates recognition system
CCTV without constant electricity to power it up

Are we clueless? Haven't they traveled to 1st or 2nd world countries? Don't we have professors in this country?

Somebody just wants to create an opportunity for somebody to loot money

Nigeria is a Ponzi scheme, the earlier you dump this poo poo Ponzi, the better for you and your family.

Wetlands22:
Wrong!!!
Even the whole Senate cannot overturn a president
Ask bukola saraki what happened to him