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It is not about respecting the marriage.. having concubines is a culture for most men in Africa rich or poor. While it is also a culture for the wealthy in the western world.


The word responsible is not synonymous to being loyal to one woman. But ability to have people you provide for financially and security wise. This is what makes you grow...

Sorry to burst your bubbles this one man one wife is very alien to the culture Africans. However it is also a choice not to go polygamy.

For equal right... no African man believes there is equal right In marriage. Our women will always be under our care no matter her level of exposure.

It is an achievement. Check anywhere in the world where marriage is not celebrated. One unifying factor of human being all over the world.

Birth, marriage, death. This is the human natural path in life

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Babysho:
Loll coined balablu. It seems you don’t have old people around you.
Once na accident, twice na coincidence, three times na pattern o. Why take chances?

That’s tribalism and I choose not to thread down that path. There are good Fulani people out there just as there are evil Yoruba and Igbo people. Look past all these and vote the character of the man and his vice. Stay positive.

Relax... you are not seeing what Nigeria looks like perhaps you weren't born here... the power going north will never made Nigeria move forward. The influence of religion, qoata system and power bragging that will lead to more insecurity is what you will always see. .. you obviously don't know what it means for power to go back to the north. This has nothing with good people or bad people Honestly.

Babysho:
Tinubu will not be a bad president keh? Tinubu will be worse than Atiku coming from me a Yoruba man. The thing be like comedy and propaganda but Tinubu actually went live and said incoherent words! He really said balablu bualaba! These are signs of dementia incase you don't know. Old people get that a lot. Tinubu will be more invisible than Buhari.

Plus the fact that he's running on a Muslim Muslim ticket with Shettima of all people. It also sounds like propaganda but Shettima has literally been linked to Boko Haram severally. Your vice president

Lastly, one of the main purposes of democracy is check and balance. If APC sees that they're reelected, their attitude will be worse. They'll believe that we're their slaves truly. Shebi it was just 77,000 barrels of oil they were stealing? It'll be half of our entire export they'll be stealing now.

We know it's not going to be easy to tip this system of corruption over but we're never going to win with Obi with that spirit you have. Stay positive!

Let me correct a notion going round about the balablu and bulaba. He was saying his own political meeting or invitation is organised differently not like people "blabbing" so instead of using blabbing he coined balablue. I saw the video and it was understandable.

My take is whatever you do hmmm pray not to let another fulani man get there.. Nigerian will experience volcano this time ooo

Thermok:
You must be crazy to write all this! Obi is your next president!

I will be happy too sir.... But wake up to reality... Obi's win is a win for all. But life doesn't work that way. Expecially in Nigeria

1Dray:
Your propaganda won't work, Obi will win, Nigeria will win.

It is a win win for all us if Obi wins. However avoid heart break very early.

Let me give you Expo to avoid heart break; look at the root of how your country was built.

Unfortunately, this is Nigeria next president. All those noise of wasting money is self delusional.

Also being objective here, was this man indicted of corruption or arrested and convicted of drugs related crime.

Unlike Atiku; that was directly indicted by is former boss and the FBI back then.

Fortunately Peter Obi is the man for the Job because he is vibrantand still young... (he jumped the queue withoutbeing patient) unfortunately it is a dream that can not come through as far as Nigeria is concerned. The weapon of illiteracy is winning and this is why it is hard to enlighten majority in Nigeria.

You can only hope for Peter Obi but I am sorry it is a dead end. Nevertheless you all should try your best.

I also know Tinubu will not be a bad President. So there is hope in all front. For now fingers crossed.

Whatever your prayer is; pray against power going back to the north otherwise you all will see Shege banza season 2

Escalate it to the human right public defender, they will get the young girl for questioning and she will say the truth.

North Korea
Cyprus (North and south)
Kazakhstan
Uzbekistan
Azerbaijan
India
Cambodia
Georgia
Ecuador
Venezuela
Haiti
UAE( not too sure . But nothing impressive about the place)
Thailand
Jordan
Philippines
Algeria
Pakistan
Tajikistan
Vietnam
Libya
Afghanistan
Iraq
Syria
Palestine
Iran
Mexico

You are already at your own doomsday... without an apology you are an idiot. If you don't want to regret in life run away now.

She will do anything to cajole you to stay.. it is still a trap that will end you. Runaway now!

Jokers .. someone should tell them not to waste money... they can only attached this to their CV . Rheheheh

BRATISLAVA:
But one can marry a man who smokes, right?

The motherly influence, nurture, bond of a child and home is more in the hand of the mother. Men are ment to grow up and prepare for war.. also a child carries more of the mother gen morethan the father. We can't over emphasis the role and the influence of mother in a marriage. For men they have just little to give, Security, Provision, leadership and Guidance. Like I said men are born for wars and die faster than their wives in most cases. I don't smoke... but men smoking weed never lose their sanity and responsibilities in most case.

ganisucks:
He didn't deny it until the thing over him.
Three things you all learnt from Wike yesterday
* Most of APC governors are working for Atiku, hence his arrogance
* Baba Ota is behind Wike's dribbling skills
* Tinubu is not in the race.

I laff at those who believe that a former regional local champion governor has more of a chance at presidency than a former vice president with national appeal and connections.

Ask yourself why has Baba Ota never criticized Tinubu, but always criticizes Atiku. If you figure this out then you will know why Wike keeps dribbling Sanwo-Olu and Tinubu.

Clue: Obi needs Tinubu in the race.

You should be laughing at your own write up... you just spoke like you were born yesterday. You shouldn't be discussing politics atall. I am saddened by your naivety.

Some people think since the western girls are doing it and they are fine, it is just a stigma in Nigeria. Women who smoke weed are slow slowpoke all over the world. They are not smart and are always dirty including their sanity. If you want a bright home never marry a woman who smokes weed or do drugs.

Omahleigh:
In what way did he succeed? I lived in Lagos and experienced Jakande and Marwa's government and I can tell you that the decline started from when Tinubu ascended. You can only tell this horseshit to someone who wasn't born at the time Lagos attained "mega-city" status during Marwa. The best thing Tinubu ever did for Lagos was selecting Fashola to succeed him. Had he chosen a dunce, I don't know what would have become of Lagos state.

Btw.. if that interview could sway you, then you're intellectually lighter than a feather. Because even a child can tell that it was scripted.

Which Marwa are you talking about ehehehe come on... same Marwa that was gifting lekki lands to kinsmen.. the only thriving thing marwa did was operation sweep. No tangible project. For Pa Jakande lagos is still building on his legacy. However give Tinubu flowers to him. Everything he put down during his Tenure as Governor is what lagos Is completing today. The major area he goofed was life pension for governors

Op just calm down ooo spend 4 years first. All these your write up. Na initial gra gra o. However Russians are not bad people at all.

Awolowo and Obi comparison is like you are comparing Muhammad Ali and Bash Ali. There is no base for comparing both. Awolowo Is light years ahead of Obi. Utter disrespect!

Same thing they told Jonathan that year and took somuch money from him. Obi candidacy is no difference from kwankwaso. We have alot of Youth Dreamers than Realist in Nigeria. I will keep saying it support who ever but keep your expectation rational.

chloedogie:
Lol. . You've jumped from UK to yanke. You lived in European counties and Australia now America has entered. Have a great day.

"Lived"

UK is the least place I want to come back to live. The only thing I consider is my Son ability and interest in football. That's only reason I am worried of not living in the UK for. Lol

chloedogie:
Sue. . How much do you have in the account to pay a lawyer? Anyone can sue. I keep telling you never try those things you wrote up there or else, na free food you wan dey chop for the next 25 years of your life.

That's when you will know the real life definition of the word FREEDOM. Not dictionary definition. . Mashed potatoes with plenty curry soup.

My kid school fees for grade 2 is 13000 usd and I have 2 of them in same school... so I am well able to sue if the school messes up

chloedogie:
Mere threat? Who is your dealer supplying you? I need to know where he imports it from. I'm done quoting you. No go enter free jail faa. My only advice to you be that.

I knew some who tried it.. he got fired and he sue the school in the UK.

naturalwaves:
How beautiful she is? So that you can be in trouble again for harassment. Why are you all trying to form experts

Praise.. not flatter!

chloedogie:
You must be a joke. I can point out five things in your ideas that will lead you to jail. The least for each count is five years in a correctional centre. Some of you don't know shit about UK laws when it comes to children. Lol. You are funny sha. .

You will need a lawyer to get minimal punishment. And hope you know how much it takes to get a lawyer in the UK per hour. Not all these charge and bail nuisance ones in Nigeria with 25k they can represent you for a full year oo.

I have been and lived in almost all European counties..including Australia. I have related with so many native and foreign teachers and I know what it is to deal with kids. However some can be very handful and frustrating.

Mindlog:
I believe you know the highlighted is unacceptable to the school management, teachers are not expected to record or snap such in the classroom....now, the threat to broadcast such is very unethical.

It is just a mere threat.. however you can still take a snap shot to show the school management because if you Do not.. you will be the biggest loser later. Just like the what the OP posted

Mindlog:
Explain how to apply reverse psychology within the context of the story, OP shared.

Spot the most troublesome of the kids and praise him or her... how beautiful she is(praising tonnot flattering tone) and you know he will be very brave... use that logic to extend to the trouble makers of the class. There are others ways.

Like the monkey thing written on the board the first thing to Do is to be silent.. mean eyes.. walk to the board and take snap shot.. and tell them how you will tell the whole world about There behaviour it will be in the news and the culprit will be disgraced... this is for kids in like grade 4 or 5. There are many ways to shut them up. Just build up a certain mechanism.

My kids are the only black in their school... sometimes I get lots of complaints from them. And I told them what to do everytime and it worked. They even started doing too much I had to caution them.

The example shared is just like a normal happenings... there are worse things that happened. However learn more about reversed psychology. Read more on how to get white kids attention. Also note that their parents are the main instigator, they speak horrible things about blacks to their children in their homes. Nevertheless many white parents are as Dumb as zombies. They just want to feel superior when they see blacks. Like I said reversed psychology is their weakness. They are not so smart.

It is good to fellowship in unison, however putting church on your head.. makes more stupid than being wise. You end up being manipulated. So go to church worship in unison but use your wisdom. Because to pastors you be client. They are only after this Galatians 6:6.

Remember those pastors have no Rhema or blessings to give. God is not using many. The number of brainshed members is their strenght.

There is also different between let us pray together. And let me pray for you (obvious red flag from a pastor)

you will be making the greatest mistake of your life... Kazakhstan is a barren land for even the natives.. many of them are looking for greener pastures even in not so good Turkey.

Even if you are giving holiday opportunity to go to Kazakhstan for free.. reject it. Except if you want women. But remember woman full everywhere.

I beg you don't make that move. If you love yourself.

Hopeless hope.... everybody should just do their best by voting their preferred candidate. And have it in mind that it is not a do or die to win. Please don't be heartbroken if the result don't go your way.

PrettyBolu:
Structure of poverty. Structure of incompetence in government. Structure of piling debts. Nigeria has become the most indebted nation in Africa and the 4th most indebted nation in the world to the world bank. Structure of insecurity. It seems you all love the current damaged state of this nation.

Economic indices and political structure are two different things. Politics all over the world is not a one man mandate. You have to win souls like the gospel and this is not done in 1 year. Except there is a coup or revolution

PrettyBolu:
Whenever you see a campaign where many of them are wearing uniform, just know that they were paid to be there.

On the contrary, it is called structure and planning, they have party members in each street and wards. So it is not an emergency political campaign, many have been registered pdp or Apc members for years... and yes they all get benefit for being a party member.

Some myopic children are saying this is not the work of Tinubu... for your information he built more on Jakande's master plan of what Lagos is now executing and the ones your call his proteges are the one continuing the work. Isn't this laughable... jokes on you children!