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Deal with it... this will not change even till eternity

generationz:


You would wonder how some of these guys who can barely speak good English go about doing these things.

Being rich is not by Good in English... a language is a language... you can be fluent in anyone... even ibibio.

Too bad no career counselor in many Nigerian schools anymore....

A sociologist can work as an "Administrator" anywhere...

Anyone can be a billionaire by chance or steadfastness...


No prefect or standard formula to becoming a billionaire.

Hence... any billionaire coming to speak at an event is just talking like any other person... if he or she is not trying to give to the community or charity at that moment.


Everyone is a hustler....

Don't let anyone decieve telling you 10 things 20things you must do to become a billionaire.

Find what will work for you... the only thing that will make you rich...

FIND A NEED AND SOLVE A PROBLEM!

Hallelujah! At last.... this guy must have studied okocha for years... i am so pleased right now.

EkperemoEgbabi:
Afonjas and mouth

So you think ehehehehehe send some my way ... i don't mind

Besides i am not in the level of being harassed... but if it happens then lol

No Sense from this post atall....


Having a boyfriend means... being in a committed relationship... or must they spell it out.

I am patiently waiting for that day they come with their madness... once they didn't shot me on that spot...


They are finished for life!...


I will cripple them... in life forever.


I mean this 100%.

To Every SARs reading this... I beg you limit your madness and don't take everyone for ride...

If you do... your dooms days will come very quick.


Be warned!

It is just natural sometimes, even if God made you an angel...


There is a tendency you will still cheat... it is really not easy to control that thing under... it takes alot of straight mind not to....


Some men cheat because they enjoy it...


Some cheat just to please their fantasies....


Some cheat for bragging....


Staying faithful goes beyond discipline and pricinples.(you can break them anytime)


There is no real definition to why....

The only way to stop cheating is to make a Vow between you and your God that you won't...

Anytime you feel tempted you remember your Vow and the punishment to breaking it...

The Fear of God.. The real Fear of God!

1Sharon:
But the church doesn't trap them to stay faithful ?

Let me use myself as an example... I grew up in what you call every right way... Christian background .. family values .. and conformation to society rules... i don't go below the line because of what people will say...


However i want to do many things... but because there will be raised eyebrows... i couldn't..

So when i finally became independent.. i understand manythings about life ... i was glad i didnt do somethings, however i realised there is also hypocrisy in everyman...they want to come out but they rather not.. because of what people will say.


I understood the meaning and the concept of marriage... going by my experience.. I realised the individual difference will also be above the unison once in a while.

The more also i understood the feminine brain how it is wired... looking out everything from thounsand years ago...

A woman want to be with a man she is very confidence of, a man who at every giving opportunity leads the show the way, while she also want to control things herself.

Because she wired like every human, who seek for success, power and riches.


Now this is my point... one thing that is key in marriage is helping each climb that ladder... to get to that place you want to be.. (even though there isnno place anybody want to be.. but just to want more).


For me... i can decides to take two wives... it is my house our rules.... my major vision for them to be happy by being part of their success story. happiness doesn't end with just being her husband...


But will i marry two wives for real? No!

Am i going to be faithful to her.. Yes and (maybe No, the future is a long road)

Will I disrespect her No... when i start making her valueless.. and flunting another to her face... then I have forever lost it... it will not happen.


For I have grown out of pressure and influences... i am living in my world. I won't break constitutional laws... but i will break human beliefs and rules... if i want.


But there are so many out there... Take the gay guys for example... they can't come out even where their law support it... same for people who can't maintain 1 woman... many can't come out due to fear of condemnation.

1Sharon:
Does church doctrine support extra-marital relations?

Absolutely no.. one of the things that trapped them in the first place. "Church"

1Sharon:
Society forced them to marry one? What are you talking about??

You can legally marry more than one wife in Nigeria, so come up with a better excuse. Abegiii

Wrong again...

They are forced to conform to church doctrines... society rules and thereby can't come out free to Express what or who they really are. Reason they sneak to cheat.

Only the ones who understand that society has no influence on them goes out to marry however they like.

1Sharon:
Force a donkey to be a horse? What do you mean by that?

So why can't these men marry 1 woman from the start? You can marry more than 1 wife you know?

Who forced them to marry 1 woman?

The society forced them to marry 1.. then they grow and realise they are trapped..that they are not really a 1 woman's man.


Don't get me wrong... "there for better for worse men"

These are the people that know the meaning of Sacrifice.. and they stand by a woman.. by a vow and by a promise....

Also note that when it comes to love... a man can love multiple... but! Can't Sacrifice for multiple.


So the word "I love you"... is Just a word.. the real word and the meaning of Love lives inside a man (man or woman). Where no one can see.

This issue is very broad... i wish i can touch all individual (psychological) reasons to this.

1Sharon:
It's funny how you " men are polygamous" crew are all married to ONE woman.

If you truly believed in that statement, you men would multiple women right from the start.

But instead what you do is to marry one woman and sneak around while shouting "men are polygamous"

Hypocrisy

Call it whatever you want it... nobody is killing anyone... it's their life and it is their choice... don't force a donkey to be a horse...

If my son want to marry 13 women... it is his choice his consequence...

If my daughter want to be the 55th wife ... it is also her choice.

However i will not fail as a father to make sure they are strong enough to know what is choice and what is independence... you can't force people to live the life you want. No way!

It is not your business if i cheat or not... it is mine... my life also with my spouse .. i can decide to marry 39 women at once "traditionally"... I have not broken any law.


It is okay to keep a VOW... but if you can't keep keep one woman dont keep any Vow.


Do as many women as you want... it is your life and it is their choice.

Enough of this Self impose doctrines.

Chai! My car turn campaign car.. haaaa! Uncle yayaaaaaa.

Ko da o!

NIGHTMAREOO7:
Yorubas are full of hatred to be honest.
Now Innosom will become their Darling for doing this same innocent they love to hate.
And call criminal.. God is watching u all.

Tell me the most accomodating tribe in Nigeria...


Tell me the tribe that appoints or give room for participation of other tribe in politics...


People Generally have their differences... but when you say yorubas HATES i think and know you are completely wrong...

Yoruba Just like any civilised tribe... have their ego.. A yoruba man have the tendency to condemn his on people and support other tribes...

Yoruba don't see yorubas... what they see is human being and not tribe... same way goes to blood...if my blood had done something bad against anyone... i will judge accordingly and not say i have to shield because he or she is my blood. This goes for many yorubas.

Tapout:
the logo is reallly cool, but any graphic designer can also do that. Wondering y so much fuss is being made over this.

It is not about not being able to do... it is about timing... and most importantly the narative and vision.


You can bring a cowrie logo that befit my business... (not new) but you might Just win me with the reason behind you thinking it will befit my company.

Biafrannuke:
I hope you were this vocal against jobless Yoruba touts who think hating on the continent's first can manufacturer will ease their misery. ( if you are not one of them)

and hey! don't be too quick to predict a reward except you didnt get the whole message.

Stop being triblistic (an illiterate).... yorubas are too educated to hate on progress and general development of people. Take note on this.... same i believe for any educated Nigerian.


We have our tribal differences but never on a progressive ground.

IMF that have wrecked so many developing countries... it is high time they keep their opinions...


They should go and give Venezuela advice they need it more

PDP don turn Aso rock mosquito watcher... what an opposition... they are doing like gathering of gossip women.. or gossip from kids JSS 3 block lol.


Na wa ooo.... mumu opposition...


Na to dey tell us who don get belle for Aso rock now

You were supposed to be re-covinted sir... going by how you squander 2015 campaign funds sir. .. Fani kayode isnt left out either

Who is this idiot ? Even meself dey Hungry....


Where Hunger is the last name of 99.9% Nigerians.


Whoever said this... need to be jail asap!!!

Messi Can't be GOAT no World cup no Nations cup...


And why is Pele overated...


This list is been compiled by an overzealous teenager who dislike History!

Sirnuel:
What exactly are they aiming to achieve??

Can someone tell these people you don't ban food importation at the end of farming season, you are supposed to do it at the beginning of the year so farmers will know what crops to cultivate.

What do I know, none of these men knows the real cost of goods in the market, all they do is sit around and make useless policies. This is going to be the worse xmas ever.

Then convey it through the water ways... they did not ban marine import or export... i am majorly affected like i i said before.. as my company brings in sunflower oil from Benin republic... however there is always an alternative. GOOD MOVE BY FG

infofirst:
Exercise caution. 100 years experience is no guarantee of a profitable result tomorrow. Plus that 13 years of experience trader above is a high risk taker, arrogant and unrepentant account crasher. Kindly look at pamm account of reputable forex broker to invest with. Darwinex.Com, etoro among others are advised.

All the best to you.

Can you also recommend some ... by placing their user names. Thanks

ejosh4:
SpiritedTete b careful .... So I don't fall into some guys antics as seen above.... Carefully check the link posted above

I will thanks...

Justanodadude:
What type of trader do you seek? A scalper, day trader or a swing trader? Also ask for history of the person's trading. And lastly, he must be able to teach money management and patience.. cheers..

Thanks... for the insight.

meshpips:
I am interested sir.

I have thirteen years trading experience.

I will contact you asap.

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Wittysmith:
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I need someone in Nigeria or Istanbul Turkey. Bulgaria, or Greece.

It will be a face to face lecture which might take weeks.

Hello there


I Urgently seek the need for a very Good, competent stock and Forex Trainer.. whose exceptional skills has made him versatile in various market accross all platforms...

With minimum of 5 years experience in Trading...

Payment aggrement will be negotiated and I can assure it will meet your expectations.

Regards.