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5. Show him you’re excited to sleep with him. The last thing I want to talk to you about and teach you when learning how to please your man in bed is your attitude. It’s how you approach sex with your man. Do you approach sex with him like it’s a chore that you can’t wait to get over with? Or are you enthusiastic about trying new positions, tips, tricks, tactics and techniques in bed with your man? Whatever your attitude is now doesn’t matter. The key is changing it so that you become more enthusiastic and eagerly look forward to getting sexual with your man. |
4. Explore his fantasies. Now that I’ve covered the obvious areas on how to please a man in bed, I want to talk about how to please him in ways that almost no other girl can. The key is finding out his kinks and fantasies and exploring them with him. The first part is finding out what they are. This can be tricky, but if you are accepting and open when listening to him without judgment, then he will have no problem sharing them with you. When you do find out what they are, then it’s time to start trying them out with him. You’ll notice that as you explore them with him, he will start to open up to you about even more of his kinks and fantasies. You don’t have to do them all with him,but if you can do some of them, then your man will eternally grateful and appreciative. |
3. Get vocal! A.K.A Ringtone If you want a quick and easy tip on how to please your man in bed, then you’ll find that getting vocal and talking dirty to him works wonders. But it's a good idea to understand that different people have different opinions and preferences on getting vocal and talking dirty. Some aren’t particularly confident and don’t like the idea of saying dirty things to their man in bed, while others are happy to talk dirty to their man. The funny thing is that it doesn’t matter, as long you are vocal to some degree. You could simply be moaning and sighing or you could be using explicit and nasty lines, like the ones in this dirty talking video. As long as you are giving your man feedback by being vocal to some degree and letting him know how much he’s pleasuring you and turning you on, then you are going to please him a lot in bed. |
Damibiz:especially on the kitchen sink |
2: Change up your sex positions. If you are just starting to figure out how to please your man in bed, then it’s important that you are aware that nothing kills your sex life faster than routine. I say this again and again because it’s so true. Most couples only ever use two to six different sex positions. If you want to know how to please your man in bed, then you need to learn some new positions to use on him (as well as continuing to use the ones that you both enjoy). Here are a few to get you started: The Washing Machine Position: In this sex position, you will be standing and leaning right over a washing machine or a table or even over the hood of a car. Your man will be standing too and will enter you from behind. The Lap Dance Position: In this position, your man will be sitting down on a chair or sofa. You then need to back up onto him with your butt so that he can enter you. The reason that it’s called the lap dance position is because you can smoothly transition to sex from giving your man a lap dance. you can name a few for others to learn |
1. Focus on your oral skills. By far the most enjoyable thing for your man is receiving. You’ll be surprised at just how powerful his orgasms are when you do it right. So what kinds of things should you do to make sure he enjoys it? Glad you asked. > Wetter is better: When trying to please your man in bed with MouthAction, you’ll find that using lots of saliva is something that he likes very much. Why? Because when you give your man a really wet one, it feels more sensual and just provides better stimulation. > Focus on the tip: When trying to please a guy by giving him oral, you may feel like you need pay equal amounts of attention to his entire penis. The truth is you shouldn’t. The top is far more sensitive than the rest of it, which means it’s more pleasing to him to have the top stimulated more than the rest of it. > Finishing up: When you are trying to figure out how please a man in bed, you may feel like checking out some pornography. You’ll notice that in a lot of scenes, the man finishes on the girl’s chest, neck, butt or face. This is not something you or your man may necessarily like, but it’s a great way to show him that you are willing to try new things to keep your sex life interesting. |
Once you know how to please your man in bed, then you can be pretty certain that other women won’t even enter his mind. If you’re to believe everything you see in pop culture, you’d think men fantasize about sex 25/8 and are literally always down to do it. But in practice, having your partner open up about his fantasies is always a little bit harder than it would seem. If you can master the following 5 techniques, then you will be giving him everything he could possibly want in bed. Here we goooo!!!! |
11. On a Plane Don’t worry, we’re not advocating anything that an air marshal would arrest you for doing. Joining the mile high club just got a little easier. A new company located in Las Vegas called Love Cloud offers couples the chance to do the no-pants dance while flying in a private plane above the Las Vegas strip, the Hoover Dam, and Lake Meade. The plane is tricked out with a cushy red bed and heart-shaped pillows. Maybe it’s a little cheesy, but it sure beats those tiny (and germy) airplane bathrooms. The 40-minute trip will cost you about $799. While out of the box locations are definitely a great way to spice things up and create some awesome memories, it’s important to draw the line anywhere you could get hurt, get caught, or put yourself in danger, says Morse. Another thing to avoid before getting busy someplace random: alcohol. “Try not to do it after drinking, because you put yourself more at risk of getting injured or caught,”she says. |
10. On the Beach Beach sex is just inherently romantic, which can help women really get in the mood. “Women sometimes need the right atmosphere.” That said, it’s probably best to lay a towel down on the sand to prevent it from getting into tricky areas. And stick to getting busy on land, since salt water can really dry out the skin in your nether regions. I recommend this for people with no regard for morals |
9. In the Car Erotic novelist Sabrina Lacey says that cars are one of her favorite public places to have sex. She recommends pulling off to the side of a not-so-busy road, pushing back the seats (or hopping into the backseat) and steaming up those windows. Another option: Both of you can get in the driver’s seat, slide it back, and straddle him while he grabs the steering wheel for extra leverage. Anyone else just get a flashback of Kate and Leo in Titanic? (Just watch out for these car sex mishaps.) |
chidiidika:getting there |
8. On the Stairs Who knew you had this ideal sex spot in your home all along? May we recommend the standing doggie style? Bend over a few steps up from him so your parts are aligned and he can enter you without having to crouch. You can also have him recline on a step while you straddle him with your back to his chest. Use the step below for leverage so you can stay steady while thrusting. You can also have him reach around for a little extra stimulation. The two of you will never look at stairs the same way again. |
7. On the Couch Maybe you’ve covered this base already, but did you know that the living room staple could actually help you orgasm? Stacking up the cushions under your lower back makes it more likely that you’ll reach an orgasm. Or you could lean over the side for an awesome twist on the usual doggy style. |
6. In the Shower Having sex in a pool or lake sounds hot, but it actually makes you more susceptible to UTIs and STDS—not to mention that chlorine can make condoms less effective. Yikes. But one safe place to get wet and wild is in the shower. Think shower sex is pretty standard? Let us prove you wrong: Add some lube, a waterproof vibrator, and get creative with the tub. |
4. At an Event Whether it’s a wedding, a sporting event, or a big barbeque, there’s something about connecting during a public event that’s super hot. During an outing that has enough people to let you sneak off unnoticed, find a bathroom or closet farthest away from the crowd, to lower your chances of getting caught. “After that 15 minutes together, you go back to the party with a secret that no one knows about except the two of you,. 5. In Front of a Mirror Consider this the easiest sex tweak ever. Doing it doggy style in front of a mirror is a huge turn on for anyone because you can see how into it you and your partner are. |
3. At a Friend’s Place One WH reader told us that the hottest place she’s had sex was at her friend’s apartment. Why? Because the walls were super thin and she and her boyfriend had to be “nearly silent.” She said that being really, really quiet “made everything feel so much more urgent and hot.” We couldn’t agree more. |
2. At a Hotel “Hotel sex is amazing because there isn’t any clean up. You can just check in and it can be all about sex,” says Morse an expert. She suggests getting out of your comfort zone by doing some role-playing (you’re now officially two hot strangers on vacation). If you’re looking for something a little wilder, Morse also says that sex on a private hotel balcony is super hot—you know, if it’s actually private. “No one knows you, it’s dark, you can look over the city, and you’re still close to your room. |
Changing locations removes you from things in your home that stress you out and gets your adrenaline pumping, which helps you get even more aroused than usual, says Morse. And get this: Sharing feelings of excitement can help couples get connected during the experience and after. “If you have these cool experiences together, you can pull from those memories when you're having sex at home and channel that excitement,” she says. One thing to keep in mind: Getting it on in a new location is more about having a new thrilling experience than trying to achieve a mind-blowing orgasm 1. Your Backyard Getting busy in your backyard is a great way to get all the benefits of having sex outdoors and away from home—without having to worry that you’ll get caught. Plus, you can always pitch a tent so your guy can, um, pitch a tent in private. |
13. Spend quality time together: Men love to connect with women who bring interesting things to the table. Highlight you talents and skills and keep up with your life; this boosts your confidence and make you stand taller and more elegant. Share stories but do not run down your own family before your husband. Be creative; send the children to stay with grandma so both of you can spend some time together. Date nights should be part of every couple’s life. A day set aside for just both of you to bond and dates each other. Most times what happens is people DATE to MARRY, but the reverse should be the case; marry to date your partner to keep the magic. However, do not over stress yourself trying to impress your in-laws. No matter what you do, you can never satisfy them. So take care of them but never ignore your home. Do not neglect a sweet smelling home. |
11. Treat him with care: Treat him with care; respond to every word with kindness even when you disagree. When offering a criticism or correction, be gentle about it. Cut his nails and public hairs yourself. Have common courtesy. This includes listening and not interrupting him when talking, asking for help and not demanding for help. Noticing his good behaviour and complementing. Learn to say; “Excuse me”, “I’m sorry”, “Please”, “Thank you” at every appropriate juncture. Also, care and support the kids. 12. Be independent: Find a balance between being dependent and independent. Try to have some funds savings for emergencies. Have a level of financial independence without being arrogant. |
10. Learn his love language: Different men like different things, all men are not enthralled by the same stuff. Some love public display of affection and a lot of touching and body contact, another may just want to keep hearing how much he is loved and appreciated while frequent tiny gifts would always awe another. Find out what love means to your man and love him the way he wants to be loved. |
9. Flirt with him:He is your man. When he holds your hand, squeeze his for a second to register your interests. Stroke his forearms, when you sit with him, lean in towards him when you talk. Wink at him. Be playful; do not be afraid to make a mess when you play. Praise him in front of others. Awe his friends. Be comfortable around them; enjoy the moments and their company. Crack jokes with them and have intelligent conversations. |
A man is not a purse or handbag that you hold onto tightly so he does not get stolen. If he does not want to stay, no matter what you do, he will not stay. For one who wants to stay, you have to be someone he can relate with intellectually. Therefore, a woman has to keep herself intellectually fascinating for her man. According to Esther Odili, Here are 13 things you should do to keep you man..... 1: Make him feel secure: while men may have epic egos, they are also extremely fragile when it comes to the matters of the heart. They feel threatened easily, and go into an insecure shell. Avoid making him feel insecure in the right way and he will love you more. 2. Take the lead in bed: Do not punish your husband with s2x. Satisfy him s2xually as s2x is so important to men. Do not be too timid to initiate sex. 3. Be honest with him: Be honest with your husband. A marriage built on the foundation 0f trust cannot fail. Your partner should be able to trust you at any point in time. Everyone wants a confidant including your man. A man will always come back to anyone there is trust, honesty, rather than deceit, lies or storytelling. Be plain, truthful and honest with your partner. 4: Motivate him in his endeavour: Bring out the best in your man and help him achieve his dreams by motivating him and complimenting his achievements. 5. Be attractive: Package yourself properly to look good and neat. The things that he got attracted to when he first met you, as much as possible continue to do them. Make him feel lucky to have you. Be a charmer and a graceful woman who is the cynosure of everyone’s attention. 6: Make him think you need him: Men are the instinctive protectors. Make him believe you are dependent on him. When he truly believes you need him, he will cling to you because it makes him feel good inside. 7. Give him his space: Men are different from women when it comes to space. Most women are fine with having people around all the time. Men on the other hand get annoyed when they do not get some time alone by themselves. Give each other space and you will see that love will blossom. 8. Be a great cook: Food truly is the best way to a man’s heart. He may say he does not care if you do not know how to cook. But try cooking him a fabulous dish and he will experience a gastronomical orgasm. |
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