₦airaland Forum

BloomingDale:
They should go and open bank accounts na. Era of cash and carry is gone. Abi them dey dodge tax or use the money sponsor terrorism?

Aufbauh:
Stop being myopic as there's no nation which only saviour is one man.

Many of you guys his supporters hyped this man as if it's not this mediocre Obi that governed Anambra state for 8Yrs.

In all honesty, do we want Nigeria of today to be administered the way Obi governed Anambra state? If we want that then Nigeria and Nigerians has a long wait to get to the ideal destination we'd hope for.

AdeWire001:
you go just d*e on top another person matter
carry matter for head like pito

Smith414:
And you think yahoo boys did this, Oga do research before you start a topic. Usain Bolt’s case was pure hacking and you think those kind of hackers dey Nigeria?? Oga Afican as a continent still dey learn for fraud dey, so calm down

jamalnation:
Well-done. the next governor of kogi state

Alesa3341:
Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.

I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.

When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.

Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.

I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.

Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.

Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.

I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!

Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.

Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?

You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?

MODIFIED

Antoeni:
This Doyin Okupe must really be a high profile criminal

MasterTeeUSA:
Pastor Adeboye should stay off politics. All those people causing holdups at the Highway...how many of them have jobs if they can show up for a whole week? No one complains about that crowd and all the prime lands that churches have taken along the highway that should be for manufacturing of goods to Lagos and to export. Na real wa o

Go and tell him to stay off politics na

sqlPAIN:
Rent is not the only issue. What of food,clothes, school fees(my mother is currently the one paying the school fee of my first child, my father refused to help me in anyway), furnitures and other essentials? And I'm still currently looking for a job, I lost the last one (security) few months after my 31st birthday and things have been hard.

UnfairLife7:
I honestly feel for Obi seriously

The show of shame of his campaign and the bad name he gave Psquare the upcoming artists performing in an empty field in PH is so embarrassing

I honestly feel for him on a more serious note

I sincerely wish he will not giveup just like his boss Atiku in contesting again after the election

Joke apart, I honestly feel for him

Bluntguy:
Why is Tinubu and his urchins afraid of this BVAS? You see Emefiele and Mahmoud ehn, God go bless them.

MumEmdy:
Where do I start from, I have been in shock since the incidence, God is indeed faithful and compassionate I return all praises to Him.

After having their hair cut on the 22nd of Dec, my kids requested to visit their great grandma who leaves around that area, but on our way there the terrible accident happened. ( I don't want to go into details how it happened cause everything is still playing in my head)

My son was unconscious with blood all over his head and face, I thought he was death cause he was in the theater for more 1hour before some people rush to me to come and hear my son crying. I kept crying and declaring my son's name Emmanuel God is with you will die no way because Emmanuel is also the reason for this season's celebration (Xmas). Prayers was offered even people I don't know that witness the accident rushed there ready to donate blood in case of necessity.

I want to use this medium to once again thank especially the Doctor that God use to work and stitch his scalp and face together, he was actually going to his place of work saw the nature of the accident and decide to follow the bike men to the hospital where my son was rush to, we later got to know that he works in a different hospital but a specialist in such cases., to the people that rushed my son to that hospital God will reward them accordingly ( I don't even know them I would have gone to their various home to thank them and to all d nurses and staff of Good Shepherd Medical Center Ayingba kogi State, thank you all and I pray God will always come through for you all in Jesus name.

An accident that claim 3 of my son's teeth, the devil came to late, we give God the praise

Nairalander please wish us speed recovery, we have been discharged from the hospital.

Mod please push to the appropriate section

ThoughtOfYou:
Be more elaborate about the shocking. That I really don't understand.

immortalcrown:
E dey immigration website. Go check am yourself.

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://portal.immigration.gov.ng/passport/epassport&ved=2ahUKEwj99q2EwJr8AhXUTKQEHYxqCCAQFnoECDwQAQ&usg=AOvVaw2N9D2jE-RrLo21RuriW2LC

BATified2023:
wike can never amount to anything again politically in Nigeria

He has successfully sent a very wrong message to every politician in Nigeria, everyone will b wary of him cos of his precedents n nobody will want to trust him again either northerner or southerner

AcuraZDX:
Oya oo. Una goat don congratulate our GOAT.

Pendu, sorry Ronaldo fans, it's not too late to do yours oo.

Congrats to the King of Football!!

https://www.instagram.com/p/CmUi3RMOqVa/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Abdul05:
Tinubu is very clever. ..

He is now acting as if he is a puppet. . So that others can have a say..


If he continues ,he is manifesting a good attitude. ..l love this....

Zombidients go and hawk gala inside brt bus abeg..

Dapson73:
If you die, you die for Pandora Scam.

Moh247:



Nobody is voting Teslim APC in Oyo State, na Seyi 4 years, then Penkelemes 8 years

Oyo State is not like some states that keep voting idiots since 1999 and telling Nigerians to vote wisely

How I am voting in 2023 insha Allah
*Hon Akin Alabi Ona Ara Federal Constituency
*Senatorial district undecided (hopefully APC)
*Gubernatorial candidate Seyi Makinde PDP
*Presidential Bola Ahmed Tinubu APC

Each an everyone on my list have an American Degree, a National Business outside Politics and are very good administrators

You don't have choice bro.. even if you vote an APC candidate for gubernatorial, he won't win. So you are left with no choice


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Greattestman:
Which stupid side of the story permits a mother to send her son to go and suffer while she brings in a useless street dick to enjoy the son's father's hard labour? You don't know how irritating it is that is why you are running your mouth like water tap. Wait until it happens to you.

Greattestman:
You are very stupid for this stupid idiotic words of weed. Unhealthy entitlement, if i am not entitled to my father's property who else would I? Will you pay my rent or provide my basic needs?

graciamore:
So painful..I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me,she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00pm before I could see her, of course I patiently waited for her..las las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about soooo many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.

FeliciaOja:
It's my mother
She will cry and roll on the floor if she hear I chase him out. I still blame her for over pampering him. Always giving excuse for his bad behaviours now she has left me to deal with him.
I really want to send him back, what happened last night almost drove me mad.
Now he has comeback and still ignoring me.
Like seriously, I'm the one that should be ignoring him for what he did last night.
It's just becuz of mama that I trying my best to tolerate him.