He says we should COME THE WAY WE ARE, HE KNOWS HOW TO FIX US TOGERTHER AGAIN.

Op, come to think of it, dont we pray naked while in our secret chambers and God answers us?

the real question is "why are these men toxic"? was it so from the beginning?... was there no signs of it before marriage?

If an Herbalist ask you not to wear chain to his shrine, you won't question him, when companies tell you to submit your phones before starting your daily job, you dont question them, if doctor ask you to follow medications, you dare not miss... but when it comes to church, you feel its your right not to be condemned... you all are jokers!

BigBrother9ja:
1, Don't care or give a Fucƙ

Yeah, its mainly for the affected people

What did you do differently that made you successful after ending your marriage?

Why didn't you do same things while you were married ?

Have you checked if these things you are doing now that made you successful were things your partner was requesting from you that led to the divorce?

Please I am doing a research on this

Show us phone conversations, pix of both of you together..else stfu

Apostle

JasonScoolari:
Please Lord, the next child after Jason should be a BOY....


Very shameless gender.

Morocco will win Spain

Well He is just a smart entrepreneur, Gas powered Trucks safes cost of operations since they are the supplier of Gas.

Also as regards increase in price, put in mind that the plant is in Rumuji, port harcourt. Cost of transporting Gas from PH to Sokoto is quite High considering bad roads and the KMS to those loations. in Addition, the fallen value of Naira plays a key role as most of the production equipment are being imported.

Omihanifa:
This Grenville guy nah sharp man. He made it impossible for his truck drivers to steal diesel by switching from diesel to gas. All his trucks are gas powdered.

But as for him not honouring contracts agreements, I really pity him because BUA nah fulani man o and he will go to any length to ensure justice.

Let's talk about Allowances.. that's the source of real income

I sure believe in Nigeria. We are a great Nation

Fear Women... Fear Women.. Fear Women...

In Buhari Regime? WOW...

How can the door of a financial thief be stronger than that of a terrorist?

Naija which way?

ijustdey:
How Red Cross’s Iron Doors Saved Abba Kyari from Death at the Hands of Terrorists in Kuje Prison



https://fij.ng/article/exclusive-how-red-crosss-iron-doors-saved-abba-kyari-from-death-at-the-hands-of-terrorists-in-kuje-prison/

How I wish we channel same energy towards currupt leaders

Our I wish we channel same energy towards currupt leaders

Find a friend first!!!

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

Why announcing your exit? It's long due, just walk away

I can imagine the Husband's Savings account now

If you are tired, pls end the marriage. That if he is not even planning same

U mean more havoc?

When Boys were stupid

Chai, u get luck say I just see this thing today.lol

Buckeyemedia1:
Mumu must they show you everything, or you were afraid your brothers body might be exposed?of what benefit is it to a doubting Thomas like you that doesn’t wish anything good for himself?

Our Actual problem In Nigeria is our POLITICAL PARTIES.

WHY?

1. Their Main Goal is to Secure power/top positions- Not actually to bring about change.
2. Each Political party doesn't have a direction/purpose. In USA, we know the 2 parties have different ideologies. One likes it radical the other likes it amicably when handling national issues.
3. Key members of Political parties in Nigeria are not intellectuals, rather Monellectuals.. politics is ruled by money not intellect.
4. Loyalty to party instead of Loyalty to Country


So many points I have to raise but let me stop here

Pls go on all platforms and call them out.. even to CBN..

See.. it's a secret to secured Abundance.. pls give it to GOD .. put it in your church offering box. ..but let it be between you and God .. let him reward you openly..

Every striker is selfish.. so..STFU

U women keep deceiving yourselves.. So it's after he has started going out that you remember that you have certificate, U need to gym and learn driving right? Why didn't you improve yourself since? You wait until matters get worst before you do the right things. U better secure your marriage, Nobody wants 2nd hand lady when there are lots of fresh ladies out there...

Amazingbaby:
I called my husband and actually blasted him calling him a very big liar and how embarrassed I am.on Monday I left for the hospital he called and we discussed some business and the kids(I was actually not angry again knowing that he is no different from any other guy,if you see how he use to condemn cheating ehh....) Only for my mum to call me around 12 in the afternoon to ask me questions,my husband actually called my mum after I confronted him about what the girl said to tell her he is DONE with me,that I don't give him peace in the house that this and that.in summary calling the girl actually triggered divorce because I am ready for anything.

For those that are doubting that I am a woman,abeg I am.

I followed some lovely people advice and I have actually achieved alot of things this week

1i paid for driving lessons (he literally have to drive me everywhere or I take Uber)
2 I have dusted out my certificate and is seriously looking for jobs(I have contacted alot of outsourcing firms)
3 signed up for gym classes.

In a way I lost myself trying to be a good wife and mother that I literally drove away alot of my friends.i had to stop talking with a good olfriend of mine because my husband was chatting with her behind my back for long (this is one of the reasons I don't trust him)

Lots of information...

So what and what should I do to upgrade myself I have not work for a long time.

Cococandy
Double0h7
Mariangle
Saintmary

Dont come here complaining. I only have 2 options:

1. Walk out of the marriage, which is your best option
2. Work on yourself and as much as possible do things he wants. THERE ARE THINGS HE IS NOT HAPPY WITH, NOT BECAUSE OF THE ARGUMENTS. FIND OUT WHAT HE IS NOT REALLY HAPPY WITH. ALL OF US GET ANGRY WITH OUR GFs or wives, its a thing that must happen in every relationship, what makes us react differently sometimes is the fact that the wife/gf doesnt make us feel unhappy outside the immediate cause of the argument.

popweezy:
Buy my s7 edge

Still available? How much?

so its after divorce that u want her to be productive, when she was inside, productivity was not an option?.. its medicine after death.

OP, Better find ur way around it and return to your husband. Its never easy outside dont let anybody deceive you that it will be fine out there. Know the reasons why he served u divorce and see how u can work really hard to meet up with it, if not, just get prepared its NEVER easy outside there.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

What shame?what mockery huh..?
Are you trying to please brainless persons or what?
Let them talk live your life..you are bothering yourself unnecessarily..
** am a single mum of **** so I see no big deal there..

Now coming to solution are the kids gonna be in your custody or his?look life as a divorced woman is quite strenuous..from stereotype to being alone to your mental health to the daft society who are always gonna criticize you..

Just get hold of yourself and wave it off..as a divorced woman I bet you gonna be more self confident.. productive and enjoy your life more..follow your passion and take care of yourself properly.. welcome to the club of unlimited merriment..