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What is your instinctive, gut-level reaction to this? Do you sigh in disgust? Worry that your boyfriend or husband might look if you weren’t there with him? What are you really worried about? That he thinks those half-naked girls are better than you? That he wants to have sex with them?
The answer to all these fears is a resounding“No.”See, it took me a while to get this. Men are conditioned as hunters (and also just as humans) to take note of changes in their environment. So to them it’s actually like,Oh. There’s a bikini car wash in Abuja, NIGERIA? Oh, OK then!Lights change. Moving on now. Half an hour later, most men will have forgotten all about that bikini car wash and the girls there.
They’re wired to look. Some men might want to have sex with those women, but those are mostly desperate men, men who feel deprived. The question is: Do you have a deprived man? Do you have a desperate man? If so, your worries might be well-founded… but not because he’s desperate.

Pucaxo:
okay prettyB. Blessing right?

Preetyb dont reply him,he is a married man with kids, i know him very well.

Oyind17:
Best comment of the year

lol shrugs, im blushing

Oyind17:
Best comment of the year

lol shrugs, im blushing

Jolllyjoy:
better rephrased 'abstainence is the best" simple btw op is talking of g.f and b.f affair not married couples here.

yeah we are all saying d same thing, a condom is used by people who thinks the lady they are going down with might have some kind of disease or something, taking a look at d history of condoms, it was originally produce 4 prostitutes, now countdown to this day, the men are using what was meant for cheap sluts on their girlfriends. "so its better to use pills or injection than to use condom bcaus by using a condom then ure terming ur girlfriend as a slut. "i am not saying i dont fornicate, infact i fornicated today but i have never used condoms in my life.

hmmmmm @OP i am 100% fully with you, u see a condom is the devils's way of promoting fornication and adultry thereby making us believe that we are protecting ourself, a condom are only used on cheap sluts and prostitutes, "if u marry a woman then there is no need for condoms during sex.

LMAO i concur

LALASTICLALA FRONT PAGE PLS, I LOVE SCARY THREADS.

LOL @OP mehnnn to be frank i cant and i wont. "lol

Imdachick:
Eagle island

WICKED

BANANA ISLAND AND MARITAMA in ABUJA.

DAMM!!!! mizquote why brought up this question? damm i last shared tears last two months when i was about to cum

SMH harmattan fever

borga112:
A girl that eats eba and all this food they eat in that Nigeria, Can you kiss them?

Discuss

LMAO VERY FUNNY QUESTION.

well based on personal experience i will say yes to ladies that dont know whats up, "this is why i like ladies that always make sure that their pusssies dont get dried, like putting a pvssy ring at the top of the vaaginal thereby making it to be wet forever, well who cares though as for me when i eat her vaaginal then it will surely get wet for my dick.

Pucaxo:
For littluns like quatarplayboy and ssoftappless who when they hear the word "owerri" the first thing that comes to mind is their brown roofs and ancient benin houses, I dedicate this thread to you.

arrant nonsense!!! no matter what u type or what ur stuuupid governor will do, the whole of owerri can never be half as beautiful as benin city and ASABA. "not in the next 1000 years "now this is a fact.

Well 100% of arrange marriages are successful, while only 20% of choice marriages are successful, d rest percentage are divorces.

well some ladies are full of pride but d fault aint entirely on them, some guyz are full of shiiiits.

fellowship:
WOW!! absolutely spot on, nice one @op. this is probably the best celebrity thread i have seen this year. "i hope lalasticlala do justice to it.

LOL

nwaanambra1:
HE IS SIMPLY THE MUSIC BIBLE - FOR YOU TO BE A SUPERSTAR, YOU MUST COPY ONE THING FROM HIM.

exactly

Aceed:
He is still the messi of music without a ronaldo

GBAM

Princeparix:
He also changed the world when he died - 12 people dying with him.

what is this one typing?

A lady with beauty and brains, unlike her counterparts.

HE lives forever, the greatest musician in the history of mankind and the most famous man in the history of mankind, "MICHEAL I WILL FOREVER LOVE YOU. "cc lalasticlala

7. Race
Before Billie Jean, MTV hadn't played a black artist. They weren't "rock" enough, the channel's executives said.
But as Thriller became the top-selling album of all-time, and its corresponding videos all but made MTV, Jackson soundly broke that color barrier.
Jackson's appeal became near-universal, a sound as inescapable on white suburban boomboxes as it was in urban dance clubs.
Still, the idea of racial harmony played out throughout Jackson's career. He teamed with Paul McCartney in the 1980s for the singles "Say, Say, Say" and "The Girl is Mine," and years later, even as his own blackness seemed to be literally fading away as his skin tone became ever lighter, he sang: "If you're thinking about my baby it don't matter if you're black or white."
"His catalog revolves around love, around African-American pride and around uplifting all people," says Eric Byrd, a music lecturer at McDaniel College. "He was trying to tell people we can do better as a human family. "cc lalasticlala,seun,dominique.

5. Influence
Like Elvis and Bob Dylan before him, Jackson reshaped pop culture in ways that are hard to comprehend. Jackson influenced just about every musician who came after him in one way or another. He was unavoidable.
Baltimore-based hip-hop performer MC Saleem Heggins can't point to one specific way Jackson helped shape his music. That would almost be insulting, he said. Jackson was much broader than that, and his legacy is almost impossible to pin down.
"For me, he was the largest figure in music," Heggins said. "I was inspired and entertained by his ability to reach all walks of life. ... It's a legacy of creating great music that appeals to people without compromising yourself."
6. Celebrity
This week as the world mourned Jackson, a CNN commenter wondered if there has ever been anyone on the planet with a more recognized name.
Maybe not.
He was a superstar, but a superstar whose eccentricities drove one tabloid headline after another. His marriages. His monkey. His plastic surgeries.

3. Fashion
The single, white, sequined glove. The red leather jacket with so many zippers. The pegged pants. The fedora. The bedazzled military coats.
Like everything Jackson, his look was a precise exercise straddling desirability and eccentricity. Everybody wanted that leather jacket he wore in the Beat It video, but who, save Jackson, could pull off a solitary, spangled glove?
The Jheri curls? Maybe not. The mirrored sunglasses? Definitely.
He outfitted himself to show off his moves. Black shoes with glittering white socks? He knew no one could ignore feet turned out like that.
In regal coats with epaulets and rhinestone regalia, he was the King of Pop who dressed for the job.
4. Videos
When Jackson's full-length Thriller video was set to debut following an orgy of hype on MTV in late 1983, people wrote it on their calendars. They stayed home just to see it. The most expensive video ever made at the time, it was essentially a cinematic experience, a nearly 15-minute long mini-movie, a happening.

2. Dance
No one moved like Michael Jackson. But everyone wanted to.
Music might have made him a star, but from the blunt sexuality of the crotch grabs, to the laser-sharp spins, snaps and pivots, to the mesmerizing group choreography spotlighted in his videos, to, of course, the otherworldly impossibility that was his moonwalk, dance launched Jackson into the stratosphere.
He might not have invented the moonwalk, but he might as well have. When the world watched him gliding like that for the first time, black loafers moving across the stage with liquid smoothness during a televised Motown Music special in 1983, no one had ever seen anything like it.
How many teenagers spent how many hours dragging their stockinged feet across carpeted bedroom floors, trying to master that illusion but remaining, alas, hopelessly earthbound?

We would have remembered him if it was just the songwriting or just the dancing or just the eyebrow-raising fashion. But Michael Jackson dominated each of those artistic avenues - and so many others.
You see his influence in every Justin Timberlake who sweats to perfect a signature move. Every movie-esque flourish in a video. Every African-American artist who sits atop the pop charts.
His legacy is as enduring as it is multi-faceted.
1. Sound
When America first met Jackson, he was a lovable, pint-sized pre-teen with a puffy Afro and an electric voice.
Through the 1970s, 1980s and early 1990s, Jackson held onto the earnestness he had as the frontman of the Jackson Five. Back then, it was impossible to hate Jackson. He was just so likable. When he sang "We are the ones who make a brighter day / So let's start giving" in "We Are the World," you believed him.

perod:
He has a mistress, one who does the things you don't want to do.
Confront him and ask him why he is never in the mood instead of asking your friends/forum.

hmmm

MrArtino:
I have never had sex so I can't really lend any advice here.
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When I have my first sex trust me I will know what to advice.

small small lie na

All GOVERNMENTAL AGENCIES needs to be probe. "we need new and credible leaders in our agencies.