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Thunder fire this BW Goats...I have a feeling that they have done backward recruitment and invite.....looooobbbbish

IamLEGEND1:
story for dem zeus.

what is this one saying.....?

donTbone:

Yes...the mistake many of us has made is here!

1. He got attracted by the outside look not getting to know her well b4 the relationship
2. There is no reality questions to see if they are compatible or not.
3. He allowed feelings and emotions to come after wisdom and sense.
4. There isn't a sound check of 'am I ready for a relationship' b4 asking her out

Yes, its good to fall in love and xperience all sort of things but I do say...
LOVE is never enough! Let reality come first b4 love

That's all!

I guess it is the outside look that you see first. Basically that is what attracts anyone first...for the remaining points I guess they are too subjective...your opinion though thanks..

Oma307:
Seconded, unless he will go 4 serious deeper life sisters

Dude...like seriously... ??....ur opinion though

Richiy:
So it is through slap you will test somebody's arrogance right?

Let me slap you so that we can see how arrogant you really are

As for OP, dating her because she does not make up is not supposed to be the foundation of the relationship... Please walk away.

....wow... he made some misguided statements I think I have addressed that...thanks for ur opinion

Richardonald:
Op i don't undastnd u..u slap her to test her if she is arrogant or what,well op did right thing becuz this century u have 2 knw who u are going with b4 considering next 2 do..but dat gal suppose fume b4 4getting it....

......aaawww...hitting her was bad, it was involuntary...I begged earnestly...thanks but that is not tje focus of this thread....before they start calling me Woman beater

misspicy:
It would have been salvageable if you hadn't introduced resetting but since you slapped her already just let her go but if she can cope with the slap and your intolerance she will not let you go......











Relationship is not all about love or what attracted you to a person,you need to compromise,tolerate and adjust



my opinion

Hitting her was not entirely my fault though I apologised...yeah intolerance is the basic problem I see lurking around....thanks...

jaymichael:
I really did not make any meaning out of this story. Did anyone?

kudos Nigga

elantraceey:
You dated her for the wrong reasons and now things have changed,you want out. please let her be because you're just selfish and you hav no feelings for her.

I'm sure she really likes you else she would have dumped you long ago.

I didn't date her for the wrong reasons. I am not good at slandering or emphasising on peoples' unwholesome attitudes...she made many blunders but I don't want to talk about it....The basic problem is I discover recently I can no longer excuse her mistakes like I use to

ibrams:
is this the only problem you have about her .........or you think she is cheating on you

I don't know if she is cheating or not...No evidence moreover I don't think about that.....i guess the the major problem is I find it difficult to excuse her mistakes...

ibe9ja:
You're taking the right step: walk away from the relationship because she doesn't need a mad man around her.

....thanks bro....madness is not a sin is it?...

iceberylin:
Searching for a girl that doesn't make up in 2015.....


U'LL might never get married bro

...wow...thanks for reminding...but that is not the focus of this thread...

ladyF:
Woman beater. That's the only thing I could pick honestly Go and pick on someone your own size next time you want to raise a fist.

I'll say a prayer for the poor lady, may God give her the strength to flee this violent relationship she has gotten herself into. Real men done hit women!!! *hiss

....wow really....ohhh...I guess you didn't read the part where I apologised....well thanks for picking just that...

I met my GF early this year, she was the lady of my dream. She got height, shape and she is quite intelligent ....but these features didn't attract me at first...what did was her simplicity and how she dressed (with a touch of old school) that got me spell-bounded, enchanted and hypnotised... Seeing her on a curly hair, admiring her long legs and long neck was like having my fantasy come true. Growing up I admired women on short curly hairs and I had a phobia for "Make-up"... (for history sake it's a personal thing. My mum and siblings do have "make-up" kits but I detest it and loved simplicity and it reflects on my designs...though I do get criticised that is "too simple" or "too economical")...I really got carried away starring at her, I had to alight from the bus I boarded that was going to P/Harcourt to board the bus she was about boarding to Enugun. I ensured I sat beside her ...the bus got filled and we zoomed off.

I initiated conversation and we got talking. I fed her soft lies about construction and design cos she told me she was serving in a new generation bank in Lagos. I didn't know she had a degree in civil engineering . After telling her all the zobos she giggled and later she started pointing out the lies....I felt like jumping out of the bus we became quiet until I told her Enugun was actually not my destination, that she made me board the bus. She couldn't stop starring at me in amazement. That was the turning point. She advised I alighted at a junction (Nine mile or so) so that I could easily board a bus to P/H. We exchanged contacts and I alighted at the crowded junction and boarded a bus to PH.

Later we became close friends and that transformed into dating. She was always stunning I got her all sort of short curly wigs and her make up was minimal. Seeing her every weekend was made in heaven..........lately those simple looks are getting complicated. She started increasing the amount of make-up and blamed it on work that she is now in Customer Service and have to look good. Although while visiting she tries minimising but I think she loves the make up. I no longer see that innocent look that made my heart abandon its rib cage. I discovered that I no longer excuse her mistakes. We have talked about it but we ain't making much progress. Early this month we went out to see a movie and she placed her head on my shoulder only for me to see terrible stains I flared up later. Ordinarily I wouldn't but I felt something was not right. Two weeks ago we were arguing and I hit her (guys Pls focus on the subject not the slap cos I know some ppl are saints and some ppl we bring down heaven if their BF hits them...)I later apologised. I don't think I should continue. Last weekend we were supposed to hang but I found bashing and schooling some NLanders all through the weekend was more exciting than picking picking her calls...I got umpteen messages this morning....I think I want to quit...Guys do you think this is still salvageable or I should just walk away....?? I do want to walk away because of all the bickering, squabbling and haggling but I just want an affirmation and a conviction that I am taking the right step...

Untop submission of application we don dey fall enter page 50....empties another glass of orijin....

MduZA:
Mumu,out of ten you still get 4..the bottom line is am not perfect,surely you are also not perfect ....you can also make errors typing in your own Isikwerekwere..am not here to show how
deep I am in terms of using vocabulary,spellings en so forth..thats why I dont correct members when they use wrong words ....i will always be here panelbeating your flat..head

Now we are at the bottom line.... ...dude when it comes to academics and research, I will send you to the cleaners even my undergraduate works were applauded by the faculty of engineering and built environment, University of Cape Town..I am not some guy sitting isolated and typing poo...with a rickety degree....i have seen and competed your best for volunteering positions, grants and fellowship(though they were quite good)....If you want to get your ass schooled .....holla me...otherwise don't bother quoting me again.....if you score me 4 out 10 I think am cool that is 40%....lol...I only need 40% in just 3 subjects to pass matric....lol....nd a disgraceful 30% in 3 or 4 other subjects (pitiful)....as long as I can write xhosa effectively.... ....for the flat head.....i think panel-beating ain't bad as long as you do that to ur girls so that they stop infecting the world with Aids..................xoxo.....Thread closed.........

ademega:
Mr man, u have seen nothing!

I tell you we have seen Nothing....by the time we begin to see...there will be no more hands to type or mouth to speak

DeeTus:
Hahahahaha. The nigga. But man, Is Punky your chick? I will take her away from you. *Evil grin*

Just kidding though.

ooohhh..You like punkyveer, she is quite intelligent with a lot of nerves.....lol....she was once xenophobic...and you know dude If you got hatred in your system you can't flush it out...the traces will be evident once there is a litmus test....you can flush it out in aeons.......

PunkyVeer:
This just proves you know absolutely nothing about South Africa or South Africans. Do you know how many uprisings we've had in the history of this country? Do you know MK? Do you know how many wars South Africans fought for equality & fairness? We're not like other African nations who flee when shit gets real, we fight back hence we have so many holidays in our calender to commemorate those who lost their lives fighting for our freedom.

.....sips orijin clears throat....When you mention the word "War" I laugh in xhosa.....I am not talking about the xhosa wars of 1779-1789....i am not talking about the 1990 killings where you were killing yourselves...You never fought a WAR during the apartheid period! It was street protest and uprisings that was ferociously dealt with...when Mandela escaped to N/Africa to receive military training was it the period you fought the war? or the imprisonment that made him.... ...you are talking about umkhonto....lol....MK...didn't do any real damage other than(134 sabotage bwn 1961 and 1964) most of the MK cadres detailed their experiences of sabotage...they often blew up facilities etc....and paid for it dearly when caught....They lamented often we had no rifle no Ak47 no blah blah blah....yet you were the majority.....even MK was mismanaged and corrupt...lol....and government infiltrated it which led to the arrest of Mandela....in 1962 lol....so where and when did you fight the war?

PunkyVeer:
You have less than 48 hrs until December Methinks you're also going to need a magic wand to make it happen

Santa will soon arrive the elves have giving us their word. My president is Sipping Maltina in Malta...and am chilling with 2 bottles of orijin....what does that tell you?......Victory is imminent

DeeTus:
Hehe. You've already decimated the dude. You're really bad.

"Shall" also means "promise." For instance, we shall meet tomorrow. Blah blah blah

No mind the small boy wey I dey give sense...the guy think say na to get degree for inside fancy block be koko......mteeeeechhhhwww....

PunkyVeer:
LMAO. Even a children's army of scouts with plastic knives can do better

I just don't get why it's taking them so long to get rid of these people. It doesn't make one bit of sense.

llloooolll seriously?....when peiter Botha....was enjoying the killing spree in the "20th" century you guys couldn't do shhhitt. Did you know that your youths could not unleash ordinary guerilla antics and on the slave masters? Did you know that despite blacks being over 90% and living in the interiors you could not smuggle in arms to save your brothers. If you had fidelity guards or boy scouts apartheid could have ended in the the early 1980's....Stephen biko was killed in 1977, the world thought you guys were going to raze down the whites rather you staged streets protest and painted the streets with your blood. High school kids were killed, raped and brutalised yet you were the majority? I once thought there was strength in numbers until I read about SA...Able bodied youths were killed on the streets shouting freedom....(what a pity)....Did you know that if not for the fact that FW.klerk was a conscientious man you will still be living in chains? if you don't know then British PM Magret T. Had already labelled Mandela a Terorist ...and you see a country Taming the deadliest terrorist sect in the world and you are tying trash...

PunkyVeer:
Lol, that's another popular anthem after Dangote. December is only one & half days away *tapping foot*

Maybe Santa Claus is coming to town with a mean army of elves

I do hope they succeed this time though. It's becoming sad

Yeah baby we are ending it this time for real.................... ....Santa could bring elves and dwarfs we will accommodate them....and if they want to volunteer why not........loooollll.....

V0lv0:
This is a very nasty thing to say about someone. You do know that not everyone is educated and English is not their first language. You can also find such people here in SA so saying such KAK about another individual is uncalled for because mam your English ain't all that either to be honest with you. You sound very condescending. It's funny how people complain about what other people say about them yet they say the most terrible stuff

lol....this a bomb....lol....i hope they learn....you tolerate them and keep acting like poo

MduZA:
it has nothing to do with fancy schooling but error finger typing...go back to your previous comments,you will notice many errors...if you are typing to get marks,am giving you 4 out of ten..we don't say we will end boko harams in December but we say we shall end boko harams in December...lol..bring it on brother

This boy will never learn ...let me teach you..................................
Traditionally, shall is used for the future tense with the first-person pronouns eg I and We. (Again I refer to the "Traditional Usage".
Many linguists and Grammarians have challenged this rule in recent times and the rule is no longer observed ......................
Example (first person)
We shall end boko haram in december (simple future tense) -correct

We will end boko haram in december (simple future tense, but with emphasis on "Determination and Certainty" -Correct ............................................................
Example (second person)
You will receive a gift (SFT-correct)
You shall receive a gift (SFT-still correct)
........same goes with the third-person...........
N/B...If you wish to express certainty and determination do not use "Shall" rather provide emphasis using an adverb such as definitely or certainly.....lol....back to the subject.....dude typo error does affect spellings and syntax but not the wrong choice of vocabulary....nigga grow up be up to date....with facts stop hating...I hope you don't need punkyveer assistance to comprehend? Llllloooollll....zulu Kid go drink your dirty iphalishi elimuncu....or do you want phutu.......laughs in zulu....kikakikakikakika

MduZA:
advice your naija guys to stop boko harams before they finish you all...

looooolllll.....we will end bokoharam in December.....it will soon be history...never knew you care ...let me illuminate you a bit.....it is not "Advice" brother....it is Advise...I hope your fancy school taught you the difference between the noun form and the verb form.....lol...I hope punkyveer got ur ass...on this...or is that how you use it over there?......lol...

Candyrain:
Oh he wants to trade words with me? He should look for the next person available, not me.

Insulting you would be tantamount to shooting my myself in the leg ...I said that in xhosa apparently because I don't want a confrontation (which will definitely have no base) I advise you should be more discrete before commenting....well you being unpatriotic is non of my bleeping business.....thank God you are a Nigerian....we don't need home support to make a point....

PunkyVeer:
Lale emini? Anyway, enkosi I guess Nawe

I had to struggle with "Lale emini"...do you mean "good noon" or "good pm"....or you are referring to a time of the day?

PunkyVeer:

lllooooolllll hey we aren't grinding axes....i guess we have shared same view on other threads......loooollll....i hope I will see you on some other thread....perhaps not an E-country war thread.....Ndiyabulela kakhulu.... Sizophinda sibonane kamsinyane...Ulale kamnandi!(day)

Candyrain:
I concur

Musa ukusiphendula Isinyabi ngokokumatha kwaso, Hleze Usifuze

PunkyVeer:
Did I say what nationality her husband is? I don't believe I did. Only she can clarify that for you. Don't put words in my mouth.

And yes some do smell. Operative word being SOME.

Uxolo, utheni? / uthini?...lol...Ndicela uphinde......some ryt...lol....Sala kakuhle!.....swims out of thread

NinaNigeria:
i think de problem wit de ones who complain here on nl is bcoz dey ran away frm their home poverty and wen down south in search of greener pastures, only to find dat dey wer already too much and wer starting to irritate us wit deir wicked ways. So dey come here to vent. Whereas wit me, i found dat naija is not saturated wit southies, and we come here having our own wealth. So wen dey see a foreinger in deir nation, coz we r nt too much and r nt doing shit on deir streets dey dey shit in ours. Dey realy treat us good. Dey realy realy treat us like royalty hey. M even thinkin of sending my house girl down south. To learn proper catering and house work in one good school i know in sandton. So dat she can look after my house properly. Coz so far she cooks shit. So i dnt allow her to cook for us, i also wana help her family financialy and i want her to go back to school and b somebody in society. Maybe she can learn thru correspondence and i wil help her study. Coz de girl is a total doof, and her english scares me. I dnt want someone who speaks like dat around my 3 year old. So i have a lot to teach her. Bt either dan dat, de ppl here r realy realy good to me. Even de female friends i have made. Dey r good to me. I havnt made any male friends coz m scared of my hubby and i know how he wud get, even if i just made 1 male friend. So i avoid trouble by stayin away frm men hey. Lol, except for business purposes of course

lol....no more bashing I heard you got married to a Nigerian!!!!!.......i thought they all sell drugs? wow....smiles of thread...SMH