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prisiluv:
Exactly!!!

I see; you are trying so hard to paint me an impassive/indifferent fellow seemingly you didn't grasp my narration perhaps sentiments beclouded and muddled your assimilation....Let me illuminate your comprehension....The bench was filled to its maximum capacity (did you get that?). She sitting close to me will definitely give me some degree of discomfort. I reserve the right to be inconvenienced by sharing or sit comfortably by not sharing (in respect to the portion allocated to me on the bench). Lastly, I wasn't yearning for salutation or familiarity. I am an introvert to the marrow who doesn't care about banalities. I will empathise if only she had showed she was reasonable. So if you come across people sitting and you want to join, don't just shove people without ur buttocks and expect them to be calm....you may end up finding ur self in an awkward position....

ournaijablog:
some people will just use their hand to cause wahala for themselves na u get the bench? why must she greet you? ehn I guess that sickness affected your brain ba and you came here to tell us, lets clap for you, you have achieved something, you don't even know what the chic might be going through you have concluded she's rude. you guys gotta give us a break, everything you do to a woman you come here to post and gloat over it grow up

Wait! Wait! Wow!! Did just refer to me (*sickness affected your brain).....Ok...this a faceless forum I grasp...I have taken cognisance of your monicker...pls do me a favour Do not quote me again and also if I create a topic I won't appreciate your comment....i won't post/comment in your topic too.....

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Op,if this is true,you are already a candidate of heaven!

please what is the real meaning of OFOR?

Ojisik:
Hi hepzibah, please mine is tomorrow. I just need to know whether or not calculators are allowed, even if it's a basic function calculator. Please reply ASAP, Thanks

2. Please did any other thjng happen during the test. Maybe a talk with successful candidates or did you leave immediately after.

3. Did they ask any UBA related questions in the aptitude test. E.g.: year of establishment et al.

when and where did you submit your application?

Snowangel4:
K

Michellla:
L

Negodu!!! Maka why?....

The truth is some children are stubborn and bad and if you are not careful while dealing with them, you may end up killing them!.....to me, I have this feeling that the boy is unruly. Usman cannot just give you #100 witout u demanding....the boy is a crack...the woman was not catious

naughtynaughty:
lmaoooo, ure jxt wicked!

Not at all I was only trying to teach her how to behave.

GenIgrigi:
**grins** Buhari's sunni muslims making life unbearable for Christian Igbos in the north. Hope the international community see why we have no business with arab wanabes up north? **grins**

Naaa Igbos are generally catholics....majority of Nccf are yorubas and other tribes

Lalasticlala....abeg make this article reach FP..............I hope ur babe is cool headed? otherwise........xxxxxx

Snowangel4:
Harsh

If you engage in this discourteous act u better desist from it.....cos beauty only attracts a person to you but courtesy/character makes them stay

Philtim:
i concur nd second u at d same time....dnt knw wot dey feel like wen dey r being deceived abt their beauty. foolish beautiful things.

The funny thing was the lady felt like I was supposed to know she wants to sit......so I should do the needful?.....if you are beautiful....that is to your BF or ur parents....if you display and crude/arrogant attitude using "beauty" as your leverage,the embarrassment I will dish out to you will be legendary...

I have not been feeling too well lately, I visited a clinic. I took some drugs but it didn't alleviate the pain so the doctor referred me to a friend of his at the teaching hospital. I got info that the place is often crowded to I decided to leave home early so that I could still utilise the latter part of the day. When I arrived, they were people already waiting for the doc. We queued while sitting on a bench. I was the last person on the bench although we sat comfortably, that means the bench could still accommodate one more person with a degree of discomfort. Minutes later, A beautiful lady....really pretty....walks towards me and was about to use her buttocks to shove me inwards without uttering a word. Immediately I expanded my legs and gave her a slight push....Just as I looked the other way.....People on the bench didn't even blink someone sitting on the bench even hissed.......when she stood and couldn't find where to sit she walked away embarrassed .....later a guy came and was like....good morning can I join you? I was like sure...I dragged my buttocks a bit and we all squeezed ourselves while sitting on the bench. She came back and was walking aimlessly starring icily at me. I just fix my Ipod, blast music.
..........................I know some other ladies do these act too but no matter how pretty or beautiful you are if you lack courtesy, you are a pile of trash waiting for lawma!

PrinceRhaeger:
I think we should contact their HR and inquire as to why we are yet to receive an invitation. I also indicated immediate availability, but I'm yet to receive an invitation.

I think you should contact the HR.....if you meet all the requirements. Same with other guys who didn't get the invite @alva001, @Marvinray, @nwakaegoabisola, @bigmarx......my 2 cents

Petroking:
See for a man you talk too much. If not because of God i would have ask MODs to ban you because you ask for advice.. we say tell your brother you still looking for the same thing over and over again. it makes no sense

Bro Egbon na werey oooo....He has done some silly stuff in the past. I think I think I will tell him everything when he comes back for any formal marriage stuff so that if he wants to do anything rational or irrational it will be here in Naija....

Sunshinelady:
Anoda thin sef...@0P: there's somthin suspicious abt d way ur parentsare trying to bury d matter. You only knw one version of d story, u havnt hrd from d oda side, mayb wen d truth comes out u ll discover dat ur parents might hav been @fault (maybe o). I tink its best u tell ur brother, so dat d whole truth can be investigated. Mayb dis will help to heal all wounds

The supposed in-law is late. My dad and the supposed in-law brother used to be good friends.

Boyooosa:
Either they marry or not, u n ur brother turn enemy or not, either forgive or not he needs to know the truth na except if u frame all these up. How can ur parents dat are supposed to know better than you can be hiding such un-concealable fact?

I heard the supposed in-law is late. My parents and the wife had seemed to be communicating. My dad was a close friend to the late brother who sold the property to him. but I believe my parents are just being too emotional. I don't have issue with the lady but I don't want my brother to get married to her. Although my dad said he will tell my brother but I believe he is going to tell him the same version he told my sisters..........

obailala:
God help us!.. Now we're back to 2009 and I'm very sure some set of people would be exceedingly excited at this sad news, just the way they were very excited over the news of the bombings yesterday. These sons of devils get very excited at any negative news and they totally support anything that destabilises the country they call a zoo.

Very soon we would hear some of them make statements like 'our oil' and you begin to wonder when they also became oil producing Niger-Deltans whose environment is being polluted and whose peace is being eroded by the activities of a few miscreants.

Talk what you know. I am from Imo. I am ND. My area Oguta is an oil producing region. My 5yrs in university was paid with oil money scholarship same with other people from my community. There is oil in Abia and Anambra. Imo has more oil than cross-river....i hope I have enlightened you? you can still google list of oil producing state in Nigeria.....3 out 5 SE states are oil producing states...oya start to dey cry

themilanway:
Call a family meeting that involves your parent,married sisters and your brother.

Tell every one present your findings about who the girl in question is and ask them to verify your claim from your parents.

Tell your brother to his face that you won't be part of his marriage to the girl but that doesn't change or stop your love for him.

Also let him know that you are not making decision for him regarding whether he marry the girl or not,you are only setting the record straight for prosperity.

The decisio on whether to forgive and forget should your brother against your expectation goes ahead with the marriage lies only with you.

Then again,be prepared to be held responsible if your brother meets your expectation and decides to dump the girl and some how cant/couldnt get a direct replacement or replica of the afore mentioned girl.

Its a two edge sword.

An igbo parable says"The mind is a bag".

May good reasoning and wisdom guide you

The thing is my dad had told my sisters a diluted summary of the whole event. He told them subtly that it was a court case one person must win. That I am only being over-reactive. And ladies go always believe hook line & sinker.....So the family meeting may not be a good idea cos sisters already thinks it's just a court case we lost

holusormi:
Follow your heart !!! As far as this case is concerned you cannot be wrong .... On the flip side however , if you decide to tell your brother and ignore what your parents said , what happens if he still marries her ? Anybody who goes on a journey of revenge should dig two graves ...

Although if na me , I go tell am ooo.... Yeah am badt like that !!!

But IDK sha

I think am digging three

zizazizu:
Whatever your decision, you will still feel terrible about the outcome.

Just let them be. You are not God.

I am can never be God. I don't want any of those memories......My brother should know the truth. He deserves the truth!.....i can't be part of a family with a man that nearly ruined my family

I know this might not be totally right but at least it will make me feel great. Egbon wants to get married in march and automatically I will become the best Man. But I don't want him to get married to her. It is not because of her but the dad.

It all started back in 1998 my dad was having a court case with our supposed in-law over our house. The house was sold to my dad by the late late brother of our supposed in-law. That was even before my dad got married. We have lived in that house for more than 10yrs. My siblings and I were born there. After the death of the brother in 1998 he dragged my dad to court saying his brother was only a benefactor and does not have the legal right to sell the building and their late father made him the executor of His properties according to the late father's will. My parents were partners in business and their office was located at the ground floor of the building where we lived. Their goods were also stored there (plumbing equipment).

Prior to joining the plumbing business, my dad was into commercial inter-state transport services after suffering heavy losses he auctioned what was left and joined my mum in the plumbing business. A year later he was in court with our supposed in-law. The legal battle started in December. Egbon travelled with an aunt of mine who had won a visa lottery the previous year. My sisters were older than the guys. they were already in boarding school. I was the king of the house. My dad suffered many embarrassment at the hands of our supposed in-law. He dragged the case for some years money meant for business ended up in legal battles. My dad had to borrow to pay suppliers. He couldn't not order for new materials anymore and the business eventually collapsed. Extended families gave their support until 2003 when a lagos high court handed our supposed in-law victory

My dad wanted to appeal the judgement but his lawyer told him to get an apartment with whatever he has left. Although my parents thought they hid everything from us. Perhaps my sisters didn't notice because they were not always home but I saw my mum cry severally. I saw the fears in my dad eyes. I listened to their whispering at night I knew we were doomed. Our supposed In-law sold the house to a bank. The bank gave two weeks to evacuate. But before the notice expired they brought sledge hammer and started destroying the building with our properties in it. My dad tried to protest but he was beaten and arrested. For the first time I saw our "Supposed In-law" that day ordering the boys to destroy everything. My dad was later released days after. I went to live with my cousins. My sisters also went to live with my other cousins.

In 2006 I wrote a mail to Egbon I narrated all that happened to him and he vowed he was going to ensure that they payed for it dearly. Few years later, I got admission into the university my parents embraced christ; But I still feel bitter. How time flies, my sisters are both married and it's just me preparing for the life of a bachelor; Until recently my brother told me his plans of getting married, I noticed it because he has visited us more than usual last year and had extensive discussions with my parents. But whenever He came back He still promised my dad that he will never forget all that happened. My dad told him that was in the past but I know what my brother was capable of doing as regards family.

He brought his supposed girl friend (I believe that is all she will ever be) to the house last christmas everyone welcomed her but immediately I set my eyes on her, she looked like the man that was giving orders to tear down our house. I asked her for her surname, when she said ****US, I knew she was the daughter of our long time enemy. When they left, my mum and dad begged me that I shouldn't say anything. That they have forgiven him. She invited my parents and I during the new year but I declined. I have also told my brother I can't be his best man. He thought am joking cos it was via mail. My brother had assured me severally whenever I told him what became of us after then that incident and he told me "I will give up anything to deal with the Man that messed with my family". I guess I will have to tell him the whole truth. But my parents keep calling me every single day to beg. "Saying I should not bring him misery. That they were happy he decided to bring home a cool headed lady".....But I just can't let it go. Unless my brother and I will decide not to be brothers anymore because I will never go to his house if he marries her. I will never associate myself with him or anything that has to do with him.

I have finished typing the truth I want to send the mail to him...I don't know why I am hesitating (I guess my parents will forgive me sooner or later) but he has to know the truth!!!!....i can't dine with my enemy!.....I don't want to see her dad face again....never...I hope am doing the right thing....i think I am.....perhaps I am...

And again pls can I wear a plain tie on a stripped shirt?.....abeg I know this should be in fashion but response there is always quite slow

Hello guys I am preparing to attend a wedding just couldn't see the bow tie pls can I put on the normal long slim tie?.....abeg those wey sabi fashion

gabrieliheko222:
Please i just got an invite for an aptitude test at uba... Please can anyone help me on what to expect... I will be very grateful

pls when did you submit ur CV and what did you study?

slimfit2:
Check your mail.. Maybe something that can help sits there already!

pls can you help me with the barron Gmat?...God bless you

You guys should be your brothers keeper oooo....Me sef need am ooo abeg guys wey get help forward am abeg

David470 calm down ooo this guy's blood they crack thermometer

olajire00:
pls help me with the HR number

Bros tell ppl wey them send IV to give you the number on their test....i don't know if it's still chidinma lawanson that is sending the msg....

Hello guys I went to Diamondbank HQ...today and chatted with some buddies...here is what I found out......Those of you that have not gotten invite......continue to send ur CVs to the clawanson@diamondbank.com also encourage more people to apply. if they get quite a lot of applications later invite dates will be communicated to you. If you didn't get the invite be prepared to write the test in February. There will be another batch in jan/feb. Also if you are not comfortable with your test date, you can call Hr and they will reschedule you for next year....................xoxo

Hello guys I went to Diamondbank HQ...today and chatted with some buddies...here is what I found out......Those of you that have not gotten invite......continue to send ur CVs to the clawanson@diamondbank.com also encourage more people to apply. if they get quite a lot of applications later invite dates will be communicated to you. If you didn't get the invite be prepared to write the test in February. There will be another batch in jan/feb. Also if you are not comfortable with your test date, you can call HOUR and they will reschedule you for next year....................xoxo

OversightTM:
Amen. I wrote on the 24th and I got an invite.

wow success....did you write in the morning or evening?