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menix:
How come no man has found Genevive, Linda Ikeji etc abi nah Aliens fit get their Coordinates...

Off to google make I fit find my wife...

Who told you they are not turning down offers? Even widows are getting married and widowers doing same...it is all about you making choices...bro...Thank God you are searching google....lol...

Godfather92:
I can't Stop laughing.... And laughter shall never cease in my mouth IJN.... Amen

....yeah bro don't let them scam you...

talktonase:
You have spoken well...see as ORIGIN sharpen your antennas enough for us to gain such good information...I like the pragmatic approach and i plead with many nigerians to stop deceiving them selves that God has ordained one girl which needs affirmation by the so called pastor.Sin has corrupted this bodies of ours and we should learn to manage with each others weaknesses.Gbamm!!!

Dude two bottles of orijin for you...

I sat at the corner of a bar to do my usual orijin ritual before heading home, a group of married men and women were sitting close close to my table spitting out fat lies about marriage and other stuffs using the "Church" as a base for the lies. I was peeved listening to their conversation and I didn't want to change my table cos that we make me sit close to the speakers........These were some of the lies

1. There is a woman created for every man....

2. It is God that gives a wife....

3. Let God choose a wife for you

4. Only prayer can lead you to your partner

5. People should tell their pastors the name of their partners so that he can pray to see if they meant to be

6 if a pastor does not bless a union it is not ordained by God

7. Once you are interested in a sister let your intentions known to the pastor

8. Empties the final glass of orijin couldn't take the trash anymore...

Let me clarify some vague assertions these pastors (especially pentecostal) are selling to us about marriage

1. It is a fat lie nobody was created for another person. Man was created in the image of God to explore the earth. Man was not constrained by God in terms of choice. If you say for every man is a wife that means Oba lamidi that has four wives has technically take three men slots because those women were created for other people ryt?. If a man dies before getting married are you saying the woman created for him will never get married? Or will she be a substitute? Poor reasoning....or because the catholic priests don't get married hence the women created for them will not get married? There is NO one created for another.

2. Even the bible states that "he who finds a wife finds a good thing (you find) and obtains favour from God"...God favours or bless a union after you have searched for the bride. God does not give you a wife. So that you don't cry like Adam saying "it was the woman you gave to me"....that made me fall. If it was so then Adam is not to blame. But Adam had a choice, before he knew Eve intimately. He could choose not to. God didn't force Adam. Looking at the Adam scenario holistically, the fact that God approved of the union did not guarantee the union's fate. It was still swallowed by disaster man makes his choices.

3. It is obvious God does not choose wives so go find it yourself...I can tell you without bias that most marriages celebrated in the "church" ends in divorce more than all the marriages celebrated else where...is not funny? The 2 months marriage classes, foundation classes and seminars are ceremonial routines....if you apply them on cheating wife/husband your Ass would be stuck at the magistrate court signing divorce papers...

4 This is one fat lie. The principles of getting a good wife is already in the word of God. Search for those principles and adopt them you don't need 1 month dry fasting to do so...you don't need additional schooling....

5. Once you tell me you have taken my name to your pastor for him to pray about our supposed union, that day the union is about falling part because I won't have a wife whose confidence is on her pastor. These pastors and churches have made "Marriage" look like it is higher than Mt. Everest...tougher than mortal Kombat....and talks about it like it is rocket science; an enigma only them can decipher....well they are now signing papers too.....

6. As long as you go to the family of your wife for formal introduction. Marriage is Almost established after the family hands you their daughter; bro you are married. invite the pastor/church later for item 7/owambe.

7 what if the pastor is unmarried and is interested in that same sister? Do you think the pastor will believe that God spoke to you and left him?....or what if the pastor is about recommending the sweet sister for his son or nephew?...you don enter APC motor (one chance)

I believe we have dragged marriage into religion so much that it is no longer a social and cultural activity. It is now a religious act. But remember we were not recording huge figures when it was cultural/social now that peopled supposedly filled with the spirit are dictating the pace....the damage done to this institution is quite immense....

Christianity or Islam or blah blah.....I can't even marry from another denomination let alone Islam...........i can only marry a CATHOLIC....unless she is ready to convert...I always advise people to marry within their denomination. that way no hitches no drama

ibrams:
Oga miii no vex jare..... just saying my mind

loooollll....badest guy....i no chop anything oooo....

NinaNigeria:
its okay dat u apologised. Bt b careful, it always starts wit a small slap, den it continues and ends wit her in a coffin. All abusers always say it was nt entirely their fault. Never make such an excuse coz blaming her for yo abusing her makes things worse and actually erases yo apology

...wow... Nina thanks for writing so much i guess I have a lot to reflect on from what you painstakingly wrote up there (the previous post and the quote). How are you? How is the baby? I hope he/she is kicking?......

mizquote:
our parents didn't practice that.

it is quite patent they never saw it...some are trying it and they are Sucking it hard

mizquote:
hope u don't expect a lady to go below if you don't reciprocate?

...It is quite simple dearest...normally dickkks don't stink unless they are real dirty...the main point is, there is a reason for blow jobb which is to re-awaken pennisss or make it more turgid...there is no much fun in getting a BJ...if you have had over and over....But I can tell you categorically that Sucking a Guy Nippllless gives him so much pleasure than Sucking his dickkkk.....so a BJ is required when Thomas is heading south....and not necessarily for pleasure....that is if you get it frequently... ....hey I hope you are married...don't want to be responsible for corrupting teens

And here is a dude dishing out guys secrets.....Trying To run down Niggas....SMH...

I have spent over two decades on planet earth. Every week of the last half decade a Kitty-Cat tail was tamed in my backyard. I turned down more Kitty-Cat tail than any other guy on campus....I won more "puna challenge"...than any other dude in my lodge back then "Pavillion villa" records are still there!.i have turned down Igbo, yoruba, tiv, nupe, hausa, idoma, calabar, anang, ogoja, ebira, igala (some other African puccis).....down to European, american and Asian punnies (if you doubt; all you need is only $285 and I will take you to sheraton Abuja so many white punnies)....From experience, I discovered that all puuccii stinks...Only guys with low self esteem who tries to impress ladies eat puccy. Why? They want to leverage on that so that they can have her another day. Real Guys bang puccieeesss they don't eat pussiess!!!Get that dudes....Thank God I have changed....#Nosexb4marriage

schumastic:
OP y hit a lady na s not good and pls just let her go b4 you cont the hitting since she s no longer the girl you got attracted to

I guess I may have to modify the write up and erase the hitting part. I apologised dude...it was not entirely my fault....any way...thanks for the opinion

GoldenJAT:
I normally don't contribute on threads of this nature, but in this particular case I am move 2 contribute my quota. Bt before I proceed I like to point out 1 or things that I Wil use in buttressing my point on why u should move on with her.
In d course of growing up and and dating 2 or 3 gals as the case mayb, I av come 2d realization that we all came from different background and Tolerance is 1 key that goes a long way in helping a relationship... Your faults at Op
1.u seems like sum1 that would be a perfectionist
2 you are easily bored with a gal
3.your temper!!!! I'm not judging bt u av got 2 put it under control. Check urself 1st and do a lot of talking... Ask u urself sum truthful questions like y she changed all of a sudden from that simple gal you knew, 2 sumbdy u now detest this much Can't say more... Cos evrtin lies with u... Just USE UR HEAD.

.....Temper yeah...mind you I can absorb a lot.....but sometimes I.....m ...perfectionist....??...basically that is what i do for a living ryt now...I criticise...and try to find perfection...with designs though not people...boring??...... I enjoy conversations and I initiate them too...I am an extrovert...well I think I may reflect on these points

ibrams:
after you don chop finish..... u the see mistakes it is not good ooooo..... I don talk my own

.... ...Bros the focus on thread...naaa....pls..

I have spent over two decades on planet earth. Every week of the last half decade a pussy tail was tamed in my backyard. I turned down more pussy tail than any guy on campus....I won more "puna challenge"...than any other dude in my lodge back then "Pavillion villa" records are still there!.i have turned down Igbo, yoruba, tiv, nupe, hausa, idoma, calabar, anang, ogoja, ebira, igala (some other African puccis).....down to European, american and Asian punnies (if you doubt; all you need is only $285 and I will take you to sheraton Abuja so many white punnies)....From experience, I discovered that all puuccii stinks...Only guys with low self esteem who tries to impress ladies eat puccy. Why? They want to leverage on that so that they can have her another day. Real Guys bang puccieeesss they don't eat pussiess!!!Get that dudes....Thank God I have changed....#Nosexb4marriage......

Thunder fire this BW Goats...I have a feeling that they have done backward recruitment and invite.....looooobbbbish

IamLEGEND1:
story for dem zeus.

what is this one saying.....?

donTbone:

Yes...the mistake many of us has made is here!

1. He got attracted by the outside look not getting to know her well b4 the relationship
2. There is no reality questions to see if they are compatible or not.
3. He allowed feelings and emotions to come after wisdom and sense.
4. There isn't a sound check of 'am I ready for a relationship' b4 asking her out

Yes, its good to fall in love and xperience all sort of things but I do say...
LOVE is never enough! Let reality come first b4 love

That's all!

I guess it is the outside look that you see first. Basically that is what attracts anyone first...for the remaining points I guess they are too subjective...your opinion though thanks..

Oma307:
Seconded, unless he will go 4 serious deeper life sisters

Dude...like seriously... ??....ur opinion though

Richiy:
So it is through slap you will test somebody's arrogance right?

Let me slap you so that we can see how arrogant you really are

As for OP, dating her because she does not make up is not supposed to be the foundation of the relationship... Please walk away.

....wow... he made some misguided statements I think I have addressed that...thanks for ur opinion

Richardonald:
Op i don't undastnd u..u slap her to test her if she is arrogant or what,well op did right thing becuz this century u have 2 knw who u are going with b4 considering next 2 do..but dat gal suppose fume b4 4getting it....

......aaawww...hitting her was bad, it was involuntary...I begged earnestly...thanks but that is not tje focus of this thread....before they start calling me Woman beater

misspicy:
It would have been salvageable if you hadn't introduced resetting but since you slapped her already just let her go but if she can cope with the slap and your intolerance she will not let you go......











Relationship is not all about love or what attracted you to a person,you need to compromise,tolerate and adjust



my opinion

Hitting her was not entirely my fault though I apologised...yeah intolerance is the basic problem I see lurking around....thanks...

jaymichael:
I really did not make any meaning out of this story. Did anyone?

kudos Nigga

elantraceey:
You dated her for the wrong reasons and now things have changed,you want out. please let her be because you're just selfish and you hav no feelings for her.

I'm sure she really likes you else she would have dumped you long ago.

I didn't date her for the wrong reasons. I am not good at slandering or emphasising on peoples' unwholesome attitudes...she made many blunders but I don't want to talk about it....The basic problem is I discover recently I can no longer excuse her mistakes like I use to

ibrams:
is this the only problem you have about her .........or you think she is cheating on you

I don't know if she is cheating or not...No evidence moreover I don't think about that.....i guess the the major problem is I find it difficult to excuse her mistakes...

ibe9ja:
You're taking the right step: walk away from the relationship because she doesn't need a mad man around her.

....thanks bro....madness is not a sin is it?...

iceberylin:
Searching for a girl that doesn't make up in 2015.....


U'LL might never get married bro

...wow...thanks for reminding...but that is not the focus of this thread...

ladyF:
Woman beater. That's the only thing I could pick honestly Go and pick on someone your own size next time you want to raise a fist.

I'll say a prayer for the poor lady, may God give her the strength to flee this violent relationship she has gotten herself into. Real men done hit women!!! *hiss

....wow really....ohhh...I guess you didn't read the part where I apologised....well thanks for picking just that...

I met my GF early this year, she was the lady of my dream. She got height, shape and she is quite intelligent ....but these features didn't attract me at first...what did was her simplicity and how she dressed (with a touch of old school) that got me spell-bounded, enchanted and hypnotised... Seeing her on a curly hair, admiring her long legs and long neck was like having my fantasy come true. Growing up I admired women on short curly hairs and I had a phobia for "Make-up"... (for history sake it's a personal thing. My mum and siblings do have "make-up" kits but I detest it and loved simplicity and it reflects on my designs...though I do get criticised that is "too simple" or "too economical")...I really got carried away starring at her, I had to alight from the bus I boarded that was going to P/Harcourt to board the bus she was about boarding to Enugun. I ensured I sat beside her ...the bus got filled and we zoomed off.

I initiated conversation and we got talking. I fed her soft lies about construction and design cos she told me she was serving in a new generation bank in Lagos. I didn't know she had a degree in civil engineering . After telling her all the zobos she giggled and later she started pointing out the lies....I felt like jumping out of the bus we became quiet until I told her Enugun was actually not my destination, that she made me board the bus. She couldn't stop starring at me in amazement. That was the turning point. She advised I alighted at a junction (Nine mile or so) so that I could easily board a bus to P/H. We exchanged contacts and I alighted at the crowded junction and boarded a bus to PH.

Later we became close friends and that transformed into dating. She was always stunning I got her all sort of short curly wigs and her make up was minimal. Seeing her every weekend was made in heaven..........lately those simple looks are getting complicated. She started increasing the amount of make-up and blamed it on work that she is now in Customer Service and have to look good. Although while visiting she tries minimising but I think she loves the make up. I no longer see that innocent look that made my heart abandon its rib cage. I discovered that I no longer excuse her mistakes. We have talked about it but we ain't making much progress. Early this month we went out to see a movie and she placed her head on my shoulder only for me to see terrible stains I flared up later. Ordinarily I wouldn't but I felt something was not right. Two weeks ago we were arguing and I hit her (guys Pls focus on the subject not the slap cos I know some ppl are saints and some ppl we bring down heaven if their BF hits them...)I later apologised. I don't think I should continue. Last weekend we were supposed to hang but I found bashing and schooling some NLanders all through the weekend was more exciting than picking picking her calls...I got umpteen messages this morning....I think I want to quit...Guys do you think this is still salvageable or I should just walk away....?? I do want to walk away because of all the bickering, squabbling and haggling but I just want an affirmation and a conviction that I am taking the right step...

Untop submission of application we don dey fall enter page 50....empties another glass of orijin....

MduZA:
Mumu,out of ten you still get 4..the bottom line is am not perfect,surely you are also not perfect ....you can also make errors typing in your own Isikwerekwere..am not here to show how
deep I am in terms of using vocabulary,spellings en so forth..thats why I dont correct members when they use wrong words ....i will always be here panelbeating your flat..head

Now we are at the bottom line.... ...dude when it comes to academics and research, I will send you to the cleaners even my undergraduate works were applauded by the faculty of engineering and built environment, University of Cape Town..I am not some guy sitting isolated and typing poo...with a rickety degree....i have seen and competed your best for volunteering positions, grants and fellowship(though they were quite good)....If you want to get your ass schooled .....holla me...otherwise don't bother quoting me again.....if you score me 4 out 10 I think am cool that is 40%....lol...I only need 40% in just 3 subjects to pass matric....lol....nd a disgraceful 30% in 3 or 4 other subjects (pitiful)....as long as I can write xhosa effectively.... ....for the flat head.....i think panel-beating ain't bad as long as you do that to ur girls so that they stop infecting the world with Aids..................xoxo.....Thread closed.........

ademega:
Mr man, u have seen nothing!

I tell you we have seen Nothing....by the time we begin to see...there will be no more hands to type or mouth to speak