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RomanceRe: How I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 11:58pm On Oct 08, 2015
Abugab:
Matchmaking is surely your call.
Enlarge the scope of this business as you already have a 100% success by telling your cousin to help our lost brothers and sisters overseas with their spouses.
As it grows, event planning and management can add up to the total services.
Run this through your mind as it could sure be a great way to your breakthrough.

Thumbs up for your success in your first job.
....lol....bro ur business sense no be here oooo....but you know Nigerians are the most insincere people on earth. they will use the medium to cheat sincere people. A forum like this can help but trust me if a lady/guy sends me PM I won't accept...Infact I don't accept at all. because I don't even trust if she is actually a male or female nd vice versa. did you know how many dating sites in the US that were brought down becos of naija guys...look @ Badoo, myspace, isingle,okcupid et al even zooks are all messed up cos of our Naija hustlers no dey try
RomanceRe: How I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 11:57pm On Oct 08, 2015
Abugab:
Matchmaking is surely your call.
Enlarge the scope of this business as you already have a 100% success by telling your cousin to help our lost brothers and sisters overseas with their spouses.
As it grows, event planning and management can add up to the total services.
Run this through your mind as it could sure be a great way to your breakthrough.

Thumbs up for your success in your first job.
....lol....bro ur business sense no be here oooo....but you know Nigerians are the most insincere people on earth. they will use the medium to cheat sincere people. A forum like this can help but trust me if a lady/guy sends me PM I won't accept...Infact I don't accept at all. because I don't even trust if she is actually a male or female nd vice versa. did you know how many dating sites in the US that were brought down becos of naija guys...look @ Badoo, myspace, isingle,okcupid et al even zooks cos our Naija hustlers no dey try
RomanceRe: How I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 11:48pm On Oct 08, 2015
LifeIsGuhd:
Examination malpractice

Hope that wasn't what she did to top her class

Justsayin'
Awwww...she passed pre med exam in flying colours...she is currently studying medicine
RomanceRe: How I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 11:37pm On Oct 08, 2015
LifeIsGuhd:
Expo
pls tell me in details....plssssss
RomanceRe: How I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 11:27pm On Oct 08, 2015
LifeIsGuhd:
Ehmm, I just hope she isn't just really good with chokes? grin
What does that mean?
RomanceRe: How I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 11:25pm On Oct 08, 2015
SUGARBEE:
Wow, I also admire the lady... Besides it's definitely true.. No matter how you try, you can't be wayward and still be in control of your education. . . Thumbs up
cool
RomanceRe: How I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 11:21pm On Oct 08, 2015
donholy28:
So u don turn to cupid
lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: How I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 11:20pm On Oct 08, 2015
Harbioollah:
500L MCBhuhhuhhuh

Tales by moonlight
lemme be cautious with my language....dude it's a university of technology all their courses are 5yrs for Btech they even use "school" and not faculty....ensure you know something before you doubt
RomanceRe: How I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 11:16pm On Oct 08, 2015
osamaBUSH:
I sense a good business in the horizon for you if you care to harness it.
I am a trained architect na bros...you want make them disown me here...although money is not enough
RomanceRe: How I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 11:13pm On Oct 08, 2015
henribj:
hmm
so do you plan making this your services a nationwide service?
or is it only for family?
#justasking
bro I can't meddle into your family affairs naaaa....i guess you guys have a standard or principle you follow...I am not a contractor cool
RomanceHow I Recommended A Lady For My Big Bro by SSpeter(op): 10:51pm On Oct 08, 2015
When My older cousin living abroad was pressurised not to marry a yankee or African American but a Naija babe. He felt bad for a while because he had to break up with his college girlfriend. The task of recommendation was thrown out to every member of the immediate family who was interested. (where I come, we marry via reference so as to ease inquiry into the lady/guy family) being my paddie beause he buys me stuff grin I joined the race and promised to help in the search days later I forgot everything. My Aunt (Mum's cousin) and my Mum were fed up because the guy often rejected some of the ladies they linked him with.

It was my kid's brother's matric day so I went to stand by him. Looking around I saw so many pretty faces then my cousin came to mind...(although I am not attracted by pretty faces) so I didn't speak to any then something came to my mind grin I love intelligent girls (If you like look like 'ikwikwi' as long as you can best me in any logical reasoning and analysis I am already in love with you).

So I went straight to the closest school (faculty) which was faculty of sciences, I started staring at the result boards looking for female brains...It was more difficult than I thought cos the school actually removed the names of the student only matric number and result chaiii....so I copied all the top mat numbers who were finalist from all the departments in the faculty. luckily as I was leaving the school (faculty) I noticed students exiting a lecture theatre so I asked a guy which department he said MCB 500level.

I smiled brought out the matric numbers I copied from micro biology and was shocked the five top matric numbers I copied 3 were females. He told me their names nd pointed one to me. She wasn't elegant but not short so I knew she will do. I introduced myself we conversed and she accepted to take a shot with my younger brother nd I. Right there she even told my young bro "ensure you apply ur heart to studies alone"...that comment made me smile. I got her contact and she left.

I travelled back, told my mum then called my cousin. My cousin asked how are you sure is not a flirt? I told him point blank, you can't be wayward and top ur department success requires discipline. My mum called his mum and they chatted with her on phone invited her and when we finally linked them. my cousin told the mum..."this surely will do"...while I was still serving, I attended the traditional weeding... trust me na I collected my percentage for services rendered... grin...nothing is free
RomanceRe: Why Do Nice And Faithful Guys Always Get Heart Broken by SSpeter(m): 9:53pm On Oct 08, 2015
willace:
I have noticed Dat nice, sincere and Faithful Guys always Get Heart Broken. But D guys who are players and flirts always have good relationships.
I have been a victim of This. Maybe it's because am 2 nice dats y we don't last long in our relationships. But My friends who are players and Flirts always good lasting relationships. I have never double dated before when am dating am always very polite, sincere and Nice 2 these girls.I But I know Of guys who Triple date sef. They are always Rude. At times even beating Their girlfriends. But they always last.
Comments please
stop looking for pity....women are like fortune...They favour the bold nd strong hearted....not the nice nd pity seeking
RomanceRe: Why Do Nice And Faithful Guys Always Get Heart Broken by SSpeter(m): 9:50pm On Oct 08, 2015
gab264:
Hmmm I fink the bad ones are the ones hangin around with bad guys or the said players though not all of the gurls are bad.
Thatz why sometimes whenever I saw a guy beatin up his wife or gf I use to to overlook it.
Because the girl would have many good options bfr her. But she choose to

#I love being me#
RomanceRe: EB XCLUSIVE: Knowing When You Are A Side Chick by SSpeter(m): 8:50pm On Oct 08, 2015
Esthersblog:
Sometimes, it’s so amazing when some ladies fail to see or realise they are been used as SIDE CHICKS.

Some have got the eyes, but yet see nothing out of it. The Signs are right there in front of you Girl. Men are very discreet with relationships they ain’t that committed to, they do all things to keep that very special relationship away from their side chicks.

THESE ARE SIGNS TO SHOW YOU ARE JUST A SIDE CHICK;

1. When you are not allowed to take his calls or touch his phone because you just might bump into his contacts where your name was stored in casually and another name stored as Baby or My love.

2. He avoids hanging out with you publicly, so as not to been seen by his main chick.

3. You have never been introduced to any of his family and friends, yet you have been with him for over 6months.

4. He never takes your call when he his at home or late at night, when he sure would be in the arms of his main chick.*winks*.

5. You have been together for so long, but yet never been offered a key to his apartment.

6. All your appointments/hookups has to be pre-planned.

7. He becomes so upset when you complain about his attitudes towards you, and try to calm your nerves by having Sex just to distract you from what is being talked about.

Tell me ladies, who is fooling who? Open your eyes all you ladies and see if that is what you really want out of life. To be placed as second priority or someone to run to as a rebound when he has a little misunderstanding with his one true love.

Wake up ladies, we all are better than that, some women actually do love that position to be fair, but I would rather say it’s stupid to play second figure to any man or in a relationship.

Think positive GIRLS!!! Cos Tell me, who run this World? Girls..

## Chidazzle Diaries.# Mrs Chichi Akuezuilo.

Source: www.esther.com.ng
auntie esther fine write up but u know say 1/2 bread is better than puff puff unpeeled groundnut is better than kuli kuli....that babe wey be side chick wey them just dey manage am you wan lead am to protest....chaiii chaiii na fling them go fling am ooo....shey u no know say babe wey don be side chick know her value know say na bench she suppose dey.....Mikel fit go ginger mourinho for Chelsea? e no good to dey ginger person wey dey bench...na relegation e dey always end.....#walks out quietly....
CelebritiesRe: Adorable New Photo Of Darey Art-alade, His Wife And Their Cute Kids by SSpeter(m): 8:25pm On Oct 08, 2015
Michellla:
people like to cling to the past way too much.especially journalists and bloggers
It is not clinging, It is not the Past. It is reality....
RomanceRe: I Met A Real Man by SSpeter(op): 5:57pm On Oct 08, 2015
kay9:
I don't believe I've heard the "igbati" described like that before. grin

Still though, raising your hands to wifey is a no-no for me. If I ever have to do that, I might as well call the lawyer to prep the papers cos my respect for her is gone... and I can't live with someone I don't respect.
Raising your hands on your wife is Wrong.....applying wisdom on your wife is Right...They are two distinct terms
RomanceRe: I Met A Real Man by SSpeter(op): 3:09pm On Oct 08, 2015
GidisFinest:
In Yoruba* Oma Se o undecided
Na language u speak..? ko ye mi oooo
RomanceRe: I Met A Real Man by SSpeter(op): 3:08pm On Oct 08, 2015
delishpot:
How does one "strike" the rebel wife?
Plus that is not a happy home jor. The wife will always think the hubby is never on her side(even when she was the one at fault)
Best bet is to marry someone of like mind. No need to strike and force yourself to be a man. The leadership just flows.
He tried sha, I couldnt live with a petty wife.
The wife will always think before she acts....Applying wisdom to the cheeks is how you terminate rebellion....You will never see someone of like mind even identical twins differ in attitude
RomanceRe: Minority Nigerian Girls And Yoruba Men! by SSpeter(m): 2:35pm On Oct 08, 2015
V0lv0:
But this was happening before even boko haram started. I guess Nigerians are just Tribalistic in nature. That's why I guess I understand why you folks hate on other nationalities like Ghana, SA, Kenya. Everyone feels they are better than the next person and it cuts across tribes too
I smell u re a Ghanaian, hey when you talk about Nigerians you ought to be a more respectful. You talk as if life in Ghana is better of. When Nigerians discuss in a forum like this Ghanaians et al are supposed to be observing not commenting...you need to get skooled first by ur big brothers else.... lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: Signs That Proves You Are Not A Pretty Lady! by SSpeter(m): 2:17pm On Oct 08, 2015
missmary:
I no for sure am not fugly... M not extremely pretty either.. I'll just i look okay
missy someone said there is no sitting on the fence..... that it si either I or nay... cry cry
RomanceI Met A Real Man by SSpeter(op): 1:40pm On Oct 08, 2015
The year was 2008, October to be precise I got admission into the university. On merit of course....but I became quite ill afterwards nd was contemplating perhaps I should differ the admission. Luckily I started responding to treatment and all hands were on deck to expedite the recuperating process. When I got back to school, I did the late reg. Though the department was kept apprised of my condition. No hostel for me embarassed Infact test don they boil in and with my condition (just recuperating) living alone off campus was out of the box.
A distant family friend was contacted who was living close to campus he offered to let me in. There I met a Man. A real Man. I called him a real man because he was a no nonsense Man. He has a wife and a daughter. Mum was scared at first, so was I. The wife didn't like the Idea as did the wife's Mum who visits occasionally. But the Man was a man and often rose to the occasion. He can read in-between the lines and when there was rancour between the wife nd I after listening to both sides he will tell the wife you are at fault. When she complains about things in the house he investigates nd comes up with logical conclusions. The wife reported to the brother, when the told him all the wife said he told the brother "Live and let's Live, I won't support evil just to have peace". He had to tell the wife's mother point blank "If you keep taking sides without thorough examination you may have to stop visiting" He was a Boss though not Bossy. He trashed complaints like a real man. I Respected Him More Than My Dad. He applied wisdom to the cheeks of his wife one night then I felt it was high time I left. I told him the next morning about my plans and he laughed after dinner that night he said to be "Boy you Have to be a Man" sometimes everything is required to stay afloat. "Even if you lose everywhere do not lose at Home" "I had to hit my wife because she was becoming rebellious, do not treat rebellious act softly you kill it" "It is like cancer and begins with a threat"....Finally he told me when you get married someday " Talk to your wife if she misbehaved, empathise if she nags, walk away if she complains and strike if she Rebels"....Its been seven Years and the words keep ringing in my ears. Then I asked myself; what if Ademola was to be a weak man? That woman for use my eyes see fire....lol....But He was a Man...nd I respect Him even more than my DAD...in less than 8 months we spent together he taught me everything I knew about being a Man. When I came nd asked my dad how they both knew because obviously he can't be family I am from SS nd he is yoruba. He was just a casual friend back then that was all my dad said . I was shocked... I inscribed his words in my heart because.....He is Truly a Real Man...
RomanceRe: Signs That Proves You Are Not A Pretty Lady! by SSpeter(m): 12:27pm On Oct 08, 2015
sanbells:
Well.... I think everyone created by God is beautiful/handsome cause we're made in his image and he isn't fugly. Besides dat, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. To you, dat chic might look so fugly. Buh to another guy, he's seen what he's been searching for.... Datz life
auntie bells but e good make we dey talk true ooo....4get say na NL for real life u wan talk say u never use ur mouth talk before say that guy/lady no fine even if na for photo....ahhh Ahhhh God deyo lie lie is becoming unbearable o
RomanceRe: Signs That Proves You Are Not A Pretty Lady! by SSpeter(m): 12:24pm On Oct 08, 2015
missmary:
Well... Am not guilty of any of these but a guy has never paid my fare on a bus... embarassed
that means you are lipsrsealed
PoliticsRe: Military Can Never Defeat Boko Haram By December – Jide Johnson by SSpeter(m): 10:42am On Oct 08, 2015
hyfr:
Mr.jide said "the army was being insincere with Nigerians by making unrealistic claims" everyday they'll be posting pictures of poor farmers they bribed parading them as boko haram soldiers, they'll go to congo get a fat man and say he is a general in Boko haram. We have been scammed
grin looooool must the man be fat?....looooool......how did you know he was from congo? Nigerians we are all comedians. That is why I don't attend commedy shows anymore cos nija na 24hrs comedy even for work....hahahahaha
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Akintola Williams Deloitte Test by SSpeter(m): 6:37pm On Oct 07, 2015
bekayy:
Yes. They are starting Monday. Candidates can send an email to HR and keep trying. Cheers.
please can I get the H.R email?
RomanceRe: VIRGINS!!! Fall In Here by SSpeter(m): 2:33pm On Oct 06, 2015
misspicy:
See me here cool


On a serious note i just discovered how to know a virgin boy yesterday,my co worker is 25 and a virgin,he told me buh i did see d signals before....

1)they are mostly shy and dnt talk abt sex

2) they are always loving that is they show more love to their gfs

3) they feel heartbroken if their relationship doesnt work,its always hard for them to move on.

4)they are mostly polite to females and guys



Modified

They would nvr talk about it unless you are very close to them
wow...there they go again...people are entirely different...the best way to know a male virgin is if he goes for confession and confesses that he didn't do it or he has never done it before. If you look for signs and symptoms you go get grey beard like Aaron
RomanceRe: Things An "Average-Looking" Girl Can Do That Will Increase Her "Market Value" by SSpeter(m): 2:06pm On Oct 06, 2015
The truth is most ladies who read this nd criticised it would still imbibe it to their present feature.....they love to pretend they love to lie....see them saying "just for a guy" nd hissing deep down they do more...well that's the female life for you.
RomanceRe: D.E.B.A.T.E For (male Nd Female) by SSpeter(m): 11:17pm On Oct 05, 2015
Mznaett:
C ur mouth like d first 3months is bloodundecided

You think it's easy bah? Don't worry na I just pray ur sex should be female when next you wana come into this worldtongue then you'll know the pains we go through. Women are heroes if U dnt know
no ooo I don't want to be a baby I want to be a bobo cool with swagiee oo
PoliticsRe: Floods Wash Snakes Into Plateau Community. by SSpeter(m): 11:09pm On Oct 05, 2015
Cadamlk:
Yeah!! I have see a lot of snakes but never black mamba.I know is a snake that grow up to 8ft long and inside of the mouth is black;where it got its name from.One can hardly get to the hospital when it bites.I know the specie are plenty in South Africa but never heard of any case in Naija .Have you see it?
mambas are found in tropical rainforest zone which is a zone that cut across major part of naija so it's no surprise to find black mamba in naija
RomanceRe: Why Men Wants To Have Sex...things You Should Know by SSpeter(op): 7:15pm On Oct 05, 2015
Hannysmilez:
Is the OP suggesting men begin crying and asking to be cuddled in order to abstain from sexual immorality? How crazy can people get!
It is quite patent that you really do have difficulty when it comes to comprehension......
RomanceRe: Why Men Wants To Have Sex...things You Should Know by SSpeter(op): 2:33pm On Oct 05, 2015
starlingslimnet:
And the point is?
You go sabi fail comprehension passage that year o
RomanceRe: Why Men Wants To Have Sex...things You Should Know by SSpeter(op): 2:23pm On Oct 05, 2015
misspicy:
So OP you are accusing ladies of not allowing their men to express their emotions in word right?
A guy will normally not want to express his emotions in words. It makes him look weak...only very few guys can

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