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LifeIsGuhd:Awwww...she passed pre med exam in flying colours...she is currently studying medicine |
LifeIsGuhd:pls tell me in details....plssssss |
LifeIsGuhd:What does that mean? |
SUGARBEE: ![]() |
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Harbioollah:lemme be cautious with my language....dude it's a university of technology all their courses are 5yrs for Btech they even use "school" and not faculty....ensure you know something before you doubt |
osamaBUSH:I am a trained architect na bros...you want make them disown me here...although money is not enough |
henribj:bro I can't meddle into your family affairs naaaa....i guess you guys have a standard or principle you follow...I am not a contractor ![]() |
When My older cousin living abroad was pressurised not to marry a yankee or African American but a Naija babe. He felt bad for a while because he had to break up with his college girlfriend. The task of recommendation was thrown out to every member of the immediate family who was interested. (where I come, we marry via reference so as to ease inquiry into the lady/guy family) being my paddie beause he buys me stuff I joined the race and promised to help in the search days later I forgot everything. My Aunt (Mum's cousin) and my Mum were fed up because the guy often rejected some of the ladies they linked him with.It was my kid's brother's matric day so I went to stand by him. Looking around I saw so many pretty faces then my cousin came to mind...(although I am not attracted by pretty faces) so I didn't speak to any then something came to my mind I love intelligent girls (If you like look like 'ikwikwi' as long as you can best me in any logical reasoning and analysis I am already in love with you). So I went straight to the closest school (faculty) which was faculty of sciences, I started staring at the result boards looking for female brains...It was more difficult than I thought cos the school actually removed the names of the student only matric number and result chaiii....so I copied all the top mat numbers who were finalist from all the departments in the faculty. luckily as I was leaving the school (faculty) I noticed students exiting a lecture theatre so I asked a guy which department he said MCB 500level. I smiled brought out the matric numbers I copied from micro biology and was shocked the five top matric numbers I copied 3 were females. He told me their names nd pointed one to me. She wasn't elegant but not short so I knew she will do. I introduced myself we conversed and she accepted to take a shot with my younger brother nd I. Right there she even told my young bro "ensure you apply ur heart to studies alone"...that comment made me smile. I got her contact and she left. I travelled back, told my mum then called my cousin. My cousin asked how are you sure is not a flirt? I told him point blank, you can't be wayward and top ur department success requires discipline. My mum called his mum and they chatted with her on phone invited her and when we finally linked them. my cousin told the mum..."this surely will do"...while I was still serving, I attended the traditional weeding... trust me na I collected my percentage for services rendered... ...nothing is free |
willace:stop looking for pity....women are like fortune...They favour the bold nd strong hearted....not the nice nd pity seeking |
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Esthersblog:auntie esther fine write up but u know say 1/2 bread is better than puff puff unpeeled groundnut is better than kuli kuli....that babe wey be side chick wey them just dey manage am you wan lead am to protest....chaiii chaiii na fling them go fling am ooo....shey u no know say babe wey don be side chick know her value know say na bench she suppose dey.....Mikel fit go ginger mourinho for Chelsea? e no good to dey ginger person wey dey bench...na relegation e dey always end.....#walks out quietly.... |
Michellla:It is not clinging, It is not the Past. It is reality.... |
kay9:Raising your hands on your wife is Wrong.....applying wisdom on your wife is Right...They are two distinct terms |
GidisFinest:Na language u speak..? ko ye mi oooo |
delishpot:The wife will always think before she acts....Applying wisdom to the cheeks is how you terminate rebellion....You will never see someone of like mind even identical twins differ in attitude |
V0lv0:I smell u re a Ghanaian, hey when you talk about Nigerians you ought to be a more respectful. You talk as if life in Ghana is better of. When Nigerians discuss in a forum like this Ghanaians et al are supposed to be observing not commenting...you need to get skooled first by ur big brothers else.... ![]() |
missmary:missy someone said there is no sitting on the fence..... that it si either I or nay... |
The year was 2008, October to be precise I got admission into the university. On merit of course....but I became quite ill afterwards nd was contemplating perhaps I should differ the admission. Luckily I started responding to treatment and all hands were on deck to expedite the recuperating process. When I got back to school, I did the late reg. Though the department was kept apprised of my condition. No hostel for me Infact test don they boil in and with my condition (just recuperating) living alone off campus was out of the box.A distant family friend was contacted who was living close to campus he offered to let me in. There I met a Man. A real Man. I called him a real man because he was a no nonsense Man. He has a wife and a daughter. Mum was scared at first, so was I. The wife didn't like the Idea as did the wife's Mum who visits occasionally. But the Man was a man and often rose to the occasion. He can read in-between the lines and when there was rancour between the wife nd I after listening to both sides he will tell the wife you are at fault. When she complains about things in the house he investigates nd comes up with logical conclusions. The wife reported to the brother, when the told him all the wife said he told the brother "Live and let's Live, I won't support evil just to have peace". He had to tell the wife's mother point blank "If you keep taking sides without thorough examination you may have to stop visiting" He was a Boss though not Bossy. He trashed complaints like a real man. I Respected Him More Than My Dad. He applied wisdom to the cheeks of his wife one night then I felt it was high time I left. I told him the next morning about my plans and he laughed after dinner that night he said to be "Boy you Have to be a Man" sometimes everything is required to stay afloat. "Even if you lose everywhere do not lose at Home" "I had to hit my wife because she was becoming rebellious, do not treat rebellious act softly you kill it" "It is like cancer and begins with a threat"....Finally he told me when you get married someday " Talk to your wife if she misbehaved, empathise if she nags, walk away if she complains and strike if she Rebels"....Its been seven Years and the words keep ringing in my ears. Then I asked myself; what if Ademola was to be a weak man? That woman for use my eyes see fire....lol....But He was a Man...nd I respect Him even more than my DAD...in less than 8 months we spent together he taught me everything I knew about being a Man. When I came nd asked my dad how they both knew because obviously he can't be family I am from SS nd he is yoruba. He was just a casual friend back then that was all my dad said . I was shocked... I inscribed his words in my heart because.....He is Truly a Real Man... |
sanbells:auntie bells but e good make we dey talk true ooo....4get say na NL for real life u wan talk say u never use ur mouth talk before say that guy/lady no fine even if na for photo....ahhh Ahhhh God deyo lie lie is becoming unbearable o |
missmary:that means you are ![]() |
hyfr: looooool must the man be fat?....looooool......how did you know he was from congo? Nigerians we are all comedians. That is why I don't attend commedy shows anymore cos nija na 24hrs comedy even for work....hahahahaha |
bekayy:please can I get the H.R email? |
misspicy:wow...there they go again...people are entirely different...the best way to know a male virgin is if he goes for confession and confesses that he didn't do it or he has never done it before. If you look for signs and symptoms you go get grey beard like Aaron |
The truth is most ladies who read this nd criticised it would still imbibe it to their present feature.....they love to pretend they love to lie....see them saying "just for a guy" nd hissing deep down they do more...well that's the female life for you. |
Mznaett:no ooo I don't want to be a baby I want to be a bobo with swagiee oo |
Cadamlk:mambas are found in tropical rainforest zone which is a zone that cut across major part of naija so it's no surprise to find black mamba in naija |
Hannysmilez:It is quite patent that you really do have difficulty when it comes to comprehension...... |
starlingslimnet:You go sabi fail comprehension passage that year o |
misspicy:A guy will normally not want to express his emotions in words. It makes him look weak...only very few guys can |
First I do not approve of sex before marriage. I am a protagonist of "Total Abstinence". Apart from the testosterone and high libido stuff which pushes sexual drive in males there are some intrinsic reasons that are often neglected. Teens generally are experimental, so trying new things and wanting to be the alpha male constitutes a very large percentage of the reasons why teens engaged in sexual relationships. My focus is on Matured adults. I have had a couple of sexual relationships in the past (though not proud of it ) and then I try to evaluate my experiences based on the need for sex. I will like you to understand that in most Marriages, the male ask for sex quite often same as other sex permitted relationships. Some people may antagonise and say females feel just the same as male only that they are not bold enough to speak.I will like to trash the antagonism. We have seen scenarios where the wife controls the husband. Do you want to say that in such cases the woman will be too shy to demand for sex? Of course not but in that same scenario the frail man will still demand for sex more than the domineering female. The reason is simply emotion. Females have lots of ways of showing nd releasing their emotions and are even encouraged to do so. For instance I knew of an Ex who prefers cuddling to every other form of intimacy. But a guy cannot tell you cuddle him even if he is longing for it. A guy cannot cry publicly it is a taboo instead he prefers to pay a hooker and then vent all his frustration on her during sex. Guys cannot express how they feel because it is a form of weakness. Guys who are laconic are tagged "Matured". But talking is a way of letting out emotions. Those things that keeps ladies emotionally stable are taboos for male so the best way he let's out his emotions is Via sex......I do not encourage a guy who is emotionally down to seek for sex. What am advocating is for the ladies to try to make ur guy loosen up, that way he can share his emotions with you without opting for sex. That way you can have a sex free relationship...It is not by saying No Sex at the nascent stage of the relationship but my meticulously taking steps to manage his emotions. Am talking about a cool headed guy nd not you seeing a player who wants to kill and then you flaunt abstinence sign or you thinking you can manage his emotions....some of us are too damaged only God can heal those type not you....... |
Mznaett:auntie you are lying basic biology informed me that the ist three month is blood nd no foetus formed yet perhaps the woman only carries a baby at that weight for less than two months....ahhh auntie mnza...easy o..God is watching ooo... |





Infact test don they boil in and with my condition (just recuperating) living alone off campus was out of the box.
then you'll know the pains we go through. Women are heroes if U dnt know