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Asu015:
nice write up... bt they re lucky since they only offer 3 courses in 200L...... here in ABU is five......d ones mentioned with pharmacology and community medicine

Sure! N u must pass all,once u fail two, auto-repeat...
May God help us...

Beautiful post op,jazaakallah #impressive

AbdelKabir:
Toor..... Ba damuwa.....*hope I said that right*

Ya..lol. u sure did.

AbdelKabir:
Who knows shaykh Muhammad Yusuf?

Cc: friendNG, ssthorm, carinmom....

Gaskiya,Dont know him. Neva heard sef

Op.. go to d hosp. Run check ups. Check blood sugar levels
Hypertension
Intraocular pressure (glaucoma)
Hurry up

FriendNG:
Carinmom has translate it. look at them below.

Lol, hilarious. Hawka ne @pic

AbdelKabir:
I guess this means "may Allaah guide all Muslims"?

O yea,right

Allah ya shirye mu dukkan musulmai. Ameen.

Pls if u can,come ova to ABUTH in zaria here,there are excellent plastic surgeons here to take care of ds. Debridn n graftn,its gone far n deep. Its prolonged bed rest dts causing sores at dependent n pressure areas. Hes not bn managed well,d area has suffered low blood perfusion,its urgent to attend to it pls. D area cud b easily infected n its veerrrrrryyy painful.

snapscore:
^^
I don't think that's what he meant.

Ya i wud lov to undrstnd

AbdelKabir:
The books this hadeeth was mentioned like kitaab kabaa'ir of Adh-Dhahabi was mentioned without any chain, even when a shaafi'i scholar wanted to mention it, he said it should ne noted that all it said was "it was reported....." no chain, nothing! so in essense we are not sure if its authentic or not......people cared less about it since it wasnt attributed to the prophet...



the ones that said its compulsory said so, cuz stories like the one you brought has not been established to be authentic, since there is no chain....



This is true, one of the reasons why i believe its not compulsory is, you can't say its haraam for falling short at times.......The bold part is true to some % since there is a possibility of it being compulsory as some scholars stated, and the narration you brought is not established. barakallaahu feeki.

If u cud quote a hadith dat pointed dt out, wud b betr. In anyways since uve agreed its not obligatory as its not a sin,...i comment my reserve. N @bolded, are u saying dat cuz d stories dt are available hav no chain,so its definite dat d opposite is true?? . Is dt wat u mean?

It is reported that a man once came to Umar, the second Caliph, with the intention of bringing to his notice certain complaints he had against his wife. When he reached the door of Umars house, he heard the Caliphs wife railing against him....
Hearing this, he went back as he thought that the Caliph himself was in the same predicament and could, therefore, be hardly expected to set matters right for him.Umar, coming out of his house, saw the person going back. So he called him out and inquired as to the purpose which had brought him to his house. He said that he had come to him with some complaints against his wife, but turned back on finding that the Caliph himself was subject to the same treatment from his wife...
`Umar said to him that he patiently bore the excesses of his wife because she had certain rights over him; is it not true that she cooks my food, washes my clothes and suckles my children, thus reliving me of the necessity of employing a cook, a washerman and a nurse although she is not in the slightest degree responsible for this?
Not only that, I enjoy peace of mind on account of her and I am protected from committing the sin of adultery. In view of these advantages, I put up with her excesses. You should also do the same.

I wud like to believe this was narrated in all honesty,if the caliph said dese words den y r some scholars saying its obligatory,il need some enlightmnt on dis. Cuz eva since iv bn hearn live lectures,household chores hv nt bn made amongst obligations,an obligation means not doing it is HARAM. n d issue of a wife obeying her husband wen he asks ha to do things is in relation to d religion n not "wash my clothes" or "cook my food". Howeva it is naturaly expected for a wife or mom to cook,bt its not compulsory

Lmaooò

THE HYMEN IS MISUNDERSTOOD.
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The hymen is a piece of fragile flesh or membrane that covers part of the vaginal passage of a female.
There are many superstitious beliefs about hymens, in some cultures, after the night of consummation, the groom will gather the blood of the bride on a piece of cloth and show it to his family and relatives as a proof that he met her as a virgin.
This is a pathetic act which degrades and dishonours the bride and also exposes her privacy, her blood is meant to be disposed off, its not a kind of trophy to be displayed or celebrated with the whole world.
It falls under the prohibited exposure of intimate secrets.
The prophet sallalahu alayhi wassalam said,
Indeed, among the people who will be given severe punishments on the day of qiyamah is a man who approaches his wife intimately and exposes her secrets (mutafakun alayh)
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The believe that every virgin woman MUST bleed on the night of consummation has no islamic or medical back-up. Its a mere assumption of the ordinary people which men have taken so serious as if its the 6th pillar of islam.
The truth about hymen are as follows:
1)Some women have thick hymens while some are thin.
2)Some have large hymens while some have a small hymen that covers only a small portion of her vagina which may not easily be broken.
3)Hymens wear away on its own as a girl grows into a woman.
4)Hymens can wear off when a girl involves in rigorous sports like cycling, horse riding, racing events, high jumps, e.t.c
5)It can also wear away via illness or operation.
6)NOT ALL WOMEN HAVE A HYMEN.
(Source: british medican journal)
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So the categories of virgins likely to bleed are:
1) Virgins with thich hymens that hardly wear away
2)Virgins with large hymens that covers a large portion of the v-tract
3)Virgins who marry early, because a 16yrs old bride is likely to bleed than a 25yrs old bride, because hymens wear away with time.
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However, the major cause of bleeding in the night of consummation, may NOT be because the hymen has been broken, but because the suitor may be too rough or eager in the act, so she incures sores and injuries, so when the blood flows, they both think its the hymen. This is also the same reason why women who are raped bleed, because the rapist is usually rough and hasty.
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The truth is, breaking the hymen in most cases does not cause bleeding, if not, why is it that the girls who lose their hymens via sport or illness never bleed?
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So there is almost no yardstick to determine if a woman is a virgin just as there is no yardstick to know if a man is a virgin. There are cases where a lady may fornicate several times yet her hymen will still be intact, because she either has a small hymen or an extremely thick one that can't be easily broken.
So people should stop attaching unnecessary importance to bleeding on the night of marriage.
This is usually the origin of many marital problems among 21st century couples, once the woman doesn't bleed, the man accuese her of lying and fornication, he loses all respect for her and forces her to tell him how she lost it.
She may then be forced to forge a story or expose a past sin which she has repented from.
Your husband has NO RIGHT to ask you for any sinful past you had.
The prophet sallalahu alayhi wassalam said, avoid the filth which Allah has prohibited, but whoever has involved in it, should conceal it with the concealement of Allah (as saheehah 663)
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Imam malik narrated that:
A suitor wanted to marry a woman but the woman's brother said:
"She has committed zina in the past". So the suitor left.
When the issue got to Umar, he summoned the woman's brother and hit him with a stick and said,
"Was there any need for you to expose her by mentioning her past sin?" (Al muwatta 28/ 1148)
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Dear suitor, if your wife told you she is a virgin, believe it.
Did you marry her
because of her deen and ahlaq or because of her blood?
How many are marriages that got broken after a few days simply because the bride didn't bleed?
Her blood na blood of jesus? There is more to a woman than mere blood, concentrate on her piety, you have no business with her blood. The companions had no special attachment to the bleeding of their wives, infact they used to marry widows and divorcees without caring about blood. So who is your salaf on this? Lol
You have your own sinful past and dirty secrets too which you are hiding, so why force her to expose her own?
It is sufficient for you that she has repented before you married her.
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A virgin is not a woman whose hymen is intact, but a woman who has never had any form of copulation before.
So enjoy your honeystar and your new marriage with your bride, and do not ruin your marriage with mere suspicions and fights, *do not create a problem where there is no problem.*
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Origin:
A lady gave a recipe for tiger nuts, coconut and debino (dates). Crush, blend together with water. Seive and Serve chilled.

Good for your heart, your sex drive and skin.

I've been on cloud nine. I don't seive mine though. Just love it crunchy.

Lol..dts recipe 4 "kunun aya",a healthy northern drnk!!

Empiree:
Them no slap for face in 21st century no more. Them broke bottle for face like these


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=grrgkJsik7s

And this one's trying to practice alwala and wa bara but he got his face ransacked with bottle


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hoi5EbxurzE

Hahahhahaha...dese guys r soo sooo hilarious #NoChill

Nike is jst promoting dier products by considern religion,n ds is a plus. Weather u r covered up islamicaly or not is left to d woman n not nike,howeva,ds is "pro" thinking n is good. U cn b covered up apropriately,den use ur nike head cover...its as simple!

Lol....MeDICINE all d waaaayyy

I love sports!! Go "Nike"

Hollalek:
the population of females is more than males...even if each man should marry 50ladies each there will still be more of unmarried ladies cus d rate at which guys die everyday cannot be account for... example is the soldier on war, forces. what Emir wants to engage on is a very good one

No sir..it is not tru dat dere are more males dan females nairaland men keep saying dis. The no of men ready to marry are less dan d women ready to marry. Bt males r more on earth

olasaad:
I married a man when he was poor. We live in a small house. We have four kids all born to poverty. You struggle and I do so with you.

After the long hardship Allah later accept our prayers and bless our home.

The next thing my husband did is marry another wife. Do you think I will be happy? NO.

Time goes on as I have accept my faith by respecting the will of Allah.

Then now my husband new wife is pregnant for the first time. My husband buy me a car and now he wants to make it equal and bought a car for his new wife too and that is how everything now go on after.

Tell me any woman that we be happy with this.

Salaam. No "human" wud b happy to feel unappreciated...wat happened to u,is as good as a woman dat was wt a man wen things were rosy bt left him d moment things turned thorny....,In islam a woman cn leave a man dt dusnt meet her needs anymre,fo a man dt is capable of meetn ha needs,it is not haram,n wudnt b a sin upon her,bt most folks noising bout polygamy wud find such ruling distasteful!! But u see, dwelling in tots like dse wud nly make u wallow in bitterness more,it cant b easy..rada channel ur tnkn towards earning rewards frm Allah,uv bn wt hm thru thin,n u wud b rewarded fo it,see d good in ds,cuz d rewards is smtn d nu wife wudnt get!! nw dt tnz r good stil strive fo more rewards..dunt dwell in tots lyk dt,it wud dampen ur mood continously n u wud mis out on oda tns..May Allah reward u.Ameen.

Salaam...i keep readn folks on nairaland say dere are more males dan females...n somehow i read n see d exact opposite in oda places. If anyone cud help with proof ild b glad. Cuz dre seem to b more males dan females on earth.

N relating d issue of population to d marriage issue ,wat seems more obvious is : "d number of men ready for marriage arent as high as women ready for marriage" its not d nos of males on earth dat are less, dere are more males on earth n i stnd to b corrected

Lol..apparently u tnk women urinate thru dier vaginas?? Hahaha..lwkmd!! U neva sabi sha

kayzat:
You can identify a girl who is a virgin by
the way she urinates. If she urinates and
the sound goes like Tiziiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii know
she is virgin. But if she urinates like
shwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa as if you have
switched on bathroom showers, my brother,
my good brother I have a story to tell you

Lol..apparently u tnk women urinate thru dier vaginas?? Hahaha..lwkmd!! U neva sabi sha



NB: To the frustrated souls crying over this joke my advice to you lots is to just do the needful and end it. What I wrote above is just a joke and it will remain what it is so nobody should transfer their domestic troubles on me. Cheers

Man or woman..nobody finds it cool sharing dier spouses....

Barbaric act!!!! Who knows?? Mayb she was truly inocnt sef....

AbdelKabir:
This is nice, especially the emboldened..

I have one principle, generally I dont like doing unto others what i cannot accept and i don't like it when you do to me a thing (i know)you can't accept.

O yea. Its a gud principle 2 live by...

U cn imagne...now dese men want a woman to work wia she gets paid?? Stayn @home takin care of a bby is work as wel,its jst an unpaid job. Its d responsibility of d man to take care of d home,wedr she has money or not. U all shudnt make it sound like its an obligatn upon d woman to work fo money wen she has a husbnd. N im nt sayn she shudnt hustle fo money bt idealy...its a mans troble to do dat in d fam. N his money shud b diers....
Dont switch d roles,funy enuf d same men wud begn to rant bout "not being a woman" wen dey r axd to help wt chores @home

Lol..so tru oo
U must also b "lysed" n "percussed" by ur snr colleagues...

Jst noticed ds thread...quite a funy one. Evry1 complainin bout d opposit gender... D Marriage topic neva gets boring n old. "Staying married"is what is..n not getn married.Ova time, it'l begin to dawn on u,n u wonder how u missed d bd attitudes of ur spouse bfre marryn dem. Den d woman begns to b not as "beautiful" n d man begins to b not so "caring & nice" as bfre now. Arguments n quarrels,silent treatmnt,resentment....Den if he can, he resolves to mayb takin anoda wife,..n she,on d oda end, fgets she eva got married. N d story chnges
Lets b who we wud want to marry...#ChangeBeginsWithYou

Lol..lies for Africa..