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Messenger of Allaah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) came out to a circle of his companions and said: “Why are you sitting here?” They said: We are sitting to remember Allaah and praise Him for having guided us to Islam and blessed us with it. He said: “By Allaah, are you only sitting for that purpose? They said: By Allaah, we are only sitting for that purpose. He said: “I did not ask you to swear because I am accusing you, but Jibreel came to me and told me that Allaah was boasting of you

from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) who said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “No people gather in one of the houses of Allaah, reciting the Book of Allaah and studying it together, but tranquillity will descend upon them, mercy will overshadow them, the angels will surround them and Allaah will mention them to those who are with Him.”

Op meant supplications,du'a ...dt isnt an innovation cuz its congregational......,i knw i lrnt alot dt way too
Allah knws best

Na wa ooo... all dese pple axn u tu divorce ha? Or threaten to divorce ha , shudnt reely b like ds fa! Its soo UNISLAMIC!!
Thank God most folks r sugestn dialogue..
D prophet said 3 things r serz wen serz n 3 tns r serz wen joking:marriage, divorce,manumission (slavery)
My bro dnt threaten ur wife wt divorce or at worse divorce ha all togeda...talk to ha,does she evn knw hw u feel bout ha? Let ha knw tns aint ryt n if u at fault b humble enuf to hear ha out,dnt push ha 2 tnkn u want to divorce ha,it wudnt help,or u want anoda wife,wudnt help...it wud nly du u gud if ur actual intent is to leave ha,bt it wudnt win ha back...wa salaam

LuvU2:
proudly an exception
I love my men good and well mannered

God bless ur brains my dear....very stupid post by op

NevetsIbot:
I was you know... Errm ''chyking'' one babe lately. Nine months, I was on her. Not that I was foolish, i felt she could hold a long lasting relationship (which was what I wanted). Nonetheless,I was looking out for any other reasonable date. I'm not interested in just sleeping with girls or dating shabby and nonsenstical girls. I've always admired long relationships.

So, She fell. She really did. But she was an outspoken, egoistic, judgemental,critical, a bodacious critic. She would always find a fault in everything. Always wanna advise you on everything (even tho she knows clearly well that you know what you're doing). Even in areas she knows little about, she'll sha want to be right. Like sometime ago, shared her an excerpt from the book I was writing, Next thing she did was advising me on who my audiences shud be cos of the vocabulary in the excerpt. Me wey dey write book, she wan tell me say I no sabi which type of people I wan address?

''You can't always be right'' - told her that several times. She always wants to be in the ''right''. Doesnt wanna be wrong. And boy! Can she evade questions. She's compassionate, yeah, sure! But that leadership vibe in her is just too much. And she'd always find an excuse or explanation for everything she says or does (no wonder her ex left her ''nigga couldnt handle more criticism'' ) Being a PUA, Ive learnt that there are some girls that just don't succumb to authority, and she's one.


Now,she wants to date when I'm off her. No way! No one wants an I-too-know wife of gf. So ladies. Overwiseness doesn't pay at all.

Overwiseness dusnt pay women bt does men? Lol boi....u also hv issues apparently,ur jst 20...u stil hv to grow. M nt sayn she's ryt bt...u hv egoistic issues goin on. N du u want a bimbo fo a wyf? Smh

lomaxx:
Good evening everyone.

Straight to the point. In all my years of med school, I must say this is the only place I've both been appreciated for my efforts into ensuring we all succeed. One would assume that the medical students in my school would be primary beneficiaries, but that's story for another day.

Some weeks ago, I discovered some textbooks in Internal Medicine and Surgery that will certainly make your journey in Clinicals very easy. They're very straight to the point and contain relevant details that will be required of you. This would be the only place I will give those books to anyone.

Send me a pm using your mail to request for them, and I'll forward it to those interested.

Helo,pls...meerah400@gmail.com,tnx

Y du pple keep lying jst so to exploit pple??
No cream or what hav u wud clear stretch marks y'all shud knw wat it is in d frst place:it is a tear in d dermal layer of ur skin due to rapid growth...it cnt b cured by rubbin creams....though dere are claims dt aplicatn of collagen n vit.A&E rich agents help,dese wudnt make much progres esp. Wen d marks r old.
D one way to effectively reduce its visibility medically,is by laser surgery!!!!....
SHI KENAN

NigerianSHA:
"American with Nigerian Heritage"

How will she find a good husband when she's making money than many of these retarded_ Black men out there.


I can't marry someone that makes more money than me because if you making $1m a year it's highly likely you will use Feminism to Cover up for your stupidity_ and arrogance.

Lwkmd.....hypothetically speaking,if she earns up to $1m,good husbnds normally earn below dt abi?....na wa oooo
Guy,dere r wretched men out dere dt wunt make good husbnds n also dere r maadly rich men out dere dt wud make good husbnds n vice versa

[quote author=NigerianSHA post=48484367][b][i][color=#770077]"American with Nigerian Heritage"

How will she find a good husband when she's making money than many of these retarded_ Black men out there.


I can't marry someone that makes more money than me because if you making $1m a year it's highly likely you will use Feminism to Cover up for your stupidity_ and arrogance.



Lwkmd.....hypothetically speaking,if she earns up to $1m,good husbnds normally earn below dt abi?....na wa oooo
Guy,dere r wretched men out dere dt wunt make good husbnds n also dere r maadly rich men out dere dt wud make good husbnds n vice versa

lomaxx:
Good evening everyone.

Straight to the point. In all my years of med school, I must say this is the only place I've both been appreciated for my efforts into ensuring we all succeed. One would assume that the medical students in my school would be primary beneficiaries, but that's story for another day.

Some weeks ago, I discovered some textbooks in Internal Medicine and Surgery that will certainly make your journey in Clinicals very easy. They're very straight to the point and contain relevant details that will be required of you. This would be the only place I will give those books to anyone.

Send me a pm using your mail to request for them, and I'll forward it to those interested.

Meerah400@gmail.com

Lwkm..."unchained mad dog"

druxy:
cool. but still find no lots hard to believe esp.64
modified: how was no 99 proved

Lol in ur mouth alone dere r more microbes dn humans on earth..beliv it

Ds is fp worthy...

Contact17:
I never suspected that you were a woman. I was quite impressed that a man could have such views on having multiple wives.

Lol sister...its anoda woman oo,nt a man[color=#000099][/color]

Contact17:
I never suspected that you were a woman. I was quite impressed that a man could have such views on having multiple wives.

Lol sister...its anoda woman oo[color=#000099][/color]

lexiconkabir:
What if i told you i knew that you are a sister? It was because i knew(guessed actually), that was why i read it from the wrong perspective, i took it like you were trying to deny the permissibility polygamy...

I jst knew u wia curious bout d gender dts y i fed it to u,i knew it wallahi,dt ur assumptns were "jst anoda woman sayn no to polygamy",n dt was wat prompted u to tnkn i was against ur post,u clearly made ur emotions cloud ur judgemnt. It reely shudnt matr wat gender u belong. No one shud selectivly root fo wat favors d gender dey belong to..if its d trut agree to d trut,practise wat is ryt,n live to make others happy fo only den wud tru happiness reach u...

lexiconkabir:
Lol, bro/sis i am sorry if i sounded harsh, i read your post from the wrong perspective, i really I'm sorry, jazakAllaah for your beneficial input, jum'ah mubarak!

Jumuah mubarak to u too,m glad u understnd dt i wasnt refutn ur post...n lastly,m a WOMAN ooo,so its sister..

olarid01:
You are both correct. we Muslims of today tend to focus on sunnah that benefit us and leave the rest unpractised

Exactly...may Allah make understndn easy for us all,ameen.
Jumuah mubarak

Subhanallah brother i wasnt refutn any of ur statements,u sound really angered. None of wat u posted is rong or a sin or against islam n none of wat i posted at all was rong eida.
M sorry if u felt like i was attackn u or smtn,my reply wasnt about ur post,bt i was reely jst statn d obvious practically,ders a difrnce betwn theoretical n practical facts,...i wasnt rootn fo men to go in n marry all widows or sumtn i was axn wat went rong wt dt sunnah,ders no sin watsoeva dnt b like dt pls. .ur statements r corect,so r mine n m sayn lets b practical..
Dere r more women dn men in ds part of d world,bt d women entail "divorcees" n "widows" statisticaly...b frank brother most men dnt want to practise dt sunnah n dts all m sayn,no BEEF!!
No one shud b repulsed by d facts brother..maa salaam

Absolutely true,islam is a very practical religion,a couple of decades bk,dere reely wasnt nytn like DNA tests. Bt one aspect dt baffles me bout polygamy n hw most muslim men percieve it to b is for mere sexual pleasure n atempt to 2fulfil sexual fantasies. Islam is impeccable by its laws n rules,bt y du pple manipulate issues to dier own satisfactn? D verse in suratul-nisa was revealed afta d batle of uhud wia many men were slayed n dere were countless widows wt chldren,polygamy became an option n dere were hardly ny singles bk den,matr of fact it was abnormal to b wtout a spouse regardles of bin widowed or divorced..
M a muslim,iv met many polygamous men bt m yet to meet one dt marries a widow n takes up ha kids as hs responsibility feesabeeliLlAh,talk mre of a divorcee...deres so much castigatn,descriminatn, n instigatn arnd dat.wat hapnd to all of dt sunnah,subhanallah!!
May Allah expand our understndn in its depth,ameen.
N to dose pple whu wud opt to use d hadith narrated by jabir on d advantage of marryn a virgin,it myt interest dem to knw dt jabir was a 17yr old teenager dt married a matron dt hs spent decades on earth,nyone wud encourage a boy of dt age to get a virgin...Maa salaam

Lol...dream-
wife possesses all dese qualities,wen u find ha b rest assured ur asleep!! cuz shes a dream-wife. Lets b real,u cnt hav it all

onelife97:
This is the known best way to teach a woman that believe she can use sex as a weapon against a man.

My wife has bn starving me of sex after she delivered our 1st child abt 5yrs ago.In fact she wouldn't want to SLP with me at all.But ever since I was caught redhanded abt my affair with other lady,na she dey pursue me now with unending sex begging me every time not to leave her.Calling me every hour of the day asking abt me how many day is going and all.

My lesson,don't give any woman to lord over you abt when and where not to have sex.A woman should bear it in mind that she is getting married to a man and every duty inclusive.

Salaam...to d best of my knwledge, it is tru that it is nt amongst d wife's obligation in islam to cook or do housechores generally.. It is only seen as ihsan(good deed out of d will of ha hrt) n in d sight of Allah if she dusnt do dem,ders no sin upon ha. Bt among ha obligations is to ansa ha husbnds cal.. So frankly,if she saves energy sparn housework,she shud ansa n if she has to work he shud b considerate