₦airaland Forum

2real52:
Boss, if you don't mind, take a walk down to your ancestral history, you may have come from the lineage of housemaids or househelps.

Infact, this very househelp that he slept with is someone whose shoe lace you can never untie. She no be your level. So, next time you want to look down on anyone, think twice. Peace

Wow wow wow! Bro you sound like you know more about the househelp in question. Please avail us some more insight to this if you do!

This is a sensitive case! People shouldn't trifle with others burning ordeal. She needed advice that's why she's asking.
OP, I think with what you've stated, it appears there's been a kind of break in communication between you and your husband ever before you noticed the girl. If not, you could've called your husband to understanding on the need to jointly request the girl to provide some of her relatives contacts, including her parent's friends or even church.
Again, you allowed the girl to become over relaxed in your house without as much as questioning her and knowing a lot of details about her beyond what your husband had fed you with. It does appear like there's been a feeling of not being comfortable with your husband or should I say lack of camaraderie in this case, thus you avoided the girl so as not to cause a rift between you both, thereby allowing the issue to eventually conflagrate beyond your control.
The evergreen saying that "A stitch in time saves nine" should have been applicable. Calling your husband's family to attention, even your family Pastor and some of his close and respected confidants before he eventually eloped, would have been impactful.
At this stage, it doesn't appear you know where exactly he's hiding. I will advise you to bring this to his family's notice and those he respects and respond to, with this you can take it up from here.

At such a young age as this?? What devilry?

It's coming. The opprobrium the Taliban's take over of government has generated within Afghanistan itself speaks volumes.

Though they may eventually suppress, huntdown and kill many masses, there will be a strong shift soon either in their policy or the global world towards them. They just have to reorganise or they lose the new found Fame and prominence gained. Not with thousands of Afghans running to the Airport and wanting a way out.

kaycshine:
This is more like trying to remove a speck from someone's eyes whereas you have a log of wood in your own eyes.

But don't we all agree the guy has learnt one or two things from this somewhat jive he posted now? He has suddenly gone mute, probably ruing his misdemeanors at present.

I think he's earn more critics to himself than friends. He'll learn to treat others better in life. This is the reason why it's posted. At least we can all correct a perditious minded soul.

RevolverOcelot:
Why is this crap on front page?

It ought to be...! As you can confirm, it's setting the buzz with divergent and indignant opinions already.

wink2015:
You call a girl a public toilet ?

What about you?

ARE YOU A SEMINARIAN OR A PRIEST that had not DO THE DO ! with other girls

Which girl dey town that is as clean as the pope ?

Hmmmm Even Pope bin no get history?? Everyone has got history in one way or the other.

It's so easy. They're looking for genuine occassion to get him repatriated and be given the Saddam treatment.

The Taliban may enjoy it all while it lasted.

This one that's just in the police station for mere formality with that smiling face amidst relaxion on the chair, while her victim is there nursing pains and discomfort from this heavy lashing.

God dey

This is despicable. How can you assume everyone in a vehicle is armed and should be gunned down at sight of the oncoming vehicle.

Again, our security officials making indiscriminate massive arrest and torture whereby many Innocents are killed is uncalled for.

Some OC's in volatile locations have deployed better means of arresting situations like this before the vehicles get closer. All passengers are dropped some meters before getting to security posts, raising their hands and filing past while the drivers are frisked and later joined the passengers that have successfully passed through security.

This might be time consuming but safer for both security men and commuters. It helps against indiscriminate shootings and wanton arrests.

RIP to the dead.

nrexzy:
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For one to be recommended for a govt appointment, some criteria must be met.

Certainly not discharge certificate criterion on government patronage of my consultancy firm! Criterion like having discharge certificate before I can offer my services when I am not an aspiring employee is not part of a possible criteria. At least this was what the poster intended to be, a consultant in the future.
If I'm going to have my private practice, do government need my NYSC certification to patronize me Better don't get it twisted bro.
Things are being run beyond this perception you're looking at. I mean run legally.

Newboss:
You can't even compare Nairaland with Twitter. Nairaland, in one day you can get 1000 views. On Twitter, if you can get 1000 view a day, you must be an influencer. Those are two very different platforms. Nairaland is way ahead of Twitter in terms of community.

So you are looking for sweet replies abi? Dey there make pant dey wear you. Real life no get sweet replies o. You even lucky say you get people for Nairaland wey get time to lash you when you loose guard. The replies on this thread are very reasonable and real.

Epic!
So much on point.

nrexzy:
A lot of insults from peeps above.... He simply asked for your opinion not for u guys to insult his girl... Can even see a myopic female insulting her...

Fact if ur above 30, automatically u would be exempted..

2ndly she and her uncle are right.... Without NYSc appointments into government position is difficult...
E. G the case of former minister of finance(Kemi)..

In conclusion,
So she has ur best interest @ heart... Better u just do it than to be found wanting....
Even PMB had a waec issues though his classmates came openly and the exam board yet people still have issues with that, now imagine an ordinary citizen.

In my own opinion if ur above 30 then u can live ur life and follow ur woman.

But the guy stated he's going into Private practice and envisaged even government patronising his consultancy soon.

If that guy is released, he'd wished he's still kept in the prison. The adherents will go for his neck, so doubtful he will be spared at least not in places like Kano.

He shouldn't have said such about the Prophet whom he knew followers don't take jokes against him lightly.

Mayng01:
I wish we could have this kind of law in Nigeria against the polithiefians

It's easier said than apply judiciously. That's when you will see some cabals using the law against other political adversaries at will, thereby losing its purpose. They will muscle the court to sentence and execute that clog in their wheel of operation. Even colleagues at work and business partners won't spare their targets as well.

The tool of Legality is a willing machinery that can be used in versatile ways. Either rightly or wrongly, people manipulate it all over. Many have been killed innocently on the guise of upholding legalised killings even in US.

Elliot2:
This is what happened to me, they wiped my account from around 2am to 6am. This had put me in great debt because I couldn't pay back the loans I took from other apps.

This is terrible.

God . Which kain thing be this for this country eeeh?

If black man is given One tenth opportunity over his fellow black, he will use it to the fullest crude level.

Jamesbiodun:
We know that but when an ethnic group believe they are superior and kill the other anyhow, nothing will surely work

Nothing will ever work! Very right.

It's pitiable that our leaders know the right things but will always shy from same. They're good at wonderful rhetorics when elections are coming.

Then let's do the right things.

Except we're deceiving ourselves, there's staggering inequality in Nigeria. How can we compare ourselves to many great nations of diverse interest when there's no justice to the aggrieved segments?

Someone here talking about tolerance! This is like putting the cart before the horse. Tolerance will work when there's even and judicial distribution of common and natural wealth a la governance.

Right things first, constitute a true and genuine reconciliation that will touch every section that have been overlooked, marginalised and maligned over the decades. Now be judicious in allocations of resources and the parameters to which the resources and the entities in those locations are being used. No be monkey work baboon dey chop kind of.

Then be a team player, let there be power sharing in equitable format irrespective of political affiliations. There and then you can begin to equate Nigeria with other great Nations of diverse cultures that manage their diversity brilliantly.

"Nigeria we hail thee!

MufasaLion:
I doubt if he's innocent

The deepest of the secret lies in the dark. Oft times, we've heard cases of drug syndicates placing drugs in the possession of innocent commuters.

Not ruling it out that someone from a first world can't peddle drugs, they often do too. However, there are so many victims of circumstances. Just imagine the case of the Nigerian diplomat, if he had been an ordinary citizen, he might have been implicated for offences not committed and of course, many Nigerians would have celebrated "another captured drug Baron" to face the executioner.

MufasaLion:
Damn!
You left a flourishing nation with good things for a country that frowns against drugs.

If citizens of developing nations like Nigeria are complaining about unemployment, poverty, etc. What complaints do you have? You got an opportunity and you blew It! Deal with It!

Honestly, looking at the way you pointed his "no justification" approach to the crime he committed here, it's a let down to his people.

But then, one can still argue that these countries China and Indonesia, even Malaysia etc that all operate capital punishment, can easily pin anyone down to settle many scores either diplomatic or otherwise. We shouldn't rule out setup too.

He might just be innocent but only God truly knows.

CheedyJ:
His name is lu feng Dong.. if you need his contact, holla

. That is deep.
The guy is a freshfaced operator. Those guys heart is behind their back.

A CANADIAN man is set to join hundreds of shackled inmates on China’s degrading death row as they await agonising lethal injections or firing squads.

Robert Schellenberg, believed to be 38, from Abbotsford, British Columbia, was detained by the Chinese authorities for drug smuggling and after a retrial he had been condemned to die.

Schellenberg. who maintains his innocence, has been locked up in China since 2014, when he was accused of attempting to smuggle 225kg of methamphetamine to Australia.

In December 2018 he was sentenced to 15 years but after he appealed a retrial was ordered and the Dalian intermediate people’s court instead ordered his execution.
It comes as human rights organisation Amnesty International has branded China the world’s top executioner.

Schellenberg and others facing death are sent to detention centres where they await their fate on death row in tiny overcrowded cells or in solitary confinement.

According to the blog Dui Hua, those on death row wait just two months before being put to death compared to an average of 15 years in the United States. It says the doomed prisoners are degraded by being shackled at all times by their hands and feet.

Cell trustees help them to eat and go to the toilet and strip them ready for execution after which the chains are removed and cleaned.

Firing squads and lethal injections are two favourite methods of the death penalty used by China. Killer jabs are sometimes administered in one of the state’s mobile “execution vans”. Convicts are said to be loaded into a van and strapped to a table where they administered the lethal injection.

These vehicles were introduced in 2003 and although there have been reports that they are no longer used, Amnesty has said this is not the case.

With secrecy surrounding the Chinese death vans, victims are not often named due to the speed in which they are tried and executed.

One of the only victims named as an example was Mafia kingpin Liu Yong, who was given a lethal injection after being tried for wilfully causing harm to others, despite claims his confession was extracted under torture.

Ms Ong told The Sun Online although the Chinese government claims that less people are being executed – this is likely not the case.
Organs are then believed harvested from executed prisoners without any permission for use in medicine and scientific experiments.

Amnesty International has named China as the world’s worst executor by a large margin – with its body count believed to be larger than the rest of the world’s combined total of 657.

While other nations had total figures, China’s shadowy death penalty system left the human rights group only able to offer a grim estimate of “thousands”.

Amnesty’s China researcher Kai Ong told The Sun Online how China often holds mass rallies to announce people being sentenced to death in medieval-style public trials. Ms Ong said: “The Chinese government still sees the use of the death penalty as an effective deterrent to crimes.

“Each June, local governments often hold mass sentencing rallies, in which students, teachers and the public are invited to witness the court handing down death penalty to individuals convicted of drug-related crimes!

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fuckingAyaya:
OMoluwabi's re coming

Coming indeed

The government will need to make that place cleaner and attractive so as to attract all categories of people.

joedave:
This is quite impressive. If that axis can be utilised optimally for full commercial transportation within the annexes, it would be a lot saner.

The posing problem may be maintenance of the structures and largely security of commuters now that it's starting to operate long distance destinations which will attract both low and high class travellers.

Kudos still.

Oh yes. That place need sufficient security not just money making venture alone.

It appears the full impact of the iconic Oshodi Interchange which was largely constructed by the Ambode administration of Lagos is now beginning to blossom and is being maximized to its full potential.

This is because luxury bus operators have now began operations from the interchange.

According to the company in charge of the gigantic transport infrastructure, Luxurious Buses have now started operations to the East from the Oshodi Interchange today. Thus our eastern brothers and sisters who hitherto had to take buses from different areas of the state can now converge at the interchange as a central take off point for these bus operators.

Pictures of the take off shows passengers booking their seat tickets and the buses all lined up, ready to take these passengers to the far east right from the heart of Lagos.

Below are photos of the interchange already showing bustling activities
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Drsnives:
God forgive me

It's good to be penitent after realizing one's jive. We all can go overboard every now and then.

Dust off the Ashes...Your sins are now forgiven

Drsnives:
Make the thing reach Nigeria na

Bros, where are you typing from : Are you a Ghanaian or South african? I'm sure if you're a Nigerian, even if you wish everyother person dead, you won't wish your household same. What about your own loved ones...at all at all you will still have one or two loved ones.

Watch out what you wished others bro!

May God repose their souls. RIP gallant men.

Raging wild fire can be so devastating and uncontrollable. Brings to reminder same in Australia that lasted several weeks.

Raydos:
The fact that Messi has broken all Ronaldo fans point of argument in the pace of 2months
Winning Copa America and moving to another club!!
NEXT POTENTIAL ARGUMENT: "Messi can't fúçk his wife twice a day"

This one na opor!

Parisian:
The bolded says it all - quick dispatch of justice.

Many if these ruthless killers are unapologetic about it. You see some of them laughing at the victims families in court during sentencing saying they'd do it again and again.

If there was some form of inhumane punishment attached to violent crimes they'd think twice before committing such heinous crimes and crime rates will reduce.

Absolutely, it surely will reduce with stringent punishment.