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Explain to the man same way you have done here, marriage aint something to rush into just like that biko

MrCork:
. .ok...so u want her parent to giv u a house before marry her?...r u a golddigggger?....... YOU HOMEBASE PEOPLE MENNNN!!! (no ofeeensse)

Mr Cork won't kill person with laughter, the dude says he's abroad and you calling him home based

Hehehe, where did IKIRI crawl out from, this short nigga should just go and pack one side because whether he makes sense or not Ohakim is nothing but a wicked fellow

Definitely spiritual

sinaj:

well at least the northerner type is better than contracting STD cus u practising withdrawal technique

Does this ever work? I think in the end you end up with a gold digger or a runs girl

sinaj:
na those ones wey fit tear in d line of action

u haff spoil finish

sinaj:
u still de use aboki condom

hehehehe, which one be northerner condom again

Op with regards your no 1, the reality is most young guys will get a not so high paying job immediately after graduation to hold body and soul together and will most likely remain in their parents homes...are you saying they are also not allowed to date just cus they still stay with their parents?

sarahatuba:
wow! im suprised ooooo.......and people still get STDs

they are practising just as the op wrote "withdrawal technique" so what do you expect

sarahatuba:
50naira?? are you serious

yup last i checked anyways

When the time is right both of you will know and trust me you both won't be able to stop yourselves

The dude seems like an endless attention seeker in my opinion

Could probably be the ladies natural pose??

@op no 10 she believes in balance and is a "friend" best point..nice one

The figures look inflated what with all them contraceptive drugs young ladies carry in their bags these days

Ignore her she'd get tired in the end unless of course you still enjoy the attention from her

ChappyChase:
Why big fat no? I have seen couples who met in the club and did it on the spot, and they latter got married... So my bro you never know..

that couple would have to be like 1 in a gazillion I tell you, personally s3x on the first date is an absolute NO

Very good question

Condoms are still 50 naira right?

I really did finish reading that *whew* @op its all up to you to decide, personally I'd say scram cus of too much baggage and drama from her side but who the shoe fits right?

A big fat NO

Mzflexydeeva:
yeah

so the whole "love" charade just takes care of everyone i guess...she gets to milk the "mugu" and he gets to well you know what he gets

Mzflexydeeva:
hmmmmmmmm

yea true, i mean on one hand you making this crazy plans for a future for you guys and all she wants is to use u for what she can get outta the "arrangement" and scram

Mzflexydeeva:
thank U 4. Ur sincerity jare. @ some point a lot of guys under the umbrella of love for victims @ dat point they are controlled by their feelings. They hardly see anything wrong in this case. If the girl. Love u, you are lucky but if she doesn't you've just been tagged maga

that's why you don't blame most guys who just go in do the deed and leave, too many bad memories to make same mistake all over again

Mzflexydeeva:
u can say that again

but to be honest at some point when u head over heels with someone you must consciously or unconsciously do one of those things as a guy as much as we would like to admit we don't, if you truly are into her, you will do one

Mzflexydeeva:
funny thing is guys caught in this web see nothing wrong with it. For them it's love

its just plain weird that's what but hey love is blind right?

temitemi1:
#BABAONECHANCE... GEJ my HERO! FAYOSE my ROLE MODEL!!

been away a while i see you've been re-programmed that's nice and this one doesn't sound as dumb as your last command

This one pass mumu na, such dude is obviously been controlled either manually or otherwise

Probably because "most" men begin to look for fresh meat after their wife delivers hence the attitude of the ladies towards their bodies or you think wives don't know when their husbies are getting it outside

Guess she's been getting it pretty good from her new man