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TV/Movies › Re: Life Lessons From Tyler Perry's 'Acrimony'. by stanoc: 9:36pm On Aug 31, 2018

Lana1:
Yes. He begged her the first time.
And during the divorce(which was even because of Mel's sister insisting on it) and despite the way Mel's family always looked down on him in a condescending manner he begged her again. Yet Mel no gree. Even after he made it, and he went back to her, Mel didn't even let him land. She was already saying both of them were done and even went as far as saying "he borrowed a suit to impress her".

And after that, why didn't Mel also try to fight for him? It wasn't only Robert's responsibility to try to fight for the relationship considering Mel was the one who ended the marriage over nothing in the first place.
She sef should ve put in some effort to win her ex-husband back(even if he was already engaged to someone else). Instead she went to him and tried to win him back with sex like a common prostitute. And when that backfired, and she should ve approached the matter like a sane human being, she instead lost her shît and started harassing the couple.

If the roles were reversed and Robert was the one in Mel's shoes from the beginning, and he later acted out like Mel did, i'm sure u'd ve been still being pro-Mel.

First time Diana didn't even know Robert was in a relationship. And the 2nd time they met again, Diana didn't want to have anything to do with Robert unless his wife was present.
Soall that talk of Diana living someone else's life is Fallacy. Robert is a very simple man. If he sets out to do something in a specific way, no matter how long it takes he'll do it that exact same way.
He was the one who always dreamed and promised Mel all those things. And when he became rich, and for someone who had never had money in his life, he probably didn't know how to spend the money and decided to spend it the same way he had always dreamed. The yacht, penthouse apartment had nothing to do with Diana.

There's plenty of blame to throw around. Robert wasn't without his fair share of blame but with the way the movie went, Mel carries the lionshare of the blame.

This is my opinion as well!!

Understood

I wish nairaland can do voice notes so I can express myself with my voice...but since it does not let me just type.
So....Mr Lana 1,all this talk abt d sisters looking down on him let me tell u something... At first when he was introduced to d sisters, d way they looked down on him I also didn't like it. However,he was given lots of chances to redeem himself so dt at least he can win some browny points in front of her sisters, but what did Robert do? He sat his Lazy ass at home believing in his dreams while d wife worked for him to eat. If he was at least doing something and her sisters wer still looking down on him then I'd understand, but Robert didn't want to try anything. Her sisters husbands wer not some rich dudes,but they understood d concept of providing and assisting their wives to take care of d home, but during dt period what was Robert doing, as usual he was sitting his Lazy ass at home. When her sisters and her husband came to propose dt deal so they cld raise money to pay for d loan before the house gets taken away, what was Roberts' reaction? He got upset cos Mel agreed to d idea and was angry cos he didn't support him... Lolllll....ehhhhhh na wa o....so wait first o....is it dt he wanted Mel to support him in not working? And cos of dt kept malice with her for days.
Mr Lana1,if it wer to be ur Sis... Biko.... What will u do? You will laff and accommodate d man abi? Then when eventually d house is taken from her you will put them in ur house abi? Mr Lana1 pls, if u are capable of watching while ur own sister is in a mess of a marriage then I can welcome ur comment abt dem looking down on him,but if not my dear,I'd say u rephrase ur statement abt them looking down on him.

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TV/Movies › Re: Life Lessons From Tyler Perry's 'Acrimony'. by stanoc: 2:22pm On Aug 31, 2018

Lana1:
Ok. Let me ask you this. If not the 10 million, then what?? What did you expect Robert to ve done?
And pls don't tell me he should ve fought to get her back bcoz Mel made it clear they were over....done.... finished!!

Ok my dear, let me illustrate something for you. When they were still going out and dt accident happened to Mel dt she lost her ovaries, thru d conversation of Mels' sisters u will notice dt Robert was consistent in begging that period, meaning he constantly begged until she listened to him. Now fast forward to when she asked for a divorce.....apart from d day she asked him to leave and the day of the signing of the divorce papers was there any scene or conversation dt showed Robert begging her and trying to explain things to her huh

NO....there wasnt. Now my question is this what happened to the same enthusiasm he had when she had dt first accident, wer did it go to? Also what happened btw d day he left d house and d day he signed d divorce papers? Is there a proof, scene or maybe a conversation dt stated he consistently tried to prove himself innocent within those days?.....NO.......there wasnt. Maybe if there was I will gladly say he fought for her, but der wasnt. Now also my dear. If Robert was to do something at all......then I wld say he wld ve paid d Diane the 10 million or more and gone back to his wife. Now for those saying she went back to him for d money, and also dt she is a gold digger for that........so what is d big deal der? We all know Robert was a gold digger for her money when she was still young and even after. So if Robert can be a gold digger for her money....why cant Mel be a gold digger for his money too? We all know she deserves it..... And d Diane girl does she not ve dreams of her own, why must she live d dreams of the mans' ex wife? And on top dt putting everything on social media, trust me guys, even d calmest woman on earth will feel bad.
So Lana1 ve I answered ur question now? Or let me put it in simple terms, he wld ve gone back to his wife, and paid d Diane lady d money. Dtz my opinion dear.

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TV/Movies › Re: Life Lessons From Tyler Perry's 'Acrimony'. by stanoc: 8:32am On Aug 25, 2018

MrEnigma007:
someone keep repeating the 10million being a fair deal.... really?... she never invested the money because of the gain, she did because she wanted her man to be happy, she lost hope in the dream long before he finished sef.

Did anyone not notice that Diana wouldn't have really supported him if not because Robert wasn't with Mel?... Do you think Diana would have sacrificed as much "love, time, money" as Mel did?

the only lesson is "life can really be unfair, and can f**k you without mercy even if you are a good person"

PS: remain good still

Thank you jare, If you are a man then I am really impressed with your comment. Please who can remember the time dt IDIOT of a husband told her he was an ex-convict and that he will not be able to get a job? The parasite dint let her know until after a long time,d fool knew it will be difficult to get a job, and never told her until later.Can u tell what dt means huh

? It simply means that the nicompu had d mind not to even work, can u remember d way he answered her? Mtcheeeeeeeewwww...and yet someone will tell me he gave her 10million....nawa o.......And as for d ladies here supporting dt act pls I,ll employ u EMPATHIZE with the movie and not SYMPATHIZE with it. As a girl ur boyfriend alone o can not afford to give u some material things,not even expensive things o just things per time u will notice d girl will start having second thoughts...not to even talk of husband.....and yet d girl did not file for a divorce. Please abeg many ladies supporting the act can not even put up with a lazy boyfriend not to even talk of a lazy husband, and a girl will now come out here and say 10million. It is understandable as a guy, but when I hear ladies mention dt 10 million it pisses me off. Mtcheeewwwww....10 million indeed...... Thanks MrEnigma007......Your comment is worth reading.

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TV/Movies › Re: Life Lessons From Tyler Perry's 'Acrimony'. by stanoc: 10:47pm On Aug 22, 2018

[quote author=stanoc post=70521399][/quote][quote author=TheKingIsHere post=70453930]Good question.

Robert didnt have anything to sacrifice because he was poor but he gave her his assurance that all she sacrificed on him will be repaid once the deal clicked.

It is because of this assurance that she kept on spending her money on his work.

So, did he repay her or not? [/quotdt

Can u imagine what u just typed here?
Pls go and check the history of those that were passionate abt der dreams and made it and see if they wer all lazy while believing in their dreams. So pls just imagine dt d dream never came what wld ve been d case? Assurance indeed......So wait first just imagine he had no house ,no food or clothing will he sit down under d tree and continue to believe in his dreams,won't he go and work at least to eat? He was so relaxed believing in his dream cos someone else was paying d bills. I mean..what responsible man leaves 100% of his responsibilities to his wife?

TV/Movies › Re: Life Lessons From Tyler Perry's 'Acrimony'. by stanoc: 2:33pm On Aug 19, 2018

lighthousearc:
It's just a movie! You ladies are just been emotional. You don't know what it means to be a GOAL-GETTER if you don't (Someone who strives to achieve their ultimate goal regardless if the outcome is good or bad) For people saying Robert owes Melinda every breath in him, well he does and at the end of the day he did his part! Without Melinda he will still survive...he has been surviving before she met him. As a man with dreams we know how to find our ways around things. It's call DETERMINATION. In a real life scenario if a man has a dream he will achieve by all means...So women don't think men are stupid lol

Hmmm....na wa for some people o....Tor.....no wahala....nobody is saying one shd not be a goal-getter, however do it without being parasitic especially as a man....he was practically using her to get to his goal and in return did nothing for her,and as for d Diane girl I bet you she wld not ve been able to put up with the guy as much as Mel did. Anyway it is just a movie, and I honestly pray it doesnt happen to any lady here especially those saying Mel is at fault, dtz when one will know what anger issues is. Ordinarily knowing that your boyfriend went to see his ex u as a girl will keep malice for a whole week with the guy. Not to now talk of you seeing all what ur former husband promised to do for you being done to another girl, especially d one dt made u upset from d onset.

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TV/Movies › Re: Life Lessons From Tyler Perry's 'Acrimony'. by stanoc: 2:36pm On Aug 05, 2018

Honestly speaking I don't just get it. Why will someone say d guy paid her money? Money was not d only thing she invested in dt relationship, time, her sanity,her youthful life and also her ovaries were all invested into it. Now tell me dt money he gave her will it bring back all these things, not to even talk of her emotional stability. Now she accused him of cheating, but will u blame her for thinking dt way,d purse and everything pointed to d fact dt he was cheating,and with d same girl dt made her loose her chances of having babies. I mean she was only human to act fast, but at this point d guy didn't put in more effort to fight for her yet he claimed he loved her. OK o....as if dt was not enough, u claim to love her with all ur heart and all what u promised her when things wer tough u openly gave it to another woman. Come on....he had no respect for her pride, now tell me which girl will take dt? He was spiteful as far as I am concerned. Based on his actions,I'd say he never loved her,he just used her when he felt she had the means to help him,and when dt means depreciated her usefulness to him depreciated. Just cause he had a dream doesn't mean he shd avoid his responsibilities, I mean which capable man does dt, yet she still stayed with him,she only reacted dt way when she heard he was cheating because logically no loyal woman can stand a cheating husband. So if he really loved her he wld ve done everything to prove himself innocent. Mtcheeeeew....It's really disappointing for me to hear people blame Taraji alone. This is my take on this movie. Thank you.

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Education › Re: Who Have An Idea Of How Chevron Internship Aptitide Test By Dragnet Looks Like? by stanoc: 10:47am On Jun 04, 2018

Uricas:
Someone also requested it but I have issue with my phone. I will send it tomorrow bro.
The test is verbal and quantitative reasoning- comprehensive passages, arithmetics and business maths. Though I didn't make it through but it's better to give it a shot. Just prepare well and be time conscious.

hello please can you send to my mail too, get2noahodogg@yahoo.com....I would be very grateful if you can respond to my message as soon as possible, thank you very much.

Jobs/Vacancies › Web Developer In Enugu by stanoc(op): 9:03pm On May 17, 2018

For as many that want to build a professional website, and you are based in Enugu, you can send a mail to get2noahodoggs@yahoo.com, and I'll be at your service. Thank you

Education › Re: Apply for 2018/2019 PTDF Scholarship in Germany/France/China by stanoc: 12:05pm On Mar 14, 2018

stanoc:
Well,during my registration when this same issue of DAAD came out,I called the Customer Support Line,and I was told dt I shd not bother with dt, and dt I shd just feel d form and leave d rest to ptdf, and as at dt time I had already started registering with DAAD, and when I asked if there wld be any other complications due to dt I was told not to worry,dt ptdf will tk care of that.

Education › Re: Apply for 2018/2019 PTDF Scholarship in Germany/France/China by stanoc: 12:01pm On Mar 14, 2018

Ellacity:
Yes my dear you are absolutely correct, just that out of oversight you didnt understand this
Candidates for scholarships in Germany are also required to register with the German Academic Exchange through the following link: https://portal.daad.de/irj/portal
To register means to fill the form because this is bilateral agreement between Nigeria and Germany. Having said that, you dont need to get much worried, because if you are selected, they will open up the form again for you to fill. Just prepare for your interview.

I have to let you know this information as well. It was closed on 31st January 2018, and they later opened it before it was closed again last weekend. What information am I trying to convey to? It will be open again for you to fill your information because German government will train you for 6months on language course, yea, German course, but your masters must be in english language.

I hope my information above helped.

Ellacity

Well,during my registration when this same issue of DAAD came out,I called the Customer Support Line,and I was told dt I she not bother with dt, and dt I shd just feel d form and leave d rest to ptdf, and as at dt time I had already started registering with DAAD, and when I asked if there wld be any other complications due to dt I was told not to worry,dt ptdf will tk care of that.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why Do Companies Outsource Their Services? by stanoc: 11:45am On Mar 14, 2018

Nawa o,I do not know if some people don't get what this guy is saying....but to me what I can say from this whole issue is dt fine let's say outsourcing is a necessity for most organizations, but at least the money these outsourcing firms are making per head is just too much. How can an organization budget let's say 100k per worker and these outsourcing firms pay 45k..you guys shd check it now...it's too much and it's not fair,nawa o,they r taking over 50% of d salary,and someone wld sit down there and tell me it's ryt. For the fact dt most outsourcing firms make over 50% per head doesn't make d act ryt....dts just my tot....and pls nobody shd insult me, I'm just saying my thoughts, if u feel u also ve ur own thoughts,pls say it without any insults. Thank you.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Job Openings by stanoc: 10:18am On Mar 14, 2018

5iveC:
Please I have an interview for this job on thursday 15/03/2018 by 9.30am. But I don't even know the name of the company. A google search on "imindsmedia" gave me a surulere address for the company but the interview invitation says they are located in Ikeja.. I am confused. Please Johnime to the rescue!

Pls same here o,plz a quick response will help.Thank you

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Education › Re: Apply for 2018/2019 PTDF Scholarship in Germany/France/China by stanoc: 8:26pm On Mar 12, 2018

Sorry o,but I heard dt d aspect of the daad will be taken care of by ptdf. So I don't understand which one you guys r saying we shd do dt ourselves.

Education › Re: Apply for 2018/2019 PTDF Scholarship in Germany/France/China by stanoc: 8:25pm On Mar 12, 2018

Sorry o,but i heard dt d aspect of the daad will be taken care of by ptdf .. So I don't understand which one you guys r saying we shd do dt ourselves.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Globacom Nationwide Massive Graduate Recruitment 2017 by stanoc: 5:18pm On Mar 08, 2018

GoldenVivi:
I went for d test today and I was invited for d follow up interview tomorrow Pls what is it all about. What kind of question will dey ask

Please how can I apply for this job....is it until I know someone inside?

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Age Dilemma, Please Help by stanoc: 10:04am On Feb 08, 2018

ehinmowo:
A frd of mine has been using a particular age all through his credentials. He discovered some months back that the age he was using was the wrong one (pls don't ask me how, u knw naija).

He planned to be using his new age (cos it's younger). His brother helped him secure a job in USA and he sent a resume with his new age.
D company is helping him to prepare his papers, he is wondering if he shud use d new age for his passport.

Wud there be any reason to dig up his past credentials on the job, dt carry his age?
Shud he even change d age in d first place?

Pls help.
Moderator you could help push this to FP.

Sorry,but is it possible for one not to know his or her age? And from your comment the person in question is learned.. Just saying my mind.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Seplat Graduate Scheme 2018 by stanoc: 10:07pm On Feb 04, 2018

Please some people shd mk enquiries before posting msgs abeg....that msg was sent randomly and it is for MTN not seplat....it's for those that applied for the MTN GTP. Thank you

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For Fully Funded Chinese Government Scholarships, China 2018 by stanoc: 10:24am On Jan 09, 2018

Watsoneology:
Apply For Fully Funded Chinese Government Scholarships, China 2018

The new Chinese Shanghai University Postgraduate Program Scholarship is now available on offer for all new international students to study in China.

The program provides a full scholarship which covers tuition waiver, accommodation, living allowance, and comprehensive medical insurance.

The Chinese Government sponsors the Chinese University Postgraduate Program Scholarship, and it is a full scholarship for designated Chinese universities and certain provincial education offices in specific provinces or autonomous regions to recruit outstanding international students for graduate studies in China.:

Application Deadline: March 31, 2018

Go Here https://nairalearn.com/apply-fully-funded-chinese-government-scholarships-china-2018/ To Apply Now

hello....please I need your help on how to go about this... I mean from the beginning of the application to the end. Please can you send me your contact number so we can chat. Thank you very much.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Apply For Fully Funded Chinese Government Scholarships, China 2018 by stanoc: 10:23am On Jan 09, 2018

Watsoneology:
Apply For Fully Funded Chinese Government Scholarships, China 2018

The new Chinese Shanghai University Postgraduate Program Scholarship is now available on offer for all new international students to study in China.

The program provides a full scholarship which covers tuition waiver, accommodation, living allowance, and comprehensive medical insurance.

The Chinese Government sponsors the Chinese University Postgraduate Program Scholarship, and it is a full scholarship for designated Chinese universities and certain provincial education offices in specific provinces or autonomous regions to recruit outstanding international students for graduate studies in China.:

hello....please I need your help on how to go about this... I mean from the beginning of thwe application to the end. Please can you send me your contact number so we can chat. Thank you very much.

Application Deadline: March 31, 2018

Go Here https://nairalearn.com/apply-fully-funded-chinese-government-scholarships-china-2018/ To Apply Now

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Invite From Outcess-formerly CCSL by stanoc: 10:26pm On Dec 01, 2017

Ken124:
My brother works there, jst left that place this November,there pay is 45k flat no incentive and the worst part is you will pickup calls until u break down.
People don't really work there for long, he said every month ending after they pay salary people usually quit the job immediately the receive alert.

Modern day slavery.....the most annoying part is that they will lie to u during d interview dt they will recruit u for airtel...after u wld ve started d training they will tell u itz no longer airtel but gotv.....lolll
funny set of humans..........mtchewwwww

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Invite From Outcess-formerly CCSL by stanoc: 10:23pm On Dec 01, 2017

Larrydogged07:
Where is the location for this job?

Lekki

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Ideypay Invite......urgently Needed by stanoc: 3:21pm On Dec 01, 2017

Momot:
hi guys..got an invite from ideypay for the postbof customer care officer...does anyone has an idea of how much they pay?pls.....cos i will be coming from ABK and want to know if it wworthwhile...thank you..

hello, please did u later go...and how was it?

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Invite From Outcess-formerly CCSL by stanoc: 2:59pm On Dec 01, 2017

Mizjemie25:
where you able to attend the interview with outcess, how is interview like, is the pay truly 40 to 45k? I need to know if it's worth it.. thanks

hmmm....if u check my response everything is there....however weigh it on ur own..if u stay close...u can manage it....but know dt d pay is 45k....and dt was about july of this year...and even up till now itz still 45k....but still weigh it on ur own. I hope this will help u a little.

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Invite From Outcess-formerly CCSL by stanoc: 2:55pm On Dec 01, 2017

Geekop:
Haba.... Since wen.. Lol
Thanks anyways

Sorry my dear....I just saw it at that time, else I would have responded earlier.

Career › Re: Enquiries: Chartered Institute Of Personnel Management [CIPM] Membership by stanoc: 7:39pm On Nov 11, 2017

Hello house.. Pls I need past questions for intermediate 1...pls help a sister...cos I need to prepare for the Feb diet....

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Graduate Vacancies In Lagos At Connect Rail Services Limited (CRSL) by stanoc: 10:57pm On Nov 09, 2017

zazigift:
Please did you later go for the interview? And how was it?

Yes I did...it was short and simple....

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Invite From Outcess-formerly CCSL by stanoc: 3:12pm On Nov 08, 2017

Geekop:
Pls is anyone working with the organization at present that can provide detailed info?

My dear someone has already told u the truth.. D pay is 45k for gotv...cos dtz d company they recruit for,then if u scale thru d interview u wld be called for training dt will last for two weeks of which u won't even be paid. So u wld use ur money to fend for yourself during d two weeks. Now do u knw d annoying part? During d training u wld do a test dt wld be in two stages...if u fail the first stage then u are automatically out,then if u scale thru to the second stage of the test and you fail dt stage u are also out....but if u pass it then congratulations..
Does this answer ur curiosity?

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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Who Else Got This by stanoc: 8:48am On Nov 01, 2017

oguinedavid:
I got an interview invite from Zero finance slated for Wednesday (25th) September,please who has any information about this coy or have had any experience with them,pls your comments are needed

Please did you later go? and how was it?

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Who Else Got This by stanoc: 8:47am On Nov 01, 2017

Boujurz:
Its a sales job!!! Field sales nd i tink its commission based... I received mine three times.

Please was that the position you applied for?

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Customer Service Officer Job At Zerofinance Limited by stanoc: 8:46am On Nov 01, 2017

Adeola012:
I went for the interview. It was well coordinated.no feedback from them yet tho.

Please how did it go?

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