MimiBiggs:
Sagamu, Ogun state

.around 1800 per kg

This a infection you used the pesticides too late. Fungal try checking Google to investigate which type.

Jayden001:
To be a man no easy at all.
Aunty missed her period lately and from all indications she's pregnant.
But her cravings for seemingly impossible stuffs is just crazy.
She could ask for a fried mango or roasted watermelon
She's allergic to smells and scents, I've removed every air freshener in the house.

She can barely cook, she said everything is smelling.
Omo, e come be like say no be my house again.
Yesterday I went to look for kpomo by 12am
This life shaa 🤣
Legends in the house, na so e dey be

it vitamins deficiencies

We need special intervention from federal government for improvement in basic education Access. Like grants to qualified local councils and government too.

If you get good relationships with your family na another blessing on it own

Crysallis:
During his homecoming held in Benin City, Singer Shallipopi brought his mom on stage. It was a beautiful moment as his mother was beaming with joy.

The singer also Brought his siblings on stage. We all know that Zerrydl Is also an artist and they have done a track together.

Enjoy the video.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QICIJKPhB5w?si=rd7N2Ka-RFr0jdkt

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the red flags are obvious?

no matter how are breast is firm or body shape, we all have options within us. Sir respect is reciprocal, if she doesn't respect you when doing all this become unavailable. Avoid any expenses and notice if she display discontent. Her calling ex to your house hmm!. Be careful o. No special person anywhere, relationship is respect and if it not working learn to move on. Life is probability.

Nigerian used. And engine picture. Is it lagos cleared (year)

Freethinker87:


You seem to have watched a lot of crap on YouTube and you're beginning to feel like a business expert. 😂 No problem, continue!

Bootstrapped 2 online business in since 2014 and invested locally in 8 businesses on Ngx with average 21% average annual return of 7 years. Sir nairaland sef have been major part of my success story. I just stated my opinion based on my experience. Apologies for my ignorance.

naijapips04:


The best thing I've read this year. Aside status, owning a house is not a good investment. For a struggling guy, grow the shit out of that 25m. 25m in a good business should give us at least 70m in a year. Rent and grow this. In , 4 years, use the residual income to buy a house. Don't go and dump all your life savings in a house.

ah!. 25M making 70m is very hard. More capital is hard to allocate without previous experience 25 millions sales a month needed to net 20% to make 60m. Gross 70m possible. To me it depends on the fund owner risk appetite. Higher risk means higher chances of loss of capital. Try scaling further the source of that savings well if it possible and legitimate.

MatrixReloaded:
My brother you wan spend 400k ontop baby things? Abeg wetin u dey buy. My daughter is 2 weeks now. The mama spent only 100k for every thing. During delivery na C/S she use. I pay 300k for everything cos na private ward she dey.
If u get that kind money wetin come be 9k for 10kg rice wey u no fit buy for ur mother inlaw. Abeg guy man dey relax make ur wife no do u bad after child birth. Dem dey craze once dem born finish. U go hear say she carry pikin japa.

otito!, Truth!. She no suppose even mention am. Na male politics to gain respect.

Valoromega:


I've thought about this and it's a very good reason. I won't lie, when it comes to my pregnant wife and the baby, my mother inlaw will go through hell for them. When the baby is born she will be the one to do the caring. I think I'll sacrifice 100k to buy the rice and other things for both my mom and my mother in law. But I tell me wife I bought it on credit ( the seller is close to us)

See get provisions don't buy one bag o. See you give big gift you breed entitlement. I give my in-law stuffs but not my wife requesting. My mother-in-law is likewise a giver too. No be to they give 1 bag when party no dey. When she came for omougo the gift I gave her, na abundant gift I collected. Demanding a gift is given no good o. Abi u sef na ijebu!.

No news. My wife is right am an addict. The funny thing is I no dey use other channels like seun that left here for Twitter.

Though it get kleg

muyico:
see where woman lead u to??

. Just imagine what he spent big money to marry. If a woman won't give me peace will just move out.

onobire83:


She said it will affect her cause she’s into modeling

That means she can have later when the career collapse. Be watching and accept it. A customer of mine had such issues. see! Most times when things like this happen let them please themselves. Just improve on your capacity to earn and avoid distraction. Take care of yourself. More children is actually more responsibility for you. Try being agreeable on situations they expected you not to and you get more time to plan. That my customer told her he is adopting 2 young boys 4 year Olds madam says why. Na baba say they look so much like him. Aunty change o. Be less available to sometimes.

seborrhic:

Oga,I have been to Ariaria.
That time too on the surface your figure would look possible,but when you take your time to look critically at it,you would realise it's highly exaggerated.
One line from one end to another has at most 50 shops.Maximum 50 lines from the beginning to end=250 shops.Inside the main cluster itself give or take 500-1000 shops.
To give u another practical idea:you can walk through the whole of Ariaria in 2hours.10k shops cannot make you achieve that.
That's by the side anyway.
Ariaria is one fun place to go to because that is one market that has everything you need in one demarcated zone,from electronics to shoes,bags, glasses,gift items etc.
It's like one huge shopping mall.
We even used to go there sometimes just for trips moving from one section to another.
Assuming all the Abia State governments had had foresight,by now Ariaria would have been one huge manufacturing,production and commercial hob for not only the entire Nigerian market,but export.
Aba itself is one fun place and it's only people that have not visited states outside of their abode that wouldn't know that Nigeria is one large fun enterprise with places to visit and do whatever business or you are into.
Honestly,staying in places like Lagos and Abuja deprives one of the wonderland that is Nigeria,but being ruined by politicians.

From your assumption 50lines *50shops = 2500😂. But 50k shop omo that a environmental disaster. Nigeria actually over estimate. Once argued with a friend, he claimed pdp brought 30k forces to ekiti and I told him Nigeria can mobilise to that extent for an election. How many roads sef leads to ekiti to transport such quantities. Like your simple clarification.

Blackhacker:
Do you agree? Secondary and Primary

1, it investing, had a guy that bought solar from. Guy made 380M from MRS and gtb stock. Just 34 year old still had a profitable business doing 40m Net yearly.

MyVILLAGEpeople:


Pepper who ? Lol

She needed israel for the publicity and upgrade her pay in the olosho business. Israel has nothing to lose, instead She's now for the streets. Just look at how she's even doing. I doubt if this girl was truly a virgin when he met her.

with Gee P tank and polygon face. Omo Virginia ni!.

It a shock absorber. When transporting they won't be noisy I presume.

Omoawoke:
You guys can do better.

Ibadan alone is greater than the entire southeast.

Before southeast will near one tenth of Southwest achievement, it will take a century

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Am a Nigerian let be honest this impressive. We should show patriotism. Instead of trying to amass wealth for oneself. We should do things for our fellow Nigerians. All this communities is still within Nigeria. One of the project here, a friend supplied cables. Really pray I grew bigger to achieve similar possibilities. Thanks for sharing this inspiration. Am from lagos we need this too.

Hamachi:
From DM

Leave if leaving can double that income. Left my dad business after my part-time gig was giving me 6 times my job income and I could comfortably pay someone a salary I was paid.

ExudeLoveToAll:
A fruit does not fall far away from the tree.

The mother had a history and you ignored it

Background check is necessary, character plus virginity rocks and not just virginity

Reward people bases on what they have done over time and not based on dopamine rush. When you don't allow a woman invest in a relationship nothing ties her to that relationship and she can easily walk away.

Using money as a means to seeking loyalty always ends badly, let loyalty earn money and not money earning loyalty.

When women aren't held accountable in the relationship they are involved in the men will always learn their life lessons.

agree with you, and applicable in most relationships too.

Bluffly:

Not necessarily regarding the perfume

. Other views permitted. When I was young we ain't well to do too but notice my wealthier friends, cousins and neighbors naturally smell good, even there stuffs like clothes so no need for too much scents and we from hustling our perfumes are too much. Many people perceive smell differently.

Hypemp3:

This doesn’t even make sense. Were you typing from the hole just beneath your buttocks?

Truth is bitter. Knew quite a lot of my colleagues who later empathize this being true with time. Not all but most. Not here to stop your own conclusions

Too much perfume. As them get low self esteem, house is actually over populated and no healthy air flow. So clothes stinks

AyoNews:
Do advice her. Either from experience or witness

I have always been like that to my wife and when single X's. He is mature to know it only interesting when the other party wants you. I myself sometimes opt for celibacy to improve my hornyness, and turns her down too, to display my discipline. I don't misread my partners behaviors like before, I respect her like I expect her to for me. Stop trying to have explanation for everything and nobody actually need us better that ourselves. Sometimes sef the man might just be initiating sex to please you, it this your questions I consider funny 😁.

I know him as Daniel. A very close younger friend. Still visit my dad some months back. Pray for you Dan.

Samsunny99:
Depression is real
The rate at which suicide is becoming the order of the day it means people are becoming mentally weak in everyday life struggles

Too much information is available. Really feeling over stimulated few weeks now. Can't even pinpoint triggers. It well.

UkwuAmu:


They could do themselves some good by giving like 7 for 1 so that everyone can buy . it will get to that price before you know it . If Google, Apple and Microsft didn't do split, a lot of people will not be able to buy . Berkshire Hathaway Inc Class A NYSE: BRK.A is going for 510,125.00 USD per share

nestle has negative shareholders equity. Overvalued shit ni o. Next bear market there yansh go open. The rest have dual listing so I understand there price.

vacanci:


November is historically bearish gang waiting for Santa, here are a few select stocks I just checked their history for November last year

the market will be down because of profit taking. Budget proposal by fg coming too.